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  • Like mother like daughter

    DEAR Aunty Temilolu, I was a proud virgin until last month when I missed my period and discovered I was pregnant. The shock was too much for me to handle as my boyfriend never went all the way but played with me and our bodies responded the way it would when two people engage in sexual intercourse. Certainly, a stray sperm got into me. I had to terminate the pregnancy though he didn’t tell me to. I terminated it majorly because I didn’t want to end up like my mother and grandmother. My mother had me that way and till today she’s not married to my father or any man. Also, my maternal grandmother whom I presently live with never married my maternal grandfather as she also conceived my mother out of wedlock. I didn’t feel good committing an abortion but had to do it to save myself from future trouble. However, I can’t stop feeling bad. Please what do you think?

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    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

    Hmmm…Sigh! Girls…girls…girls…how many times did I call you?  Life is a lot much more than boyfriends, smooching, sex, dressing to kill, “talking eyes,” Brazilian hair, body shaper, buttock enlargement etc. Too much concentration on your physical beauty to attract guys not only gets you into trouble unconsciously a lot of times but also distracts you from concentrating on your spiritual beauty and working out your destiny. Yes! If you love dressing to kill to get guys drooling over you, some day, you’ll fall into the hands of a guy that would kill your destiny. The devil is very clever and knows how to set traps for those who rely on their sense and sensibility to get what they want out of life instead of depending on God to sort them out. So many of you reading this are in serious trouble and not enjoying life today because of your parents’ ignorance and failure to sufficiently work on their destinies and marry the right person. Nevertheless, you are not a mistake. God knew you before you were formed in your mother’s womb and has fantastic plans for you; a much better life than that of your parents but expects you to work it out with fear and trembling.

    T’s evil family pattern caught up with her and she decided to outsmart it by committing an abortion. I tell you, she would have been better off not terminating that pregnancy. Abortion is a sin of a great magnitude in the eyes of God because it entails the shedding of innocent blood and carries its consequences. Also, who knows what special assignment the terminated child was sent to carry out in the world? Perhaps a prophet sent to save his generation. I pity a lot of girls who terminate pregnancies; they can’t all get away with it. I can only pray along with T. that God who decides whom He’ll have mercy on would have mercy on her.

    There’s someone reading this column who is afraid of getting married because her father turned her mother’s life upside down while another is turning out a termagant just like her mother who showed her father pepper and ended up marrying three men and having children for all three of them. If care is not taken, such a girl would end up marrying five men. There’s yet another reader who has lived an unstable life and experienced hell being sent to live from one cousin’s place to another because neither of her parents could fend for her. While there’s another who is suffering in the hands of a wicked step-mother or father being maltreated on a daily basis with no one to come to her rescue. While another’s destiny has been satanically diverted and she doesn’t know.

    Girls, what happens to our parents usually end up happening to us if we don’t take extra care. It becomes a family pattern and could completely destroy God’s glorious agenda for one’s life. Sadly, too many parents are so spiritually lazy that they fail to support their children spiritually and equip them against such evil patterns. One of the ways the devil shuts your eyes from seeing pits that could redesign your life, make it even worse than your parents and make life most unenjoyable is the lust of the flesh/ungodly sex. It makes you spiritually dull and unable to follow the right path to your destiny and avoid the pitfalls on the way. Funny enough, we all have access to the power that can subdue the flesh and see clearly. I charge you to have a deep relationship with the Holy Ghost, let God be the sole driver of your destiny and place you where you rightly belong. Eventually, you will have peace, joy, prosperity and the most amazing sex all the days of your life. There’s time for everything! Okay? God bless you!

    Dear T.

    You need to work out your relationship with God to save yourself from the evil family pattern rearing its head again in your life in the ugliest manner. Stupid, bad devil is only too happy right now that you committed that abortion because he knows how much it can work against you and in fact mess you up! Forget every boyfriend for now. You have to practically “carry God on your head” eat, sleep, breath Him, rub minds with Him by daily studying the word while asking His forgiveness, get committed to His kingdom in your own way like being a sanctuary keeper or any other work you can do in church. THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER! You need Him 100% on your side to ward off that evil family pattern. May He shine His light of countenance upon you in Jesus mighty name! Amen!

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  • Akpororo dedicates house to wife, daughter

    Akpororo dedicates house to wife, daughter

    It is a new dawn for comedian Jephthah Bowoto, simply called Akpororo, on October 9, 2017, as he unveiled his new house, an event which coincided with his daughter’s birthday.

    The comedian dedicated the new home to his wife and daughter, saying; “Except the Lord builds a house. The labourer labours in vain. Father, thank you for this one. I dedicate this to my wife and daughter”.

    The Airtel ambassador started off as a local gospel musician, and, in 2008, participated in the Opa William’s National Comedy Challenge, winning the Calabar zone of the competition.

    In 2009, Akpororo moved to Lagos and contested twice in the AY’s Open Mic Challenge, coming second in his first attempt and coming tops afterwards. He rose to popularity in 2013 following his performance at “Basketmouth’s Laff and Jam” show.

    In August 2014, he staged his first major comedy show “Akpororo vs Akpororo” at the Shell Hall, MUSON Centre.

    In 2014, Akpororo delved into acting, starring in the films ‘Headgone’ and ‘The Antique’; with the former earning him three nominations at the 2015 Golden Icons Academy Movie Awards.

  • FUNSO ADEGBOLA – I’m blessed to be Bola Ige’s daughter

    FUNSO ADEGBOLA – I’m blessed to be Bola Ige’s daughter

    Mrs. Funso Adegbola is the daughter of the late Chief Bola Ige and the CEO of the Vale College. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she talks about her childhood, life as Ige’s daughter and her passion for law and education. 

    Tell us about your passion for education and how it started

    I have always been passionate about education. But it was ignited after my studies abroad in 1986 and people began to complain about the standard of education. I said to myself that instead of complaining, let me do something. The Vale College was established on November 7, 1994 as a private co-educational secondary school to cater for the educational and pastoral needs of individuals from Grade 7 to Grade 12 (JSS1-SSS3). It is a Bible-based Christian school that values character building in the young ones. The school also set out to make itself the first choice of parents and children who seek an excellent modern education, boarding or day, in a co-educational environment based on breadth of curriculum, sound discipline, independence of mind and service to the community. And as part of its process to fulfilling its mission statement, the school runs broad curricula, the Nigerian curriculum and British curriculum while public speaking and elocution, Christian fellowship, leadership training and charitable activities have been part of the school programmes since inception in 1993. We were formerly in Bodija, then moved to a temporary site in GRA, Iyaganku. Today, we are celebrating the completion of a modern four-storey edifice which will accommodate all the classrooms, laboratories and offices within the GRA, Iyagangu.

    What was life like before you became an educationist?

    I had all my nursery, primary, secondary education before moving to England for my ‘A’ Levels in 1975. I did English, French and Spanish for my advanced levels. I have two degrees. I studied Spanish and French at the University of Essex and another degree in Law from the University of Bristol, both in the UK. I came to the Nigerian Law School in 1986 and did my youth service with Ademola, Ajakaye and Co. After my youth service, I worked in my father’s chambers, Bola Ige and Co., for seven years, until 1994 when I started The Vale College.

    What inspired you to study foreign languages and law? Did your parents influence your decision to go for law?

    I was very good in French. When I was in St. Anne’s, I was one of the best students in French. So I continued to do it when I got to the school in the UK and added Spanish. Funny enough, when I was growing up, I wanted to work in a diplomatic service and I thought because I had a degree in foreign languages it would give me an opportunity to work in the foreign service. I spent some time with the Nigerian High Commission in Spain when Ambassador John Sagay was there. Ambassador Sagay advised me that to be a career diplomat it is good to have languages but it is also good to have a profession. I was thinking of doing accounting or other courses because I was not ready to come back to Nigeria. I eventually chose law. Then having outstanding parents as lawyers, I knew I could not afford to be a mediocre. And because I had the first degree under my belt, I knew I would do the law better. I enrolled at Bristol University which was the third best university for Law in the UK then, after Oxford and Cambridge. It was a wonderful experience for me. Again, I love travelling and it’s an added advantage to have various languages. My father studied Latin and Greek before law. This to me is a well-rounded education.

    What lessons have you learnt over the years?

    I have learnt a lot of life lessons that when God is in anything He would continue to push you. I have also learnt that when God gives you a vision He will make provisions: human, spiritual, physical and material things. I have faced a lot of challenges as it has not been a bed of roses. I started the school a year after my immediate younger brother, Babatunde, died. By the 10th anniversary of my school, I had lost both parents. Those are the people that are closest to me in the whole world. Those were tough times and that I survived and emerged victorious is by the mercy of God.

    What are some of your achievements so far?

    I started my school with 13 students and 10 teachers and those first 13 students were a work of faith because I didn’t have a track record of a renowned educationist but their parents believed in me. And by the grace of God everything turned out great. Some of my students are now making waves in their endeavours. I have students who have started giving scholarships. One of my ex-students is 27 years old and has already given out N400, 000 scholarship every year to a current student and he is going to be doing it every year. One of my students, Yewande Akinola, got an award from Queen Elizabeth II of England in 2012 for being one of the best female engineers under 30 in the whole of UK. I have a number of students who got a First Class Degree in Pharmacy, Law, and Accounting etc. This year, all my students came out in flying colours. No student got Ds or Es. I have a student who had As in the Tutorial College where we do ‘A’ Levels.

    What are some of the things you would like to see in the education sector ?

    I would like government to put the right people in the right sectors, particularly in policy formulation. Also, reviewing the policies, investing in education is critical because what you spend on education is an investment and the returns are long term. Government should invest in the teachers, the students. You know people like physical structures because they can see it but the biggest investment is in the human capital and Nigeria has a big demographic of young people as 70 per cent are under 25 and 40 percent of them would be between the ages of six and 25, which is like primary and university. If we as a nation can invest in those categories, the future of Nigeria would be guaranteed.

    How has the school impacted lives?

    Bola/Atinuke Ige annual scholarship was instituted five years ago in memory of my late parents. The Bola Ige scheme gives scholarship to two brilliant indigent students (boy and girl) every year.  Of significance so far is apart from a few students whose parents are teachers, other recipients are wards of tailors, bricklayers and bread seller. Boluwatife whose mother’s working capital is N3,000 made headline last year when he won N12 million scholarship. The Atinuke Ige Scheme is for A levels….Three of the past recipients are currently studying medicine.

    How is life as Bola Ige’s daughter? What do you miss about your father?

    I am a very proud daughter of my father. I am so proud that I wrote a book about him and me. I consider myself to be extremely blessed to be born by Bola and Atinuke Ige. My dad was a real ‘Abiyamo’. He was like a mother hen who was always protective of his children. I miss that about him. My dad believed in me since when I was young. If I come home crying as a child that ‘I can’t do this’ he would simply tell me ‘you can’. When I did debates in my school, he would be on the opposition side bringing points so that I can think before the opposing side comes up with points. He put a lot of values in me which I think make me the kind of person I am today and I am giving the same values back to my children.

    Who or what do you consider as the greatest influence in your life?

    Apart from God, the Alpha and Omega, the greatest influence are my parents. I think my mum, because she is a woman she was my number one role model. I remember when I was about age five, I wanted to be an air hostess because I wanted to be travelling and all that. My mum said that is not a very lofty idea. She said I can still be travelling and the air hostesses will be serving me. And that really struck me because she didn’t rebuke me, rather she encouraged me that I can do better. Again, both of them used to work together when I was a child under Ige and Ige Chambers. So I grew up like that.

    How did you overcome the challenge of losing your parents?

    Every inch of the way, God has raised help for me. In the last three months when I thought I would not be able to finish the project, I was scared but God kept telling me ‘Funso, I have your back’. God raised helps. The parents in my school donated the ICT Lab because they wanted me to succeed. And because I am an open person and if things are tough I will put it on the table and we would deliberate. That kind of favour is amazing. Then I have a wonderful chairman, board of governors in Dr. Tony Marinho, Asue Ighodalo, Chairman of Sterling Bank and Arakunrin Rotimi Akeredolu SAN is on board of my governors, long before he became governor. So, I have men and women of good pedigree who give solid advice and counsel.

    As the daughter of a renowned politician, how would you assess the current political situation in the country?

    We are all work in progress. Nigeria is not an easy country but we thank God for how far he has led us. We have been able to manage our problems and make progress. The best of Nigeria is going to come and God will keep us to see that day.

    What are the other things you are passionate about?

    I love travelling. I love looking after my children (my two biological children and The Vale College students).

    I am passionate about young people. I am passionate about women and above all, I am passionate about God.

    You look radiant for a 57-year-old. What is the secret?

    I will be 57 in December. I like to look put-together. But my main consideration when dressing up is comfort. More than anything, God has been kind. There is no secret to it. I have a trainer. I exercise five days a week, I do my massage every week. I love to do my nails just to look good. I put a lot of mental stress on myself, and in order not to break down I try to feed my body and soul. I like to worship God, to ponder on the word of God and like to be in the midst of people who would inspire me.

    How do you relax?

    I read. I listen to music. I like chilling with my family and my friends. I like to bond with my children and their friends.

    Looking at life’s trajectory, what were the things you would have done differently?

    Not really, I believe that the challenges that I had have made me a stronger person. I don’t look back with regrets. I only look back at lessons in it and the take-away.

  • Victor Banjo’s daughter:  Ojukwu betrayed my father by killing him

    Victor Banjo’s daughter: Ojukwu betrayed my father by killing him

    Fifty years ago, the late Lt. Col Victor Banjo, the 16th Nigerian to be commissioned into the Nigerian Army, was publicly executed reportedly on the orders of the late Ikemba Nnewi, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, who was then the Military Head of the secessionist Biafra Republic. He was an Ijebu from Ogun State but died fighting on the Biafran side during the Nigerian civil war.
    Banjo was before his death, in detention on allegations that he took part in the January 1966 coup, was released by Ojukwu when the war broke out and convinced to lead part of the Liberation Army, which went on the offensive against the Nigerian Army and got as far as Benin, in present day Edo State. Banjo was to declare another republic upon having Benin under his control.
    In this interview with Dare Odufowokan, Assistant Editor, his daughter, Mrs. Olayinka Omigbodun, a Professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at the University of Ibadan, recalls how Banjo’s young family was thrown into disarray upon his arrest and detention. She also lamented what she described as the unjust treatment meted out to her father while explaining why she thinks Ojukwu killed his friend, her father.

    How does it feel remembering the events that led to the reported execution of your father (Lt. Col.  Victor Banjo)?

    First and foremost, I must express gratitude to God for keeping us alive and well all these years. Despite the fact that we lost our father while still so young, God has kept us to see this day. We are four children, two boys, two girls. I am the third. We’ve all been able to go through school and acquire degrees. All of us are alive and healthy.

    I thank God for the kind of parents he gave me. Our father died 50 years ago and our mum 20 years ago. She was a widow for 30 years before she also went to be with the Lord. I am proud of them. It was 30 years of struggle and difficulty, but with our late mother determined to fulfil her promise to our dad, we made it.

    My mum was a Creole from Sierra Leone. She gave us the best possible life any child can ask for. We didn’t have money growing up but we had love and security in abundance. However, I still feel that pain that 50 years after my dad’s death, we do not have any official notification about his death from his employers.

    I also feel pained that my father has been treated very unjustly by the people who arrested him, people who kept him in prison, who took his things and had not returned those things even up till now. And by those who treated his immediate family so unjustly by denying us so much while keeping our father unjustly in prison.

    But I still believe in this nation. I had the choice of staying elsewhere than coming to live and work in Nigeria. I spent years in the United States and the United Kingdom training and schooling. I have had the opportunity to lead international organizations abroad. I’ve been severally offered opportunities to apply for international jobs. But I am a firm believer in Nigeria. And people close to me will tell you that I am passionate about this country. I am actively involved in nation building irrespective of what the country did to my father.

    How easy was it for your mum to train four of you after your father’s incarceration and eventual death?

    It wasn’t in anyway easy. It was rough for her. She bore the brunt of the brutality of this nation. She went through the harrowing experience of living in an unjust society. She got no widow’s pension. She got no help. In fact, all my father’s things were taken away from her. She struggled for help and received none. But God was there for her. She focused on the task of raising her children and God helped her.

    At the end of her sojourn here on earth, she had practically nothing. But she had raised four secured children. And I think that is the greatest legacy anybody could leave behind.

    Many reasons have been given for what Ojukwu did to your father. But as his child, why do you think your father was executed by his erstwhile bosom friend?

    I never had the opportunity to meet one on one with Ojukwu before he died. But from my father’s letters which he wrote to us from prison and from what my mum told us, Ojukwu was my father’s friend. They were one of the very few graduates in the Nigerian army at the time, so they were close. I really don’t know why he decided to kill his friend.

    But from what I gathered like I said from my dad’s letters and the many things I read about the incident, my father was a patriot who meant well for this country. He also meant well for the Igbo. In fact, from some of his letters to my mother back then, he spoke out clearly against the massacre of the Igbo back then. His letter of November 14, 1966, which is on page 128 of the book I published for him, he lamented the killings going on in the east.

    He said he would not change the principles he lived for. He said justice and fairness to all should be the basis on which the country should be based on. He said he cannot fail to condemn what he described as the vindictive and vengeful killings of Easterners. He warned that unless the killing stops, the bloodshed will be prolonged for a longer time. He warned the Yoruba of the West not to keep quiet on the killings saying they must not think that they are temporarily safe.

    So, I will say, just like my brother said in one of his write-ups on the social media, Ojukwu used my father as a scapegoat. That is the only imaginable reason why he wasted such a fine soldier and loving father. In September 1967, the Liberation Army, which my father led, had retreated to Enugu and Ojukwu needed to explain the defeats he was suffering to the people of Biafra.

    Why do you think he did that to his friend?

    He conveniently blamed Banjo and three other men. Lt. Col Ifeajuna, Alele and one other for sabotaging the Biafran efforts. He needed to tell the people who were losing faith in him something new as a reason for the defeats. His fear about the imminent fall of Enugu was also driving him to do something. So, on trumped up charges, my father and three other men were tried by a Kangaroo court and killed by firing squad in 1967.

    The trial did not reveal any evidence linking Banjo with any act of treason against Ojukwu or the Biafran government. In fact, it took a second military tribunal to convict Banjo because the first tribunal stated that the evidence presented to it was insufficient to prove Banjo’s guilt in the case. Unsatisfied and not ready to let my father off the hook, Ojukwu constituted another tribunal speedily.

    Apparently, it was a clear case of sacrificing someone as a scapegoat because while my father was looking forward to assisting Ojukwu further with the Biafran war in spite of the huge risk and sacrifice involved for him as a person, Ojukwu was looking for a way of implicating him for sabotage so as to retain the control of the region. Ojukwu betrayed my father by killing him.

    It was clear from his letters that my father has been assisting Ojukwu even while he did not believe in the secession. His idea, based on the letters he wrote to my mother, was to fight against, and remove the northern domination of other parts of the country and ensure a free, fair and equitable country where no arm is dominating the others.

    And you don’t think his not agreeing in the secession was a reason he got into trouble with Ojukwu?

    Well, they were friends and friends disagree. They probably must have disagreed on that before then because my father never hid his patriotism. But again, I was told that hours after the execution, Enugu fell.  I am a Professor. Human beings are very fickle. We are wont to always look for excuses. For scapegoats; so, my father was simply the sacrifice.

    He knew my father was up for one Nigeria. Even before drafting him into the war on his side, he knew my father was a patriot who wanted one united Nigeria. After the war we left Nigeria for Sierra Leone but my mother brought us back because my father, in his letters, had insisted we must be raised as Nigerians. So, his patriotism was never in doubt. Ojukwu merely executed him to cover up his own failures as a leader of the war.

    What memories do you have of your late father?

    I have very little in terms of direct memory of him. My father was arrested even before I was three. Although we got to meet him when I was four years old when he was under house arrest in Enugu sometimes in March 1967. But my mother spoke a lot about him. And then, one of the greatest legacies my father left behind were his letters to my mum. Through these letters, I got to know who he was. His letters are rich and deep. Some of them are even in French.

    He spoke on many issues in his letters to my mum. He spoke of deep affection; loyalty; adoration to his family and wife’s anguish at the situation in the country etc. He was a very deep and brilliant man. He was a talent wasted. The memories I have are all mixed up. These are memories of what my mother said and the ones I had of him as a child. And then what I have read from his letters. Above all, he is somebody I have grown to be very proud of.

    Was your father really part of a coup for which he was arrested?

    My father was a solid patriot who will not be a coup plotter. He did not know of, and did not participate in the January 1966 coup for which he was arrested and imprisoned. And it is painful that up till now, nothing has been done to exonerate him of this allegation in spite of the fact that those who participated had severally said publicly that Lt. Col. Banjo was not part of them.

    I was travelling and I sat beside a man. And immediately he knew I was Banjo’s daughter, he said I know him. The man who participated in the 1966 coup. My father was not party to the coup. The authorities know this. Ex Head of State Gen Yakubu Gowon knows this. He is still alive and able to say the truth if he cares about saying the truth for posterity’s sake.

    In a letter he wrote to gen Gowon from prison on June 19, 1967, my father said very clearly that it was obvious that the then leadership didn’t want him out of prison so as to contribute his quota to national development. He pointedly accused Gowon and his other colleagues of plotting against him by keeping him in jail even when they were aware of his innocence. Gowon is still around to deny this if I am lying.

    Then there is Major Adewale Ademoyega, one of those who planned the coup, who wrote in his book, Why We Struck, that; “also in detention were Lt. Col. Banjo and Major Aganya, both of whom had not taken part in the revolution.” Those were the exact words of Ademoyega in his book. Gowon and others were aware of this long before Ademoyega wrote.

    But Gowon later became the Head of State. Why didn’t he release your dad?

    After Gowon was installed as Head of State, my father made several overtures to him for his release. But Gen. Gowon refused to release him even though he knew he was not part of the coup. The only concession he gave was that Banjo could be transferred to a prison in Lagos if he so wished. My father rejected the offer.

    Even when my father wrote Ironsi from prison in Ikot Ekpene, on June 1, 1966, he was wondering what on earth he did to warrant being imprisoned. He faulted the way he was being treated and asked for justice, fairness and loyalty from Ironsi as a loyal officer. He saw his detention as a grievous crime against him. He pleaded his innocence and asked to be released. There is really no basis for tagging him as a ‘coupist’. I sincerely think setting the records straight is one of the things Nigeria, and the likes of Gen. Gowon, owe us as his family and children.

    It is very painful for us not knowing how he ended really. Not knowing where his remains are. Not even the exact date of his death. We only read in the book of a foreign journalist who had witnessed his execution of the date and circumstances. Beyond that, there is little or nothing to prove how he ended. This is very sad.

    We need a closure of some sort. You know when someone dies and he is committed to mother earth that is some closure. But for us as young children back then, we were not sure whether he was dead or still coming back. And 50 years after, we still don’t have a closure. That is really very painful and unbearable in a way. It is still bad that there is no notification about his death. I don’t feel that is right

    When Ojukwu released him, why didn’t he leave the country instead of joining the Biafran Army?

    He made effort. But his papers were with gen. Gowon which he refused to give him. And I read somewhere that Ojukwu, who wanted someone that will be counselling him, convinced him to stay. He must have really been in conflict at that time whether to stay or join us abroad. He loved his country, so I am not surprised he chose to stay. Ojukwu was his friend, don’t forget.

    It was tough like I said growing up without him. Though my mother ensured we survived the tough times, there was a big drop in our social standing and our finances. I remember being in school and some children were served milk while we couldn’t afford it. We just watched while others drank the milk. Looking back now, I could imagine what it was like. We had to live on the meagre resources my mum could garner. This is why we are saying the authorities should do the right thing by correcting the impression about our father, we need an official statement on him. He is N16, meaning he was the 16th officer commissioned into the Nigerian Army. He deserved to be better treated.

    All we knew and still know is that he was arrested on Monday, January 17, 1966 when he went to work. My mother and I were sad to watch the heroic reception given Ojukwu, the man who killed my father in 1982 when he returned from exile.  He also got a state burial upon his death in 2011. We couldn’t understand what manner of country this is.

    How did your mother cope with the situation back then?

    My mother died 20 years ago, but before her death, she made some requests and those remains our request even today. These requests are in a letter my mother wrote to Gen Yakubu Gowon on May 31, 1972, two years after the civil war ended. Gen. Gowon was then the Head of State. She requested the return of my father’s safe, removed personally by Gen. Gowon from 21B Cooper Road Ikoyi on Monday, January 17, 1976. In the safe were some vital documents and belongings of my father and his immediate family. We want that back because it will go a long way in helping us catch up on those times.

    She also asked for the return of some land papers and money as well as my father’s cars namely a Mercedez Benz WAL 720 and another car. She wrote the number too. She also asked for the death certificate of my father. So, we call on the authorities to help out with these so we can have these things to cherish about our dear father who was unjustly sacrificed by this country.

    And personally, I have a lot of unanswered questions. Why is my father still being tied up with the January 1966 coup? Why was my father arrested at all? Even when it was clear to the then Head of State, that my father wasn’t part of the coup, why did he choose to leave my father in prison? Gen. Gowon took the steel cabinet from our home, why hasn’t he returned the cabinet? When exactly did my father die? Where are his remains? I seek answers to these questions. And someone like Gen Gowon is still around to help out with answers to these questions and many more.

  • A’Ibom Police Command to sanction officer for attacking sanitation court over daughter

    The Akwa Ibom State Police Command has commenced investigation into an alleged attack on a sanitation court in Uyo by a team of heavily-armed policemen led by the officer in charge of the command’s Anti-Robbery Unit, SP Idorenyin Akpabio.

    The State Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), DSP Bala Elkaner who disclosed this to our correspondent on telephone yesterday, said the Commissioner of Police, Zubairu Umar was aware of the incident.

    SP Akpabio, a relative of the immediate past governor of the state, now Senate Minority Leader, Senator Godswill Akpabio, is said to have led two patrol vehicles filled with policemen to attack and disrupt proceedings at the sanitation court which was in session at Nkemba Street, Uyo at the weekend.

    Our correspondent gathered that a girl, said to be the daughter of SP Akpabio was one of the 23 sanitation defaulters apprehended by sanitation taskforce officials attached to the State Ministry of Environment and Natural Resources during last Saturday’s monthly sanitation exercise and subsequently arraigned before the sanitation court.

    It was learnt the girl, who was taken to the sanitation court along with other defaulters, had reportedly insulted the court officials, threatening that her father was a senior police officer in the state.

    She reportedly made good her threats when she put a telephone call across to her father, who initially stormed the court with 6 heavily armed policemen who cocked their rifles threatening to open fire at the sanitation taskforce and court officials.

  • Jigawa governor’s daughter welcomes first baby

    ABOUT a year after their high octane wedding brought the ancient city of Kano to a standstill, Amina, daughter of Jigawa State governor, and her beau, Lawan Dahiru Mangal, once again have cause to celebrate. The beautiful daughter of Governor Muhammad Badaru Abubakar gave birth to her new bundle of joy a few days ago, and she and her husband have not stopped sharing the good news with all and sundry.

    Of the two, Amina has the most cause to be happy as the new baby represents her baptism into motherhood. And what a baptism it was! She has been flooding her social media pages with pictures of the cute baby boy. The equally joyous father, on the other hand, has had several children with his first wife.

    It will be recalled that Lawan and Amina tied the nuptial knot in a fancy ceremony at Umar Khattab Mosque in Kano. The wedding attracted the cream of high society spanning the political and business worlds.

  • Father remanded for allegedly sleeping with daughter

    An Ado-Ekiti Chief Magistrates’ Court in Ekiti State yesterday ordered the remand of a 55-year-old man, Adeyanju Basiri, in prison custody for allegedly sleeping with his daughter.

    Police prosecutor Monica Ikebulo told the court that the accused allegedly committed the offence on September 11 at Irona Street, Ado-Ekiti.

    She said the accused and a herbalist at large were arrested for allegedly attempting to use the defendant’s seven-year-daughter for money ritual.

    Ikebulo said the accused claimed he slept with his daughter nine times.

    She said the accused told the police he always used a white handkerchief given to him by the herbalist to clean his daughter’s private part after having sex with her.

    The prosecutor said the offence contravened Section 31(2) of the Child’s Right Law.

    She told the court she had duplicated and sent the case file to the Directorate of Public Prosecution (DPP) for legal advice.

    The plea of the accused was not taken, as his counsel, Mr. Simeon Ojo, sought adjournment, pending the legal advice.

    The Magistrate, Mrs. Dolapo Akosile, ordered that the accused be remanded in prison custody till outcome of the legal advice from the DPP.

    He adjourned the case till October 12 for further hearing.

  • Orange Drugs boss’ daughter welcomes second child

    ORANGE Drugs supremo, Tony Ezenna, is over the moon at the moment. No, it is not because the money keeps coming in, even though it helps his mood. It is because there is a new person in his life to call him Grandpa. His first daughter, Uchenna Ezenna-Gboneme, was delivered of a bouncing baby boy in Houston, Texas over the weekend.

    But the birth of the cute baby named Ezra is not the only cause of joy for Tony and the couple, Chukwueke and Uche. The fact that the family escaped unscathed from the floods that devastated much of Houston last week was also a cause for joy and thanksgiving. Ezra is the second child of the couple whose society wedding three years ago was the talk of the town. Their other kid is a two-year-old girl named Olanna.

  • Bigwigs mourn with Sule Lamido

    Bigwigs mourn with Sule Lamido

    Few things can lay bare the vanity of human wishes as effectively as death. The grim reaper cuts off vibrant, thriving branches from the roots of life with nary a thought for age or status. Wealth or the feelings of relatives makes no difference. Such is the experience of former minister of foreign affairs, Alhaji Sule Lamido and his household with the untimely death of his beloved daughter, Hadiza.

    No doubt, the former governor of Jigawa State must have taken several looks at his immense possessions since the beautiful mother of three kids departed a few days ago and wish that he could exchange some or all of them for her life.

    The late Hadiza was only 38 when death came calling in faraway India on the back of a brief illness. Even as the family of the rumoured 2019 presidential hopeful tries to come to terms with her departure, preparations are in top gear to give her a befitting burial.

  • My daughter never showed signs she could sell my house — 85-year-old who recently regained possession of her house after 20 years

    My daughter never showed signs she could sell my house — 85-year-old who recently regained possession of her house after 20 years

    Following the judgement by the Court of Appeal on May 3 2017, which saw Mrs Carol Eno Effiong’s duplex returned to her after 20 years, Medinat Kanabe sought audience with the octogenarian. Just how does it feel to be betrayed by one’s only daughter?.

    THE story of how Mama Carol Eno Effiong lost possession of her semi-detached three-bedroom duplex in Festac Town, Lagos for 20 years is one that evokes deep emotion and pity. It also underlines the age-long adage of ‘trust nobody’, as it was her biological daughter that perpetrated the evil, in collaboration with some despicable lawyers, by selling the house and bolting away. Since the story went viral about three weeks ago, many have not ceased to wonder how a daughter could do such to her mother.

    Now 85, Mama Effiong, who worked as a nurse with the Federal Ministry of Health for 32 years, had purchased and paid for the duplex with deductions from her salary for years, ostensibly to secure her days in retirement. But as it turned out, over two decades of that stage of her life has been spent in penury and destitution, as she has had to squat in churches and scavenge whatever she could, to survive.

    Courtesy of human rights lawyer, Ebun-Olu Adegboruwa, she recently got a judgment in her favour to take possession of her house at the Court of Appeal, eight long years after she first got a judgement at the High Court, which she said “the buyer appealed.”

    The Nation caught up with her at the Assemblies of God Church in Apapa, where she has been squatting.

    Her story

    “I was trained in Awka-Ibom but came to Lagos later and got employment with the Federal Health Management Board, where I worked for 32 years.

    I lost my husband in 1965 and decided not to remarry but faced my job as a nurse, so I could take care of my only child and daughter, Carol Effiong.

    During the Festac 77 period, the Federal Government published in the papers that there were houses available for allocation, so I went and took a form which I filled and my late nephew returned to the headquarters for me. By the Grace of God, I was one of the lucky winners of a house, a semi detached three bedroom duplex.

    I began a monthly payment to the Federal Housing Authority Headquarters, which I did until the payment was complete. I kept the document in a small box in the house and never bothered to lock because I was living in the house alone with my daughter and we were very free with each other.

    One day I was arranging things in the house and suddenly realised I couldn’t find the original document in the box. I started looking for it and when I couldn’t find it, I went to report at the Federal Housing Authority headquarters, where I was given some new documents. I also placed a caveat and loss of document report in Vanguard newspapers.

    I never knew that my daughter had sold the house through a forged power of attorney to a 419 and ran away. He sued me through the fake attorney and obtained judgment against me. I was thrown out of the house and my properties left to rot in the rains and sunshine because I didn’t have enough money to rent another house.

    It’s been 20 years now and I have been sleeping from one Assemblies of God church to another and surviving through the help of good Samaritans.

    During the early years, God sent someone who introduced me to the late Chief Gani Fawehinmi, who took interest in the matter and began to assist me. The case was first heard at the Apapa Magistrate Court; then it was transferred to Lagos High Court in 1997. Barrister Ebun-Olu Adegboruwa was assigned to continue the case in 1997, approved by Chief Fawehinmi. He is also a Good Samaritan. It has not been easy, but God used him to help me get a favourable judgement, delivered by Hon. Justice Candide Johnson in 2009. I was told to go and take over my house but the buyer filed another appeal against the judgment in 2009 and kept living in the property.

    It took another eight years before judgment was given, which dismissed the appeal as totally lacking in merit. The court of appeal affirmed the judgment of the trial court and ordered that I be given back my property.

    For the first time, I saw my lawyer cry. It was as if it just dawned on him that an old woman like me had to pass through so much. May God bless him. But I still want to thank the late Chief Fawehinmi for his empathy and caring heart even in death.”

    ‘My daughter’s action took me by surprise’

    Asked if her daughter ever betrayed any such attitude or needed money desperately at some point, she said ‘No.’

    “She didn’t mention anything suggestive of such to me. She was in her early 30s and was in the University of Benin. I tried my best to give her everything she needed. She had friends that used to visit her; some gave her good advice, others probably gave her bad advice. I don’t know the friend that advised her wrongly. I just know that I tried to please her because I had no other person to take care of. She was all I had. I don’t know whether she was satisfied or not.”

    On whether her daughter has called her since she executed the despicable act, she answered in the negative. “Since she left, she has never called me and I have also never called her. But some years ago, she sent some people to come and apologize to me at my church in Festac. She said she was very sorry for what she did to me and I have forgiven her. I guess she is also afraid of coming to me because she fears that people around will discipline her. She doesn’t have my phone number and I don’t have hers either.”

    Asked if Carol is married now, she said no but has a son for her boyfriend.

    On what she plans to do with the house when she finally takes possession, she said she will sell it, settle all her debts and relocate to her home town and prepare a place where she will live until her last day.

    “I would also love to give some money to my lawyer. For all these years, he has been helping me without collecting any money and I wish to pay him back if he will allow me. Other lawyers approached me, requesting to assist me for a fee but he never did.”

    Narrating the events that followed that harrowing eviction, she said, “I didn’t have anywhere to go; I used my entire gratuity to pursue this case. I started to squat in different branches of the Assemblies of God church until I found myself in Apapa. People who come around to the church help me with my feeding and I also use the money to take care of myself.”

    According to Mama Carol, the most painful day of her life was the day she was thrown out of the house with her properties without anywhere to go to. “My belongings were left lying there for years, with the rains and the sun beating them. Everything went bad. Even if I decide to go back to the house, I don’t have anything to move in there. I lived in the house between 1985 and 1997, when I was thrown out.”

    On her state of health, she said she falls sick from time to time and goes to the hospital. Her bills, she revealed are paid by ‘Good Samaritans’, who always rise up to assist her.

     

    Case should never have been appealed – judges

    When The Nation contacted her lawyer,  Ebun-Olu Adegboruwa, he sent  information containing facts of the case.

    It reads as She was allocated the five bedroom apartment located at 21 Road, 2nd Avenue, E Close, House 22, Festac Town, Lagos, by the Federal Housing Authority.

    The Respondent claimed that he bought the house through Madam Effiong and her only daughter.

    Madam Effiong filed a case at the Lagos State High Court through Gani Fawehinmi Chambers in 1997. Mr. Ebun-Olu Adegboruwa prosecuted the case in the High Court and judgment was delivered in 2009 by Hon Justice Candide Johnson and the defendant was ordered to vacate the house for Madam Effiong to be restored into possession. The defendant appealed against the judgment to the Court of Appeal in March, 2009 and judgment was delivered by the Court of Appeal on 3rd May, 2017.

    The lead judgment of the Court of Appeal was delivered by Hon Justice Yargata Byenchit Nimpar, to which Hon Justice Mohammed Lawal Garba and Jamilu Yammama Tukur concurred.

    Per NIMPAR J.C.A.:

    There is nothing in this appeal that can ensure any benefit to the appellant. It is surprising that in spite of the record of proceedings and the judgment of the court below, the appellant still pushed on with the appeal. Where a case is bad, it is the duty of counsel to advice his client and thus save the time of the court. The appeal fails and it is dismissed.

    Per Garba, J.C.A.:

    In fact, from the record of appeal, one cannot avoid having the impression that the appeal was brought mainly to enable and allow the appellant who was forcefully and wrongly put into possession of the house of the respondent, to remain in the house for as long as possible, with the sole aim of frustrating the respondent’s efforts of recovering her deserved possession and ownership. This appeal was brought eight (8) years ago, on the 16th March, 2009 and the respondent has been kept out possession of her house for that period.