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  • Rollercoaster of romance, secrets and suspense

    Rollercoaster of romance, secrets and suspense

    Title:  Dangerous Intimacy

    Author:  N. Viktoria

    Publisher: Alpha Zuriel Publishing

    Reviewer: Ozolua Uhakheme

    Pagination: 195

    From its first page, Dangerous Intimacy draws you into a world where romance and intrigue entwine in a narrative that pulses with emotion, desire, and suspense. It’s not just a love story—it’s a multifaceted exploration of relationships, trust, betrayal, and the unforeseen consequences of loving someone who may not be who they seem.

    In Dangerous Intimacy, N. Viktoria deftly navigates the tension between passion and peril, creating a story that keeps readers on edge, constantly wondering what will happen next.

    What sets this book apart is the depth of the characters and the complexity of their emotional journeys. N. Viktoria’s ability to craft characters that feel real—who are flawed, vulnerable, and full of life—is one of the novel’s greatest strengths.

    From the very first chapter, you’re introduced to Viola, the protagonist whose strength and vulnerability become the core of the narrative.

    Viola’s evolution throughout the book is masterfully handled. She is a character who wears her emotions on her sleeve, and the reader is taken along as she navigates the highs and lows of a relationship with Michael August, a man who seems perfect but carries deep secrets that could shatter everything.

    Suspense and pacing

    The pacing in Dangerous Intimacy is nothing short of brilliant. In the opening chapters, Viktoria pulls you in with an intense romantic connection that feels both passionate and intimate.

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    The chemistry between Viola and Michael is electric, and their relationship quickly escalates into something that feels larger than life. Pretty intense. The kind of romance that will have you cooing, “God when?”

    Yet, beneath the surface, you’ll be able to sense that something isn’t quite right. The author cleverly uses foreshadowing to drop hints of tension, creating an underlying sense of unease.

    Trust me when I say nothing will quite prepare you for the bombshell.

    This is where Viktoria’s literary prowess shines—using suspense not as a tool for cheap thrills but as a mechanism to deepen the emotional resonance of the story.

    The build-up is slow and deliberate, allowing the reader to become fully invested in the relationship before pulling the rug out from under them.

    Just as you start to believe in the fairy tale (I’m talking-flying-out-of-town-on-a-private-jet-with-a-hired-private-Italian-chef-lunch-date kinda fairytale), the dark twist arrives, and everything you thought you knew is thrown into question.

    Character development and emotional depth

    One of the standout features of this novel is the layered character development. Viola is a woman whose vulnerability is matched only by her resilience. Viktoria paints her with such complexity that it’s impossible not to root for her, especially as her world begins to crumble.

    She is far from the typical romantic heroine. She’s flawed—sometimes impulsive, often too trusting—but this makes her journey all the more relatable. As she discovers Michael’s hidden life, the shift in her character is palpable. The author doesn’t rush her transformation; instead, it unfolds organically, allowing Viola to grow in a way that feels authentic and earned.

    Michael August, on the other hand, is a character wrapped in mystery. The allure of his wealth, charm, and success is contrasted with the darkness lurking beneath the surface. His duality keeps readers guessing—who is the real Michael or which personality does he really want to embrace?

    Viktoria skillfully uses him as both a romantic lead and an enigma, playing with the reader’s emotions. Is he a victim of circumstance or an orchestrator of his own downfall?

    The complexity of his character makes him a perfect foil to Viola’s emotional transparency. Absolutely brilliant!

    Literary devices and themes

    The use of dramatic irony is a notable feature of the novel. As readers, we’re often a step ahead of Viola in terms of knowing that something isn’t quite right with Michael, yet we’re still shocked when the full truth is revealed.

    This gap between what the protagonist knows and what we suspect heightens the tension and keeps us eagerly turning the pages.

    The themes of trust, betrayal, and self-discovery are explored with great subtlety. Viktoria uses the relationship between Viola and Michael to probe deeper questions about what it means to truly know someone and whether love can survive the discovery of painful truths.

    Relatable questions you may find yourself asking once or twice when you fall in love. You tend to wonder if it’s really too good to be true.

    Dialogue and prose

    N. Viktoria’s command of dialogue is another strength of the book. Conversations between the characters feel organic and true to life, but there’s always a subtext—an unspoken tension or an emotional undercurrent—that adds depth to the scenes.

    Whether it’s the playful banter between Viola and her best friend Lucy or the emotionally charged exchanges between Viola and Michael, the dialogue is sharp, witty, and poignant.

    The prose itself is elegant without being overly flowery. Viktoria has a gift for description, painting vivid scenes that immerse the reader in the world of the characters without bogging down the narrative with unnecessary details.

    This balance between description and action keeps the story moving at a steady pace while allowing readers to fully experience the emotional landscape of the characters.

    Dangerous Intimacy is more than just a romance novel; it’s a captivating exploration of love, trust, and the dark secrets that can unravel even the most passionate relationships.

    N. Viktoria’s skillful use of suspense, character development, and emotional depth makes this a standout read. The story grips you from the first page and doesn’t let go, taking you on an emotional rollercoaster that will leave you breathless.

    If you’re looking for a book that offers more than just a surface-level romance—a book that delves into the complexities of human relationships and the secrets we keep—Dangerous Intimacy is a must-read.

    The tension, the passion, and the unexpected twists make it a novel that lingers in your mind long after you’ve turned the last page. It’s the kind of book that keeps you up late at night, eagerly devouring each chapter, hungry to know what happens next. And isn’t that the mark of truly great storytelling?

  • Masturbation and the way forward (1)

    Masturbation and the way forward (1)

    I AM 16 years old. I desperately need your advice.  I am not living with my parents due to some circumstances.

     My problem is masturbation, and I have been doing this for two or three years now. This act is affecting me seriously. All I think is sex. My concentration has dropped drastically and my academic work is suffering.

     I use to be very intelligent, but not anymore. I have resorted to examination malpractices which I feel so bad about.

    Please, I need your help urgently. I am ashamed of myself.

    Name withheld.

    Realising the fact that you need help is good. We must commend your courage for sharing your problem with us. It takes a lot of strength to summon such courage to do so, bearing in mind that masturbation is a secret habit that victims are ashamed of talking about freely.

    Most teenagers, males or females, are confronted with the same challenge, but they find it difficult to open up. The reason is that at the stage of adolescence which starts from the age of 13 to 19 years young boys start going through changes in their bodies. Physically and emotionally, this is also applicable to girls as well due to the hormonal changes.

    Feelings come to play when a young boy or girl starts thinking that he or she is in love with a particular girl whereas in the actual sense, it is just mere infatuation or crush. Now a child that does not understand why he or she is feeling in a certain way might go the wrong way because of lack of proper information from home to start with at an early stage.

    Masturbation can be described as self-stimulation of one’s genital to the point of orgasm. This is one widespread struggle of adolescence which some see as a joke. Some silently talk about it among friends, while some are so ashamed to be related with the act.

    The issue of masturbation is not only centred on males. Some females are also involved in the act as well, but the difference is that the ratio of boys that masturbate is more than the girls.

    Teenage stage is a remarkable period of physical and emotional changes in a person’s life. Therefore, the sudden changes all teenagers experience often surprise and confuse them because of little or no information given. They are most times not adequately equipped to understand and tackle the sex urges as the play up which is natural due to their current stage in life.

    In addressing the issue at hand which is masturbation, it will be proper for us to list out the possible reasons why teenage boys, for example, masturbate.

    Physiological changes: This is as a result of the hormonal changes that take place at this period. Feelings start driving wide, so lack of the right information on how to deal with such feelings can actually lead to masturbation which, if not addressed, can affect other aspects of the person’s life.

    Next is lack of proper sex education. This is a situation whereby a child is not properly informed about the changes that will occur in his body both externally and internally at a certain age, that is, what to expect and how to go about it. Once there’s a gap, the child, in the process of seeking answers or solutions, might be guided wrongly into masturbation.

    However, some adults have this notion that talking to children about sexuality, sex and relationship is actually encouraging them to put the act into practice, forgetting that knowledge is power. On the other hand, some children to view any awareness of their bodies particularly sexuality as bad. This simply leaves some children unprepared for sexual urges and surges they encounter as adolescence.

    Other factors are the company they keep: The type of friends they keep and what they do (peer pressure).Rumours and secrecy can also lead a teenager into the act of masturbation. Masturbation is like a drug addict hungry for his next fix when to address.

     

    Harriet Ogbobine is a counsellor and a motivational speaker.

    Send your questions and suggestions to her blog; www.liwh.com.ng, text messages only 08054682598 or bineharriet@gmail.com.  You can follow her on twitter: @bineharrietj and instagram: harrietogbobine.

  • The last straw

    SWEET romance! That is what is uppermost in her heart at the moment. For hours, Maureen stayed glued to the screen watching her best movie with rapt attention. At the center of it all, was the story of two lovebirds, emotionally attached in spite of the pressures and family feuds around them.

    To be or not to be, was the big question but somehow, they never gave up, instead their love waxed stronger and the passion kept burning and it ended as they tied the knot and lived happily ever after. As she looked away from the screen, her mind wandered off back to reality zone.

    The story of the lovebirds compared to her personal love story and uppermost in her mind was the wish to capture this heart that seems so elusive in spite of all her emotional investments’. “I don’t think I can survive another disappointment. I just hope, this relationship would out because I am not sure I can start all over again”,

    Yes, she has really seen it all. It’s been tales of emotional frustrations and disappointment for our dear friend. Falling and stumbling in the emotional corridor and now she seems to be at a crossroad, looking for options and trying to make a choice.

    Take a deep look and you find that it actually isn’t really her fault. She has had to make the necessary sacrifice and played her role very well. The only snag is that she has been unlucky with her choices.

    The crux of the matter here is that sometimes, luck plays a big role in the final outcome of the love process. We all gamble making a choice, believing that the choices that we have made is going to match our expectations in the long run.

    Unfortunately, it does not work out this way for many.”My younger sister met this gentleman who appeared to be so unserious and she wasn’t looking forward to anything at all. To her utmost surprise, he turned her world around in a fabulous way and made her a great admiration to family and friends. They were married in less than a year and the relationship remain a great reference point to a lot of people till date”.

    Finding the heart for keeps can be complex indeed. What works for A may not necessarily work for B. It is actually a make or mar situation for our dear friend at the moment and she just cannot afford to make any mistake at this stage of her emotional life.

    She takes you down memory lane and confesses that its been a tale of emotional frustrations indeed. Falling and stumbling in the emotional corridor and now she seems to be at crossroads. This is the last card and it just must work, she prays.

    For a lot of people, love like life comes with a lot of challenges. It has the high and lows too and the best thing to do is to understand your emotional season and make a smart choice. If you fail to decode and move in the right direction, you may just discover that you have lost out  of the game .

    Emotional champions are not necessarily those who got the best opportunity in the field , instead they make the best of the opportunities available , play the right emotional cards , thus winning trophies (hearts ) that others ignored, abandoned or took for granted .

    Many, like a famous quote believe that being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” “There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.” “The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”

    To win and be successful, you must keep your eyes on the prize.So, the secret to emotional successes like everything in life involves dedication, determination and perseverance.

    One other secret is to stop all the guesswork many stick to and start creating opportunities that will bring about the intense attraction that your partner needs to feel with you if your relationship is going to last and grow.

    Don’t let yourself get stuck in another relationship where you watch the affection and excitement of the man you love fade away.

    If you’ve ever struggled with how to keep that attraction and passion burning bright without having to try and worry if things are going to work out. It is also important to understand how to maintain a good relationship, prevent relationship crisis and continue to wax stronger in love forever.

    Interestingly one great way of showing trust is when lovebirds accept mutual respect, set boundaries and have a common emotional goal. This would help them to assess what they do, how to enhance their relationship and redefine their goals as they move alone in the different phases of life.

    However, permitting each other to have a private space and avoiding pushing the other person to do things they would prefer not to do helps a lot in creating sustaining happiness in relationships.

  • Valentine: BA extends romance to travellers

    As part of this year’s valentine celebration, British Airways has announced attractive return fares to London with offers as low as $169 in Economy Class and $2009 in Business Class.

    The airline says the Valentine incentive is for customers travelling the Lagos – London route or the Abuja – London route.

    According to Kola Olayinka, British Airways Regional Manager for West Africa, this is meant to spur customers to create new moment and spend time with their loved ones: “In the spirit of the valentine season, British Airways wants to show appreciation to its customers hence these promotional fares. We want them to create new moment as they travel this season and spend time with their loved ones,” he said.

    He explained that the offer, which ends on February 28, 2019 are available for outbound travel between now and March 24, 2019, with a minimum stay of three days and maximum stay of 12 months.

    The international flag carrier in the United Kingdom, recently celebrated a hundred years of operation with style.

  • Advice for women: Sex is food

    SEX IS FOOD!!!!!!!

    Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don’t always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex.

    Be creative, don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.

    Don’t have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.

    When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food !!!

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    Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back…. mwahhhhhh, don’t be too holy to kiss in the public.

    He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic joooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you’re happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don’t look 50 while you’re still under 40, it drives men crazy.

    Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

     

    You can  share your relationship stories with us on  info@thenationonlineng.net

  • My romance  with Jeff Akoh was for publicity, Bisola confesses

    My romance with Jeff Akoh was for publicity, Bisola confesses

    Barely 72 hours after she publicly professed that she was in a relationship with singer, Jeff Akoh, Big Brother Naija (BBN) star, has Bisola Aiyeola confessed that it was publicity.

    The talented actress cum musician, who is Akoh’s Temple Music label mate, came out with clarification just three days to the launch of his album.

    Akoh, the 2015 winner of Project Fame West Africa drops his debut 16 track, Lokoja on his 21st birthday, Friday, October 27th.

    Bisola posted a short video of Jeff Akoh singing and added the message; “Now that we have your attention.. Jeff’s album “Lokoja” drops worldwide this Friday the 27th of October. He is not my boyfriend o, (my eyes are still locked on Mr. Elba and if that fails I carry my load to MHQ to settle down with the Don) but he could be yours ladies! Boy is fine and has the most amazing vocals! Na play we dey play o! You know say #natheworkweywedeydo Go and preorder his album on all the digital platforms. For those who knew we were #uptosomething thank you for having faith I Love you. For those who have insulted us, make it up to us by buying/streaming/requesting his music when its out. You can also follow him @jeff_akoh. While you wait, keep enjoying Water & Fire, #Shokolokobangoshe & #Gbadun ft @teamsalut

    “Bloggers, oya, spread this gospel with the same rapid fire you used on Saturday. #TMC #TMPL #BeTheMovement #TakeMeToLokoja.”

    The ‘Perfect Picture’ actress, in a viral post last Saturday via Instagram, wrote; “It’s official guys, Jeff Akoh and I are in love and in a strong, loving relationship. Your girl B is taken.”

  • Ellyman, Tboss  fuel romance tales

    Ellyman, Tboss fuel romance tales

    Only a week ago, Made Men Music Group artiste, Ellyman and ex-reality TV star Tboss, created a massive buzz when their photos sparked an online debate

    The duo have sprung yet another avalanche of speculations among thousands of fans online with another newly-released photos which were taken at an exquisite location in Zanzibar, Tanzania.

    The adorable pictures recently surfaced online and have been making the rounds across social media – with majority describing the photos as an acknowledgment of love between both stars.

    Reports reveal the photos were taken in another exotic location in Zanzibar; following their previous photos where they were both seen together at a popular beach in the city.

    It’s unclear if the photos were intended for a project or it’s really an assertion to the speculations of romance between the stars.

    Ellyman, who was signed to Made Men Music Group earlier this year and Imo Records in 2016, has since spurred a considerable amount of buzz for himself with a handful of singles officially released under the labels.

     

  • Wahala of dating outside your social class -Nkem

    Wahala of dating outside your social class -Nkem

    We grew up watching classics like Cinderella, Coming to America, Pretty Woman, Nollywood’s Violated and a couple of other movies where love conquered the social class divide.
    Fast forward to 2017, the Internet rules; anyone can meet anyone, and nobody kicks up a fuss about cross-class relationships or marriages anymore. It is not considered overtly scandalous. We no longer factor it
    in when considering the root of our relationship problems, and we look to psychology or gender norms instead when trying to figure out why our partner is being an ass. We pretend that we live in a classless society where background does not matter as much as present compatibility.
    Things are changing and people’s classes are no longer inscribed in stone.
    Believe it or not though, social class or shall we say socio-economic differences, still pose a very difficult challenge in relationships today. Anyone who has dated someone outside their social class can affirm that there are strange tensions and inevitable speed bumps that come with these kinds of relationships. It can be fraught with complications.
    For instance, your boyfriend could be from a high-class, wealthy family while you come from a working-class family with less money. He travels a lot and has been to all these places around the world just for fun, while you have never crossed the borders of Nigeria. You start to think you cannot keep up with him because you have to be extremely careful with money. Also, you know that the only way both of you could travel together on a regular basis is if he pays for you, and that just seems wrong.
    Likewise, it could be the other way round and you are the girl from an upper-middle-class family, while your man has a working class background. Of course, financial equality does not mean cultural equality, so you wonder why he attaches too much importance to simple things like good food or designer labels. He, on the other hand, gets exasperated by your easy-come-easy-go spending attitude.
    A couple of days ago, while having drinks with some friends at Intercontinental hotel (which turned out to be a horrible experience, as the place is nothing like a 5 star hotel…or even a 4 star -the food is
    substandard and the roof of the bar leaks), a friend mentioned her recent experience on a date. She had gone out with a guy who, although was wealthy, obviously had a working-class background.
    Being a girl brought up in an upper-middle-class home, the first thing she noticed was the huge gap in their personalities. According to her, his mentality was very different from hers. While he had asked her to pick any venue -a way to let her know he could afford her tastes, he had hinted on the food being overpriced (although, he could clearly afford it) and exhibited terrible table manners. Also, he had felt the need to talkabout his achievements and how he had risen above all …as though she made him feel insecure, and he needed a form of validation from her.
    Again, there was the fact that his diction was flawed, and their experiences growing up were very different.
    Of course, her intention was not to ridicule the guy. She had shared her experience to find out if her declining a second date with the guy and refusing to speak to him again afterward portrayed her as being a snob.
    Another friend who was out with us, *Bisi, jumped in and assured her that she made the right call nipping it all in the bud – she was better off with someone in her class.
    Bisi spoke from experience, seeing as she had married into a super wealthy home despite being from a lower middle-class home. Prior to her marriage there had been endless disputes over her husband marrying down, and her family’s wealth being all too recently acquired. According to her, while cross-class pairings or relationships seemed egalitarian, it was complicated and required a lot of work. Bisi stated that stereotypical class prejudices are real – in any cross-social class relationship, both parties would have differing views, beliefs, attitudes, and practices on things such as child-rearing, money
    management, career advancement, how to spend leisure time e.t.c.
    This would go on to stir feelings of insecurity, resentment, usually in the partner on the “lower” side of this difference. And as a result, there will be a lot of negative pressure, tension, conflict as well as a
    sort of imbalance in the relationship, making it difficult for the couple to last long or even survive.
    Bisi went on to share some of her experiences in marriage which all seemed a little incredible, and in between laughs, it dawned on me that I’d never dated anyone outside of my socioeconomic strata, which I’d describe as middle class. I have never been with any one of the glitterati nor have I been with a blue collar. Obviously, I have nothing against it, but it certainly would be quite a chore building a relationship with someone from a dramatically different social background, wouldn’t it?
    Sure, all relationships take work, but with a combination maturity and a willingness to healthily compromise, you can overcome any relationship problem. However, it is better to opt for one which isn’t already threatened by the boundaries of class at the initial point…don’t you think?
    Have you ever dated someone with a richer or poorer background than yours? What were the issues? How did it work out?
    Nkem Ndem is a dynamic freelance writer and editor who can be reached
    for online writing(web content and blog) and editing, screenwriting,
    ghost writing, copy proofreading and reviews. She has since worked with
    Jumia, SpiceTV Africa, and Bella Naija. Check out her Instagram:
    @kem_dem, twitter: @ndemv and snapchat:@ndemv. Email:
  • Top rules for sophisticated guys

    Top rules for sophisticated guys

    1. Your belt should match your shoes.

    2. If you are wearing a black suit, wear black shoes.

    3. If you are wearing gray, blue, tan or a combination thereof, please use brown shoes.

    4. Get a haircut regularly. Don’t wait until everyone around you knows you need one.

    5. Never go out without a wristwatch.

    6- If you want a thinner and smarter look, go for vertical-striped shirts.

    7- You should have at least three suits in your wardrobe.

    8- Your tie should cover your collar button down to your top trouser button. Anything longer or shorter makes you look awkward or like a village headmaster.

    9- Have at least one pair of dress shoes.

    10- Wear slippers only at home and the beach. Never leave your house with slippers, not even to see someone off.

    11- If you want to use a tie, use it properly. Avoid wearing a tie with an untucked shirt or wearing a tucked shirt with a slightly loosened tie.

    12- Never match blazers with dress trousers.

    13- Do not leave your house with wrinkled clothes, it doesn’t speak good of you no matter the explanation you have for it.

    14- Match your belt to your belt loops. Don’t wear a thin dress belt with trousers that have big belt loops.

    15- Always have an elegant pen with you. It helps you look sophisticated and ready.

    16- Have lots of white shirts because white shirts make you look like a boss.

    17- Wear simple t-shirts without a photo or write-up on it. They make you look, mature, simple but sophisticated.

    18- Your trousers are too short if you can see your socks as you walk. Your trousers should end just at the top of your shoes.

  • ‘Couples who sleep naked together are happier’

    Chances are that you are happy in your relationship if you and your partner love to sleep naked, perhaps even happier than couples you know who sleep wearing pyjamas or some other pieces of clothing.

    This is because a new study has revealed that couples who sleep naked have a happier relationship and are fond of each other.

    The study from Cotton USA asked couples what they slept in at bedtime and then asked them to rate how happy they were in their relationship.

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    The results showed that 57 percent of those who slept in the nude said they felt happy, compared to 48 percent of pyjamas wearers, 43 percent of nightie wearers and a mere 38 percent of people who wore pants, bum shorts, etc.

    Stephanie Thiers-Ratcliffe of Cotton USA said that one of the leading factors for this was that the nakedness encouraged intimacy and openness, thanks to the skin-on-skin contact and the feeling of soft bedding.

    Respondents, however, note that couples who sleep in the nude would always have so much washing to do!