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  • Organisation disburses N6m grants to empower widows

    Organisation disburses N6m grants to empower widows

    Capital for Her, a non-governmental organisation focused on empowering widows, has disbursed over N6 million in grants to support disadvantaged widows and ensure education for their children.

    The initiative launched in March began with 11 widows and has expanded, reaching 20 beneficiaries in Lagos, Ibadan and Abeokuta.

    At the heart of this inspiring movement is 16-year-old Emmanuella Olamide, who gave up midnight snack allowance to fund the dream of empowering widows.  

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    This project is not only about money—it’s about restoring hope and helping women rebuild their lives through sustainable business,” said Folorunsho, the teenage founder and convener of the initiative.

    Executive Director and Matron, Mrs. Veronica Folorunsho, said the programme was designed not only to offer financial assistance, but also to deliver economic independence, mentorship and educational support for widows and their children.

    ‘’The loss of a husband is not just emotional—it’s often a loss of financial security and identity. Through this, we are rewriting that narrative,” Mrs. Folorunsho said.

    She added that the grants enabled the women to start or expand their small-scale businesses, ultimately empowering them to become self-sufficient entrepreneurs.

    ‘’This is not just charity, it’s an investment. We want these women to grow businesses, reclaim their confidence and uplift their families,” she stressed.

    Benefiting widows have begun to experience significant changes in their lives.

  • Philanthropist lifts widows with N3.3m

    Philanthropist lifts widows with N3.3m

    In a remarkable display of compassion and drive, 16-year -old Emmanuel Olamide Folorunsho is making a significant impact in the lives of widows across Nigeria.

    Leading the initiative “Capital For Her,” Folorunsho, fueled by her desire to effect positive change, has partnered with the non-governmental organization Total Life Changing (TLC) to provide essential support.

    With a commitment of N3.3 million, the initiative aims to empower widows, helping them achieve financial independence and improve their quality of life.

    Through “Capital For Her,” Folorunsho is focused on offering resources and opportunities that allow these women to rebuild and thrive amidst their adversities.

    In a world often marked by challenges, Folorunsho’s dedication serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration, illustrating the powerful impact that youth philanthropy can have on communities in need.

    The initiative stands as a beacon of hope for many widows, who often find themselves grappling with financial instability and societal stigma following the loss of their partners.

    In Nigerian culture, the plight of widows can be exacerbated by economic challenges, leaving many to fend for themselves and their children.

    However, Folorunsho believes that change is possible.

    “In my country, I have seen how many widows struggle. They work tirelessly to sustain their families but often face insurmountable obstacles,” Folorunsho explains, her voice a mix of determination and empathy. “I wanted to do something meaningful that would make a lasting impact.”

    The genesis of “Capital For Her” was dreamt up during those late-night hours when Folorunsho would usually spend time preparing for school or indulging in social media. Instead of spending her pocket money on snacks or entertainment, she turned her food money into an ambitious fundraising effort.

    In partnership with TLC, a renowned NGO focused on uplifting marginalized groups in society, especially widows.Folorunsho’s initiative aims to provide financial assistance and mentorship to widows. The recent N3.3 million raised was distributed among 11 selected widows, each receiving amount accordingly to their business structure and proposal,to expand their small businesses.

    “My goal was to empower them to become financially independent,” she says. “By investing in their businesses, we help them not just survive but thrive.”

    The event was held at the Magodo phase 1,Lagos.

    It was a moment of celebration,as the widows came together, applauding this rare effort led by a young girl whose compassion for others has set her apart. Testimonials flowed freely, with the widows expressing their gratitude and sharing their dreams of building sustainable livelihoods.

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    “I can now improve my fruit business by making natural juice,” said Omizi Odion,a widow and mother of three children.“This support means the world to me and my family. It gives me hope for a better future.”

    Another recipient, Toyin Omadome said she

    , hopes to expand her poultry feed business.Also,Ossai Angela aimed to improve her small food stuff business, while

    Chinwe Maduka would improve on her clothes business she will get a container stall progressing into a full-fledged boutique.

     Others stated that “This grant will allow them to buy the necessary equipment and ingredients needed for their business It’s a step toward achieving my dreams and ensuring my children have a better life.”

    Folorunsho’s vision goes beyond mere monetary relief. She has plans to establish a support network that fosters community among widows, providing them with resources, training, and mentorship to ensure their futures are equipped with not just hope, but also sustainable skill sets.

    “Empowerment is not just giving money; it’s about building a community and equipping women with the tools they need for success,” she asserts. “I want to inspire other young people to take action in their communities, no matter their age. We all have the power to make a difference.”

    As she prepares for her final exams and the next phase of her transformative journey, Folorunsho’s resolve is unshakeable. Her initiative is already attracting attention from local and international organizations keen on supporting her mission.

    In a world where the struggles of widows often go unnoticed, Emmanuel Olamide Folorunsho embodying charity, creativity, and compassion shines a light on the potential within young leaders. This bright star of philanthropy is proving that age is just a number when it comes to making an impactful change in society. The future looks promising, not just for Folorunsho, but for all the widows whose dreams are now within reach—thanks to a girl with a heart bigger than her age.

  • Stelonyx, partners support widows, others with gifts, loans

    Stelonyx, partners support widows, others with gifts, loans

    Stelonyx Network, a socioeconomic development and support group with passion for the less privileged along with its partners have lifted widows, widowers, elderly and others in major parts of the country with cash gifts, food items and revolving loans.

    Justifying the need for the exercise, the Coordinator of the group, Eugene Aligbe said, “Stelonyx together with our partners are committed to putting smiles in the faces of people. We believe that how to attract happiness is to make people around you to be happy. That is why in all we do both in business, we make people that we have encountered with to be happy and motivated to the glory of God.”

    The exercise which coincided with the yuletide season, saw members and non members of the network across major parts of the country benefitting from different largesse including bags of rice, cash gifts and start up capital to support their businesses.

    “Over 24 widows, widowers, elderly and various others were beneficiaries of the programme. In Lagos for instance, we distributed food items to some widows and others. Within Egbeda market we are supporting their businesses with revolving credits. We give three to six months as the case maybe. It is just for them to support their businesses and pay little by little without any form of harassment. Some of the beneficiaries are members of our network and others come through referrals.”

    Besides Lagos, the group extended its benevolence to others in Delta, Cross River, Kaduna, amongst others.

    “We gave cash and those in the market got rice because despite the fact that they are widows and old, they’re still trading and struggling. Interestingly, two of them have never defaulted. If they can pay as at when due, they will call you to explain. You can see integrity in the way they manage their lives. Meanwhile, there are people we are giving support to farm and women to buy cassava and process it to garri. We believe that those that are serious can do something with little support and build from there instead of staying idle.

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    “A widow benefited in Kaduna and another one in Calabar including Nkenchor Ekene Lovelyn, Rachel Taiwo Ajayi. The woman in Kaduna, during the year, when she had accommodations problems, we sourced funds to rent another apartment to settle her with the kids and gave her credit to start small business.Chinenye Okeke is not a widow but her husband abandoned her with three kids and followed another woman but we have been supportive in our own little way.

    “Chinwe Peace is a widow in Ikorodu struggling with small restaurant. The day we were to visit her shop to access it so we can give her a credit to expand it, tbe meeting couldn’t hold but after Christmas we will visit her restaurant.”

    Princess Idika Onyi, a widow based in Asaba, Delta state who also benefitted was full of praises for the group. “I’m so grateful thanks to everyone who made this possible, they will never lack,” she said.

    For Mr. Pius Ohkihan, a middle-aged man, who  lost his means of livelihood during the COVID-19 pandemic, his life is gradually getting back on an even keel thanks to acts of tokenism by the Stelonyx Group.

    According to Aligbe, as much as the group desires to impact the lives of its members and other members of the public, it can only do but little due to the limit of its resources. “Usually, we earmark N500k and above to do the little we can but it’s never enough. We’ll keep striving to lend any form of support to alleviate the sufferings of the people.”

  • Cleric seeks support for widows, vulnerable communities

    Cleric seeks support for widows, vulnerable communities

    The Vice President of the Apostolic Church Nigeria, (TACN), Pastor Gabriel Uyeh has called for increased aid to widows and vulnerable children, emphasizing that these groups have been neglected for far too long.

    Uyeh said this at the just concluded Lagos Area and Western/Northern Areas, LAWNA, Territory annual 48th International convention held at the church Headquarters, Olorunda, Ketu, Lagos.

    The weeklong event featured bible teachings sermons, revival as well as tarring and special prayers.

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    According to him, many of the country’s current challenges are linked to the neglect of the poor and vulnerable people, especially widows and children.

    He called on the government to prioritize the needs of all citizens, criticizing the selfishness and greed he perceives among those in power.

    “Citizens are neglected because of selfishness. When people who are in high positions only want (good things) for themselves, their wife, their children—that is greediness. So that should be removed, eradicated, so they take care of the less privileged and general citizens of the country.”

  • Foundation targets 100 widows for anti-poverty scheme

    Foundation targets 100 widows for anti-poverty scheme

    A Non-Profit, Katalog Charity Foundation has unveiled a poverty alleviation scheme to empower 100 underprivileged widows in Lagos.

    The scheme entitled: “Rescue Widows: 100 lives” is aimed to alleviate poverty among widows by providing start-up capitals, and sewing machines, among others.

    While decrying the plights of widows, the Katalog Charity Foundation and CEO of Skin Salva Med Spa, Dr. Vivan Akaenyi, disclosed to newsmen in Lagos that the intervention scheme aims at empowering 100 widows in the state.

    She said: “You can’t imagine what these women are going through. Some are even in their 20s. Some of them are in abject poverty and truly in need of help. And the society they find themselves in has not helped matters. As all well-meaning Nigerians, we can rise and alleviate their plights by denying ourselves one or two things to help those in need.

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    “And we at the Katalog Charity Foundation, have chosen to rise to the occasion through our “Rescue Widows: 100 lives”. Once we find out what they are good at doing, what they used to do before they lost their husbands, or what they are interested in doing now, we’ll provide them with the right tools, which includes finance, but not limited to it.”

    Akaenyi stated that the scheme, which will take off officially in September this year, has the 36 states, including Abuja, in its radar; while adding that it is profiling of the widows ongoing to detect if actually, they are not faking their status. She added that even though the foundation is starting with Lagos, its plan is to reach 1,000 widows yearly thereby combining about 10 states in Nigeria.

  • Widows get medical care, palliatives

    Widows get medical care, palliatives

    DOHS Care for Vulnerable Women and Children Foundation has given 100 widows medical and free gifts to celebrate 2024 International Widow’s Day.

    The outreach: ‘Wholesome Widows’, was done with Godly Widow Initiative and Ezra House.

    Founder, Ololade Ajayi, described the day as one to call attention to challenges widows face, such as deprivation, etc.

    She said: “The event was organised to give a holistic package to widows. They were sensitised to their rights, taking into cognisance challenges they face, letting them know things that contribute harmful practice to widows and which they should not be part of.

    “We listened to their challenges, and provided legal aid for those disinherited. We gave them medical checks, especially cervical cancer screening, as well as digital literacy.”

    Ms. Ajayi said DOHS will always advocate rights of widows and vulnerable groups. She urged government to ensure widows are covered in its social protection network.

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    She added: “We will continue to advocate and sensitise people to why widows should be protected. We have a report on their challenges so, the government can take action.

    “We asked them if they have benefited from government They said no. So, we urge Lagos State to do the needful.”

    Pastor Funmi Eyeoyibo, of Ezra House Church, said the church helps the vulnerable because ‘we believe the essence of our faith is to demonstrate this to humanity’.

    She noted: “We know God has a special compassion for widows, orphans, strangers and the vulnerable. So, we’ve adopted a widow’s outreach to give back to society’’.

  • Lagos empowers 800 widows with N50,000 each

    Lagos empowers 800 widows with N50,000 each

    • Trains social workers in 57 councils

    The Lagos State Government will empower 800 widows with N50,000 each.

    Commissioner for Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation (WAPA), Mrs Cecilia Dada made this known during a briefing at Alausa to commemorate the International Widow’s Day (IWD).

    The gesture, she said, would ameliorate the challenges faced by widows in the state.

    The commissioner said the ministry has trained social workers in all 57 local councils in the state to respond to cases of violence against women.

    She added that slots were given to the grassroots through the local governments in most of the ministry’s empowerment programmes.

    According to her, the 800 beneficiaries were drawn from various Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs), faith-based groups, widows from Lagos State Social Register (LASSR), widows from political groups and vulnerable widows from the ministry’s register, who visited the ministry for assistance and source of livelihood.

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    “The ministry will continue to work with all stakeholders to achieve and accelerate the achievement of women including vulnerable widows by setting standards that will allow women to be independent and successful,” she said.

    She urged the beneficiaries to utilise the cash to support their businesses.

    She added that the challenges faced by widows are quite grievous and pathetic and this can only be rectified through access to good healthcare systems, qualitative education, a decent form of livelihood free from violence and abuse, and adequate justice for oppressed widows especially those denied of land and property rights.

    “All agents of socialisation must be effectively engaged to secure a society free from discrimination against widows. In this quest to protect the inheritance rights of widows, the family units are sensitised by the ministry towards getting all members of the society to treat women as human beings with equal human rights,” she said.

    She added that Lagos has joined the developed world in advocating and attaining the best international human rights practices which emphasise the equality of all persons.

    “The provisions of the law geared towards protecting the widow from discrimination cannot be said to be inadequate. The laws are, however, largely ineffective because laws alone cannot compel attitudinal change. It is in recognition of this fact that the Ministry of Women Affairs has been strategizing to ensure that some of these laws require the state to educate their populace to change negative societal norms and cultural practices through various ministerial programmes.”

    She noted that there has been a series of sensitisation and awareness campaigns in the past Widows’ Day on the rights of widows.

    “The practices that hinder gender development and empowerment are being discouraged. It is imperative to note that there is cultural transformation and effective legislative interventions for the enforcement of the inheritance rights of widows. The courts, across all levels, must continue to deliver judgments that declare such obnoxious cultural practices repugnant to natural justice, equity and good conscience.”

    She said that the ministry has a Legal Unit that assists widows through counselling and advocacy.

    “Printed simplified copies of the law are distributed at programmes to enable a significant number of women to become more aware of their rights under this law in Lagos State.”

    Mrs Dada noted that as part of the Ministry’s mandate, WAPA is sensitive to the needs of all vulnerable and indigent women of which the widows are not left out.

  • Foundation gives 200 widows food items

    Foundation gives 200 widows food items

    No fewer than 200 widows in Ibadan, Oyo State, have benefited from free food items at the 10th Widows Charity Empowerment and Prince FM 2024 Ramadan Lecture.

    The event, held at OTM Central Mosque, Ibadan was attended by the lawmaker representing Oyo South Senatorial District, Sen. Sarafadeen Alli; former Caretaker Chairman, Ibarapa Central Local Government, Sarafa Bibiire; a media guru, Abolade Salami, among others.

    Prince FM’s boss and founder of Oruomeniowo Charity Foundation, Dr. Babatunde Balogun, said the initiative was to put smiles on the faces of the less privileged, particularly widows, widowers and orphans.

    He said he had been running the foundation for over 10 years with the help of philanthropists, urging well-meaning Nigerians, including politicians, to support him to alleviate people’s suffering.

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    Popular cleric and an Islamic musician, Alhaji Abdulbasit Katibi, otherwise called ‘Aponle Anobi’, said it became necessary for people to make contentment their watchword, noting that lack of contentment had caused vices.

    Sen. Alli, represented by his aide, Kazeem Alimi, advised politicians to give back to their constituents.

    Bibiire, lauding President Bola Ahmed Tinubu for his effort at revamping the economy, noted that there should be consideration for widows and widowers.

    He urged Governor Seyi Makinde to strengthen the state’s economic framework, to reduce poverty.

  • Forgotten widows

    Forgotten widows

    Is it true that the wives of military officers who perished in the Ejigbo crash in 1992 are yet to be paid their benefits?

    This year’s Nigerian Armed Forces Remembrance Day may have come and gone, there are at least two issues that arose from its activities, at least as far as I am concerned. One was the report that wives of victims of the September 26, 1992 plane crash in Ejigbo, Lagos, were yet to get their dues, 31 years after. And, two, another report that children of military officers who died in the line of duty forfeit their chance of getting scholarship if they can’t secure admission once they are above 18 years of age.

    Let me start with the former.

    But before I proceed, it would be better to recap the Ejigbo disaster in which Nigeria lost a generation of young military officers, not in the war front, but in a period of relative peace at home. It happened on September 26, 1992, when a military plane, Hercules C-130, conveying 163 people, who were middle-ranking army, navy and air force officers, crashed about five minutes after take-off from Lagos. Some reports claimed there were 174 on board, or even 200, including some unidentified civilians, and possible military personnel who hitched a ride. However, a total 151 Nigerians, five Ghanaians, one Tanzanian, one Zimbabwean, and one Ugandan military officers were confirmed to have died, according to Wikipedia.

    The military officers were on their way to attend a staff college course in the north. Nigerians would remember the kinds of insinuations that trailed the crash, chief of which was the allegation that it was designed to happen, to check the restlessness among the middle ranking officers who were dissatisfied with the state of affairs in the country then.

     It sounds like it just happened yesterday but that was some 31 years before. To now be hearing that their widows had yet to be paid their entitlements is incredible. I know we can’t put anything beyond our system as a country, the fact is; if this is true, then it is the height of callousness.

    But because one should try not to be judgemental in an issue like this, it would be necessary to hear from the military authorities whether this claim is correct or not. Put differently, what kind of entitlement is being referred to here, because it is incredible that the military would not have paid the dependants of the dead officers a dime since their husbands died 31 years ago?

    The widows bared their mind in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, during the visit of the President of Defence and Police Officers’ Wives Association (DEPOWA), who is also wife of the Chief of Defence Staff (CDS), Mrs. Oghogho Musa, to distribute palliatives to wives of the fallen heroes. The gesture is an initiative of Department of Civil/Military Relationship, in conjunction with Office of the Wife of the CDS, in commemoration of the 2024 Armed Forces Remembrance Day.

    Oghogho, who was received by the General Officer Commanding, 6 Division, Nigerian Army, Major-Gen, Jamal Abdussalam, distributed cartons of noddles, bags of rice, beans and other foodstuff to the widows at the occasion.

    It was in the course of her giving the vote of thanks that one of the beneficiaries, Mrs. Folake Lasisi, the wife of late Lt.-Commander Lasisi of the Nigerian Navy, lamented that the entitlements meant for widows of the soldiers who died in the plane crash have not been released to them.

    According to her, some of the widows have died, which is natural because 31 years is too long a period to expect that all the beneficiaries would still be alive. As a matter of fact, some of the children left behind by the officers have also died.

    Lasisi said: “I am standing here as a representative of the widows of the Hercules C-130, plane crash on 26 September 1992. We the women, have not been given our entitlements after 31 years.

    “We want you to help us to take our message home to the mother of the nation, the First Lady and the Armed Forces too. We want to feel a sense of belonging, even though our husbands are no longer there. We want to feel that we are still in your midst. We want to feel a sense of belonging.’

    She added that “There are some things that are necessary for us to do and that is, our children. Some of them are not getting educational sponsorship. We want them to look at it and do something about it.”

    It is already more than a week since Mrs Lasisi made the allegation that the widows were yet to be paid their husbands’ benefits and we are yet to hear from the military authorities. Some people say the military cannot respond to such issues just like that. I don’t know what that is supposed to mean. If it is true that these women have been left to their own devices in the last 31 years, then the military should have responded as early as yesterday, beginning with a public apology and an assurance to do the rightful with immediate effect. And all of these within three to four months because a lot of time had been lost already, not due to the fault of these widows but because of systemic collapse or inefficiency. So, they should not be punished for this.

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    Even in normal times, we know what it is for the load of two people to now be carried by one, and the minor partner in the equation for that matter, in this instance. Even where both parties are working to keep the home going, we know it is not easy these days, given the rate of inflation and the general economic meltdown in the country.

    As a matter of fact, the military authorities must work towards paying the entitlements with interest because whatever the money could have bought if paid promptly is not the same that it would buy today. This is the only way to ensure fairness in this matter.

    But closure cannot be brought to this matter until we also know why this had happened at all or why it has indeed lingered. Are we sure these entitlements had not been released and cornered by some people? This is Nigeria where just everything is possible. Corruption is a thriving industry in the country and not

    even the military is exempt. We have seen how defence money had been stolen by some military chiefs in the past.

    This takes us to the issue of scholarship for the dead officers’ children. I don’t know whether the policy of such children forfeiting their scholarship once they don’t secure admission after 18 years is general with the military or peculiar to the Ejigbo victims’ children. Whatever it is, it is not the best that these children should get. The truth of the matter is that many children do not secure admission into higher institutions of their choice at that age. Even for those having both parents around and with the capacity to pay their school fees, it is not in all cases that the children make it to the university before they clock 18. Not to talk of a situation where only one parent, in most instances the mother, who now singlehandedly takes responsibility for the training of the children after their fathers’ demise. For the widows of the Ejigbo crash victims, it is even double jeopardy. They are not paid entitlements and they have responsibility to, say, three or four children. The tendency is for them to take one step at a time like, asking one child to wait for the other to finish secondary school because they can’t afford to send the two of them together. We know what it is like in a country where there are no scholarships, no structured help anywhere! How is it possible for children in such situation to make it to university before or by the time they are 18 years?

    What I am saying is that the military authorities have their job cut out for them. The country’s armed forces can only make little progress with treatment such as the one suffered by the wives of these young military officers who died in the Ejigbo crash. The military hierarchs must look out for the extant rules and regulations or directives and policies responsible for these kinds of treatment to the dependants of people who paid the supreme sacrifice for the country to be at peace. It is true that soldiers had signed to die for the country. This is huge a price on its own. To now realise that their children and wives or other dependants have no guaranteed future after they die in active service is more than enough disincentive to upcoming officers.

    The widows have pleaded with the president’s wife to intervene on their behalf. Although Mrs Oluremi Tinubu does not have any axe to wield directly in the circumstance; as a former governor’s wife and now the country’s first lady, she knows how to use her influence to get these women out of the predicament that Nigeria has put them. The widows too know she can be of help, that was why they specifically pleaded with her to come to their rescue.

    The Nigerian Armed Forces Remembrance Day should not be an occasion to review parades and do gun salute alone. It should be an occasion for sober reflections and tackling serious issues affecting the dependants of our fallen heroes if we do not want their clan to go into extinction. Just as we cannot afford to forget the heroes, we cannot also forget their widows. It is by doing both well that we can win the kinds of internal wars that the country is facing today.

  • Neglected widows

    Neglected widows

    It was ironic that at a recent event where palliatives were given to widows of deceased military officers in the South-South by the wife of the Chief of Defence Staff, Mrs Oghogho Musa, widows of military officers who died in the Hercules C130 military plane crash in Lagos, in December 1992, complained that the Nigerian military and the Federal Government had not paid them their late husbands’ entitlements, more than 30 years after the tragedy.

    The military-transport plane crashed soon after takeoff from Lagos, killing all 163 people aboard. It was said to have “nose-dived three minutes after takeoff into a swampy area.”  Many of the fatalities were said to be middle-ranking army, navy and air force officers on their way to a staff college course in the northern part of the country.

    At the event that took place at the headquarters of the 6 Division, Nigeria Army, Port Harcourt, Mrs Folake Lasisi, wife of late Navy Commander Lasisi, spoke “on behalf of the widows of the Hercules C130 plane crash on 26th December 1992.”

    “We women have not been given our entitlements,” she lamented. “After 31 years, we want to be remembered and they should review it and do something about it. Some of us have died, and some of our children have died, so please take this message back home to our mother, the mother of the nation, Mrs Oluremi Tinubu, so that the nation and the military will attend to our matter.”

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    She added: “We want to feel that sense of belonging even though our husbands are no longer there in our midst. We want to feel a sense of belonging and because of that there are some things that are necessary to do. There are some of our children who are not getting their educational sponsorship; we want you to look at it and do something about it.”

    Mrs Musa, who gave out the palliatives, said the event was part of activities lined up for the Armed Forces celebration and Remembrance Day of Year 2024, adding that the Defence Headquarters and the Defence and Police Officers’ Wives’ Association (DPOWA) deemed it appropriate to remember the country’s fallen heroes and give their families support.

    Also, the Chief of Defence Civil-Military Relations, Rear Admiral I.A. Dewu said the items distributed were a tangible expression of support to the families of those who made the ultimate sacrifice in the course of service to the nation.

    But the complaint and demand of the neglected widows marred the event. It is puzzling that they waited for such a long time before drawing attention to their pains. It is inexcusable that they have been abandoned for so long. The authorities should remedy their plight without further delay.