Tag: widows

  • Widows of violence; Police  Empowerment in war and peace

    Widows of violence; Police Empowerment in war and peace

    It is difficult to write anything meaningful with so much deliberate kidnapping, murder of orderlies and the carnage in the rank and file of the police recently just outside Lafia where, in 1975, I did my NYSC in the General Hospital. It was a pleasant memorable posting and we worked very hard for the people at that time. The recently bereaved police widows receiving a token N1m, or stopping traffic with protest dirges are very real and their pain is excruciating. That pain is no different from the pain of all the other widows of this new vicious violence in the country. Many get no compensation at all except from friends and family if they are lucky. We painfully add these 40+ new widows and their children and the police families to the long list of unsung suffering relations of bomb blast victims and those violently slaughtered on a daily basis in the brutal herdsman’s war against the farmers from many states on the North-South cattle corridor. We add the families of those killed almost like clockwork at the rate of 10 murders a day in the well-engineered bloody Hausa Fulani settler Vs indigene Plateau State crisis.

    Of course the police are no saints and many will remember the odious events of Odi and numerous other incidents including accidental discharge and checkpoint killings going back to ‘Kill and Go’ days when the citizen was on the receiving end. Recently it has been revealed what the police go through to get into the police service like purchase of the application form with maybe N30,000 and also the extreme hardship in training exposed by the award-winning Channels TV Corporate Social Responsibility Project documentary.

    We all know what it is like losing a breadwinner in a family when there is no ‘social network’ to provide the daily needs of sickness and education, housing and feeding.

    Almost every Nigerian police station had to sell its soul and start to put up shops along their perimeter fence during the years of the locusts. Of course the police officers women got involved, selling shops to each other and taking years of rent in advance from traders. Now the police is facing an unpredicted security breach as there are thousands of shops right on their doorsteps available for rent by anybody as few security checks are possible in Nigeria where we specialise in ignoring databases like the INEC, Passport, cell-phone SIM card registration, ID card and road safety databases and we destroy computer based systems to allow corruption.

    And when one dies, truth may just turn out to be a lie, someone must be wrong no matter how his argument is strong. Two groups carrying weapons paid for by Nigeria confronted each other over oil bunkering- Nigerian Security and Civil Defence Corps, NSCDC and the Police. We know the Police well and their track record. NSCDC is also not an unknown quantity. In fact rumour has it as largely incorruptible. Who was right?

    The police are fond of contradicting the body count and contesting it with NGOs and the mortuary. Hear them say ‘Only 22 died’. Meanwhile 50 families are searching the mortuaries and are fatherless, brotherless, motherless or childless as a result of the ‘Only 22’. The police’s ability to limit casualties is only matched by their spectacular ‘sirening’ around the country in their new vehicles. Recently yet another State Police Fund for a federal force was inaugurated. Does the federal government have no shame? With N884 or so billion/month can it not spare N5 or 10b to quickly equip the police to help fight this escalation unrest in Nigeria before we descend into total anarchy? Already the police are ‘legitimate’ targets of undeclared war in some states. As the police belong to the federal government, does the federal government not have any conscience or responsibility to finance and empower its own frontline security employees? It is shameful for the federal to expect the states to prop-up the police. The security vote in most states is a secret fund, probably illegal, a hangover slush fund from the military. It is time the security vote becomes part of the state budget, simple! It was pathetic to see the commissioner of police in the state introducing police trust fund again and inviting corporate Nigeria and concerned citizens to contribute. We have been down that road many times and after five or 10 vehicles have been bought the rest of the money always disappears down the malignant hole of corruption. So who is a fool and who is the criminal? Indeed many real criminals are wealthy and will also donate loudly to the fund for protection. Paradoxically we were told that the murdered police in Nasarawa State were well-equipped.

    The federal government needs to declare some form of police emergency to empower it to bring the police up to international standards starting from the on-going refurbishment of basic training facilities to databases and forensic laboratories. That would help solve unemployment. It is not only Aso Rock, governor’s offices, NASS and State assemblies that need furniture and equipment and transport and electric power. Watch the TV to see what police stations around the world look like, even South Africa with clean painted exterior and interior, good quality furniture, computers, stationery, camera, video camera, communications and internet linkages -all available in Nigeria but unused. As the nation hangs in the vicious balance between war and peace, what is planned role for the police?

     

  • Passengers stranded as widows block highway

    Nasarawa gives 1m cash to each widow

    Wives of police officers who were ambushed and killed by a cult group in Nasarawa State continued their protest yesterday.

    Most motorists and passengers were stranded for hours in Akwanga, where the protest took place. The women blocked the Akwanga-Lafia highway near the premises of the 38 Squadron of the Police Mobile Force with boulders, drums and signboards.

    The women started their protest last Friday.

    Transporters, including trucks, taxis, buses and transport companies like Nyanya Motors, New Nyanya Motors and Benue Link Express could not operate and their passengers returned home.

    Many commuters collected their fares.

    Prominent among those stranded was a former Vice-Chancellor of the Ahmadu Bello University, Prof. Daniel Saror.

    An angry protester was heard saying: “Since on Thursday, they will pack the women that lost their husbands to Lafia. They did not even give them a sachet of ‘pure’ water to drink there. They will keep them till evening and bring them back.”

    A stranded commuter, Mr Godwin Alumuku, said he had spent two days on the road because of the blockade.

    Alumuku said: “Yesterday when I got here (Akwanga), I could not pass. I had to sleep in a hotel on credit.

    “When there was a bomb blast in Boston, USA, President Barack Obama came there. If President Jonathan cannot come, why can’t he delegate a high official in his cabinet to come and address these women.

    “Despite my inability to reach my destination on schedule, I think one should sympathise with these widows. They have lost their husbands and by extension their breadwinners. I think the government should do something quickly before the situation degenerates.”

    The women wore black T-Shirts on top of their husbands’police uniforms. They sang: “Wayo, wayo, wayo, wayoyo. Them go kill our husbands, wayoyo, them go say na work o, wayoyo! Dem go kill our husband them go say na work o ye ye ye.”

    The women were all carrying cudgels with which they chased any motorists who dared to come near them. Motorcyclists were not spared. The women also did not allow bikes to be rolled past the blockade.

    A woman who spoke in confidence said they were angry because neither the Inspector-General of Police (IGP) Mohammed Abubakar nor the Governor Almakura has deemed it necessary to address and sympathise with them.

    She said they were angry that the IGP came to the area and left without asking to see the bereaved women.

    She added that they would only leave the road, if the authorities assured them of prompt payment of their husbands’ entitlement.

    She said they were not interested in the N1 million each promised by the governor.

    Some of them, however, collected the cheque yesterday. The Secretary to the State Government (SSG), Hajiya Zainab Abdulmumini, while presenting the cheques to the widows at the state police Headquarters, urged them to take solace in God.

    A widow, Mary Leis, who spoke at the presentation, urged the government to take care of widows whose husbands were yet to attain pensionable age.

    The Assistant Inspector-General of Police (AIG) Zone 1V, Michael Zuokumor, said the slain officers’ next of kin would be taken care of.

    He said: “I am assuring you all that God will take over your welfare and the ultimate price your husbands have paid for the country will never go unrewarded.”

    Priests, imams, traditional rulers, senior police officers were seen begging the women to clear the roads but they refused.

    Even when four buses took some of the women to Lafia to receive the cheques from the SSG, others refused to leave or allow any vehicle to cross the barricade.

    Some of the women sat on the rocks lined across the road while others stood around with cudgels to chase away intruders.

    Akwanga is a nodal town connecting many states in the Northcentral, such as Plateau, Kaduna, Benue, Abuja, among others.

    The women cleared the road at 4pm when after the return of their colleagues from Lafia.

    A woman, who spoke in confidence, said: “We cleared the road because our colleagues that lost their husbands who went to Lafia said they have been given N1million each to bury their husbands.

    “They promised to address all our demands by Friday this week. But if they fail, we will return to the road and continue our protest.”

    A police officer believed to be a member of the proscribed ‘Ombatse’ militia and one other person were said to have been arrested in Lafia yesterday.

    The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), Michael Ada, denied knowledge of the arrest, but the Deputy Governor, Danjuma Joseph confirmed it.

     

     

  • 1,000 widows, divorcees in mass wedding in Kano

    One thousand widows and divorcees were on Saturday given out in marriage under the third batch of mass wedding organised by the Hisbah Board of the Kano State Government.

    The wedding ceremony (Fatiha) in Kano was conducted at the Kano Central Mosque under the supervision of Gov. Rabi’u Kwankwaso who served as the father of the grooms.

    The wedding of 21 brides was conducted at the headquarters of each of their local government areas of the state as part of efforts to decentralise the programme.

    Kwankwaso commended traditional rulers and Islamic scholars in the state for ensuring the success of the programme.

    He urged the couples to live in peace in order to sustain the relationship.

    The governor also used the occasion to pray for the sustenance of peace in the state.

    The Commander-General of the board, Sheik Aminu Daurawa, said “this is the first time in the history of the country that 1,000 widows and divorcees are being joined in wedlock at a time’’.

    He said the board had set aside N10 million to be paid as bride prices in addition to providing essential items for the couples.

    The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that 1,350 women have so far been married under the mass wedding programme which started in May 2012

  • Council boss provides jobs tools for widows, the elderly

    Council boss provides jobs tools for widows, the elderly

    THE leadership of Somolu Local Government Area, Lagos State, has cheered up the aged, widows, artisans, market women, among others, in the council.

    The chairman of the council, Hon. Gbolahan Bago-Stowe provided them with various jobs tools.

    The event took place during the inauguration of the Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu Recreation Centre in the area.

    He said: “As a responsible and responsive government, it is our duty to put in place a good, secure and comfortable  recreation centre for our citizens. It will also provide a platform for the people to learn indoor games such as scrabble, chess, dart, snooker, ludo, Ayo, etc.”

    Bago-Stowe stated that the recreation centre will have 24-hour security and floodlight for the comfort and safety of users.

    He also said: “The economic recession has created more hardship for our people due to an increase in unemployment. In view of this problem, the executives have to come up with an empowerement programme so that our people can be self-employed in order to meet up with the present challenges.”

    The items donated included sewing and grinding machines, generator sets, hair dryers, clippers, among others.

    Hon. Bago-Stowe advised the beneficiaries to make the best use of their equipment in order to justify the aims of the council.

    Professor Tunde Samuel who represented former governor of Lagos State Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu at the ceremony, said that the National Leader of the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) was unable to attend the event owing to his busy schedules.

    Also speaking at the event, the state Commissioner for Local Government and Chieftaincy Affairs, Hon Ademorin Kuye described the ultra-modern recreation  centre built by Somolu Local Government as another monument, reflecting the conscious effort by “our local governments to show that grassroots administration in Lagos  State are purpose-driven, people-oriented and are set out to complement the unparalleled efforts of the state administration in creating a functional, secure, prosperous and liveable environments for  investors and tourists for the attainment of a mega-city status.”

    He said that the 57 Local Government and Local Council Development Areas in Lagos State are in a keen competition in their quest to enhance the standard of life in the state.

  • Council boss provides jobs tools  for widows, the elderly

    Council boss provides jobs tools for widows, the elderly

    THE leadership of Somolu Local Government Area, Lagos State, has cheered up the aged, widows, artisans, market women, among others, in the council.

    The chairman of the council, Hon. Gbolahan Bago-Stowe provided them with various jobs tools.

    The event took place during the inauguration of the Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu Recreation Centre in the area.

    He said: “As a responsible and responsive government, it is our duty to put in place a good, secure and comfortable  recreation centre for our citizens. It will also provide a platform for the people to learn indoor games such as scrabble, chess, dart, snooker, ludo, Ayo, etc.”

    Bago-Stowe stated that the recreation centre will have 24-hour security and floodlight for the comfort and safety of users.

    He also said: “The economic recession has created more hardship for our people due to an increase in unemployment. In view of this problem, the executives have to come up with an empowerement programme so that our people can be self-employed in order to meet up with the present challenges.”

    The items donated included sewing and grinding machines, generator sets, hair dryers, clippers, among others.

    Hon. Bago-Stowe advised the beneficiaries to make the best use of their equipment in order to justify the aims of the council.

    Professor Tunde Samuel who represented former governor of Lagos State Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu at the ceremony, said that the National Leader of the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) was unable to attend the event owing to his busy schedules.

    Also speaking at the event, the state Commissioner for Local Government and Chieftaincy Affairs, Hon Ademorin Kuye described the ultra-modern recreation  centre built by Somolu Local Government as another monument, reflecting the conscious effort by “our local governments to show that grassroots administration in Lagos  State are purpose-driven, people-oriented and are set out to complement the unparalleled efforts of the state administration in creating a functional, secure, prosperous and liveable environments for  investors and tourists for the attainment of a mega-city status.”

    He said that the 57 Local Government and Local Council Development Areas in Lagos State are in a keen competition in their quest to enhance the standard of life in the state.

     

  • A lift for widows  in Rivers

    A lift for widows in Rivers

    Despair has given way for scores of widows in Port-Harcourt, capital of Rivers State. They got cash. They got food. They got clothing. And, above all, they got love from where all those gifts came.

    Their benefactor was the Divine Elects Sapphires Club (DESC), a non-denominational group of Christian professionals.

    The widows’ emotions got the better of them. One launched forward with outstretched arms and embraced the club’s president, Mr Anthony Oko-Ikpor. Others had tears flowing down their cheeks, but they were tears of joy.

    The DESC gave each widow who turned up at the event a bag of rice, a piece of Ankra cloth, N10,000 cash and condiments to cook the rice, among other things.

    Overwhelmed by the gesture, Mrs Hannah Etitinwo from Elekahia community in the state capital recalled how unkind life has been for her since she lost her husband years ago.

    To worsen matters for her since 2007, an ailment left her dependent on medicine and hot water.

    “I drank medicine until the medicine in the chemist’s shop almost finished. It was since this year that I told God that He must heal me and since then I have been receiving favour,” she said.

    Mrs Ibiada Eugene from Bukuma-Agum in Degema Local Government Area of Rivers State, Mrs Alice Patrick who came from Port-Harcourt as well as many other widows who benefited from the kind gesture also had similar stories of sorrow to tell.

    With tearful eyes, they prayed for the progress of DESC for sparing a thought for them in a society that is fast becoming too individualistic.

    Addressing the widows, the President of DESC, Mr Oko-Ikpor said that the club embarks on philanthropic services from time to time and that it considered it worthwhile to bring widows together and show them love.

    Oko-Ikpor also told them that just as the club gave them a surprise message to come and collect these items, they would still be called upon to receive empowerment but all they have to do is to believe that with God all things are possible.

    Words of exhortation also came from a member of the Board of Trustees of the club, Mr Ndubuisi Oti who advised the widows to cast their burdens on God who is always the husband of the widows.

     

  • Women society lifts 50 widows

    Women society lifts 50 widows

    The funding of the International Women Society’s Skills Acquisition Centres across the country got a boost when Skye Bank, Fidelity Bank Plc and Small World, among others donated over N10 million to the society. The donations and pledges were made at the investiture of the society’s 2013/2014 newly-elected executive members at the Civic Centre, Victoria Island, Lagos. The society plans to give 50 widows grants to establish their own businesses this year. The president, Mrs Grace Nakubyana Kalango, said women would be the thrust of her tenure.

    The Zambian-born Mrs Kalango, who sought the cooperation of the corporate sector and the women towards making the goal realisable, therefore, pledged to financially endow widows for the economic sustenance of their families.

    ”I’m proud of being the IWS president because I know the various accomplishments of the IWS in time past and this knowledge makes me feel proud and happy to serve as president. I will endeavour to work hand-in-hand with other women to realise the lofty goals and ambitions that we have set for ourselves in this tenure, largely because I also know there can be no meaningful development without cooperation.

    ”Education will be the bedrock and thrust of our goal for this tenure and I intend to endow 50 widows with the support and cooperation of corporate organisations and our sponsors. This is to ensure that these women rise above being mere petty traders to engaging in meaningful and lofty businesses of economic empowerment for themselves and their families,” pledged Mrs Kalango.

    The investiture ceremony, which was chaired by Mr Tunde Folawiyo also attracted financial pledges by the Zambian High Commissioner in Nigeria, Mr Paul William Lumbi, who was represented by the Defence Attache at the Lagos Ofiice.

    On plans by her executive to ensure proper utilisation of the money by the beneficiaries, Mrs Kalango explained that the money was not to be given as loans but as grants, adding that the aspect of monitoring would be concluded by the incoming executive as is the tradition of the society.

    Mrs Kalango, who assumes office as the 56th president of the over five decade-old organisation, had served as vice president in the immediate out-gone executive, and is also the Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer (CEO) of Towdah Travel and Tours Limited, a Lekki, Lagos-based travel firm, as well as the Founder of the Grazie Fashion House.

    The International Women’s Society was founded in 1957 in Lagos by a group of international public-spirited women from various parts of the world but who are predominantly resident in Nigeria, and with the major aim of fostering, promoting and advancing the cause of women and children primarily in Nigeria.

    The 22-member executive committee for the 2013/2014 term sworn-in at the investiture ceremony which was conducted by Her Excellency, Mrs. Amina Ahmadu include: Mrs Folasade Oyeniyi (Vice President), Mrs Nkoli Oggolu (Secretary), Mrs Audrey Joe-Ezigbo (Programme Secretary), Ms tokunbo Edowaye-Iyamu (Membership Secretary), Hajiya Zainab Saleh (Newsletter Editor), Mrs Elsa Bishop (Skills Acquisition Centre Chairperson), Mrs Nike Bakare- Ajayi (Legal Advisor), and others, alongside a five-member ex office that includes; dame Marie Fatayi-Williams, Mrs Gbemi Sasore, Mrs Bimbo Bawaallah, Mrs Nkiru Anumudu and Chief (Dr) Katia Ekesi.

  • 3,000 widows pray for peace in Nigeria  

    3,000 widows pray for peace in Nigeria  

    No fewer than 3,000 widows from 45 communities in Aguata Anglican Diocese converged on Oko to stage a prayer for peace in Nigeria.

    The prayer session, which was led by Dame Ngozi Nzeka, was held last weekend at St John’s Anglican Church, Oko, near former Vice President Ekwueme’s residence. At the event tagged Widow’s Day 2013, of the Aguata Diocesan Social Welfare Committee (widows fellowship unit), wife of the Anambra State Governor, Mrs Margaret Peter Obi lamented the number of registered widows in Aguata diocese. She urged the widows not to relent in praying for Nigeria and particularly for the transition election in Anambra State which comes up in November.   She donated N500,000, 100 wrappers and 100 bags of rice to the widows fellowship, saying that she was not aware the number of widows was that large while coming but assured to continue to support them.

    She thanked the Archbishop, Province of the Niger, Bishop of Aguata Diocese, Most Reverend Christian Efobi and wife Dame Jane Nkiruka Efobi (JP) who is the President, Mothers Union/Women Guild of the diocese for the way they are piloting the affairs of the women, especially the widows in the diocese.   Obi’s wife reminded the widows that they cannot do anything without the grace of God and traced her mission with widows since 2006 when she assumed office as she has visited each of the 177 communities in the state thrice championing the welfare of widows.  She praised the Chaplian Reverend Canon Victor Ezeibe for his passion in the widow’s ministry. Most Reverend Christian Efobi said registered widows in the diocese are 3,139 and another 86 old widows who cannot join in the event of the day. He said a day was set aside for widows in the diocese to honour them, pray for them and share in their joys and pains reminding them that a chaste widow lacks nothing because God is always her strength.

  • Association caters for widows, orphans

    Association caters for widows, orphans

    The Navy Officers’ Wives Association (NOWA) has assured that it will adequately cater and protect widows and orphans of naval officers.

    President of the association, Mrs. Vivian Ezeoba, who was in Calabar on a familiarisation visit to NOWA facilities said: “Some of our members who are widows will receive appropriate attention. Measures have been put in place to ensure that they are adequately protected and catered for.

    “I want to ensure that widows and orphans among us are taken care of. These children are intelligent but have nobody to pay their way to school.”

    She said her priority was to ensure that members of the association acquire necessary skills to help them in their endeavours.

    Ezeoba, who was at the headquarters of the Eastern Naval Command, said that plans were already on to set up acquisition centres for the less-privileged ones among them.

    “I am interested in setting up skills acquisition centres for members to help them acquire the necessary skills for their endeavours as this will empower them and further boost their economy well-being,” she said.

    Responding, the Flag Officer Commanding Eastern Naval Command, Rear Admiral Joseph Aikhomu said that the command was ready to support the activities of NOWA.

    Aikhomu said the command was doing its best to ensure the safety of the maritime environment within Calabar and other states under the it.

  • NGO lifts widows at anniversary

    NGO lifts widows at anniversary

    A non-governmental organisation (NGO), Green and White Initiative has donated materials to show love to the widows and indigent students.

    The materials, donated during the Yuletide, included food items, garments and household utensils.

    The gesture was to mark the NGO’s first year anniversary.

    The ceremony held at Anthony Village campus of Lagos State University (LASU).

    The NGO, which adopted green and white colours, was founded in 2011 to cater for the basic needs of indigent widows and deprived youths who cannot afford basic education. When it took off, scores of widows received ready-made clothing materials and food items.

    Speaking at the programme with the theme A society without you, the coordinator of the organisation, Ms Chinwe Osuagwu, noted that the initiative came into existence out of necessity, adding that the NGO brought message of hope to the less privileged in the society.

    Osuagwu, who is a 400-Level student of History and International Relations in LASU, said she could not withstand situation when there is no basic need to keep life going, saying her personal experience led to the establishment of the NGO.

    “It moves me when people are hungry because I have also experienced poverty at its crudest form. There were times I could not afford to buy recharge cards and other basic things I needed as a person. Anybody who has passed through this condition will know how it feels to be on the poverty line. I believe this condition can be changed in the lives of so many people if these essential materials are made available to the needy,” Osuagwu said.

    She advised youths to have a clear purpose, saying if one has a determined will, he could become a good story out of the slum. She eulogised the late Mrs Ngozi Agbo, her childhood friend and former The Nation’s Campus Life coordinator, who she said was the force behind the founding of the NGO.

    Speaking on theme of the programme, Dr Blessing Ayinkwa of Faculty of Education, University of Lagos (UNILAG) noted that if society must be better, its youth population must be engaged positively and productively.

    The don emphasised on mass education for illiterate parents as panacea for societal failure, saying adults must be educated to lecture the youth coming after their generation.

    “Today, television is full of entertainment and it is the youths making it happening. Parents no longer tell their wards to read again; they rather encourage their children to be Miss World. But when the child becomes Miss Universe without knowledge, she will come back to the society to make it worse,” Dr Ayinkwa argued, urging youths to be advocates of change and role models.

    Earlier, Reverend Geoffrey Ibezie, Osuagwu’s pastor, urged people to support the initiative to change the condition of the needy in the society.

    After the lecture, the widows present at the event joined members of the organisation to cut the cake of the anniversary. Afterwards, garment materials and food items were donated to the women.