Tag: widows

  • Widows, farmers get a lift in Niger

    For the two needy women, despair has given way. Hajia Kunu Musa and Mrs. Raliatu Laisi, both widows, got a lift from an empowerment programme launched by Hon. Abdullahi Garba in his constituency in Niger State. The lawmaker, of the All Progressives Congress (APC), represents Kontagora/Wushishi/Mariga/Mashegu Federal Constituency.

    On May 28, he invited his constituents to give back to them.

    During the event, Hajia Musa, a 50-year widow from Mariga Local Government Area of the state, relived how difficult life was for her.

    “I am 50 years old with eight children,” she said. “My husband died about 15 years ago, so it’s been difficult but I run a local restaurant which I use to take care of their welfare. I believe that is my fate.”

    She got a complete set of grinding machine which she said will be used to mill grains to support her family.

    “With this grinding machine given to me free, I will be able to make more money for the family by grinding corn, potato, tomatoes and now that is fasting period, people do lots of grinding, no doubt it will help my family.”

    Her story was not really different from others, especially farmers crippled by poor or non-functioning farm equipment.

    Unlike many empowerment strictly tailored for indigenes, this seem to have extended to residents from other parts of the country such as the South East, South West and other regions.

    Mrs. Laisi was one of those residents from the South West, whose husband also died 20 years ago. At age 65, she managed to train her children but got a new deep freezer. “I am so excited. I pray that God will surprise him as well because I don’t know I will be among those that will get this new freezer.” When asked if it will make any impact on her livelihood, the reaction on her face was like the reporter could not comprehend her hardship. “I will use it to sell juice, water and other cold drinks and as I do this, I will always remember him in prayers.” She lauded the humanitarian gesture of the lawmaker, stressing that the intervention would help cater for needs of the four children.

  • Foundation makes case for widows

    No fewer than 200 widows of Ota in Ado-Odo/Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State have been empowered by the Dayo Eleku Foundation and Octagon Initiative. The groups provided food items, cash and scholarships for their children.

    The event tagged “The Strength of a Widow’’, according to Adedayo Akindele Eleku, the initiator of the foundation, was part of activities lined up to mark his birthday and the foundation’s fifth anniversary.

    He said giving succor to the less-privileged people in the society feel and giving them a sense of belonging informed the establishment of the foundation. He stressed that there was need for the society to help widows in the task of bringing up their children.

    Eleku, also the state Secretary, Amalgamated Motorcycle Riders of Nigeria, Ogun State chapter, said the widows needed to be celebrated and respected, noting that it was why  he decided to celebrate his birthday with them rather than do so with friends at a beer/pepper soup joint.

    The Chairman of Ado-Odo/Ota Local Government Area, Oladele Adeniji, commended Mr. Eleku for his gesture, even as he urged Nigerians to emulate him.

    Speaking on behalf of the beneficiaries, Mrs Rashidat Akinlosose thanked the initiator for the gesture, saying she was delighted about the programme. She prayed that God would continue to bless and give him long life.

    The guest speaker, Mr Adekanmi Fadare, said widowhood was not restricted to only those who were already widows. “It is a phenomenon that will continue to be witnessed in every society,’’ he said.

    He said marriage is a blessing and that a couple would rather strive to be successful in their relationship.

    “It is, however, important that before going ahead with such a life-time relationship, we must have prepared ourselves for the good, the bad and all other such outcomes that are associated with marriages,’’ he said.

    Fadare, an Assistant Editor at Octagon Magazine, decried the rate at which widows are maltreated in the society, adding that it is frightening. According to him, Nigeria has over eight million widows with about 23 million children.

    “It is heartbreaking seeing what widows in Nigeria go through. What I mean is that this is what we all see every day and everywhere in our society. From one part of the society to another, there is always a widow close to us, hence the awareness of the inhumane treatment meted out to this class of unfortunate people.

    “Because customs allowed a lot of these things, it is fast becoming an unbearable yoke. I believe this defines religions because sometimes people will merge tradition and religion. When you examine religion, tradition and human dignity, people with conscience would then start to think that these things are not proper because widows are either someone’s mother, sister or daughter.

    “So, we believe it is something we need to add our voices to, and apart from trying to lend our voices and other support efforts, we  think if others begin to condemn the act and desist from practising them, then the time to end the obnoxious custom may have come.’’

    Continuing, he said: “When you talk about widowhood in Nigeria, the problem is much bigger than anyone can imagine, and unfortunately we also discovered that most of the children of some widows have dropped out of school upon the death of their bread winners.

    “To ensure that most of them go back to school, people should assist them financially. Other areas that will be of benefit to the widows are the establishment of medical scheme to support some of their children, donation of food and other materials.’’

    Fadare said the best way to encourage widows is for the wealthy individuals, society, religious bodies, and non-governmental organisations (NGOs) to regularly organise programmes for them. He suggested that loans, grants or empowerment schemes be offered to widows, adding that efforts should be made to encourage them to start some trade.

    “If such grant is coming as a start-up; there must be close supervision. Although I strongly believe a widow would put such money into something good rather than squander it, when you give more than 10 people money, there are tendencies that one or two may not make good use of it.

    Thus, regular monitoring is necessary, so that most of them can have access to good life. For instance, I have come across a widow that was given N300, 000 barely a year ago and now she has increase it to over N1 million. That was cheery enough. And the organisation that gave the money would be encouraged to do even more for others,’’ he added.

    Fadare urged widows not to allow anybody to trample on their rights. “A widow has rights to basic amenities, normal life, their deceased spouses’ property and estate and to inheritance. However, it goes beyond just fighting for your rights as a widow.’’ He traced their problems to mere ignorance.’’

    He praised Dayo Eleku Foundation for its “End Widows’ Maltreatment Campaign’’.

    “Once we are able to end the maltreatment,” he said, “all other things would become non-issue. When people stop maltreating widows by denying them of their right to inheritance, our society would be better for it. When we start to experience a situation where we can abolish maltreatment of widows, then every other thing would be sorted out.

    “Then, the widow will no longer be maltreated or ejected from the house where she struggled to build with her husband or denied the happiness of living a normal life with or without a child,’’ he said.

    The guest speaker urged the government, traditional rulers, chiefs, village heads and community leaders as well as politicians to assist widows.

    He said the process of eliminating obnoxious customs goes beyond sending a bill to the National Assembly.

     

  • Why I’m committed to helping widows –QUEEN BLESSING EBIGIESON

    NOLLYWOOD actress Queen Blessing Ebigieson who recently held her annual program called Queen Blessing Foundation QBF Widows Support Programs has revealed why she’s passionate about helping widows.

    The ebony-complexioned lady who was inspired to have a foundation catering for such women believes that God hears their prayers faster, hence she holds QBF Widows Support Programs annually in different communities across the country.

    This year’s program which is the fourth was hosted in Affenmai community, precisely at the old post office Okugbe roundabout in Okpella, Edo State and hundreds of widows came for the empowerment program.

    According to Ebigieson who recently released her movie, My Fate and Change of Fate, online, she would have loved to do more as she was limited by the resources at her disposal.

    “QBF is determined to put smiles on the faces of widows every year,” she said.

    “I have known first-hand what it means not to have anything. That is why I commit myself to keep the poor happy and give them hope for a brighter future. I believe in honesty, hard work and faith in the almighty God.”

    QBF has been sustained with the immense support of patrons like Professor Pat Utomi, Mr Jimi Agbaje, HRM Alhaji Dr Dirisu and Mrs Chinyere Nwabueze to name a few.

  • The merry widows of Masaba

    You must remember Malam Abubakar Bello Masaba who passed recently. May Allah grant him eternal repose. While he was alive, snooper followed the saga of the multi-spouse and multi-purpose man of  Bida emirate with a mixture of amusement and apprehension. Snooper could not understand what all the fuss about this redoubtable man of means and member was all about, particularly since in this age of mass unemployment the man was providing gainful employment for eighty six women, and all of the women appeared to be in fine fettle judging from the pictures.

    Snooper was  bit rusty about his native laws and their authority. First, the intrepid malam was ordered to divorce all but four of his spouses in strict compliance with Islamic tenets. When this did not appear to be working, our man was issued with a swift deportation order. And when he appeared tardy and tacky about leaving town, the law came for him in its full weight.

    This was where the story began to read like some magical stuff out of the Arabian night entertainment of yore. Hell hath no fury than aroused spouses.  Driven to vengeful fury by the plight of their husband, the Masaba wives staged a public demonstration protesting the persecution of their main man. It was a colourful carnival, a rainbow coalition of carnality. Snooper knows a beautiful woman when he sees one, and many of these women, even if age has roughed them up a little bit, could have stepped out of a beauty pageant in their early days.

    Their precise states of origin and the origin of their states have already sparked off an internet firefight between a Benin princeling and a Hausa noble man of the extinct Habe dynasty.  Among Masaba’s prize collection are Buroro beauties, Edo damsels, Oburo queens from ancient Oyo, Ibo wenches, Efik brunettes and imported eves from the old slave coast. Some of them even look like delectable quadroons from the old slave plantation in North Carolina.

    Snooper has been doing some elementary calculations. If Malam Masaba were to fulfil his conjugal obligations to his bevy of beauties, it would mean calling at least three of them to the matrimonial mattress everyday with Friday set aside for prayers and purification. Even by the standard set by Fela Anikulapo, that would be a prodigious feat of physical exertion headed for the Guinness Book of World Record. So rather than persecuting the old man, we ought to have sent him to the Olympics to augment our miserable haul of medals? Enter him for a new category of Bedminton and at over eighty years the man would have set a world record even before entering the field or the bed.

    It was with much hilarity and expectation that snooper took the puzzle and the picture to Baba Lekki,  the old rebel and philosopher of racial integration, at his temporary headquarters in Ogba where he claimed to be monitoring some urgent political developments. Upon seeing me and the picture, the old man burst into a prolonged smile of deranged excitement. He already knew what was happening.

    “So tell me, that means say Alhaji Masaba don become Alhaji Mësaaba, abi no be so?” he queried with much mirth and merriment.

    “Bros, what is that?  Why are you adding your own confusion to an already confused situation?” I asked him in mock anger.

    “Listen, don’t be a fool. For Yoruba language, when a hen wan hatch him egg dem say he dey saba, abi no be so? So when dem ask man make he no hatch him egg again no be mësaba bi dat one? Abi which kind yeye fool be this one?” the man growled, feigning annoyance. Snooper burst into a loud laugh, marvelling at the linguistic ingenuity of the old crook.

    “It is a pity dem no dey talk about polyandry abi na only polygamy dem sabi?” the old crank pursued with a severe frown.

    “Bros, what is that one again?” snooper asked.

    “Polygamy is when a man is married to many wives. Polyandry is when a woman is married to many husbands. One rich Yoruba woman for gutter in Idumota come get six husbands. One na him driver, another na him clerk, the third one dey wash him clothes, the fourth one na him mai-guard, the fifth one na him messenger and the six na him vulcaniser who dey pump tyre for midnight. Shikena, case don finish”, the old man noted tersely and dismissed snooper.

  • We pray these birds change our lives, say widows

    We pray these birds change our lives, say widows

    Some of the 500 widows empowered to become poultry farmers by wife of Governor Godwin Obaseki, Betsy, have expressed optimism that the 20, 000 birds given to them would make them become millionaires.

    Mrs. Obaseki, as part of activities to mark the International Women’s Day celebration, launched the “Edo Women for Agricultue Programme” in which she doled out 40 birds each to 500 widows after training them on how to rear birds. The 40 birds made up of 20 layers and 20 boilers.

    The beneficiaries described the gesture as a good omen in their lives as it would make them self sufficient as feeds were also given to them.

    One of the widows who gave her name as Juliet Aibangbee said she preferred the birds to money as she would now be engaged in productive venture. She said they were promised during the training programme that a ready market would be provided for their products.

    Another beneficiary, who simply gave her name as Mrs. Glory, said they were told the High breed birds do not die easily and were capable of laying five to six eggs daily.

    Plans to empower widows in the state began during the electioneering campaign of Obaseki when he promised to pay monthly stipend to 100 widows at the first instance. However, there was a change of plan to rather make the widows income earners by making them key into various agricultural initiatives of his administration.

    Speaking at the launch of the “Edo Women for Agricultue Programme”, Mrs. Obaseki said she observed that giving out monthly stipend would just be pocket money for the beneficiaries and such she advised that the money be invested on productive ventures for the widows with a view to ensuring food security.

    Mrs. Obaseki promised that any widow that successfully managed the 40 birds would be further empowered as the initiative was to boost the production capacity of rural women, tackle food shortages and poverty.

    She said the birds were special breed capable of laying five to six eggs daily and would ensure steady income for the widows.

    Her words: “I am not surprised my husband is seeking to collaborate with the church because when we were campaigning, my husband promised to select 100 widows for the next four years, and give them monthly stipend.

    “But I think it is better to empower the widows than to give them money. Therefore, we have developed an empowerment project for the widows by collaborating with Bank of Industry and Edo state will be lucky to be the pilot scheme.

    “We will create a revolution in rural poultry production that will increase productivity and income for rural women and empower them to transform access of poor households to source animal protein.

    “I brought the best company in poultry business to ensure food security. The demand for chicken and eggs is very high. We will create market for the widows to sell the birds.

    “After we succeed with this, we will extend it to thousands of women. I will churn out initiatives for women to have opportunities to be rich.

    “We are not doing politics, we are doing governance. Edo indigenes are allowed to join this administration. We will not behave like people with small minds. This is no time for politics.”

    Deputy Governor Philip Shaibu said the widows might have been expecting to go home with sewing machines, motorcycles and hair dressing machines, but the governor’s wife, working in line with All Progressives Congress (APC) change mantra gave them chickens, which they could rear and make money.

  • Mass wedding for 1,520 divorcees, widows in Kano 

    The Kano State government at the weekend conducted mass wedding for 1, 520 divorcees and widows at the Kano Central mosque.

    The wedding, sponsored by the government, was conducted simultaneously in the 44 council areas.

    Governor Abdullahi Ganduje, who climaxed activities at the Government House Coronation Hall, reminded the couples that marriage requires endurance, perseverance, patience and understanding, adding that the mass wedding was to halt the rampant indiscriminate divorce cases.

    Commissioner for Information Mohammad Garba, who supervised the wedding in Bukure, said it was sponsored by the government to curtail the rising number of widows and divorces.

    Garba gave N20,000 each to representatives of the grooms as dowry and the government provided the couples with free furniture and other essential household items.

  • Okorocha’s wife’s shelter for widows project earns praise

    Okorocha’s wife’s shelter for widows project earns praise

    No fewer than 134 two-bedroom bungalows have been built for widows in Imo State. Though a lot more needs to be done, wife of the state governor Mrs Nneoma Okorocha has been praised for putting up these shelters for indigent women who lost their husbands and breadwinners.

    The Correspondents’ Chapel of the Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ) Imo State Council showered praise on Mrs Okorocha, saying her feat was unprecedented in the state.

    Mrs Okorocha through her pet project, She Needs A Roof Project (SNARP) constructed over 134 two-bedroom bungalows for the indigent widows across the 27 Local Government Areas of the State.

    For this act of kindness and care for the abandoned and less privileged of the society, the Imo governor’s wife was conferred with the award of the ‘Most Outstanding Governor’s Wife’ by the Chapel.

    Speaking during the presentation of the Award at the New Concorde Hotel Owerri, the Chairman of the Chapel, Mr. Athan Agbakwuru said that the award was in recognition of the efforts of the governor’s wife in alleviating the plight of the indigent widows and other vulnerable people in the state.

    He explained that the award was in appreciation of the uncommon feat recorded by the wife of the Governor and to spur her to do more for the indigent people in the state.

    According to Agbakwuru, the recipient, through the SNARP project, has been able to save the lives of hundreds of widows who were hitherto living in “despicable squalors” without any hope of succour.

    He noted further that the Award is not among the politically motivated ones but a genuine symbol of appreciation by a section of the society that is known to criticise almost all the projects and programmes of government.

    He said, “The success story of the Rochas Okorocha administration cannot be complete without mention of the gross input of the SNARP initiative. This great and noble woman has built over 174 two-bedroom bungalows for indigent widows and orphans across the 27 Council Areas of the state. Besides that, she has also established three Skill Acquisition Centres in the three Senatorial Zones of the State.

    “As [the] ever vigilant watchdog of the society, the Chapel after meticulous consideration, tipped her for this rare honour and recognition. She has surpassed her predecessors and contemporaries alike in all ramifications. Above all, the SNARP and the Skill Acquisition Programmes have been found to have no partisan coloration as beneficiaries are drawn from among those who are genuinely in need of succour, irrespective of political and religious affiliations”.

    Also speaking at the event, the National Vice President of NUJ (Southeast), Deacon Chris Isiguzo, who presented the Award, said that the Award met the set standard of the Union, especially after considering the impact of the SNARP project.

    He pointed out that it is the responsibility of the NUJ to ensure that public office holders are accountable to the people, adding that what the recipient is doing should be emulated by other wives of governors across the country.

    Isiguzo who was accompanied by the NUJ Secretary Zone C (Southeast), Comrade Kenneth Oforma and the Chairman of the Enugu State Council of the NUJ, Comrade Rex Chinweuba, commended the governor’s wife for her vision and commitment in making life meaningful for the indigent widows and other downtrodden.

    According to him, “when we received the letter that the Correspondents’ Chapel of the NUJ, Imo State wants to give Award to the governor’s wife due to her achievements, we conducted our own investigations before confirming the letter. Without mincing words, the national leadership of the NUJ and the Imo State Council of NUJ endorsed this Award and are behind the Correspondents’ Chapel in this well-deserved honour on the First Lady of Imo State”.

    In a similar vein, the President of Igbo Media Professionals, Apostle Victor Sorokwu, said that the achievements of the Imo Governor’s wife, is a further testimony of the Igbo spirit.

    He noted that unlike the pet projects of other Governors’ wives, which he said are often conduit pipes for siphoning state resources, the SNARP has made housing available for a section of the society that has been abandoned, adding that the project should be adopted by the Federal and State Governments.

    Also in his comments, the member representing Onuimo Local Government Area in the State House of Assembly, Hon Chinedu Offor, commended the recipient for her genuine love and compassion for the needy.

    Offor, a correspondent of the Voice of America (VOA) before he joined politics in 2011, added that, “throughout the 15 years I worked for VOA, I covered the activities of presidents, governors and top public office holders, [but] none has given succour to the needy like Okorocha’s wife”.

    He said the governor’s wife’s achievements have helped to “eliminate the obnoxious widowhood practices,” and that they are “worth rewarding with a Noble Peace Prize”.

    The Chairman of the event, Prof. Nnamdi Obiareri, said that the uncommon achievements record by the recipient through her projects, which has alleviated the sufferings of the vulnerable people in the state, rightly justified the Award.

    Responding, the wife of the Governor, said that the Award coming from a non-partisan but a critical group of people like journalists will certainly motivate her to continue to contribute to making life better for the less privileged.

    She commended the Chapel for their commitment to the activities for the SNARP, adding that the cooperation of the journalists has brought the need awareness that has watered the success of the project.

    She said, “This is one of the awards that have touched my heart specially. This is so because it is coming from a section of people that has been with me all through the journey of SNARP. So there assessment cannot be said to be political or induced. Every time I have piles of letter requesting to confer me with one award or the other but I have always declined because most of those awards are actually for sale.

    “I did not know much about the award until the delegation from the Correspondents’ visited my office to give me details about the motive behind the award. They insisted that the award is apolitical, just like the process of selecting the SNARP beneficiaries and I sincerely cherish this award”.

     

  • Okorocha splashes N9m on soldiers’ widows, legionnaires 

    Okorocha splashes N9m on soldiers’ widows, legionnaires 

    •Governor seeks support for Armed Forces

    Imo State Governor Rochas Okorocha yesterday donated N9 million to wives of deceased soldiers and members of the Nigeria Legion in the state.

    The governor made the donation during this year’s Armed Forces Remembrance Day celebration at the Hero’s Square in Owerri, the state capital.

    He said the fallen heroes had made Nigerians proud as a people and as a nation.

    Okorocha noted that words alone could not explain their patriotism and sacrifice.

    He said: “The nation knows what the widows of dead soldiers have been going through and would never forget them. Their husbands died so that the rest of Nigerians might have a peaceful nation. The development calls for love towards them, and we will continue to demonstrate this love.”

    The governor noted that “the nation has done well for celebrating its fallen heroes who died that the nation may stand”.

    He described the action of the dead soldiers as a “show of patriotism at the highest level”.

    Okorocha said: “Not far from now, Nigeria will be counted among the great nations of the world. We are going through a process or through a journey which most great nations had passed through to reach their Promised Land and Nigeria will not be an exception. I appeal to all leaders to learn to sacrifice in comfort of their lives and otherwise, that the nation can move forward.

    “It is appointed to all living creatures to die someday. So, what matters most is the legacy left behind and not death itself. our soldiers died as heroes and they have been celebrated as people who gave their lives for the unity of the nation.

  • NGO fetes widows, facilitates employment for youths

    NGO fetes widows, facilitates employment for youths

    The Comrade Chinedu Ogah Foundation (CCOF), a non-governmental organisation (NGO), has said it facilitated employments for 710 youths across different tribes and political divides since its inception in 2006.

    The Chief Executive Officer, CEO of the foundation, Comrade Chinedu Ogah revealed this at Item-Amagu in Ikwo Local Government Area of Ebonyi State while distributing welfare packages to over 3, 000 widows and other less-privileged people in the community.

    The items distributed were wrappers, maggi, salt, onions; tablets of bathing soap, bowls and cash among others.

    According to Ogah, the foundation, within the year under review, ensured the employment of 120 youths into federal parastatals.

    Ogah, who is also the National Coordinator of Buhari/Osinbanjo Initiative for Demonstrating Change in Nigeria called on well-meaning Nigerians and philanthropists to use their wealth to enhance the well-being of the poor in the society.

    “The widows, youths and other less-privileged people are my security and defence. What my foundation is doing now is an opportunity we have from God and that is why we are extending it to others. In this community, 15 people have gone for the National Youths Service Corps (NYSC) this year. Today’s event is an annual one meant to take care of some less-privileged people.

    “From January last year till now, 120 youths have been given jobs at federal parastatals and from the inception of this foundation till now, 710 people have been given jobs. This year, we have given out scholarships to the handicapped in the 13 local government areas while widows in Ikwo are equally taken care of,” Ogah said.

    In his remarks, the Minister of Labour and Employment, Senator Chris Ngige explained that the gesture of the foundation was in tandem with the policies of the National Directorate of Employment (NDE) of the Federal Government.

    Represented by the State Coordinator of NDE, Mr. Marcel, the Minister said the Federal Government was working assiduously to ensure the speedy employment of youths across the country, even as he urged public-spirited individuals to partner government towards the improvement of the living standards of Nigerians.

    Also, the Deputy Governor of Ebonyi State, Dr. Kelechi Igwe who was represented by Mr. Festus Okoha advised the foundation not to relent in its objective of caring for the less-privileged people in the society as the state government has equally set machinery in place for the well-being of all residents of the state.

     

  • Elechi Amadi: Widows,  kinsmen eulogise literary icon

    Elechi Amadi: Widows, kinsmen eulogise literary icon

    The late Captain Elechi Amadi was born in 1934. He died on June 29, 2016 at the age of 82. His one week funeral, which gathers momentum today and tomorrow, began on Monday. Many activities have lined up to mark his exit. PRECIOUS DIKEWOHA, who visited the family of the literary icon reports   

    The burial rites of renowned author, Captain Elechi Amadi have begun in Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital. As an Ikwerre-born traditionalist, his exit is to be marked with several activities. Such activities include the launch of his biography entitled Kedara on November 29.

    When our correspondent visited the late Amadi’s residence at Mgbodo,  Aluu Community in Ikwerre Local Government Area of Rivers State, members of the community were in high spirits to receive dignitaries from all walks of life who will come to pay their last respects to the Aluu chief. Many youths of the community were at the compound working to keep the environment clean.

    The deplorable road linking Aluu community with the late Amadi’s house has been fixed and the family house has also been renovated by the state government.

    His palace where his body will lie in state today and tomorrow has also been renovated. His old pictures are still hanging on the wall of the palace when our correspondent visited the family.

    One of such pictures is a group photograph showing Nigerian soldiers in 1964; with Brig. Ademulegun, Maj. Gen. Welby–Everard, Lt.-Col. Yakubu Gowon and others. Another picture on the wall is the group photograph with Rotimi Amaechi, the former Governor of Rivers State, Mr. Tele Ikuru and Dr. Alex Ekwueme.

    There is also a photograph of his late father with other Aluu chiefs exchanging pleasantries with the first Military Governor of Rivers State, Commander Alfred Dapapreye Diete-Spiff (rtd). There are also other memorable photographs on the wall of the palace.

    Speaking on her closeness and the last encounter with the late Amadi, the third wife, Dr. Priye Elechi-Amadi whom many described as the late traditionalist’s handbag, said the literary icon actually told her goodbye but it was very difficult for her to accept his goodnight wave.

    Dr. Elechi-Amadi said she knew that he was going to die but she didn’t know it was going to be soon because there were serious health challenges which he survived in the past.

    “In 2009, he was very ill. We had to fly him to the United Kingdom.  I am a member of Eckankar. I told God that one thing I want from Him was to go back with my husband to Nigeria. He went into the theater three times.  That was why when he fell ill this time; I thought it was not as serious as the previous one. If he had survived that one, this one was no case. I know that his soul lives on, the signs were there that he was going to die but I found it difficult to accept the reality.”

    On the day her husband died, she said it took her two weeks to realise that he was gone. “I wasn’t conscious of myself  two weeks after, because it was a big shock to me. I didn’t lose a husband; I lost a friend and a lover. His death created a big vacuum in my life. He was a very patient man and good listener.

    “Actually, I was privileged to be with him in his private moment. He really opened up to me. You know he loves poetry. While he was ill, there was a reading programme organised by Total Plc. Then I said to him, but for this sickness, you would have gone for this event and he said, “No, you can go for both of us. Please, go and represent me.’ The next morning he was the one that reminded me to go for the event. I went there and gave a speech on his behalf and came back and met him in the hospital.  I think that was a goodbye. He was a true artist to the end.”

    Continuing, Priye, who is a lecturer at the Ignatius Ajuru University of Education (IAUE), Rivers State, said: “He was honest and romantic; he wooed me for about two years. Our relationship started in a very critical note. We worked together on a book, that book entitled Kedara has been published; that was what brought us together.

    “But there was no thought of marriage at all at the initial time. Because of our interactions, we discovered that we were soulmates and intellectually compatible. I think it is natural that we ended up together as husband and wife. We stayed together for 26 years as husband and wife and 30 years together as friends. The best thing I will do for him is to preserve his literary legacy. As a matter of fact, I collaborated on his biography work before he passed on.

    “It was launched on Tuesday, November 29, this year. The biography centred on his personality, lifestyle, work and others. What informed my marriage to him was that he was genuinely lovely, sincere  and kind-hearted. I had two children with my late husband.”

    The second wife of the late writer, Mrs. Rose Elechi-Amadi, who responded in Ikwerre dialect, said her late husband was a good father to their children.

    She said one thing she would miss was his caring attitude.

    “He was one of those men in Ikwerre that know how to marry wife. I’m going to miss his caring attitude. All of us are going to miss him and I have been praying that God should grant him eternal rest.”

    The first wife, Mrs. Dorothy Elechi-Amadi would died last year, but one of her daughters, Pastor Karen Elechi-Amadi said her father was a member of  Ikwerre Language Committee where he assisted the group to translate the new and old testaments into Ikwerre language.

    “Of course, he is part of the Ikwerre Language Committee where he assisted to translate the Bible into Ikwerre language. They have already translated the New Testament; they are still proofreading the Old Testament. He had a dual personality; while he had his eyes on tradition, he also did things that were positive in the eyes of God.”

    “We loved him and respected him; wherever he went, he ensured there was peace and harmony. His area of specialisation was Mathematics and Physics but later he started writing and today he turned out well as a literary giant before he passed on.

    “He taught me how to read even books that were beyond my age. Not just me alone, the rest of my siblings, bringing us very close to books had actually helped us.  He told us that reading is power.”

    We will miss him.”

    Some of his kinsmen said their late brother’s beliefs, lifestyles and his contributions to community development made him a legend, adding that the late Amadi  immortalised himself before he died.

    The younger brother to the late litrary icon, Elder Valentine Amadi said his brother had made a good impression on earth that would last forever, stressing that he was not sick or weak until the day he died.

    He said those were the qualities of an upright man in Ikwerre ethnic nationality. He called on the people to live a life worthy of emulation; since man does not know the day he would die.

    “You can see the atmosphere, the great man in the community is gone. All we are doing now is to  celebrate his achievements and what he believed in. He was a great man, he trained me and seven others. He ensured that we were enlightened and now he is gone.

    “He was a free man. Despite the insecurity in the community, he was not afraid to move around. He was a community man because he participated fully in the community development. He interacted with both old and young. One thing about him is that he preferred living here than outside the community,” he said.

    A resident of Aluu community, Mr. Chris Oji, said the late Amadi, through his literary works, had immortalised himself.

    Oji said:  ”The burial ceremony of Elechi Amadi is not a platform for people to cry. We are celebrating his greatness. We can sympathise with members of the family on the death of a great man who had left this sinful world and to also inform them that we are glad to join in celebrating the literary icon.

    “When you mention the Mandela of our area, then you are talking of the late Elechi Amadi. He had done everything he needed to do.  He had made a lot of progress and trained a lot of people.”