Author: The Nation

  • Nigeria about to experience true federalism – Oludare

    Nigeria about to experience true federalism – Oludare

    Enthused by the victory of the All Progressives Congress ((APC) presidential candidate, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, in the recent general election, Social Rehabilitation Gruppe (SRG), a socio-political organisation that worked relentlessly for the candidate’s cause, assures Nigerians of the dawn of a new era. Its Convener/National Coordinator, Dr. Marindoti Oludare, a US-based Nigerian medical doctor, speaks with Kayode Fasua.
    Excerpts:

    WHAT motivated your group, SRG, to spearhead private campaigns for the emergence of Asiwaju Bola Tinubu as President?

    Ever since I became a man and my understanding evolved, I had been an avid student of Asiwaju’s political philosophy. I study his words and ruminate over his reasoning. But my decision to support him came way before he declared his intention to run for office. When I came to Nigeria in December 2019, we were harassed and extorted by policemen. I wanted to fight but had no avenue to do so because I knew the police were answerable to no one. So when the 2020 ENDSARS protest occurred and the youth allowed their pains to be exploited by political actors who painted Asiwaju as the convener and executioner of the protest (when in actual fact his idea about having a state policing was the only way to reign in the excesses of the police), I started praying for him to decide to run for the presidency. When he gave the viral “Agbado” speech, I understood the wisdom in his word in an instant but as the video started making the rounds on the internet, I realised that there is a big intellectual gulf. Social media has impugned the intellect of the average citizen, occupying their mind and giving them no time to think, so because Asiwaju’s statements was beyond their ken, they start to crow like Hens. This is a phenom that I had come to realise since 2009 when I was in medical school; you have to talk to an adult like you would talk to a kindergartener and even at that, they will still quip “Ko kan aye” (None of my concern). The problems facing Nigeria need thinkers and doers. Asiwaju was last candidate 20 years ago and this phenom might be new to him, so when he decided to run, I felt it was imperative to do my part in explaining things to the teaming unthinking youth in my generation. This is why I got in the fight, and I was waist deep in it.

    You are known to be an advocate of true federalism.  How do you intend the incoming administration should go about such reform?

    This should be the first order of business for the incoming administration. Asiwaju has been a lifelong advocate of this. They will surely need to muster the will of the legislative arm of government, but this is something that the goodwill of a new administration should make possible. States need to be able to decide their own destiny, exploit their own resources and make laws that suit their own people. We are a very diverse group of people, devolving power to the states will discourage an inordinate quest for central power, it will enable the country to be run efficiently and will facilitate accountability.

    As a matter of fact, in the United States, every state elects a secretary of states to conduct elections and elect their attorney general to enforce the law in accordance with the state’s constitution. Most states elect their police chief to keep them safe. This is what should obtain in Nigeria. Might be a gradual process but this should be our destination.

    The CBN, in implementing its money swap policy, said it was, among others, meant to prevent politicians from buying votes. How plausible is that?

    This policy is the most asinine policy ever made by the apex bank. The CBN Act of 2007 never gave it such mandate, neither did the electoral act. The CBN governor claimed the money in circulation more than doubled when in actual fact the value of the money in circulation (converting to dollars) lost about 40% of its value. 1.46 trillion was worth $7.3 billion in 2014, while 3.23 trillion is worth $4.2 billion now. I believe the CBN governor beguiled our unassuming president in an attempt to scuttle Asiwaju’s chances at the polls which has come to naught. He will soon be held accountable for his shady forex demand management policy. Myself and SRG have also taken CBN to court and after our case is decided, we will be instituting a class action suit against the man Emefiele because he was never given the power to say “your money will be useless in your hands, that all” so he is legally exposed for the trouble he cause all Nigerians. We will be mobilizing 10 million Nigerians to join us in the class action suit and victory will be ours.

    The APC won overwhelmingly in your home state, Ondo. What are the expectations of your people?

    Much gratitude to all those who worked tireless with us to ensure this resounding victory for Asiwaju. Our work had footprint across all six southwest states, and we are happy we got the victory. What Ondo state needs the most is the decentralization of democracy. I have known of the Bitumen in Agbabu since I was a 10 year old and 24 years later, the people of Ondo state are yet to benefit from this God given resources. We have wealth in our soil, but our structural hinderance has prevented us from harvesting it. What we have is not available to us. Our bitumen deposit is said to be second only to the massive deposit in Alberta, Canada. While bitumen is an integral part of road paving and roofing, it can also be used as raw materials for oil refineries, helping in stabilizing the world’s energy crisis and creating prosperity for Ondo state and the world. We have sense of pride in Ondo State, we don’t need handouts from the federal government, we will be a donor state in our decentralized Federation and help the federal government pay its bills.  We will have our own deep sea port, have our own independent power plant, be the center of tourism and compete effectively with Lagos for investments that will bring prosperity to all Nigerians.

    Beyond political intervention, what are the other aims of the SRG?

    Ans: Our grand aim is to elevate the consciousness of the average Nigerian, in order to prevent its citizens from falling into the hands of political grifters who aim to ride the wave of unseemly emotions, religious bigotry and ethnic demagoguery to power. Our organization plans on achieving these through tangible and intangible means. The tangible means starts with creating social safety infrastructure that ensure the people don’t have to live in unrelenting squalor, unrepenting indigence. A hungry man is an angry man, if you don’t put food in that stomach and ensure decent roof is over that head, there’s no reaching that heart. Our aim is to touch people’s heart and minds and let them start rethinking their actions and how they view the environment but first we need to provide succor. Only after that can we start the intangible mission of trying to change their orientation by analyzing to them what it is, and what it should be while guiding them as they compare and contrast these dueling choices.

  • ‘Remi Tinubu’ll do well for Nigerian women’

    ‘Remi Tinubu’ll do well for Nigerian women’

    By Feranmi Adeniran

    A FORMER commissioner and gubernatorial candidate in Lagos State, Chief (Mrs.) Remi Adiukwu, has congratulated Bola Tinubu, Nigeria’s president-elect, for his victory at the presidential polls. The Lagos-born politician, who was a commissioner inTinubu’s cabinet when the president-elect was governor of Lagos State, also congratulated Nigerian women on the victory, saying the coming of Senator Remi Tinubu will transform the lives of many women across the country.

    Adiukwu also described Senator Oluremi Tinubu, wife of the president-elect, as a kind hearted mother who is never tired of putting smiles on the faces of the people. She recalled that as the First Lady of Lagos State, Mrs. Tinubu spent all her time, energy and resources to search for ways of improving the living conditions of women and children. “As first lady, she established the New Era Foundation, dedicated to establishing centers for all round development of young ones and promote public awareness on environmental health and community service.

    “She has always been passionately on the need to revamp the health sector, taking into cognisance the issue of brain-drain due to the mass exodus of Nigerian medical doctors and pharmacists abroad in search of greener pastures. She worked hard in her previous positions to improve education, health and social intervention efforts of government. He is people-centric and a wlfarist to the core. At the same time, she supported her husband when he was governor of the Lagos state in all ways possible.

    “We should look forward to a great time with her as the mother of the nation. She is a kind hearted mother. She is someone who is never tired of putting smiles on the faces of the people. When she was the First Lady of Lagos State, I can recall that Mrs. Tinubu spent all her time, energy and resources to search for ways of improving the living conditions of women and children. The many innovations she brought to governance back then are still there for all to see.

    “She will replicate all these and even do more when she takes office as the First Lady. It will be a wonderful time for us women and our children because Remi Tinubu is a welfarist who cannot bear to see women and children suffer. Therefore, it is with a heart full of thanksgiving and adoration to God almighty that I warmly congratulate His Excellency, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu and his wonderful wife, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, on the well deserved and hard earned victory at the 2023 presidential elections held on Saturday February 25, 2023 across the country.

    “I also salute the foresight, resilience and planning that culminated in Tinubu’s declaration as the President-elect of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. As a co-traveller in his politics and administrations, I make bold to say his desire for a better Nigeria is the main thrust behind his political aspirations right from the word go. And coming to take the presidential seat is the reward for painstaking planning and bridge building of decades. With our admirable First Lady, Senator Oluremi Tinubu beside him all these years, providing much needed supports, they have dreamt and planned on what needed to be done to achieve the desire of having the chance to retool Nigeria.

    “Today, God has answered our prayers. I congratulate the new Mother of the Nation. As First Lady and later as a Senator of the Federal republic, Mrs. Tinubu has proven that she simply desires to take care of the people. Bills like Social Security (National Social Security Agency Bill) 2012, Employment (Labour Act Cap L1 LPN Amendment Bill) 2012 and 2016, National Oil Spill Detection and Response Agency (NOSDRA) Act Amendment Bill, 2017 and others that she championed while in the Senate showed her as someone out to touch the lives of all and sundry,” Adiukwu said.

  • Lions Club celebrates women on International Women’s Day

    Lions Club celebrates women on International Women’s Day

    Lions Club  International District 404B2 Nigeria, Thursday marked this year’s International Women’s Day with an elaborate celebration and lectures.

    The event, which was held at the Business Club, Alausa, Ikeja, had the Lion women turning out in various exquisite designs of purple, green, and white Ankara, the official colors of the day.

    Tracing the origin of the day to 1911 when the first edition was held in the then the Federal Republic of Germany, and 1975, when the United Nations officially adopted it, the District Governor, Are Lekan Owolabi, in his opening remarks, said the day has become a significant one, owing to the ‘superior’ role of women as ‘pillars of the world’.

    “You are the pillars of the world. Yesterday, you were the issue; today, you remain the issue; tomorrow, you will continue to remain the issue. That is how God created you and that is why we cannot afford not to celebrate you at any time….”

    Opening with the quote: “Equality is giving everyone a shoe, Equity is giving everyone a shoe that fits”, the convener and committee chairperson of the event, Lion Olutoyin Igbinoba, explained that the essence of the theme: ‘Embrace Equity’ is that the women simply “don’t want to be left behind, we want to be beside.”   

    Various speakers also delivered lectures, the high point being the lecture on ‘Eliminating Breast Cancer and Cervical Cancer; Roles of NGOs’, delivered by CEO, of SACCOF Africa, Otunba Dr.  Ademola Adesoye.

  • Katsina renews move to end farmer-herder clashes, banditry

    Katsina renews move to end farmer-herder clashes, banditry

    • How governor secured N6.25b from FG to provide facilities for herdsmen

    Governor Aminu Bello Masari recently visited the 10 LGAs ravaged by banditry attacks and farmers/herders clashes in fulfillment of his earlier promise during dialogue with the bandits in their stronghold in 2019, Augustine Okezie reports.

    IN September 2019, Governor Aminu Bello Masari of Katsina State, accompanied by some of his top government appointees and security agents, met with the leadership of the terrorists groups that were terrorising the state. Masari had insisted then that the renewal of dialogue and peace initiative with bandits and Fulani leaders would be vigorously pursued with sincerity of purpose.

    Also speaking with bandits and Fulani leaders at Unguwar Tsamiya village in Faskari Local Government Area the same year, the governor said his administration was driving the peace initiatives because it was convinced that dialogue was the best possible way to restore peace across the communities in the state.

    He said: ”Government is mindful of using extreme military might to address the situation. But it will be better to key into the initiatives for the overall benefit of all. I want you all to know that we will all account for our deeds. Government is doing this wholeheartedly for the generality of the populace.”

    In their separate remarks at the meetings, the various bandits and Fulani leaders who spoke at the event renounced banditry, pledging to key into the initiatives if the government fulfilled its own side of the bargain and released some of their men in detention and also establish Ruga settlement for them.

    Among the key bandits and forest commanders that attended the meeting were Alhaji Masume, Marwana, Leko, Alhaji Ado ”Maikzo” Alero and Alhaji Lawani.

    Two years later, Governor Masari returned on a second visit to the bandits’ enclaves when his Special Adviser on Livestock Services, Dr. Bagiwa, led the state House of Assembly Committee on Agriculture and a group of journalists on a tour of infrastructural projects being constructed by the state government to house the herders, build schools and veterinary clinics as well as abattoirs

    The local government areas visited include Jibia, Batsari, Kurfi, Dustinma, Safana, Danmusa, Kankara, Faskari, Dandume and Sabuwa.

    Addressing the herders at one of the sites visited, Bagiwa urged the Fulani leaders to set up a community monitoring team to ensure proper use of the facilities and enroll their children in schools to learn Islamic and western education.

    He commended the federal government for providing the funds, which was about N6.5 billion, to ensure the provision of facilities. In their separate response, Fulani leaders also commended the state government for initiating the ranch programmes to improve their living standards. They pledged to work with the state government and security agencies to return peace in all the trouble areas within the state.

    Responding to enquiries from newsmen at the sites, Dr Bagiwa recalled the meeting the Governor had with the herders and bandits in the forests two years earlier, saying: ”Our government, led by his excellency, visited the areas that are mostly affected by banditry attacks, including Jibia, Batsari, Safana, Danmusa, Kurfi, Dutsin ma, Kankara, Faskari, Sabwar and Dandume.

    “He also went straight to the forest where he met the bandits and they told him that they don’t have access to education, water supply, grazing land as well as access to bedding services.

    “When we came back from the trip, we sat down and looked around, and we found that we were in need of N12.5 billion which we know that this state does not have the capacity to do.

    “So His Excellency in his wisdom contacted Mr. President, saying that he had gone round and the people were asking for infrastructure and that they needed his support.

    “President Buhari asked His Excellency to write a request, and lucky enough, the President approved N6.25 billion.”

    The Special Adviser disclosed that the first stage of the project was the construction of the needed infrastructure, including primary schools of three classrooms, general hospital and local government centres and the project site which would also be well equipped with modern clinic

    He further stated that the new collection centres were ready where the animals could have their feeding. He also said there was solar powered boreholes and houses were the animals could sleep during rainy season or cold weather.

    He said: “We constructed 10 houses in these projects. We also have the feeding trough, bole holes where the animals can drink water beside the dam in case they need water.”

    The Special Adviser also stated that the major target of government was to promote access to the education of the herdsmen, insisting that if the herders had Islamic education, they would embrace the fear of God and desist from engaging in banditry.

    He said: “All these things they are doing shouldn’t have been done because they know it’s wrong. That’s why we targeted the schools and the hostel in the project lands so that after the herdsmen came back from grazing, they could concentrate on their Islamic learning. The small children will also go to the education agencies.”

    Bagiwa further said the facilities were 70% completed, adding that the best skills and artisanship were deployed to duplicate the projects all over the areas where they were needed.

    The state government also commended the people for appreciating the various infrastructural facilities being provided for herders.

    He said: “Alhamdulillah, while we were there, you could see how they gathered, hundreds of them in one area, thanking us left and right. They were even escorting us from the forest to the main street; the main road where they have progress.

    “Even when the bandits came to where we motorised some boreholes, solar power and so on, people were happy and they were praying that what we had done would remain sustained, and they were in very happy mood in all the 10 local government areas.”

    Bagiwa further noted that the health conditions of the herders had improved because they were now getting enough medical care and even clean water and the animals were becoming healthy with more quality meat, more quantity and healthy skin

    Another important support to the grazing reserves and the ranching projects, our correspondent noted, was the remarkable construction of grazing dams, a number of which were almost ready.

    When completed, the projects were expected to be handed over to a committee that will protect the projects including the primary school, the hostels and other facilities from being vandalised.

    The state government is also expected to promote a Public/Private Partnership (PPP) expected to manage the entire ranching resources.

    Abba Abubakar, Director Livestock Services Department, while inspecting the projects which were executed with the support of the Federal Government, described it as commendable.

    He disclosed that before commissioning the projects, other aspects of the projects including business plans, veterinary clinic, publishing of posters, land production, provisions of schools and facilities meant to support the exercise and all of those located in 10 local government area where the bandits are operating.

    Meanwhile, the Fulani herders, farmers and repentant bandits in Katsina State have commended Governor Aminu Bello Masari for addressing their earlier complaints of lack of infrastructure and poor living standards as being responsible for the persistent farmer/herder clashes as well as banditry activities in the state.

    The herdsmen, who spoke to newsmen during an inspection of ranching facilities which include schools projects, Mosques, veterinary centres, abattoirs and health centres in Sauri village in Kurfi Local Government Area, said the projects were unprecedented as no government had ever visited the people or installed infrastructures and projects that would improve their living standards

    Manir Shehu, who represented the Local Government Chairman of Kurfi Local Government Area, thanked the state government on behalf of the beneficiaries, appealing to them to ensure proper surveillance and protection of the infrastructures.

    He said: “Try and inform your brothers, particularly those of them still in the bush, about the latest developments and the provision of infrastructure by the state government.”

    Meanwhile, the Katsina State Government has announced plans to commission the ranching projects located in 10 security prone local government areas of the state next month.

    This was disclosed to journalists during an inspection tour of ongoing infrastctural projects in Jibia, Batsari, Kurfi, Dutsinma and other areas by the Special Adviser livestock to Governor Aminu Bello Masari, Dr. Laval Bagiwa

    He said: “Most of the projects have reached 80 per cent completion and by March, the state government will officially commission them and put them to use to solve the lingering farmers/herders clashes in the state.

    “We are here to inspect some of the ranching projects. We have been constructing them for over two years.

    “Recall we have federal government support of N6.25b for the scheme in 10 LGAs.”

  • Women can thrive in any sector, says Olugbemi

    Women can thrive in any sector, says Olugbemi

    A legal Practitioner and Principal Partner at Stark Legal, Mojisola Olugbemi, has posited that women have what it takes to succeed in whatever career they desire and have the capacity for. 

    She made this assertion recently during a media briefing as the world celebrates International Women’s Day. 

    Olugbemi, sharing her contributions to the legal and energy sectors in Nigeria, said if women are given the enabling environment both locally and internationally, they stand the chance to be successful and exceptional. 

    Making reference to her start-up as a woman, Olugbemi stated that although her background is in the legal profession, her experience while working with a reputable law firm, a few years ago gave her the needed exposure to create value both in the legal sector and the Energy Ecosystem. 

     ”After my brief stint with one of the leading law firms in Nigeria, Kenna Partners, under the tutelage of Prof. Fabian Ajogwu SAN, FCIArb I had my first taste of energy advisory, and I excelled at it.

     ”Then, in 2014, I founded Stark Legal. Among other things, Advisory services were one of our offerings. So, it was just a natural progression for me.”

     In 2016, she was appointed to the Legal Drafting Team of the proposed Petroleum Industry Reform Bill, under the leadership of Chief Sena Anthony. The team successfully drafted the Bill which was submitted to the Ministry of Petroleum Resources for onward submission to the National Assembly. 

     ”At Stark Legal, along with my dynamic and resourceful team, I provide legal advice and representation services to industry regulators and players within the energy sector and have well over a decade’s wealth of experience in the sector, she noted.” 

     Giving insight on some critical factors that contributed to her success as a woman she had this to say: “I firmly believe that anyone can achieve whatever they set their mind to. My philosophy is to focus on the possibilities and always aim for excellence. I choose to believe that I can do anything. This along with my faith has helped me attain several monumental achievements. 

    “I was also privileged to have mentors, advisers, friends, and family members that believed in encouraged and supported me. It’s important to surround yourself with a community that not only inspires you to do more but also aids you in that process,” she noted. 

    Concluding, the entrepreneur and legal practitioner encouraged women not to give up on their dreams.

    “Refuse to give up. Believe in yourself and choose to bet on yourself to succeed. Doggedly pursue excellence. You will find that when you put in the work, opportunities will start to line up for you. 

    “The important thing is to make sure that you are ready for them. Hone your skills, work on your personal and professional brand, build your network, doggedly pursue excellence and let your work speak for you, it is only a matter of time.

     ”Excellence always speaks for itself. As I tell my team at Stark Legal ‘pursue excellence and success will follow,” she said.

  • ‘I started haulage with my grandpa’

    ‘I started haulage with my grandpa’

    Omotosho Olamilekan Kazeem is the CEO and founder of Naijaways Global Services Limited. In this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, he talks about how he was inspired by his grandfather, stepping into his father’s shoes, life as a Mechanical Engineer, developing an app for the haulage sector, and more.

    TELL us about your experience in this sector as a Nigerian-Canadian entrepreneur.

    I find the market size of Nigeria is an advantage. Due to the size of the country, no innovation is too small and the people make the ride worth it. The one disadvantage though is the lack of support from the government and lack of infrastructure; especially with transport. There are good days, but a lack of infrastructure results in us losing a lot of revenue.

    How did you get into the sector?

    The haulage business is a family thing for me. It started from my grandfather to my father and now to me. I started working with my father when I was 13 and really grew to love the business and learn the ins and outs. My solution to take the business to the next level is why I am here. I believe now is the time to really take the transport sector to the next level.

    Why did you study Mechanical engineering and how has this influenced your personality?

    I’ve always been a critical thinker. When I was younger, we used to have a generator technician come and fix the generator. The next time our gen broke down I fixed it. The technician took an interest in me

    and started showing me how he would fix things. I like to solve problems; a lot of my time is spent thinking about how to solve everyday problems in the most cost-effective and efficient way.

    What are some of the challenges?

    As I briefly mentioned earlier, infrastructure is a major challenge. The rate of diesel and its price fluctuations is another one. Also, drivers’ culture and lack of training are quite a challenge. Given the educational level of the drivers, it is difficult to change their ways since they’re often quite set in them.

    Lastly, the maintenance culture of truck owners is a big challenge as well. The last two challenges are things we are working on at NAIJAWAYS because those are solutions that are within our reach as an organization. We can’t wait for the government to do all, sometimes we have to take initiative as a collective or as individuals.

    What has been the experience of stepping into your father’s shoes and managing his haulage company?

    It was a lot of pressure. My father is a well-respected figure in the industry among people who know him. So, the pressure of having to live up to his legacy was a lot. But I have and continue to learn a lot of life lessons from him. I also have a newfound appreciation and respect for him now that I am venturing into my own business.

    What are some of the things you share in common with your dad? How did he inspire you?

    I’ve known my dad to be a businessman since I was born. He’s very hard-working and dedicated to his hustle. His favorite slogans are “one day at a time and Rome was not built in a day”.

    Tell us about the app that you have developed for the sector.

    The Naijaways app is a digital market hub that connects cargo owners (Manufacturers, retailers, and private individuals) to truck owners of all sizes within reasonable proximity to their cargo. Think about something like Uber but, for trucks.

    What are some of the other innovations that you are working on?

    We have some other businesses coming up. My main focus is finding a solution to the challenges of transportation. You can have too many woods in the fire at the same time. A product is always right, what determines the success or failure of a launch is timing. You always have to ask yourself this one question; Is this the right time?

    How can we integrate technology to make things better for entrepreneurs?

    First, I believe for a business to thrive in this current time and 5G era, they need to have a presence in the digital realm. When looking at the current situation of the Naira, if we could have integrated tech through accessible POS, substantial ATM terminals, and appropriate education and awareness, these last couple of weeks would’ve gone smoother and could’ve generated a whole new revenue for Nigerians. We can integrate tech to make things better for entrepreneurs by making it accessible to everyone; even the layman.

    What are your memories of growing up?

    I wasn’t born with a silver spoon. Everything my parents became was through hard work which I was fortunate to see with my very own eyes. I remember one day when I was in primary school, I told my dad that I didn’t want to go to school while it was raining and my dad said to me in Yoruba “a child that the sun doesn’t burn or the rain doesn’t beat, it is suffering that will be his end” That is to say, the struggle is a part of life. After he said this proverb, he gave me a change of clothing to change into when I got to school. My memories growing up are of learning to brace for the storm and understanding that the storm too will pass.

    What lessons has life taught you?

    Well, life is still teaching me a whole lot. But I’ll say I’ve learned and thought about what it means to flourish as a Nigerian. I know a lot of people who would see me and wonder why I would ever return back to Nigeria. But like I’ve always believed the wealth that we are chasing will if at best, help make our kids and maybe grandkids comfortable and that is if we teach them to understand the value of hard work and contribution to society. What about our great-grandkids and the rest of our lineage? We do ourselves a disservice by only thinking of making the world a better place so that the people closest to us can benefit. Life has taught me that your vision and your legacy have to be bigger than you.

    What would you consider as the turning point in your career?

    Leaving Canada to come to Nigeria. It has always been a dream of mine to own my business. Yeah, Canada is nice but a lot of things end after your 9-5 job. I was working hard as an engineer but at a certain point I had to ask myself “is this it?” That was when I knew it was time to come back.

    Who or what do you consider the greatest influence in your life?

    My father is a great influence in my life. I’ve tried to shape my life by learning from his mistakes and also learning how to incorporate his good —- in my life. A son is a father’s mirror. My dad has done a lot of small consistent good that has helped pay forward a lot of things in his life.

  • KEMI OLOIDI: A woman without financial power cannot fly

    KEMI OLOIDI: A woman without financial power cannot fly

    Kemi Oloidi is the author of Up and About – Memoir of an Expatriate Spouse, who tells her experiences traversing the world with her husband. Married to an expatriate, Oloidi who recently turned 60 in this interview with Yetunde Oladeinde shares her journey in over two decades of living across countries, with tips for younger women who are likely to find themselves in her shoes.

    LET’S talk about your growing-up years and how they influenced who you are today.

    I had my secondary school education at Saint Timothy College, Onike Yaba, that was after attending Federal Government School, which didn’t work for me, as I could not stay in a boarding school. After my secondary education, I worked with the Federal Audit Department for about three years. And then I decided to go back to school where I had my National Certificate in Education (NCE) in 1988 before I got married.

    What  advice will you give to a young expatriate wife?

    There are a couple of advice for a young expatriate wife; if you are in your 30s before you leave as an expatriate wife, I will say count your costs, and do your cost analysis. Find out if you will be able to get a job where you are going, if you are not sure you will get a job, discuss with your husband,  what the allowances will be.

    In my own case, I just got promoted with an increment when we had to move.  I told him, ‘Oga, if I am going to leave my job, how do I live?  I can’t be asking for money for matches all the time. And he said, how much is your salary, I told him, and he said, I will pay you at the end of the month, and he was paying me my salary.

    You need to be honest with your income, a woman without financial power is not good. And when I think I need an increment, I let him know and he plays his part. My sister told me that even if her husband decides to pay her all the money in the world, she cannot stay without working, hence you need contentment to thread my path. That is why I said, do your cost analysis and know if you can be a stay-at-home mum, because in some countries you are not allowed to work without proper documentation as it will require cost implications for the company.  You will also consider what kind of schools your children will be attending and what is the company’s contribution to it, including cars, and housing. Don’t let the euphoria of going abroad overshadow the reality.

    In Nigeria, you have your support system, your friends, family, and all the rest. Abroad, you will be alone until you can settle and make friends, but the initial stage is usually hard. After you have passed that stage, you start thinking, about how you can improve yourself.

    Share with us some experiences living outside the country.

    Our first assignment was in Uzbekistan, it was a socialist country; it is a controlled economy. I heard that there used to be black students in the past, but to be honest, a lot of people would see me then and scream. So, it was difficult to make friends. One day, someone approached me and said she had a weird question to ask, she inquired if we wear clothes in my country, and I just told her no, that I came to their country naked and I got my first dress at the airport. She believed me and even pitied me. Then I offered to invite her for tea when she came, I brought out my photo album and didn’t tell her anything. As she flipped the pages, she saw me in my beautiful dresses, pictures of my family, and my wedding dress. She looked up and asked if this was me in my country and I said yes.

    And she went, ‘Africa is beautiful.’ And guess what, she became my ambassador and told everybody she knew about me. Suddenly, everybody wanted to be my friend. They will wave at me. They will offer to give me tomatoes. Tomato is like fruit for them. That was how I became a superstar in the small city. So it would be best if you found a way to break whatever bias. I don’t think it will be that bad in this era, of technology.

    How were you able to deal with culture shock and being in a different environment?

    That killed me and sometimes I will break down. We spent three and half years in the first country we lived in, Uzbekistan. At some point, I wasn’t going out anymore, people wanted to see what I am buying, hear me talk and so I told my husband I didn’t want to go shopping anymore. He took over with the aid of our driver and housemaid at the time.

    By the time we moved to Kenya, I thought, this was also an African country like ours, but then I realized that East Africa and West Africa are poles apart. I discovered that other than plantains and Ewedu, the Kenyans eat like Europeans. They have their maize and beans that they cook together, no oil, no pepper, nothing they just cook maize, beans and they enjoy it, they serve it at parties. We don’t dress alike either, but we were able to manage as a sizable Nigerian population in Kenya and we made it worth the while for each other.

    What has been your highest point as you turn 60?

    I remember when I turned 50, I tell you, I cried the whole time, because I just looked at myself. My children and my husband organized a dinner for me, and I sat at the table  and I just started crying. My husband and kids were shocked, and I looked at myself and said I haven’t achieved anything other than following their dad. I have nothing to my name. I think I just wasted my life and now I am 50.

    And my daughter said mum, how can you say this? Look at us. Look at my brother. You have raised us. Are you not proud of us? Look at your husband, you have supported him; he is a success. How can you say you have not gained anything? How can you say you have wasted your life? Please don’t do this to yourself. You have achieved everything. My husband couldn’t say anything. He was shocked. Then later in the day he called me and said if you continue to think like this, then you won’t know how to be grateful.

     What is it that we don’t have? We are healthy above all. What do you want? Do you want to be the CEO of a company? And to be honest, I was carrying that idea before he voiced it out that day. I have been thinking, why am I jobless? I realize that as humans, we seem to focus on what we don’t have. So, for my 60th my husband said I must have a party, even though I am not a party person.

    So how long did it take to put your thoughts into a book?

    I started thinking about it in 2012 when my daughter told me I should consider putting my thoughts in a book. In 2017 I decided to sit down and write. Because at that time, we already knew when we were retiring. So, I just picked the countries one after the other and penned them down.

    You have been married for over 30 years, in an age where marriages are failing, what has kept yours?

    To be honest, the first thing is God, the Bible says the people that know their God will carry out great exploits. Then you try and find your own, know your limits. So first of all, you have to be confident in yourself to have a stable home. A lot of us allow our society to shape who we are. Be yourself. Don’t allow anybody to push you, and don’t listen to what people say. Please know what works best for you. People will tease my husband saying he doesn’t womanize or drink. He is a good man, he is listening, but he does drive me crazy because he is a very strict person. For me, I will say prayer is what made my marriage or what makes it still standing because we talked of divorce, I will not lie. There are times I said listen, I don’t think this is working for me, especially in the early stages – the first five years. I am still praying for my family.

    A woman should have a life even after being married, what is your advice to young women in this regard?

    Find your niche. We need fun in life. You have to find what makes you happy. I have friends whose husbands are nothing to write home about. So I always tell them in life, you have to be happy. Find something that makes you happy and do it, we can’t be serious all the time. Continue to pray if you’re still together. If you are a single mother, still pray, pray for your children, pray for yourself, pray for ex. I have seen people who are divorced for years and they still come together, the marriage is fantastic. If you are single and not married, you are looking to marry a good man, keep praying, I’m sure your time will come. I was the last person to be married among my folks of friends. Commit your ways unto the Lord and He will order your steps. Trust Him with all your hearts.

  • Just Wondering…  About Mantra (2)

    Just Wondering… About Mantra (2)

    ‘Cos we’re all wanderers

    Just wondering…

                    (wonder no more)

    It’s all for that pig-head

    That ugly busy-body called Mantra

    Mantra is no fool, but she is a fool

    She comes, she bestrides,

    She sniggers with her over-sized

    Nose, mouth – like a wind-pipe

    She kicks, she loves, yet

    She hates with her tiny tity exposed

    She freaks, she frets

    She calls me this monster,

    This beautiful monster – she’s confused

    See your teeth, you ape

    She says, jeering at me.

    But then I still love you

    Ah! How awful to love an ape

    Very inconsequential animal like you

    I am, Mantra, who loves an ape, a Monster!

    I am here to strangle you, beat you to pieces.

    You beast always wondering, like a wanderer

    Yet, I love you – oh, but that nasty

    snoring of yours at night.

    Just wondering, but why?

    It’s all for the sake of this beastly love,

    This endless wandering…

    When I shall strangle you,

    Take you to the world beyond,

    Thus, ending all this business of wondering.

    Don’t you know?  I am a river mermaid, the bigger Monster.

  • BREAKING: 10 corpses found as gunmen attack Kaduna village

    BREAKING: 10 corpses found as gunmen attack Kaduna village

    No fewer than 10 corpses have been recovered after gunmen suspected to be bandits attacked Unguwar Wakili in Zango Kataf Local Government Area of Kaduna State. 

    In a statement, the local government authorities said a  24-hour curfew has been imposed on Ungwan Juju, Mabuhu, Ungwan Wakili and Zangon Urban with immediate effect. 

    “This is to allow men of the Nigerian Army to restore peace on that axis,” Yabo Chris Ephraim,Special Assistant (Media) to Chairman ,Zangon Kataf Local Government Council of Kaduna State said. 

    The Police in Kaduna were yet to react to the incident. 

    Details Shortly…

  • Atiku, Obi and the future of PDP, LP

    Atiku, Obi and the future of PDP, LP

    NO matter how hard they try, both the Peoples Democratic Party and the Labour Party will be unable to reverse the All Progressives Congress (APC) victory at the February 25 presidential poll. History and the incontestable statistics of the poll weigh heavily against them. They may have resorted to massive display of emotions and street activism, and are inundating the social media with bitter, tendentious and deceptive campaigns to undermine the integrity of the poll, but these too will miscarry. Little by little, as the weeks roll by, they will discover how truly herculean it is to undo a presidential poll result in these parts. In their separate press conferences, the PDP and LP presidential candidates spoke determinedly of their victories at the poll. But surely both can’t be right.

    The winner, APC’s Bola Ahmed Tinubu, an ideologue himself, will find it far easier to manage his victory and his party. He is fortunate that most of the governors who worked with him to deliver their states to the ruling party in the presidential poll are fairly ideological and centre-left politicians. The problem the party has had since assuming office in 2015 has been precisely coping with the extreme and countervailing conservatism of President Muhammadu Buhari. With the president’s exit in May, the APC will attempt to reposition itself and produce a tight and ideological party, regardless of the attenuating power of its diluted national spread and pan-Nigerian mandate. On the contrary, both the PDP and LP will probably enter a period of instability occasioned by the lack of ideological purity of their presidential candidates.

    Despite his long years in politics, the PDP candidate, Atiku Abubakar, has no proven record of managing or leading a party. He is neither ideological nor patient when his goals are truncated. He prides himself a committed democrat, but he is averse to losing any contest within or outside his party. He has a history of defecting to other parties to further his goals. Since 1999, he has contested the presidency five times, thrice on PDP platform, once on Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) platform, and once on APC platform. He can’t bear defeat. At 76, he probably senses that he has run his last presidential race. Whenever he failed to clinch the presidential ticket, he easily lost interest in staying put in the party or contributing to its management and funding.

    He will not win his suit to overturn the outcome of the 2023 presidential race. So he will not find remaining in the party attractive at all, especially not at his age. Running a party, as he knows very well, requires a lot of money and time, and even the most ingenious fundraising methods will still end up leaving shortfalls. He will be loth to fill those inevitable shortfalls. The question he will ask himself, given his character and penchant for opportunism and political migrations, is why he should help fund a party that is both fratricidal and regicidal, especially one he can no longer deploy for any future presidential ambition. It will take enormous patience and altruism, not to say funds, to manage and stabilise the PDP in the near future. Even if he possesses any of those priceless virtues, Alhaji Atiku will be uninterested in summoning them for any great cause. Nothing outweighs his interest in the presidency; and since that goal has now also become unachievable, his lack of altruism will not constrain him to invest his brittle talents in coaxing a fractious and difficult party.

    The best the PDP can get from him in the weeks and months ahead is his half-hearted determination to ‘reclaim his stolen mandate’. He won’t help purge and reposition the party. After insinuating that his electoral tragedy was due in part to the defection of Mr Obi from the PDP shortly before the primary, Alhaji Atiku seems to be preparing the minds of his supporters for the inevitable judicial loss. He will leave the legal drudgery to his lawyers, of course, though he has proved to be very litigious himself. But overall, after winning only one geopolitical zone and coming embarrassingly short in the other zones, escaping being nearly trumped and disgraced by the upstart LP candidate, the already languid Alhaji Atiku may become despondent as he prepares his mind for political oblivion.

    The LP’s Mr Obi is, on the other hand, touted as the revelation of the presidential election. Perhaps he is, especially after winning 11 states and the Federal Capital City (FCT), Abuja. After all, he nearly caused a tectonic shift in Nigerian politics by taking Lagos and the two North Central States of Plateau and Nasarawa. But it is not clear how or why he thinks he won the presidency or that he was rigged out. He had no appeal to the votes-laden Northwest, and barely made a dent in the Northeast. Even his showing in the Southwest was limited to Lagos. Had he won the presidency, he would have been unable to govern, despite the obtrusion, stridency and fanaticism of his clannish and episcopal supporters. He lacks the stoicism of Alhaji Atiku, and despite his pretences and homilies, he is neither ideological nor administratively adroit. He has also spoken fervently, if a little lachrymosely, about ‘reclaiming his stolen mandate’, though there was no conceivable way he could have achieved the two-thirds of 36 states threshold. His fanatical supporters defy gravity and reason in their flight of fancy, and the unscrupulous and increasingly demagogic Mr Obi has inflamed them to frenzy. No matter how much and long they inspect the BVAS and IReV, he will lose in the courts and must ultimately thereafter confront the fate he has tried so hard to evade.

    The question he will face after he loses the court battle will be how to manage a Labour Party now inflated obscenely beyond its ideological foundations and electoral strength by circumstances quite unrelated to its structure and ideology. Apart from the Southeast which rallied unquestioningly to his banner, his other supporters, whether they are chafing Christians or cantankerous youths, also filed out behind him in reaction to the APC’s Muslim-Muslim ticket. Parties are not built on such fickle, impermanent foundations. In the months ahead, as the APC settles into the presidency and begins churning out engrossing and probably populist policies and programmes, the country will forget the ruling party’s same-faith ticket, and the LP, like ex-governor Olusegun Mimiko discovered years before when he rode on the back of LP to Ondo governorship, will have to prove itself in internal party administration and funding. The party will make heavy weather of both. Mr Obi shares no ideological affinity with the LP, and it remains to be seen whether the original founders of the party would let him foist his wafer-thin brand of ad hocism and ecclesiastical jingoism on the party. The race for Aso Villa helped the LP paper over its cracks; the cracks will be exposed soon, and the party’s ethnic undertones and sectarian undertow will emerge in dangerous and conflicting colours. Despite governing Anambra State for eight undistinguished years, Mr Obi has not managed a large party before; it is unlikely he has acquired the wherewithal to do so now, regardless of his affinity for platitudes and theories.

    More than the PDP, which will likely be rescued and reconstituted by gritty and gifted men and politicians like Governor Nyesom Wike, the LP will be predisposed to centrifugal forces, its Christian arm withered, and its ethnic anchor calcified. The LP was a special purpose vehicle for the often eclectic Mr Obi; he must now face the unpleasant task of imbuing the party with a differentiating ideology and platform. Having scorned the relevance of manifestos in party politics and made little reference to it even after one was hurriedly cobbled for him, it is hard to see him turn the LP into anything that looks like something. If his presidential votes do not transform into substantial state votes to enable the party produce governors of enough financial heft and girth, and being himself offensively parsimonious without any redeeming impulse of generosity, the party’s leaders will have to create ingenious ways of funding the organisation. Eight years out of office had seen the PDP atrophy, despite producing many state governments; it remains to be seen how the more demagogic Mr Obi will navigate the rapids. The LP candidate has had a great run so far, with his time in APGA nothing but a psychogenic fugue, and he will possibly keep the tempo up as his court case grinds on. Soon, however, the effect of that political amphetamine will wear out. He will hope not to suffer withdrawal symptoms big enough on the Richter scale to cause him to implode, though this fate seems ineluctable.

    What Tinubu presidency signposts (2)

    Tinubu, Atiku

    THE All Progressives Congress (APC) presidential candidate, Bola Ahmed Tinubu, won the February 25 election. He will preside over the affairs of Nigeria for the next four years in the first instance. Some analysts continue to question the statistical basis of his victory, insinuating that of the little over 25 million people who voted in that poll, only some 8.79 million endorsed him, while the remaining 16.5 million rejected him. That is not only poor statistical analysis; it is also sheer sophistry. What on earth does anyone expect of a four-horse race? Had any of the other ‘favourite’ candidates won, would the statistical validation of the election also be questioned? What is more significant, however, is not whether he won by a huge margin or not, since he won in line with the country’s electoral law, but what the Tinubu administration would mean for Nigeria. The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and Labour Party (LP) candidates have sworn to litigate the APC victory; they should go ahead to placate the humiliation they felt. But their suits will not change anything.

    What matters more now is what a Tinubu administration will exemplify for Nigeria between now and 2027. To get a glimpse of that, a portrait of the man must be painted. That portrait was attempted on this page last week, but it was done in comparison with the other candidates. It was suggested in this place that while the PDP candidate had name recognition all over the country, seeing he had run for office five times since 1999, he had done little to convince the country sufficiently that he was the man for the job, that he possessed the staying power, the character, the politics, and the transformational skill and competence to turn Nigeria into a mini utopia. With every election cycle, he had become more and more jaded. It was also suggested here that the LP candidate could not have seriously hoped to win, but if he and his fanatical supporters nursed that hope, they were wallowing in dangerous illusions. Not only did he not plan to run for president while he was still in the PDP, and consequently had no working paper or manifesto to back his ambition, he also alarmingly tried to cash in on the frustrations of a section of Nigerian youths, on disaffected and distrusting Christians angered by APC’s same-faith ticket, and on the characteristically insular south-eastern support. It was impossible for him to win, for his methods and strategies invariably left out a huge chunk of voters from the Northwest, Northeast and Southwest, three geopolitical zones populous enough to change and determine the direction of any election.

    When the three leading parties forswore alliance and headed into the election with all their hopes and illusions separate and intact, it was clear there could only be one outcome: APC’s victory. Many analysts may resent that victory, and some religious leaders may nurse the sacrilegious hope that God would take sides and turn that victory into ignoble defeat, if not death, but that victory will stand till May 29, and inauguration will take place. Neither the courts nor the world press fed on the toxic quinine of Nigerian social media can attenuate the quality of the victory or diminish the quality and capacity of the incoming administration. Of the three leading candidates in that election, Asiwaju Tinubu stood out in administrative competence, secular orientation, boldness, and consensus building. He is not divisive and clannish like Mr Obi, and is not unprincipled and opportunistic like Alhaji Atiku. Together with his equally modernising vice president-elect, Kashim Shettima, the president-elect will enthrone a truly secular administration in tune with the finest provisions of the constitution.

    A few months before the election, the APC candidate met some editors in Lagos. He had earlier been badly excoriated in the press, with many essayists writing him off as infirm, halting, uncoordinated, and incapable of stringing a few sentences together without going off on a different tangent. But he walked briskly into the hall, shook everyone’s hands with boundless joie de vivre, greeted many of the editors by name, and once the discussions got underway, surprised sceptics by staying on point, exchanging banter, cracking jokes and speaking briefly but inspiringly to his manifesto. A few editors asked him questions, and he answered with panache. It was a revelatory evening. What came out that evening admittedly was not the image of an orator; it was the image of someone down-to-earth, someone accessible, a good-natured man without airs, without any complex, someone self-assured, willing to take and give opinions on issues and facts, no matter how disagreeable. In his presence, you could cross your legs without him feeling offended, and you could stand your ground if you felt strongly about your opinion. He will obviously not go into the presidency carrying airs, stifling differences, belittling the less fortunate, or suffocating dissenters.

    In more than 35 years in politics, Asiwaju Tinubu never stopped making friends or building bridges, and he has been successful at both. He always rallied to the cause of the underdog, as his many electoral battles in defence of those whose electoral mandates were stolen illustrated. Neither Mr Obi nor Alhaji Atiku had such a record. It is a tribute to the damage caused by Nigeria’s overweening religious leaders and the excesses of social media activists and pillagers that the president-elect did not win by a much huger margin. What matters, however, is that his victory is a testament to his worldview as a fair-minded, tolerant and humanistic politician. To withstand all the arrows shot at him and the invectives hurled at his family and still emerge triumphant is a reflection of his staying power. He will need that resilience in the years ahead, for some diehards will never reconcile themselves to his victory.

    By withstanding the darts shot by friends and foes in government and in high places, he also demonstrated his unmatched ability to keep his eyes on the ball. In the presidential election, critics abandoned the ineffective and uninspiring Alhaji Atiku, cuddled the impressionable and dreamy Mr Obi, but reserved their worst arrows for Asiwaju Tinubu. He had become the main issue. How to ensure he survived the fusillade became the main preoccupation of his aides, nearly all of whom were bright and engaging professionals sadly finding it hard to match the relentlessness and malevolence of the Obi group. 

    Lagos governorship poll

    IS it not political insanity for Labour Party campaigners to invest Africa’s fifth largest economy on the untested and superficial Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour? The goal in the Lagos governorship poll is this time not religious, as the presidential election exhibited three weeks ago, nor any desire to elect a better, more gifted administrator than the incumbent Babajide Sanwo-Olu. The goal is simply and foolishly ethnic. The LP hounds whose campaigns are vivified by Peter Obi’s performance in the presidential poll in Lagos see in the half-Igbo Mr Rhodes-Vivour an ethnic champion and anchor for their anti-establishment revolt, and they are willing to gamble away the most prolific and modernising economy in Nigeria on a neophyte. This is not just insanity, it is a suicidal push certain to complicate and poison ethnic relations in Lagos State far beyond the elections as well as retard the state.