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  • Five Nigerian movies to see in August

    1. Sade takes Lagos

    A girl decides to take a vacation to Lagos after her parent’s separation. With hopes of making it big in her music, she is faced with challenges.

    Actors: Alex Ekubo, Seun Akindele, Tana Adelana
    Director: Chibuike Ibe
    Genre: Drama

    Release date: August 16, 2019 (Nigeria)

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    Sade takes Lagos, poster

     

    2. Once Upon a Night

    A psychology student with a fear of being alone imprisoned himself for one night to once and for all, face his demons. Only, not all these demons are unreal…

    Actors: Wale Ojo, Kiki Omeili, Ade Bantu, Daniel Egwede
    Director: Gbolahan Akitunde
    Genre: Thriller

    Release date: August 16, 2019 (Nigeria)

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    Once Upon a Night, poster

    3. The Reunion

    Four friends from the high school reunite to plan the 50th anniversary of their alma mater. As the battle of superiority stirs up and issues from the past are revisited, secrets are revealed that threaten to tear up their seemingly perfect lives.

    Actors: Steve Onu, Femi Jacobs, Mercy Johnson Okojie, Tana Adelana, Mercy Aigbe, Jide Kosoko (Prince), Frederick Leonard
    Director: Thomas Odia
    Genre: Drama

    Release date: August 16, 2019 (Nigeria)

    The Reunion, poster

    4. Love is Yellow

    Fighting for what you believe in can be one hell of a task but your life will only be hell if you never tried! Life serves us the good, bad and ugly in different colors. Love is yellow portrays the struggle and the pursuit of happiness in Lagos. Oladayo a tech entrepreneur finds a reason to shake off the dust from his once Shiny “Lagos Dream”.

    Actors: Bimbo Ademoye, Mofe Duncan, Timini Egbuson, Paul Utomi
    Director: Kayode Kasum
    Genre: Drama | Romance

    Love is Yellow, poster

    5. Wings Of A Dove

    The movie is an emotionally charged story of two young Northern girls married off to much older men at the ages of 13 and 14 and all they want is freedom to be children. It takes you on an emotional roller coaster of the loss of childhood innocence, the consequences of being in a forced, arranged marriage and the hopes and dreams of a future that is stolen from them.

    Actors: Omoni Oboli, Amal Umar, Zack Orji, Sani Danja, Yakubu Mohammed, Martha Felix
    Director: Omoni Oboli
    Genre: Drama

    Wings Of A Dove, poster
  • Int’l Youth Day: are we still leaders of tomorrow?

    The popular axiom, “The youth of today are the leaders of tomorrow” has generated so much controversy such that as youth with so much anticipation, we grew up believing the saying that the youths are the leaders of tomorrow as a promise of hope and some sort of assurance of a better tomorrow.

    However, whether it’s true or ambiguous, the underlying message of the axiom imposes a responsibility on essentially two parties – the youths who are the leaders of tomorrow and the adults who are the leaders of today.

    X-raying the unfair sidelining of the youths over the years, it is not out place to clamor for a new system of government called ‘youth-o-cracy’ – a government of the people, by the youths and for the people but sadly, our leaders of yesterday are still voraciously clinging on to the baton of power, leaving us to wonder when exactly is the future going to arrive for the youths.

    The youths of any nation can be likened to a fire, creeping forward a spark at first, then growing into a flame and “boom” brightening into a blaze. Youths are the building blocks of every nation. The stronger the youth of a country, the more developed that country.

    Read Also: Nigeria and the global youth forum

    Most significantly, the UN’s annual International Youth Day is a reminder that young people around the world are often relegated to the sidelines and excluded from having a say in key decision-making process that will affect them.

    The leadership cadre across African countries is filled with aged politicians who are of the notion that nation building is their exclusive right and as such youth should not be given a chance. Perhaps, their stand explains why youths are said to be leaders of tomorrow which is yet to arrive.

    If we are to solve the most pressing issues of our time, we need to tap into the dynamism of the youths and young social entrepreneurs who are disrupting inertia with exceptional innovation and creativity. The youth make the biggest demographic bracket of every nation, therefore empowering them is the logical option.

    At this junction, It is time for the youths to stop seeing themselves as too young. We all have something. In a society different strata and groups of people live; such as young, old, rich and poor; the most important and significant proxy of a society which plays a decisive role is the youth and fresh generation of that society

    The youths need to understand that life is not just a series of calculations and a sum total of statistics. It is about experience and sacrifice. It is something more complex. it’s about participation, contribution and making-a-difference.

    Alao Abiodun is a journalist. He can be reached via Alaojoshua200@gmail.com

  • Five reasons you should celebrate your birthdays

    Adeyinka Akintunde

     

    It is argued that the most important day in a person’s life is his or her birthday. This is because it is historic particularly as it marks the beginning of one’s sojourn on earth.

    Sadly, there are people who do not celebrate their birthdays. Some do not even remember the day, and for those who remember, they just let it pass like a normal day, doing nothing special, either for themselves or for other people around them, to mark  their special day.

    A birthday is a day that comes once a year and it should be celebrated for several reasons. Here are five reasons you should celebrate your birthdays.

    It is a time to be thankful

    Your birthday is a time to celebrate birth itself. It is an expression of thanksgiving to God for being born and still being alive. You are not better than those that are dead. It is also an occasion to rethink your life. It is a great time to reflect on the past, evaluate your present and make plans for your future.

    It is a time of new mercies

    To reach another year is an achievement. Another opportunity of blessings is open to you, as you begin a new year. It is a time to reflect on how much love and kindness you have enjoyed from God in the past year. Think of how many nights God allowed you to lie down and sleep and how many mornings He has awakened you with brand new mercies.

    It is a time to bond with people

    Your birthday is a good opportunity to bond with people, your family and your friends. Usually people make a special effort to be nice to you on your birthday. Birthday presents are good, but a wish that comes from the heart is worth all the presents in this world from those who truly love you.

    It is a time to be celebrated

    It is a “mini-judgement day”, a day your records are usually counted, but this time, only your uniqueness and the positives are celebrated. If you have influenced people, you have touched a life, your good deeds are usually recalled and celebrated. That is why people go extra miles to organize surprise parties for people, buy gifts (some with their last penny), send messages and wishes, all to celebrate the goodness of the one celebrating his/her birthday.

    It is a time to take up new responsibilities

    You are a year older on your birthday, and so, life will throw new challenges at you which you should accept. Your birthday is a reminder to be more responsible, and accept more challenges of life.

    People celebrate their birthdays in diverse ways, some throw a party, and some do a small celebration amongst two or more people. But the most important thing is that it is marked and celebrated.

     

    It is important to note that you are important. Your existence on earth is important; to you, your loved ones and strangers you haven’t yet met. You deserve to be celebrated.

    Do not hide your day. Celebrate it, because you deserve it.

     

  • Meet Otto Canon, Nigeria’s climate activist making efforts to save tomorrow

    It took all the resolve Otto Canon could muster not to charge at the driver of the rickety bus in Kaiama, an Ijaw community Bayelsa State. It was a Thursday morning in December, 2015.

    He had just completed his National Youth Service orientation course and was heading for a photo shoot in Yenagoa, when he ran into the driver emptying a sack of solid waste into a median on East-West Road.

    “If I had my way that morning,” Otto Canon fumed, “I would arrest him, charge him to court even. I was wondering how a sane human being would open their eyes and dispose such waste on the expressway, without a care,” he told this reporter.

    More than six years after that incident, that anger still rages on, like tidal waves sweeping across the face of the sea. But, unlike in 2015 where he nearly threw punches at the man whom he considered a threat to the environment, the 2014 Gulder Ultimate Search winner is channeling that energy at policy roundtables, climate chat groups, community forums and sustainability platforms advocating new approaches to securing the environment.

    In the beginning was anger

    In a larger sense, Otto Canon’s anger is justifiable. About 68% of the most extreme weather conditions within the last 20 years were made more severe by human-induced climate change, according to a study by Carbon Brief, a UK-based platform that covers development in climate science.

    But not many Nigerians are abreast of these realties. If they do, the data is nothing more than some vanity statistics; something they have heard so much so that it loses its ability to inspire action. “For some people, climate change sounds like some fantasy tale, something alien. But it’s not. It’s like day and night. Climate change is here and now, and every day, we are reminded that there’s no hiding place if we don’t stem its tide,” he says.

    Global reports on pollution alone place Nigeria in a frightening portion of the scale, with a myriad of diseases, floods and other environmental disasters as testament. But Otto Canon believes Nigerians need to adopt a new approach to the environment, prioritizing personal responsibility over expectations from government.

    With some of the worst deforestation indices in the world, Nigeria loses about 450 to 600 hectares of its forests annually and makes desertification a battle far from being won. Otto recounted an encounter during his statutory national service where a paramount ruler in Bayelsa boasted that his state generates the largest amount of wood in Nigeria.

    That statement, Otto recalled, left him furious and dumbfounded at the same time. “I was surprised because he did not mention a single effort to replace the trees or an awareness of the negative impact of that activity. To him, tree felling was a big achievement for the state. That incident reignited my passion to make an impact in that space.”

    Ever since, Otto has leveraged his fame as winner of one of Nigeria’s biggest reality shows to lead campaigns that support conservation and climate action.

    Enters Port Harcourt Tree Planting Festival

    The impact of climate change presents some of the darkest hours in human history, and Nigeria is not insulated. Yet, poor environmental practices, like those of the driver at East-West Road and millions of Nigerians, are stifling modest efforts to conserve our space.

    In 2018, Otto, along with 500 volunteers, launched the annual Port Harcourt Tree Planting Festival to drive mass action and mitigate climate change. At the maiden edition of the festival, about 1000 trees of various species were planted in strategic spots across the city. “The port Harcourt tree planting festival is a social Project organized by CleanCyclers in a bid to curb the effect of climate change and global warming and also restore the garden city of Nigeria,” he said.

    He expressed concern that Port Harcourt, a Nigerian garden city once renowned for its greenery, has lost its glory owing to harmful environmental practices.

    In 2018, the state governor, Nyesom Wike, said his administration was working hard to restore its Garden City status. To achieve that feat, the state is counting on the support of partners like CleanCyclers, a platform founded by Otto Canon only two years ago.

    Through the platform, Otto Canon has worked with various partners to design and implement projects, especially in Nigeria’s oil-rich Niger Delta region with a history of pollution, that promote afforestation, clean climate and zero waste.

    ‘It’s environment or nothing’

    Otto Canon’s foray into environmental activism appears predestined. “I was born into an amazing family where the father is a big lover of greeneries,” he says. That obviously rubbed off on the young man who was recently recognized by Nigerian President, Muhammadu Buhari and the Rivers State Government for his efforts at conserving the environment.

    “I’m concerned about the attitude of our people to the environment. I have had people tell me to slow down, and that I can’t change the world. Yes, I’m not sure I can change the world, but I certainly can make an impact on the environment. And that has to happen now,” Otto Canon explains.

    Otto’s efforts echo the global ambition by the United Nations under Goals 11, 13, 14 and 15 of its Sustainable Development Goals – from building sustainable cities to combating climate change, desertification, and promote blue economy.

    If there’s anything that is more urgent today, according to Otto, it is adopting a new, sustainable approach to how people see or relate with the environment; a system that frowns at the driver on East-West Road from polluting the environment. The government can’t do it alone.

  • Android Tips: How to view Wi-Fi passwords your device is connected to

    The first method is for phones with Android version 10 and above.

    It doesn’t require the installation of application or root. If this isn’t you, skip to Method 2

    Method 1

    1. Go to your phone’s settings menu
    2. Search for the “Wi-Fi” submenu (located in Settings –> Network & internet.) Once you’ve found the Wi-Fi settings menu, go ahead and select it.

    How to view Wi-Fi passwords
    How to view Wi-Fi passwords
    3. Go to available networks and select the “Saved networks” option. From there, you’ll see a list of all the Wi-Fi networks your phone remembers. Select one
    4. Choose the “Share” option towards the top of the screen. You’ll be asked to scan your fingerprint or face or enter your PIN or password.

     

    How to view Wi-Fi passwords
    How to view Wi-Fi passwords
    5. After that, you’ll see a QR code with that represents the network’s SSID and password.
    However, if your phone is running Android 9.0 or lower, the only way to view saved Wi-Fi passwords is with a root app.
    Method 2
    1. Install a WiFi Password viewer from Google App Store (check reviews to avoid downloading the wrong one)
    2. Launch the WiFi Password Viewer and tap “Grant” on the popup, then you’ll be taken to a list containing all of the Wi-Fi networks that you’ve ever connected to, where each entry shows a password beneath it.
    NOTE: If you need to share one of these passwords with another device, you have a few options. Start by tapping any entry in the list, then a small menu will pop up. From here, you can either tap “Copy password” to copy that network’s password to your clipboard, which would make it easy to paste into your favorite texting app and send to the other device.
  • Toni Morrison and her many awards

    Toni Morrison was born on February 18, 1931 and named Chloe Ardelia Wofford. She adopted the catholic name Anthony which earned her the nickname Toni.

    She also adopted her ex-husband’s surname, hence the name Toni Morrison. She was an American novelist, essayist, editor, teacher and professor emeritus at Princeton University until complications from pneumonia led to her death on August 5, 2019 at age 88.

    In February 2019, she published her final book, a collection of essays titled “The Source of Self Regard: Essays, Speeches, Meditations”.

    In June, two months before her death, filmmaker Timothy Greenfield-Sanders released “The Pieces I Am”, a documentary about her work and legacy.

    Read Also: Nobel laureate Morrison dies at 88

    Below is a list of Toni Morrison’s awards:

    · 1975: Ohioana Book Award for “Sula”

    · 1977: National Book Critics Circle Award for “Song of Solomon”

    · 1977: American Academy and Institute of Arts and Letters Award

    · 1987–1988: Robert F. Kennedy Book Award

    · 1988: Helmerich Award

    · 1988: American Book Award for “Beloved”

    · 1988: Anisfield-Wolf Book Award in Race Relations for “Beloved”

    · 1988: Pulitzer Prize for Fiction for “Beloved”

    · 1988: Frederic G. Melcher Book Award for “Beloved”

    · 1988: Ohioana Career Medal for contributions to education, literature, and the humanities

    · 1989: Honorary Doctor of Letters at Harvard University

    · 1993: Nobel Prize for Literature

    · 1993: Commander of the Arts and Letters, Paris

    · 1994: Condorcet Medal, Paris

    · 1994: Rhegium Julii Prize for Literature

    · 1996: Jefferson Lecture

    · 1996: National Book Foundation’s Medal of Distinguished Contribution to American Letters

    · 2000: National Humanities Medal

    · 2002: 100 Greatest African Americans, list by Molefi Kete Asante

    · 2005: Honorary Doctorate of Letters from Oxford University

    · 2008: New Jersey Hall of Fame inductee

    · 2009: Norman Mailer Prize, Lifetime Achievement

    · 2010: Officier de la Légion d’Honneur.

    · 2010: Institute for Arts and Humanities Medal for Distinguished Contributions to the Arts and Humanities from the Pennsylvania State University.

    · 2011: Library of Congress Creative Achievement Award for Fiction.

    · 2011: Honorary Doctor of Letters at Rutgers University Graduation Commencement.

    · 2011: Honorary Doctorate of Letters from the University of Geneva.

    · 2012: Presidential Medal of Freedom.

    · 2013: The Nichols-Chancellor’s Medal awarded by Vanderbilt University.

    · 2014: Ivan Sandrof Lifetime Achievement Award given by the National Book Critics Circle.

    · 2016: PEN/Saul Bellow Award for Achievement in American Fiction.

    · 2016: The Charles Eliot Norton Professorship in Poetry (The Norton Lectures), Harvard University.

    2016: The Edward MacDowell Medal, awarded by The MacDowell Colony.

    2018: The Thomas Jefferson Medal, awarded by The American Philosophical Society.

  • Eight tips to manage your financial income wisely

    By Praise Olowe

     

    · Get an accurate picture of your finances

    The first step here is to get an accurate picture of your finances. That is, how much money is coming in? How much money is going out? And what exactly is it going out for? These three questions are very important start to working on your finances.

    · Build a budget and stick to it

    I should scream out the ‘’Stick to It’’ part. It is important to create a monthly budget once you have a clear picture of your finances.

    Start by listing all your expenses. Begin with the most important (rent and other bills) and end with the least important (categories like entertainment).

    Decide how much money you’ll spend on each category. Some expenses, like most bills, will stay the same every month. Others may be one-time expenses, like attending a special event or purchasing a gift. That’s why you have to customise your budget monthly.

    Creating a budget is pointless if you don’t stick to it.

    · Slash or remove unnecessary expenses

    It can be alarming to see how much you’re spending on categories like fast food, data subscription, clothing etc. Ask yourself at the end of it all if it really matters. Some expenses are obviously not a priority.

    Remember, the idea is to learn how to manage your finances better by taking everything and every penny into account.

    So, do some spring cleaning and slash expenses wherever you see an opportunity and especially if it’s something that doesn’t affect your life to a great extent.

    Read Also; Eight things you should never discuss with your coworkers

    · Create an emergency fund

    Emergency funds are an important part of a healthy personal finance plan. In almost all cases, you shouldn’t touch or take money out of the fund. Rather, let it sit there earning interest. If you lose your job or an unfortunate or unexpected expense arises such as your car breaking down or one family need or the other, this is when you should tap into it.

    · Save, save and save

    Start saving as much as you can as early as you can. The first thing should be to establish a savings target that tells you approximately how much you should and can set aside over time. It is also important that you do not tamper with your savings.

    · Choose a reasonable rent payment

    Housing costs are generally the most significant part of everyone’s budget as well as a major emotional investment. The search for the “perfect” home can easily extend your budget beyond what’s really comfortable.

    When setting a housing budget, be sure to include all fixed costs and consider what amount you really want to pay.

    · Treat yourself

    One of the biggest mistakes people make when getting their finances is becoming too strict. If we constantly deny ourselves the things we love the most, we will eventually cave in to the pressure and make mistakes. Add in a date night or a vacation here and there. Reward yourself when you hit a savings goal with a night out or a movie.

    · Keep building your skills

    If you want to move up the ladder and make more money in your chosen industry, you have to continuously develop your skills.

    Subscribe to blogs related to what you do. Keep up with the latest trends and scope out the competition. Read books, take online courses, and get relevant certifications.

    You’ll keep improving as an employee, and your boss will appreciate your initiative.

  • Sallah: What Muslims who can’t afford to slaughter a ram should do

    It’s just two days to the Eid-el-Kabir celebration and you’ve not purchased that BIG RAM. Is that thought that you’ve not got your wife and children some brand clothes, shoes and jewellery giving you sleepless nights?

    My brothers and sisters, take it easy. We all know times are hard. This is what to do as a Muslim to enjoy the Sallah

    Slaughtering of rams for Sallah is not ‘do or die’ for Muslims who cannot afford it but it is compulsory for those who are financially capable.

    This festival is to mark the conclusion of the important worship of Hajj or pilgrimage to Makkah. At the end of the Hajj, Muslims throughout the world celebrate the holiday of Eid Al Adha, meaning the ‘Festival of Sacrifice’.

    During the celebration of Eid Al Adha, Muslims commemorate Abraham’s trials, by slaughtering Rams or other animal includes camel, cow or goat.

    Sallah reminds Muslims the Prophet Ibrahimor Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son when ordered to by Allah.

    Ibrahim in the Quran faces the command of God (Allah) to kill his only son. Upon hearing this command, he prepared to submit to Allah’s will. When he was all prepared to do it, Allah revealed to him that his “sacrifice” had already been fulfilled.

    Read Also; Sallah: Buhari leaves for Katsina

    So, the essence of ram slaughtering by Muslims on Sallah day is to spread love to people most especially the less-privileged, so that they can also be happy during and after the celebration.

    Going extra miles or dubious ways just to slaughter a ram for Sallah make no sense except you have other intentions, but Allah (S.A.W) frowned at it.

    What you should do instead is to focus on the spiritual significance of the celebration. Offer fasting on Arafat day (Saturday 10th of this month) and be prayerful throughout the celebration.

    In conclusion, If you cannot afford to buy rams this year, don’t be ashamed of yourself, someone else we share with you and I pray in the coming year, you’ll be financially capable to travel for Hajj.

  • Six ways to make your long-distance relationship work better

    By Samuel Oamen

     

     

    Some people believe that being faithful is difficult especially when two lovers are so far apart. They feel maintaining communication might become increasingly difficult and as the relationship lasts longer, insecurities might arise because one person is not around to see what the other is doing.

    But the truth is long distance relationships can work. Although dating is hard and takes a lot of commitment from both parties, there are ways you can keep your long distance relation going.

    Below you will find tips on how to strengthen your bond with your partner:

    1. Avoid too much communication

    Generally, the standards as to what is considered too much communication varies from couple to couple. There are two extremities: the couple that communicates too much and the couple who doesn’t communicate enough. You don’t need to compensate for the distance by strangling each other with possessiveness.

    There are couples who can last without speaking for three days and remain married for thirty years and there are some who speak every hour and break up after two months. Sometimes when you are calling for too long, there are some jealous questions your partner might want to ask, maybe because your partner hears the voice of a guy around you or that of a female as the case may be, essentially.

    The best thing to do is to just go with the flow and do what is normal for your relationship, avoiding too much communication. Some people even spend the whole time quarreling with their partners on phone about past events than discussing relevant and present issues. Remember too much of everything is bad.

    2. Keep your outing with friends on a low

    Some partners are the jealous and overprotective types. They won’t want to hear that you’re hanging out with a friend, be it male or female. Some male partners get jealous when you hang out with your female friend or a with male friend except if the female friend is someone they have met before. They might have the feeling that the female friend is teaching you some bad things like cheating, partying, clubbing etc.

    READ ALSO: How can I maintain my long-distance relationship?

    Your partner might even get angrier when he gets to know that you are handing out with a male friend. You know your partner more than I do, you know what can upset him, so be wise it is not every place you visit you’ll tell him or her to avoid, jealousy and anger.

    3. Do things together.

    Doing things together can mean a variety of things. In this technologically- driven society, you may want to consider playing online video games together when you are less busy. You can as well see a movie of YouTube together, then analyse the movie. Also you can read the same e-books, Skype, video call over the distance. Even though you’re living apart from each other, that doesn’t mean you can’t share bonding experiences.

    4. Send love messages and gifts on special days.

    You should see sending of messages and buying of gifts as very important. It might not be every time but only depends on how buoyant you are and you shouldn’t complain of not having money because you can save up for this. There are some very special days you shouldn’t forget to send a special message and gift to your partner. These days, you can just order from an e-commerce site, and your order will get delivered to your partner.

    Nothing is too little. You only need to know those important days in the life of your partners so as to send them good wishes and gifts. However, it’s not only on special days you can send gifts, you can do so even when your partner least expect.

    5. Visit each other

    Your relationship must be a two- way street. Obviously, you can’t go without seeing each other for the rest of your lives. So visits will be necessary. Besides, you guys will have all that much more fun once you see each other again. Scheduling time to visit your spouse is very important if your relationship must work well. Even in your very busy schedule, you must map out time to visit each other. Visiting each other should also not be one- sided. Visits are not only for the ladies, guys should also find time to pay their partners a visit.

    6. Be honest

    It can be easy to lie in a long distant relationship because you feel after all. He or she isn’t there to prove you wrong. But no good relationship can be built on lies. Therefore, the best thing you can do for your relationship is to be honest with one another.
    It is better not to talk at all than to tell lies, because lies will not always save you.

  • Bride price in Eastern Nigeria: Facts, myths

    Bride price in Eastern Nigeria: Facts, myths

    Planning to marry an Igbo lady, then forget everything they told you that you can’t afford to marry an Igbo lady because most of these things are lies.

    In actual truth, the Igbo traditional engagement list for marriage is not as overwhelming as people usually paint it.

    If your fiancée says ‘yes’ to your marriage proposal, then the next thing is to forward your marriage proposal to her family, through the parents.

    In Igbo customs, at first, this initial marriage proposal/introductory rite is known as “Iku aka” (which means knock on the door).

    You’ll first, have to go alone to her parents after, which you will take your family to see her bigger family. If you are lucky to have received a positive response from the lady’s family, the in-laws-to-be will give the man and his family a list of the next steps to enable them to prepare for the customary Igbo traditional marriage ceremony.

    A groom-to-be is expected to ask and receive the consent and blessings of the bride-to-be’s parents as well as her extended family. Once they all give their consents, the groom can then proceed to complete the rest of the traditional marriage rites, which includes, the bride’s price (Ime ego) with a presentation of the engagement list, and the formal traditional party (Igba-nkwu).

    The list includes the gift of Umu-ada, they need to buy pieces of clothes (wrappers), shoes and bags and jewellery, etcetera.

    Read Also: Four things Igbo people like

    Another item on the list is the gift for (Umunna), which includes kolanuts, palm wine, bottles of Schnapps, carton of assorted drinks (malt, soft drinks and beers) and goat. Also on the list is the general gift (Nmepe uzo), which includes bags of rice, bags of salt, palm oil, kerosene, stockfish, tubers of yam etcetera.

    Intending grooms should please note that the Igbo bride price and engagement list consists of gift items that are shared among different groups among the bride’s family and the extended family which is made up of (the Umunna, the Umuade, the youths etcetera). They are not only for the bride parents.

    Interestingly, in recent times, many Igbo parents have had to do a downward review of the cost of the traditional marriage ceremony to help their future in-laws. Unconfirmed sources also have it that such decision is also intended to allow their daughters get married early as most suitors are reported to flee the relationship once they get the list.

    Consequently, Igbo parents do this review in exchange for an intending groom to make a commitment to take good care of their daughter and her future children and this has given rise to more marriages among Igbo ladies and their suitors.