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  • I am here to stay (Get Motivated!)

    I am here to stay (Get Motivated!)

    I am here to stay.

    Life is more than merely existing; it is about LIVING for something and probably DYING for what you believe in.

    It goes beyond the threshold of breathing; it is about breathing value and life into everything, person or group that comes in contact with you.

    A lot of people never get to manifest their greatness so much so that when they leave this earth nobody ever know they left not to talk of missing them because their level of contribution and consciousness is so small. Of a truth, we can all do great things only if we dare or attempt it.

    When you close your eyes, where or what do you see? Do you see yourself consciously walking and working in the direction of your dreams or are you merely shadowing in the pedestrian and predictable steps of others, that is, your employers, bosses, parents etc.

    We all have our ‘inner demons’.

    Our inner demons most of the time looks exactly like us especially when we look into the mirror. They exist in several forms and expressions like procrastination, laziness, excuses, negligence etc.

    As children, we had great and amazing dreams and aspirations. We did not have the tinniest modicum of doubt in our ability to live our dreams. As far as we were concerned, the world was under our feet and was ours to be taken.

    However, as we grew, we began to easily fit into the conditioning of our environment.

    We have been told that our dreams are too big and our connections and finances are too small.

    If you had to evaluate your life and the results you have produced, would you score an A, B, C, D, E or an outright ‘F’…just saying!

    We should set targets and not settle for less until we get what we want; until things work in the direction of our expectations.

    Learn to bargain with life for exactly what you want and be ready to PAY THE PRICE once you have set the terms and wages from life.

    There is a quote by Tony Gaskins that says “know who you are, know what you want, know what you deserve and don’t settle for less”.

    Say to yourself…My inner demon is ******* and I am ready to fight it because “I AM HERE STAY”.

  • Lagos! The Beautiful City of Gold

    Lagos! The Beautiful City of Gold

    This is Lagos! 

    The beautiful city of Gold

    Diverse and full of strength

    The city of  hopes and fantasies

    The city of possibilities and accomplishments

    This is Lagos

    The centre of Excellence

     

    Ajegunle has few fine places and not everyone residing there, are roguesbeautiful house in Lagos

    There are ghettos on the Island, not everyone living on the Island is rich

     

    ghettos in Lagos

    Agege bread will not kill you, take it once in a while

     

    Traffic is crazy, but if you understand the timing, you can go around Lagos when the roads are less busy

    Most hotels are fully booked on Friday

    If you can make it in Lagos, you can make it anywhere else in Nigeria

    Most of the goods sold at boutiques at exorbitant prices are found at Yaba market, Oshodi market, Aswani market etc at cheaper rates.

    The person next to you, in a commercial bus may soon be the new owner of your valuables.

    Always keep your ‘change’ handy before boarding a commercial bus

    Not all bottle water is safe, some sachet water is actually safer.

    Not all beggars, are beggars and not all mad men are mad.

    Gorge on rice, it is like the major food in Lagos

    Saturdays are for Owambe and Aso ebi things

    Lagos is surrounded by water and there are beautiful beaches in Lagos

    Lagos has the most interesting night life. There are many shows to attend and lot of parties to groove in.

    Electronics and computer accessories are sold in ‘computer village’. If you are not smart however, they may not go home with you after purchase.

    The most popular and delicious barbecue meat (suya) can be found at almost every corner in Lagos every night on a daily.

    Lagos state has one of the longest bridge in Africa

     

    85% of salaries are spent on transportation and feeding

     

    Landlords have zero chill

  • King Olutanmole Agbaye: A man worth emulating

    King Olutanmole Agbaye: A man worth emulating

    A lot of people speculate and many are eager to know much about this spiritual giant of our time. This generation and particularly Nigeria is blessed for having such a righteous man raised in a corrupt world of ours.

    Olutanmole is the spiritual head of Kingdom of Heaven on Earth Mission (KIHEM), the holy throne of God on earth.

    His attitude to worldly things distinguishes him among others, especially his fellow men of God, as he has zero desire for worldly glory.

    He has been an exemplary preacher and teacher of righteousness for more than 50 years and has not acquired a house of his own, no landed property, no personal bank account and has only one wife who has been labouring with him in the kingdom.

    King Olutanmole started as a practising Christian and devoted member of a church located at the eyebrow of Ilupeju, Lagos mainland. He became head of the church by divine appointment after the demise of the founder. He believes in doing things right and his doggedness and uncommon discipline brought sanity back to the church which was ridden with corruption then. He demonstrated rear leadership style of selflessness and this made people love and become attracted to him.

    Right from the beginning of his encounter with Christ, he vowed not to call any earthly thing his own, because Christ owned nothing. He declared in front of a mammoth crowd that he would never leave any material legacy for his biological children because all properties belong to the ministry.

    He believes all teachings of Christ as written in the scriptures should be deposited in the lives of followers of Christ and not to be read as novel or newspaper hence he teaches his followers not to leave all life-changing doctrine of Christ in the Bible but make it their way of life.  He is a teacher of eternal life just like Jesus.

    He earned the title, Christ’s representative because he practically demonstrates Jesus and teaches people what he practises.

    Those who are familiar with him will testify to his tough preaching against sins and iniquities on the radio in the 70s, 80s. His famous theme then was John 16:8 – ‘sin, righteousness and God’s judgment.’

    And viewers of MITV, NTA 10 television stations around the year 2000 will not be unfamiliar with his judgment hour message.

    His consistent and unwavering life of righteousness and selfless love of his fellow humans endeared him to God who appointed him the restorer of all things in this awkward age. God handpicked him to restore the elects to divine righteousness before the second coming of Christ for judgment because he is the advocate of total reformation of humanity. He believes in the second coming of Christ as prophesied in the Bible but teaches that judgment shall commence in the house of God (I Peter 4:17).

    He became the recipient of the kingdom throne of the father of Jesus after he had a spiritual encounter with Christ himself at the end of his sojourn in a remote, mountainous wilderness for seven days without food and water, and was given the mandate to preach the gospel of the kingdom throne of the father of Jesus prophesied in the scripture in Daniel 2:44, Matthew 6:9 and Matthew 24:14.) as the end time ark of salvation.

    King Olutanmole has been given a unique mission by God to rescue his own generation from the wrath of God and prepare the elects for the perfect world after the second coming of Christ for judgment.

    He is not God and has never called himself Jesus but that he is sent to demonstrate Christ in physical realities.

    His love life which demonstrates what is written in the scriptures is awesome. He is impressed, stunned by the sacrificial shedding of His blood for unknown sinners by Jesus and vowed to also be donating his own blood to resuscitate lives of people who are dying for lack of blood in the hospitals.

    He gives scholarships to many who are not members of his ministry. He adopted children from orphanages and gave them meaningful lives.

    His doors are open to all who wish to know him, and he has been graced to pen-down so many life-changing doctrines which you can study to get acquainted with King Olutanmole Agbaye, the unique man of God that if you don’t know him already, then you need to start doing so now so you can be convinced on a firsthand basis of his heavenly, Christ-like virtues.

  • One Corner Dance- The darling of parties, events

    One Corner Dance- The darling of parties, events

    Dance forms a very important aspect of our identity as a people. It most times is at the epi-centre of our culture and tradition.

    We communicate and share our essence with global audiences when we dance, especially our traditional dances.

    Although, to be a good dancer you need a lot of practice and training and would be easier if the talent is inborn.

    However, when dance loses its rhythm and essence, it not only becomes a ‘demonstration of craze’, but reduces man to states of bestial tendencies; more or less like a macabre dance.

    Social media have been set ablaze with the trending song called ‘one corner dance’. This song by Patapaa Amisty, a Ghanian musician, requires some level of craziness to flow with it.

    The winning strategy for this song was the introduction of a dance competition online; this meant that the winner carts away with a huge sum of money.

    The dance competition made the song more popular (or should we say – notorious?), because both the old, young, celebrity and ordinary person danced enthusiastically and posts it on their various social media platforms.

    This song has spread like wildfire such that it has become the darling of wedding parties and youth events, not just in its place of origin (Ghana), but also in our beloved country – Nigeria.

    The question that readily comes to mind is – Is there a possessive spirit behind this song or is it an avenue for people to escape from the harsh economic and social realities that continues to stare them in the face like a one-eyed monster?

    Can we say that those who dance to this song in weird manners do so without any sense of reasoning? Please before you start to throw tantrums on the writer…HOLD UP!

    This should be an appropriate point for our regulatory bodies like the National Broadcasting Commission ( NBC ) to step up and take charge of the airwaves because apart from the fact that this ‘alien’ song has been surreptitiously introduced into our country, this song is gradually eating deep into the comportment and perceived sanity, especially among our youths and teenagers who have too much energy to burn.

    The One Corner song is powered by merriment dance, which is hilarious in its notion. It is a sexualized dance movement in the sense that you move your waist in a sexual form.

    Obviously, we (the youths) are already drowning in the ocean of ignorance and have thrown caution to the wind when it comes to ‘dancing.’

    Although culture (dance inclusive) can be a viable source of revenue for the country, however, it is also very expedient that we tell the narrative of our rich tradition in the right way.

    In Conclusion, Nigerians especially the youths should be more innovative and creative, and stop waiting for the chance to feed on another man’s creativity, especially when it is bereft of cultural ideals.

  • How to keep your man

    How to keep your man

    Men want love as badly as women do. Most especially Lagos men. They just might not always be as obvious about it. But generally, they want the same thing: friendship, companionship, chemistry. So why is there so much confusion and miscommunication between the sexes?

    Rules. Some have been handed down through the generations. Others are ones we “see” to be true. And, of course, there are the ones written from our personal history.

    There are some universal rules applying to men that you probably could find inscribed on the walls of caves from long ago. They still ring true today:

    Praise Him

     Just like ladies, Men also adore women who shower them with adulation.

    Quit Nagging

    Men hate it. Tell them once what you want. You have a 50-50 chance it will be done. Tell them more than that within a 24-hour period and it’s called nagging. Lagos men have little chill, therefore be careful and avoid nagging.

    Crying

    Men really hate it. Imagine you finally get him to have a serious talk and you start crying because you don’t like how it’s going. Well, girlfriend, you killed that one. If he ignores your emotions, Finish the talk, and then cry to the dog or whoever.

    Where is this relationship going?

    Really? Fine, you have to know what plan he has for the relationship but you don’t have to ask this too early. You don’t have to rush things. You just have to let is flow.

    Food

    Feed him! I suppose the cliché rings true. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. They find that women who cook are more sexy and confident than women who do not. Gone are the days of takeout menus. As a man ages, so does his palate. Nothing pleases a man more than a hearty home cooked meal made by the love of his life.

    Be Naughty

    Try not to let your sex life become lackluster. Ask him about his ultimate sexual fantasy and play it out. Turn up the fun by turning up the kink. Do something spontaneous like surprising him with sex. Psst. It’s good for both of you. It keeps the connection and relieves stress and tension. He’ll be putty in your hands. Cook a meal for him after and he’ll be so happy he might even cry.

    Be supportive

    You should stand by your man through thick and thin, especially when it comes to difficult life decisions. Support him in his decision. No matter how unpleasant it may be, your partner needs your support to help him through the tough times so ensure that you are there for him.

    Show Appreciation

    It doesn’t matter how little the effort is, make sure you show appreciation often

     Love

    And more love. Tell him. Hug him. Text him. Laugh with him. Leave love notes in the bathroom or in his car. All the time. You’ll get it back in spades. It’s contagious and it keeps the special spark glowing bright.

    However Nigerian Youtuber Adefolake reveal ways to keep a man in Lagos. See video below:

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  • Felabration: Review of Fela’s top five songs

    Felabration: Review of Fela’s top five songs

    One of the most important musical and political figures to emerge in post-independence Nigeria, Fela Kuti was the legendary rebel and agent provocateur that pioneered Afrobeat, an invigorating hybrid of dirty funk and traditional African rhythms.

    No denial that Fela was a complex man that was equal parts shaman, showman and trickster, whose perpetual criticism of Nigeria’s governmental and religious figures made him a constant target.

    Later called Baba 70, Fela was one of a handful of exceptional individuals that forever changed our musical landscape.

    This is a guide to five of his voluminous recorded songs and the deep meanings of each of them.

    In view of Felabration, an annual music festival conceived in 1998 by Yeni Anikulapo-Kuti in memory and celebration of her father Fela Kuti, a Nigerian musician and human rights activist known for pioneering the afrobeat genre of music, take a look at five of Fela’s songs and their contributions to the new look of the musical landscape.

    1. “Zombie”

    Zombie was released in 1976 by Coconut Records and was immediately a success among the people. The song starts off strong with a rousing horn fanfare that holds the clue to the important message Fela delivers: the zombie he refers to, who does whatever he is told unthinkingly, is a soldier of the Nigerian Army.

    Fela was a provocateur, and his criticism of the Nigerian government made him a constant target. His revolutionary way of being was reflected in many aspects of his life. Fela had created a commune in his house, treated like an independent state, called the Kalakuta Republic.

    In Zombie, he narrates the military in motion comparing their orientation to the Zombie, without minds of their own (unfree). The soldiers are portrayed as brainless figures, brainwashed to do whatever higher authorities want.
    “Zombie no go think, unless you tell them to think.

    In the song, he said “Zombie no go think, unless you tell them to think”

    This bold condemnation of the military institution led to a raid in Kalakuta, and finally to his mother’s death. One thousand members of the Nigerian army attacked and burnt down his house after the release of the record. Fela was badly beaten, his records and instruments destroyed; tragically, his mother was taken and thrown from the second floor leading to fatal injuries.

    2. “Suffering and Smiling”

    Released in 1977, Fela describes the life of the average Nigerian who is constantly suffering, but smiling through the pain, believing in the rewards that await them in the afterlife due to the teachings of religious leaders, who themselves live the most lavish lives, enjoying the so-called earthly pleasures. He warns people to open their eyes to this injustice and stop being blind followers of religion.

    Things haven’t changed much today, as people still blindly follow religion (and religious leaders), without necessarily understanding its true meaning.

    3. “Suffer Head” must go

    “Suffer Head” is a masterpiece of the 1980s, released at a time when the living conditions of the poor masses were getting worse. He was able to put across graphically, the terrible living conditions of the working masses. Describing, among others, how “ten people sleep inside one small room” in the slums; how the transportation system was so bad that “my people are packed inside buses like sardines”; how water, food and light (electricity) were both lacking or grossly inadequate. He then linked these to the cynical nomenclature of underdeveloped nations.

    He further criticised the essence of the United Nations’ cynical programmes of “food-house-health etc., for all by the year 2000”. He tagged them programme of deceit. In conclusion, Fela made a revolutionary appeal that “suffer head must go! And J’eba head must come” (eba is a popular meal in Nigeria).

    4. “Teacher Don’t Teach Me Nonsense”

    This was released in 1980, it highlights the fact that the white man seems to be living our lives for us, while they make their own decisions based on their culture and tradition. The white man, instead of condemning the bad leadership that goes on here, overlooks them while doing the exact opposite in their own countries.
    He condemns the so-called democracy and begs Africans to open their eyes and realize that they are being misled and stolen from.

    Today, instead of drawing away from the chains of colonialism, we still rely on foreign countries to help us make some of our major decisions and try to imitate every aspect of their lives, forgetting our cultures and traditions in the process.

    5. “Army Arrangement”

    Released in 1985, this piece of music revealed the mismanagement of the economy by the past regimes in Nigeria, both military and civilian governments alike.

    It exposed their methods of thievery, among others. It similarly showed that nothing good could come out of the then civilian rule, which he claimed correctly was to come about with the participation of the “same old politicians who ruled (ruined) and spoiled Nigeria before.”

    The album was a revelation of the inherent class links between the military Generals and the civilian wing (so-called ‘political class’) of the ruling capitalist class.

  • The 21st Century Girl Child

    The 21st Century Girl Child

    Gone are those days when strenuous house chores and upbringing of ones offspring were seen as the ingredient of a virtuous woman.

    Those were the days when suffering was seen as a necessity, when technology was seen as an excuse to be lazy, when ladies had to depend on their man for the least of needs.

    In fact, those were the days when men pride themselves on how well they can control their women, and have her take care of the family and other domestic affairs without giving credence to the woman.

    Instead she is scolded and shouted at for making silly mistakes.

    Now we are in an era of ‘wise ladies’; ladies that see technology as an integral part of civilization.

    Ladies that now occupy organizational/political positions formerly believed to belong to men.

    Ladies who want to make significant and formidable impact in our world.

    Ladies who pride themselves in hustling for their own needs rather than become housewives.

    Ladies who readily embrace the totem of being the ‘neck’, but have refused to see the neck-position as a place of weakness but of strength.

    Ladies who out of sheer determination and hardwork have surmounted the sundry inhibitions and limitations of societal norms and traditions.

    The world has changed and the girl-child has begun to see it in a different perspective; we call them the ‘21st century girl-child’.

    The 21th century girl-child is technology-oriented. She is not just content with staying at home and playing the ‘good sister’ to her siblings and an obedient daughter waiting to get married. But she joggles domestic expectations with her ambitions.

    A 21st century girl child is surrounded by various social media platforms and she wants to be famous in all of them. Is that too much to ask?

    She wants to be a YouTube star, she wants to be a Facebook celebrity, she wants her opinion to be heard and respected based on its own merit and not just on gender colourations.

    A 21st century girl-child wants to slay…she wants to glow, she wants to trend, she is a studio pic freak, she is in love with ‘likes’ and ‘positive comments’.

    A 21st century girl-child is stubborn especially in her unwavering belief for gender equity.

    The 21st century girl-child is eager and excited. She wants to explore, she wants to love, she gets her heart broken and learn from the mistakes of relationships.

    A 21st century girl-child will never shrink herself to salvage the ego of another person neither would she become small for someone who refuses to grow.

    The 21st century girl-child will never adjust her behaviour to be likeable, because she knows that most times she loses her trueself in a bid to please someone else.

    Of a truth, being assertive can be very hard for women (girl-child) because an assertive woman is often mistaken to be unruly and proud.

    But still a 21st century girl-child understands that not being liked, as hard as it may be, might be a sign of something you are doing right.

    A 21st century girl-child is tough. Is a boss. Is rational. Is confident. Her actions and words are not limited by the dogmas of culture.

    Above all, a 21st century girl-child wants to be seen and heard too.

  • Five new things you can do with Google

    Five new things you can do with Google

    Google specifically builds its platforms and products to be globally relevant. Users in Nigeria also have access to these products, which will help them access information with ease. Here are 5 cool things you can do with Google that you probably didn’t know about.

    1. Chat or send SMS in any language…including in Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa

    If you are like most Nigerians, then you probably have a grandma, uncle or family member that prefers to read messages in either Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa. Did you know that Google can help you communicate with them in these languages and more? The next time you need to type a message on SMS, Whatsapp or any other messaging app, simply click on the Google  logo on your keyboard, and click on the translate icon and let Gboard do the translation for you.

    Gboard is a new keyboard from Google for your Android or iPhone and It has all the things you would expect from a great keyboard — GIFs, emojis, and Glide Typing — plus Google Search built in. No more app switching; just search and send, right from your keyboard.

    If Gboard isn’t installed on your phone, you can download it from the Apple store or the Android Play store.

    1. Find information on Health Conditions

    Remember the last time you searched on Google for health information? Maybe a co-worker shook your hand and later found out she had pink eye, so you looked up “pink eye” to see whether it’s contagious. Or maybe you were worried about a loved one down with malaria. By simply typing in ‘Malaria’, Google will show you health panels with information on malaria symptoms and treatments. Google has health knowledge panels available for over 800 common diseases and ailments. This is now accessible to Nigerians and Google has partnered with the University of Ibadan to ensure that answers are reviewed by Nigerian doctors.

    1. Get a list and times for movies showing at the cinema near you

    When it’s Friday and you want to spend the evening watching a movie with that special someone. Challenge is you don’t know what movies are showing at the cinema. No problem. Just ask Google. How? Just type ‘what movies are showing at the Ikeja mall’ into Google, and Google will give a list of movies showing at Ikeja mall, plus the times those movies are showing. And if you are in Ikeja, simple check for the movies showing at the cinema close to you. It works the same way. But hey, don’t take my word for it, try it out yourself!

    1. Find information on Nollywood movies

    Interested in finding out information about that Nollywood movies? No problem with that. Make Google do the selection for you, type the name of the ‘nollywood movie into search and let Google give you all the information, including the actors. Easy peasy!

     

    1. Get more details on what your favourite musician, movie or sport star is up to

    With Posts on Google, entertainers and businesses can share visible updates directly to Google. This means you get your favourite star’s live update alongside your search results when you Google them.

    Google announced the availability of Google Posts in Nigeria at Google for Nigeria, on 27 July.

    Posts makes it possible for musicians, entertainers and other public figures to share updates, images and videos directly on Google, for people to see while they explore on the web. Nigeria is the third country where we’ve made this feature available and some of the country’s popular musicians are already using it.

    Posts has been available for limited use since January 2016, initially only for US Presidents, then for some businesses, and, from March 2017, for all businesses that use Google My Business (except hotels & B&Bs), public figures, celebrities and things like movies, museums and sports teams. It is available in the US, Brazil and Nigeria.

    Google Posts allow businesses and individuals to create posts that show up in the knowledge panel on Google Search and Google Maps. So, for example, if you search for the Nigerian music star Bez, you may see something like the image attached beneath this subheader.

    NOTE: Posts expire after a week, unless they are event-based, in which case they expire after the event date.

  • Introspection at Nigeria’s Independence

    Introspection at Nigeria’s Independence

    Fifty seven (57) years ago, the joy and happiness in the air was enough to choke sorrow out. That joy that was written on the faces of every Nigerian; that joy that showed how sweet ones freedom could be. Oh! That joy of independence!

    Our fore fathers chanted independence like their lives depended on it.

    They came together irrespective of their diversity in ideologies and political activities, they wanted this independence so badly because they never wanted the next generation to be brought forth into captivity.

    They saw a great nation that if well-handled could become the world next super power.

    Oh! That dream of independence that sounded more like a pledge that must be achieved.

    On October 1, 1960, Nigeria gained her Independence; this singular declaration put a stop to the imperial domination by our then slave masters – Britain.

    The birth of Nigeria was heralded with the Green and White Flag fluttering in the cold and misty October night symbolizing the aspirations of millions who had looked forward with hope to the end of British rule with promises of a brighter future.

    Finally, the freedom was here and everyone became “tipsy” of it, yet we were not satisfied. We clamoured for a Republican state which we got.

    Everyone went about their businesses. Before we knew it greed came to play, selfish motives became the order of the day and oh!, that dream of independence became a mirage.

    Soon enough, it began to look like this so called independence was a prey in the midst of hungry wolves. It began to look like a stage set for a “political drama”.

    That independence that staged a new Nigeria devoid of the Britain’s touch; that same independence that gave power and right to the youngest child in Nigeria.

    However, it is the same independence that have become entangled and froth with political rivalry, corruption, nepotism, tribalism and an overt display of prebendal politics.

    Don’t get me wrong, I mean this same independence came with a lot of good packages too.

    It pioneered self-governance till this very moment, made us the king of Africa and showed how well we can handle this country on our own… even with a lot of hiccups here and there which is inevitable.

    At independence, the young Nation was expected to play a leading role in the world; it was expected to be a future economic and political powerhouse and the pride of the black race, however, that was 57 years ago.

    Today, the dream of a great Nation has become a nightmare.

    It has been 57 years of a failed or failing dream to many. Hopes have turned to despair; frustration and anger are widespread across the land.

    The dream at independence seems to be deferred.

    Yes, of a truth a lot has happened to us as a nation with different seceding governments throwing the masses into long nights of sorrows and short-lived joyous daybreaks.

    As a people, we have had our share of pain and pleasure, boom and gloom, economic and political crest and troughs. Let’s for a moment be oblivious of our overwhelming problems and remember to celebrate our little wins and victories.

    As we celebrate our Independence which is founded mostly on the sweats and bloods of our Heroes past, let’s ensure that their sacrifices would not be in vain.

    It’s another year to count our blessings not our curses; our gains not our losses.

    So let us look at the brighter side of a changed country and hope for a better tomorrow.

    God bless Nigeria!

  • Growing trend of cohabitation among undergraduates

    Growing trend of cohabitation among undergraduates

    In simple terms, cohabitation can be seen as an act of a man and a woman living together and having a sexual relationship without being married. This trend has led to the emergency of unacceptable social behaviour among undergraduates in most Nigerian universities.

    Some call it “couples life”, but for the purpose of this write-up we will stick with “cohabitation”, since it is generally perceive as “indecent”, especially through the eyes of the society.

    Staying off campus seems to be the darling among some undergraduates; their reasons could be genuine and sincere owing to the poor sanitary conditions in campus hostels and the overcrowding.

    However, most students would rather subscribe to the idea of co-habitation to fulfil their selfish and unrealistic desires.

    Let’s take a closer look at our campuses today, students (male & female) do not only live together but overtly engage in sexual activities among other things that are the exclusive preserve of married couples.

    So many reasons can be adduced for cohabitation in our sundry institutions of learning.

    In my quest to gather information about the subject, a number of undergraduates were interviewed.

    Kemi, a 300 level student of Olabisi Onabanjo University ( OOU ), said “I cohabit in other to know my partner very well…..although it affects my studies.”

    Also Vivian, a 200 level student of the same school said the major reason she decided to cohabit with the opposite sex was due to paucity of funds.

    John, a student of Moshood Abiola Polytechnic ( MAPOLY ) had this to say, “I love the idea of cohabitation because it helps me understand the female folk more and I do not have to worry about things like food, sex etc., you know what I mean now?”

    There is a saying that if the use of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable.

    Therefore, this piece X-rays a few of the dangers inherent in cohabitation.

    First, preponderantly, the increasing rate of abortion on campuses are due to cohabitation.

    In truth, most students involved in cohabitation and premarital sex are not ready for the responsibilities of a committed relationship, not to talk of parenting; so they will do everything within their power to abort any occurrence of pregnancy.

    However, it exposes the female partner to the risk of death or other health-related injuries like damage to the uterus, womb etc.

    In addition, there is the risk of Sexually Transmitted Disease ( STD ). It’s a common place to find couples battling with transmitted diseases.

    Also, an important issue that features in the concept of cohabitation is that the female student consistently performs domestic chores like an house wife while juggling school responsibilities at the same time; they clean, cook and sometimes do the laundry for their partners…this is unacceptable!

    To further corroborate the above information, Charles, a 400 level student of OOU reveals that his duty is to provide financially for his girlfriend, while she in turn does the laundry, washes dishes, performs in the “other room” and does everything almost like a wife.

    Most students who cohabitate find it difficult to graduate, and are more susceptible to making lower grades because there isn’t enough time to read and concentrate on their courses with a divided domestic attention.

    We cannot rule out the possibility that some students who cohabitate eventually get married to each other, however, a large percentage of them hit the brick wall even before their years on campus.

    Finally, it is important that parents or guardians constantly check on their wards to know what they do per time.

    Also, the management of tertiary institutions needs to do more to ensure that campus hostels are adequate, affordable and conducive enough for students. This way, the unnecessary mixing of males and females in hostels can be avoided.