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  • The story of a 50-year-old virgin (II)

    The story of a 50-year-old virgin (II)

    Dear Mummy Temilolu,

    I’m so delighted to tell you, I got married last month as a virgin. My husband was really happy and won’t stop thanking me, he was in AWE that at my age and in this century such an amazing woman could still be found! I must say the waiting is really worth it after all! I had always told anyone who wants to date that it’s a no sex relationship, so you have to think deep if it’s something you can do, because at every point I wanted to give a trial talk it was always NO. However, I was so determined and decided to wait for the right person!!!!

    You teachings really went a long way in aiding me, I had cleaved to them since the day I got to see it in the newspapers and when I stumbled on you on Facebook, I couldn’t but follow you and your teachings have been my guide and a light on the path I chose to follow. Also, your love and affection is second to none, thank you for yielding to this divine assignment.

    Much love for you momma!

    Adeola Adetomiwa

    Dear ma,

    I just stumbled on your article and I need your encouragement. I am 36 years old and still a virgin but I am having issues with suitors who come my way as men of these days are of the opinion that they must taste you before marriage. Although I don’t inform them of my virginity because they would not believe me because of my level of exposure (I am a Lawyer with a Masters degree)! What I tell them is that I am celibate but that is not working as they end up leaving me. I am a staunch Catholic and made vows to God to keep myself till my wedding night but I am getting scared that I may never get married if I continue with my strictness to keeping myself for my husband. I still trust God not to disgrace me as all my age mates and juniors are all married and eyes are on me. Please join me in prayers that this year will not pass me by as I hope to meet my own God-fearing Catholic husband who will appreciate me. Well done ma and may God continue to guide and protect you in all your endeavors Amen.

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    Miss O.

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

    Last Sunday, I began discussing the  50-year-old lady who wrote me. You might like to Google search the article and learn from it as God does not wish for us to be miserable in the choices we make especially when it’s in tandem with his commandments. I counseled her as much as possible, while commending her for being committed to God! I continue today!

    Dear 50-year-old precious and the rarest of gems,

    Like I mentioned last week, you ought to have become a wonderful wonder by now and be enjoying the very best things in life even if you’re not pleased with the type of men you come across! I’d suggest you join a genuine deliverance ministry, resume there while job-hunting if you still want one and making the most of your new vocation, get fired up, get rid of every strange battle and have your spirit ignited to see the wondrous glory ahead of you and how to recover any lost and wasted years! I tell you, you’d be pleasantly surprised at what would happen in the next 6 months! I know what I’m talking about! You practically have the world at your feet and I must congratulate you because God owes you nothing but the very best and you will receive all before the end of this year in Jesus name! You will not only marry a better version of your dream man, God will give you multiple births! I am very sure of this and look forward to reading your testimony! You’re absolutely wonderful!!! May God bless you and showcase you to the world in Jesus name!

    I shall respond to Miss O. next Sunday!

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  • Three safe ways to enjoy pregnancy-free s3x life

    Three safe ways to enjoy pregnancy-free s3x life

    Taking in is a blessing but circumstances may warrant the avoidance of pregnancy. This may be due to economic hardship or health complications.

    Here are three ways to enjoy a safe s3x life without pregnancy:

    (1) The rhythm method

    This method is for a female partner. It requires that you keep tab on your menstrual cycle to know your fertile days and infertile days to plan your s3x life.

    Menstrual history begins on the first day of menstruation in one month to the first day of menstruation in the following month. Consistently keep count of the number of days in each cycle. These numbers may not be consistent. So take note of the length: longest cycle and the shortest cycle.

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    To get the first fertile day, subtract 18 days from the total number of days in your shortest cycle. Whatever you have left will be the first day of your fertile day. Say the shortest length of your cycle is 28 days; subtract 18 days and 10 days is left. Start counting 10 days from the first day of your menstruation to day 10. On that day 10, marks the first day of your fertile days.

    To track your last fertile day, subtract 11 from the total number of days in your longest cycle. What is left marks the end of your fertile days. Say the longest length of your cycle is 31 days; subtract 11 days and 20 days is left. Start counting 20 days from the first day of your menstruation to day 20. On that day, marks the last day of your fertile days. Use your menstrual history to plan your sex life.

    (2)Pull-out method

    This method focuses on a male partner. Such partner avoids  ejaculation during love making.

    (3) Correct use of protection

    Besides other contraceptives,  such as pills, that may cause cancer in the long run, condom is 95% safe. It is available for both male and female partner

    The above do not definitely rule out the possibility of getting pregnant. You can consult your doctor for more advise. Meanwhile, ensure you are with a respectful and trustworthy partner within the ambience and security of marriage. 

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  • Virginity till marriage is a mega deal

    Virginity till marriage is a mega deal

    Dear Ma,

    I weep writing this because I know God is all out for me. This would be the first time I’m coming across your post and I’m broken already, it’s not easy staying chaste in today’s world! Is it the insults from one’s age mates and even juniors, the downgrading, gossiping. I’ve lost so many people I called friends because I’m a virgin however, I DON’T REGRET MY DECISION. It’s just not everyday virgins get the encouragement they need. I pray that every girl out there who’s getting discouraged comes across you or someone God sent like you so they look back form the plough. God bless you so much ma for reaching out to my generation. I weep when I look at how much the devil has captured my gender but people like you make the devil weep and I pray that whenever we shall hear from you it shall be good news always. Wherever the devil and his cohorts will mention your name and that of your family may the Rock of Ages represent you. I pray that every of your work to depopulate hell will be successful in Jesus name. May you never work in vain in the name of Jesus and after all these YOU WILL NOT BE A CAST AWAY AMEN. Never relent ma and never get tired, Jesus will always meet you at the point of your needs and don’t worry when men are not available to help, he will send the ravens to deliver.  We love you ma and I’ll be praying my small prayer for you from my end.

    Bethel Osemudiahmen

    Dear ma,

    Thank you for raising more powerful women for God. Through your content, I have been inspired and it has helped my sexual purity journey. I am a testimony. Ever since I decided to remain chaste, my business has really been moving, I don’t struggle to get clients or make sales. God has been giving me direction concerning my life and I am more closer to God now. I felt inner peace.

    Though I am not in any intimate relationship, I have decided to love God, do his will, make more money and impact lives. I will be 24 this September, still a virgin and I am really proud of this sexual purity journey. I just want to encourage the younger women that sexual purity is the best decision you can ever make for yourself. Stay pure, serve God and pursue your goals. At the right time, the right man will come. Thank you so much ma. This is my testimony. Please keep reminding us ma. We love you so much!

    Mary Owolabi

    Dear Mummy Temilolu,

    I really want to appreciate God in your life ma. I want you to share my little testimony. I have learnt many things from your articles and I must say you are truly a mother. It’s good to stay loyal and faithful to God irrespective of the tribulations and persecutions around. God never fails. Never sleep on the bed of immorality as a young girl because the consequences is greater than it’s enjoyment. To the glory, grace and mercy of God I will clock 22 on the 22nd of this month without having any boyfriend from the beginning and celebrating God’s faithfulness as a virgin. I will also be signing out of the university in few months time and I never had any relationship in school throughout my 5yrs in the school. Mummy keep asking for more grace over my life as your teaching has moulded my life. May God increase your wisdom and understanding mummy.

    Opeyemi E.

    Dear Mummy Temilolu,

    I have abstained from sex for almost two years now. And I must confess these are the best years of my life. God gave me a man after his own heart that loves me unconditionally. We have dated for almost two years without him even asking to see any part of my body.  He supports me with his resources  and loves me in ways I have never been loved all my life. God has blessed me in more ways than I can explain since I decided to keep myself.

    Ada

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

    I thought to share a few of the messages in my box! Don’t let the world fool you, don’t let some finished people who love to wallow in darkness and great servitude because they can’t help it- who can’t imagine you not joining them in that abyss finish you! Yes! This may sound harsh but how else can you exemplify those who’ll attack posts on virginity/righteous living and outright mock virgins to their faces? How can you think anything good of giving up your peace of mind, your stand before God, opening up your life to demonic invasion by people you can wake up tomorrow and wish you never met when you stand the chance to having the world at your feet and commanding life to your wish? Haaaaa…..may we not be unfortunate! There’s so much more to come on this!

    To be continued

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  • How to Convince Your Friends to Go Camping

    How to Convince Your Friends to Go Camping

    Camping is a fantastic outdoor pastime, and it’s even more fun with friends. For various reasons, however, some do not enjoy camping. Good news: you can convince your indoor dwellers to join you outside. Use these simple strategies to persuade your friends to join you on a camping trip.

    Start Small

    Take a moderate approach to your first camping trip together. It’s best to pick a location close to civilisation with access to essential services. If you want your friends to feel more at ease, take them somewhere with modern conveniences like flush toilets and running water. If they aren’t used to outside urban settings, start slowly with an easy hike.

    ‌Lend Out Your Gear

    Getting into camping will require you to invest in various equipment. It can be a significant barrier for people who have not yet experienced the joys of camping for the first time. You can help alleviate their concerns by lending them some of your camping gear, such as sleeping bags, tents, or other camping equipment.

    ‌Eat Good Food

    Camping is excellent since it allows you to cook and share meals with other campers. Inviting your homebody pals to partake in this one-of-a-kind dining experience is a great way to get them to relax and unwind. Encourage your pals to join you in the great outdoors by promising them delicious home-cooked camping meals, grilled meats and fish, and tasty desserts.

    Make it a Challenge

    When you go camping with your friends, holding hands and singing “Kumbaya” around the campfire is not required. You can make your camping trip more difficult for your friends who enjoy a good challenge, especially if they are competitive. There are easy methods to keep them engaged, such as packing board games or card games or selling the entire trip to them as a “survival of the fittest” battle in which they must operate like Bear Grylls for a few days.

    ‌Make it Glamping Instead

    A lot of people avoid camping because they consider it to be rough and burdensome. Therefore, a more comfortable form of camping has emerged – known as glamping. You can transform this experience into an extravagant night with your friends by adding some elements of a casino night, typically an indoor activity, to your outdoor adventure. There are numerous Platincasino Live game options available, such as blackjack, roulette, and poker, that can be easily accessed online. You can even enhance the casino vibe by playing some music on a portable speaker. With its almost identical comforts to home, glamping has the ability to convert even the most reluctant campers with its clean linens, comfortable pillows, and hip ambience.

    Conclusion

    Some people don’t have a natural affinity for camping, and that’s fine. You can, however, get your pals interested if you do your research. After some time, they may be ready for wilderness camping. If you give them certain luxuries for the time being, they may be pleasantly surprised by the enjoyment they experience! The great outdoors awaits you! Have fun!

  • ‘How background check can curb high divorce rate’

    ‘How background check can curb high divorce rate’

    Pre-marital background checks have the tendency to address marital problems, speakers at a recent webinar to commemorate the 18th anniversary of Background Check International, (BCI) Nigeria’s foremost background check company have stated. 

    The webinar focused on the role of background checks in premarital relationships. The panelists include  Mrs. Bunmi Lawson, Managing Director EDFINMFB Ltd; Barrister Peniela Akinyujoye, Lawyer and Public Analyst and Chief Adewale Ajayi, a chartered Arbitrator and legal practitioner.

    The Chairman of Background Check International, Dr. Tunji Olugbodi, said the webinar was the company’s worthy contribution to educate people and provide an eye-opening platform on lifelong issues and commitment. 

    He enjoined young couples to be aware of the significant differences between marriages and weddings.

    Adeniji stated that navigating marriage successfully depends on a solid foundation. He stated that most issues can be curbed through background checks. 

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    He asserted that couples should be prepared adequately to face the challenges of marriage. The use of pre-marital background checks should be used responsibly to verify issues before venturing into marriage.

    Lawson urged couples to accept the outcome of pre-marital background checks, stating that individual cultures, preferences and beliefs affect the success of marriages. 

    According to her, background checks also address history of domestic abuse/violence, criminal background and drug-related offences.

    Akintujoye urged young couples to do something concrete about pre-marital checks to avoid depression in marriage. According to him: “Emotions becloud the sense of reasoning of young people and as a result, unable to see red flags ahead.”

    Olugbodi said background check is an investment in the future of potential couples. He added the issue of spouses with a fraudulent and criminal background is on the rise and pre-marital background check is a potent tool to identify such. 

    Background checks, according to him, provide information on character checks, reputation check, credit report and others. 

    Olugbodi advised young people to conduct thorough investigations and due diligence to overcome the odds. 

    According to him: “Background check can provide almost 80% but the real work is with the parties involved in marriage”. 

    Though he asserted that background check is not a divine seal that marriage would work but it helps to raise red flags in marriage though some other issues may be hidden.

    Olugbodi urged parents to discharge their roles and responsibilities to curtail some of the disheartening occurrences in the marriage of young people.

  • BCI holds webinar on premarital background check

    BCI holds webinar on premarital background check

    To adopt a massive approach to promote its essence, Nigeria’s foremost background check company, Background Check International Ltd (BCI) is set to hold a webinar to promote the role of background check in premarital relationships.

     The webinar, which is part of BCI’s 18th anniversary, is aimed at deepening the knowledge of the target audience about the critical role of background check in relationships.

    The Chief Executive Officer, Background Check International, BCI, Mr Kola Olugbodi said the webinar is aimed at debunking the ‘love is blind’ myth. Many marriages, according to him fail because they are built on false and dubious claims from either or both partners and this could be avoided if the partners had verifiable knowledge of each other before they got into the marriage. 

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    Olugbodi  believes youths need proper guidance and adequate information at their disposal before venturing into the marriage institution.

    The Webinar holds on Wednesday, April 5 and the panelists are Chief Adewale Adeniji (ACIS, ACTI, FCIArb); General Partner, Adewale Adeniji LP barrister, arbitrator, tax advisor, chartered secretary, and corporate governance expert, Mrs Bunmi Lawson; Pioneer MD/CEO EDFIN MFB Ltd. and Peniela Akintunjoye, a lawyer and relationship coach. 

    The CEO of BCI, Kola Olugbodi  is expected to provide insights on salient issues on pre-marital background Check during the webinar.

    Oluwakemisola Olaogun, a due diligence expert is expected to moderate the webinar.

  • Eight reasons many believe Akwa-Ibom women make best wives

    Eight reasons many believe Akwa-Ibom women make best wives

    Akwa Ibom, a state in the South-South geopolitical zone of Nigeria, bordered on the east by Cross River State, on the west by Rivers State and Abia State, and on the south by the Atlantic Ocean is inhabited by various ethnic groups for hundreds of years, primarily the closely related Ibibio, Anaang, and Obolo – Oron peoples in the North-East, North-West, and Southern zones of the state, respectively.

    Created on September 23, 1987, out of Cross River State by the then Military Administration of General Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida, it is the 30th largest in area and fifteenth most populous state in Nigeria with an estimated population of over six million in 2018, projected to rise to 7.3 million in 2025, 10.7 million in 2030, and, if not checked, “would double itself in 2039”.

    Blessed with several natural resources, the state no doubt consists of one of the most beautiful and endowed women in the country.

    These are reasons why some believe Akwa Ibom women make the best wives:

    *They are indeed beautiful

    With the intent to flatter, Akwa-Ibom women are beautiful, I’m sure you reading this would attest to it if you a one or more as friends or even partners.

    They are an embodiment of beauty, naturally endowed in the right places. Whether light-skinned, fair, or dark in complexion; you will see the true radiation of beauty when you meet an Akwa Ibom woman.

    They are naturally blessed with good hair, and charming smiles capable of stealing the heart of any man if they wanted to.

    *They are God-fearing

    You can be religious but not God-fearing. This is not the case with Akwa Ibom women. If you are fortunate to date or even marry one, you would have secured your peace of mind and saved yourself the stress of having to look for a partner which such quality which isn’t easily found. This characteristic makes them respectable and are in turn respectful to their partners and everyone else deserving of respect.

    *They are extremely hospitable

    Hospitality dwells in the hearts of Akwa Ibom women. They are typically good-natured, full of kindness, generosity, and genuine care toward their loved ones and even strangers.

    *They are exceptional cooks

    Many people have the belief that their mother’s food is the sweetest but wait until you have eaten a dish prepared by an Akwa-Ibom woman and that narrative would certainly change because of their innate culinary skills.

    Seeing food, especially good food is the way to a man’s heart, trust the Akwa-Ibom woman to always score a high point in this aspect because they have mastered the art of making a man’s taste buds ‘water’.

    With delicacies like Edikang akong, afang, afia efere, ekpang nkukwo, otong, abak, atama and so many more, you are guaranteed not just to eat delicious meals but healthy and well-cooked meals by an Akwa-Ibom woman.

    *They are effortlessly neat and well-cultured

    One obvious characteristic of an Akwa-Ibom woman is their habit to keep themselves neat without breaking a sweat. Just like some people would say, it is their ‘default setting’ to be neat.

    And who wouldn’t want such a person as a wife as you would be assured of the cleanliness and orderliness of the home, the kids, and even yourself because she would never want to see her man or hubby looking shabby or untidy.

    *They are hard-working

    They are not the ones to sit idly and wait for manna to fall from heaven for them. So when you marry one, you are certainly securing for yourself an asset not a liability

    *They are romantic and awesome in bed

    Yes, you read that right. Many argue practice makes perfect, well in some situations but not in this aspect as the typical Akwa-Ibom woman is innately blessed with the Midas touch in the ‘oza room’ as they possess enormous sex appeal that keeps their partners not only glued to them but craving intimate moments at every point which are always memorably ecstatic.

    *They possess intellectual beauty

    Akwa Ibom ladies love to learn and are never too proud to learn, unlearn and relearn. Aside from physical beauty, they also possess intellectual beauty which comes to the fore in tough times and every other time you both are confronted by a challenge.

    It’s safe to say you are missing out on a lot if you haven’t dated an Akwa-Ibom woman and if you are currently, you should as a matter of fact hold her tightly and never let her go by ‘wifing’ her.

  • Seven ways to survive Valentine’s Day as a single lady

    Seven ways to survive Valentine’s Day as a single lady

    It’s another Valentine’s Day aka Lover’s Day where as a single lady, you might doubt yourself and your self-esteem ruffled if you ingest every affectionate display couples engage in. 

    While singlehood is a blessing that you must savour till when you eventually get ‘hitched’, you might need some ideas to go about your day on February 14 to ensure couples do not ‘pepper you’ with all their romantic gestures.

    Here are seven things you could do to get your mind off the ‘pressure-filled’ day:

    Stay off social media 

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    It’s going to be matching pyjamas Christmas all over again and maybe even worse. If you’re not ready to see pictures of your ex or your crush coupled up, avoid social media on the 14th cos, you sure do not want to shed premium tears. Lol!

    Sleep it off

    Sleep is always an easy escape. The trick is to overeat, drink and let your body do its thing. And by the time you wake up, it’s February 15th.

    Read a novel preferably a non-romantic one 

    Novels are another cheap way to escape reality. Ordinarily, a romantic movie would have sufficed. Buy hey! You don’t want to start feeling all mushy only to realize you’re ‘lonely’.

    So your best bet here would be to get yourself a thriller that’ll work your imagination away.

    Watch a serial killer documentary or even an action-packed movie

    These kinds of movies are intense and demand a lot of attention, leaving no space for any weird feelings that might come from being single on Valentine’s Day. Cook yourself a meal or order food in for an immersive experience. Or better yet, get yourself a bottle of your favourite wine and all the things you love to snack on while you enjoy your movie.

    Plan a Galentine’s hangout with your friends 

    Galentine’s day is a day for women to celebrate their female friendships. It’s like Valentine’s Day but for women only but celebrated on February 13th.

    However, you and your female friends could move to the next day, and either of you could host a sleepover or you could all go out see a movie at the cinema. Either way, you’re spending time with your girlfriends.

    Visit your parents

    Even if you have no one to show you love, your parents are always there to shower you with an overdose of it.

    So, this is a great time to go visit them especially if you reside in same city with them. Make sure to go by with some goodies while you spend some quality time with them to reassure yourself that you still have people who love you.

    Take yourself out to lunch or dinner

    If you can stand the pressure of staying out as there would be a lot of activities happening around you among couples then, it’s a good idea to treat yourself at that over-priced restaurant to some sumptuous meal.

    Although, the best bet would have been to have your orders delivered to you at home. But hey! Who knows? You might get lucky to find yourself a company that could eventually blossom into something beautiful.

    So, if you don’t mind, then this is another great way to spend your Valentine’s Day.

  • Five countries that don’t celebrate Valentine

    Five countries that don’t celebrate Valentine

    February has long been recognised as the month of love with Valentine’s Day widely observed on the 14th every year. In many countries, people celebrate this occasion to tell their loved ones how they feel through beautiful flowers and gifts. But a number of Eastern countries choose not to celebrate Valentine’s Day because of different religious beliefs.

    Here are the countries that don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day:

    Uzbekistan

    Uzbekistan is well known for its long history and diverse culture with Islam as the dominant religion. The country was tolerant of Valentine’s Day celebrations until 2012 when an internal decree that bans the celebration of this holiday was issued by the Ministry of Education’s Department of Enlightenment and the Promotion of Values.

    Instead of observing Valentine’s Day, people in Uzbekistan celebrate the birthday of their country’s hero – Babur – a Mughal Emperor. Valentine’s Day is not illegal but it is strongly discouraged in favour of commemorating Babur.

    Iran

    In recent years, Iranian authorities have aimed to forbid Valentine’s celebrations, calling the holiday a “decadent Western custom” and threatening shops and restaurants with prosecution if they sell Valentine’s Day gifts.

    Despite this, numerous restaurants in Tehran have reported been fully booked and many shops have been seen selling teddy bears and chocolates. Due to the fact that they are defying the law, establishments use lookouts to see if inspectors are on a Valentine’s Day patrol.

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    Malaysia

    Malaysia is a federal, constitutional monarchy in Southeast Asia, divided by the South China Sea into two regions. The constitution grants freedom of religion, but it is a multi-ethnic and multi-cultural country, the population of which is approximately 60 percent Muslim. The capital is Kuala Lumpur.

    Since 2005, the celebration of Valentine’s Day has been banned. The Malaysian Islamic Development Department blames the holiday for everything from abortion to alcohol and takes the stance that it is a link of negative ills that can invite disaster and moral decay among youth. There is even an annual anti-Valentine’s Day campaign to reinforce the view. Anybody going out and celebrating does so at their own risk, including arrests.

    Indonesia

    As a matter of fact, there is no law that expressly prohibits the celebration of the day in Indonesia. However, in some areas of the country such as Surabaya and Makassar where people have more radical Muslim views, intimidation tactics or small-scale bans are used while in Bando Aceh, there is an outright ban.

    Saudi Arabia

    In Saudi Arabia, conservative officials strictly impose a ban on the holiday. Selling roses, red products, and love-themed cards are banned in advance of February 14. The phenomenon has led to the creation of a black market of Valentine’s day products.

  • Valentine items to get for your male partner

    Valentine items to get for your male partner

    It’s valentine, the season of love and a time for those in relationship/married to ‘pepper’ singles again with public display of affection.

    Well, one of the greatest proofs of love is sacrifice and gifts.

    It has become a trend that women, as hopeless romantics that they are, require gifts from men to show their love. Just like an unwritten code

    The men have however been making a fuss over the fact that they receive no gifts from women in return and even if they get at all, the women resort to giving the barest minimums like singlets,  boxers, handkerchief, t-shirts and cards

    The jocular phrase that ladies are fond of  ”my money is my money, his money is our money’ has to come to an end.

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    Here are some valentine presents that any man will appreciate:

    Money : Ladies have always been at the receiving end of monetary and flower gifts. Well, turn the tables around this year and surprise him with bundles of cash gifts. You can spray them on him, while you ask him to dance for you, depending on how playful you both are. Make it look interesting an fun between the two of you. You can also lovingly present them to him while thanking him for being a good partner to you.

    Play Station 5. The play station 5 is the latest and moat expensive of the home video console. A guy who is a gamer will die for this. If your male partner is not a gamer, you don’t know what God has done for you, but if he is, there is every possibility that this will be one of the most appreciated gifts he can get from you. If he mistakenly decides to break up with you, the gift alone will bring him back to his senses.

    Perfume. Everybody loves the good male scent. It gives a sense of alluring  male confidence and screams of masculinity. The type that every lady admires and makes her give up struggle of hard to get. There are perfumes specific for men and you might want to get one that suits his masculine aura. They are always available in stores where the specifications for each sex is displayed.  
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    Necklaces/ Golden bracelets/Wrist watch. Have you seen how alluring men who wear necklaces look? especially when it is worn in a shirt, with little exposure of his chest. To leave a lasting impression, you can make a tag or an inscription of either his name, or a pet name you call him. He will always remember you when gazes on it. These molten items are beautiful on the designated parts of a man.