Category: Weekend Treat

  • 2022: A phenomenal year of  shinning for the sexually-pure!

    2022: A phenomenal year of shinning for the sexually-pure!

    DEAR Evangelist & Mummy Temilolu, I just thought to tell you to keep up your good works and let you know in no distant time I will surprise you with good things. Your articles saved me from sex addiction and since I decided to wait till my wedding night, there’s been no going back. For now I’m still struggling for a living but I know I shall end up very well and return with my thanksgiving. Thanks so much ma.

    Mr. Sunday Agbo

     

    Dear Aunty Temilolu,

    I’m in tears after reading your article. Sometimes, I wonder if you’re talking to me directly! I wanted to send you a message last week because I was so depressed and needed someone to talk to! But I was shy. I have met a lot of people whom people confided in and they end up betraying them. I started following you the day you made a comment in a popular Facebook page! I saw your comment and decided to go through your timeline, ever since then, I have been following you!

    I bless God the day you made that comment and I never regret ever following you since then. Heaven knows that you’ve touched my life in a way I can’t even describe and I keep praying for God to continue blessing you with more wisdom! Indeed, you’re a God-sent to us girls. I believe a lot of people are observing- just like me. The problem I’m having now is that I hardly see your posts and sometimes it appears weeks after being posted. God bless you once more!

     

    Dear Mummy Temilolu,

    Thank you for all you do ma. Your words of encouragement keeps me going every day of my life. You once told me to forget all I’ve passed through and start a new life. Truly, I left all that has happened behind and I began anew and things really worked out with the help of God. Thank you ma. I’ll never for you! May God continue to bless you ma.

    Lydia A.

     

    Dear Mummy Temilolu,

    I thought to write and thank you for the impact you’ve made me in my life over the years especially in recent times and which also goes to show your ministry is fully-backed by God. A few weeks ago, I had no single penny while in school and had very urgent needs- it was one of the worst periods of my life. I remember sleeping off very weak on an empty stomach that night because I couldn’t get to buy food. Lo and behold, I saw you in my dreams, you pulled me up from where I laid and hugged me. You then said- “Don’t let the horrible phase you are passing through make you sleep with a man because of money. Endure, hold God by His word. Focus on your vision. Their master’s master will ask for your hand in marriage.” I woke up strong and happy and to my greatest, God sent me an unexpected help the following day! Since that experience I made up my mind to take a step further and start preaching chastity to my mates on campus. May you not lose your reward in Jesus name!

     

    Samson Lauretta

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian daughters,

    Happy new, amazing, life-transforming year to you all! May God in His infinite mercy breathe upon your life, give you a brand new start and make a way for you where there’s no way in the wilderness of life! For those of you who refused to engage in sex for favour and even when your clothes were almost turning to rags and you had no food to eat- in 2022, may God cloth you with unending, overwhelming, global honour in Jesus name!

    Did you wake up again this morning in exasperation and hopelessness wondering when help will come from a man who wouldn’t ask for sex?

    Esther the slave girl managed her situation and God made her a queen! Joseph considered God and refused to yield to Mrs. Portipha’s advances and God made him a Prime Minister in a foreign land! My goodness! CAN YOU JOIN MY FAITH WITH YOURS? God is about to give you what your mother’s can’t boast of this year! What more?

    You will wake up one day and soon too, I mean this very year and exclaim “How could I have so much money?” in Jesus mighty name! This is your year of unbelievable shinning and an uncommon manifestation of God’s glory such that even those who mocked you would wish to be like you! I know what I’m talking about! Congratulations in advance!

     

    • To be continued.

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  • Engineering Solutions for Nigeria’s Industrial Advancement: A Conversation with Enoch Ogunnowo

    Engineering Solutions for Nigeria’s Industrial Advancement: A Conversation with Enoch Ogunnowo

    With a sharp intellect and an unwavering commitment to engineering innovation, Enoch Ogunnowo is a rising force in global mechanical engineering. Trained in advanced mechanical systems and international research environments, Enoch has already made impactful contributions to both academia and industry. His work spans across product design, thermal systems optimization, and dynamic mechanical analysis (DMA), with a track record that includes CFD simulations, Six Sigma-certified improvements, and presentations at global conferences.

    He is recognized for proposing a theoretical framework that applies Dynamic Mechanical Analysis to real-world engineering decisions, especially material selection for infrastructure and manufacturing. His work directly targets one of Nigeria’s most persistent challenges: infrastructure and equipment failure caused by the poor selection of materials unsuited for local conditions. Enoch’s mission is to build engineering systems that not only perform at global standards but also endure Nigeria’s unique climatic and mechanical realities.

    Enoch, thank you for joining us. Your paper on “Theoretical Framework for Dynamic Mechanical Analysis in Material Selection” has garnered a lot of interest. What’s the heart of the problem your work addresses?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Thank you, I’m glad to speak on this. At the core, Nigeria faces chronic issues with material failure—cracking roads, degrading bridges, overheating components, and short product lifespans. These failures are often due to material selection that doesn’t account for how those materials perform under real-world dynamic stress. My work introduces a decision-making framework that uses DMA data to help engineers choose materials that can withstand vibration, temperature changes, and fatigue, conditions that are common across Nigeria’s transportation, energy, and manufacturing sectors.

    Could you explain how DMA works and why it’s relevant for Nigeria’s infrastructure and manufacturing sectors?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Certainly. DMA evaluates how materials respond to cyclical or oscillating stress, providing insight into three key properties—storage modulus, loss modulus, and damping ratio. These parameters tell us whether a material is stiff enough to support load, soft enough to absorb vibration, and durable enough to resist long-term fatigue. In Nigeria, roads, machinery, and even public buildings often fail prematurely because these factors weren’t considered. DMA lets us move beyond guesswork, offering precise insights that lead to more durable, cost-effective solutions.

    You mentioned roads and bridges. How exactly would this framework change how Nigeria builds its infrastructure?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Let’s take federal highways or pedestrian bridges. These structures are constantly stressed by vehicle vibrations, thermal expansion, and fluctuating loads. Without knowing how selected materials respond to these forces over time, failure becomes inevitable. By integrating DMA into the design phase, engineers can select materials with optimal damping characteristics, or modify concrete and reinforcement blends to maintain structural integrity. It’s not about using expensive materials, it’s about using the right materials for Nigeria’s real conditions.

    Beyond infrastructure, what about Nigerian manufacturing? Can this be applied there?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Definitely. One of Nigeria’s major industrial bottlenecks is machine wear. Agricultural processing plants, textile mills, and packaging lines often experience recurring breakdowns due to fatigue or overheating of components. DMA can guide the selection of polymers, composites, and alloys that withstand repetitive motion, friction, and thermal cycling. This extends equipment life, improves product quality, and ultimately makes Nigerian-made goods more competitive, domestically and internationally.

    You also mentioned energy systems. How would this help in Nigeria’s electricity and renewables space?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Nigeria’s power systems are stressed by unstable loads, heat exposure, and environmental wear. Whether it’s a solar inverter casing, transformer insulator, or generator housing, materials must survive under constant fluctuation. Using DMA-informed material selection, engineers can design parts that won’t degrade prematurely. This reduces outages, maintenance costs, and improves system efficiency. With renewable energy expanding across Nigeria, especially in rural microgrids, building components that last is vital for sustainability.

    Your framework was published in 2021. What kind of next steps are you pursuing to bring it closer to practical use in Nigeria?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: The goal now is accessibility. I’m working on building a digital toolkit that incorporates DMA datasets and matches them with typical Nigerian engineering conditions. It will be usable by government contractors, engineers, and local manufacturers. I also envision partnerships with universities and regulatory bodies to introduce DMA testing into national building codes and design standards. We can’t afford for material selection to remain a theoretical concern, it needs to be embedded in the way we build and produce in Nigeria.

    That sounds transformative. Do you think local engineers and policymakers are ready for this shift?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Yes, but awareness and training are key. Many engineers are eager to innovate, but they need practical tools. Policymakers want long-lasting infrastructure, but they need evidence to back investment in better materials. My framework and ongoing work are focused on translating complex testing methods into actionable, localized guidelines. If we get this right, Nigeria can lead not just in engineering education but also in resilient infrastructure design for the continent.

    Any final words for aspiring engineers in Nigeria?

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Design for your environment. Our conditions—heat, humidity, vibration, load inconsistency—are not inconveniences, they are engineering realities. Use every tool at your disposal—DMA, CFD, FEA—to make data-backed decisions. And remember, innovation is not just high-tech, it’s about understanding what works where you are, and why. That mindset will define the future of Nigerian engineering.

    Thank you, Enoch. Your insights are timely, and your work offers a bold path forward.

    Enoch Ogunnowo: Thank you. I’m committed to building systems that endure—because resilience must be designed, not assumed.

  • Girls, start fighting for your lives not guys/men!

    Girls, start fighting for your lives not guys/men!

    Dear Mummy Temilolu, I’d like to thank you for being my rock in present times! You just brought my hope alive mummy. I have people around me who sleep with men for money but I stood my ground not to do any despicable thing to get money in spite my hardship! I must confess I’ve been seeing great results.

    In fact, let me share my testimony, someone here may learn one or two.

    I was raised by my mum singlehandedly and I had the opportunity to sleep around but I never did. I’m in university and in my early 20’s!  When I just got my admission, people never liked me simply because of the way I carried myself. Guys never liked me! It appears I disgusted them because I would say no to them and their ungodly relationships that includes sex and every other thing that God won’t be happy with. I kept standing my grounds and trusting God but, today I can say that I am seeing the hands of God in everything I do. People who hated me now like me, even ladies who were once sleeping with men are now coming to me to learn how to be good. By the grace of God, I have never attracted ungodly men to me. This is one advantage of being sold out to God.

    Lastly, I recently unveiled my new book about what people need to know before going into a relationship to avoid mistakes that’d damage their destinies.

    Thank you mummy for your continuous hopeful messages, your messages here are indeed helping me preserve myself till my wedding night. I love you mummy.

     

    Nkechi

    Wow! What a beautiful message! I dare say you’ve not seen anything yet! God is going to bombard you with great signs and wonders and showcase you as a classic example of the rewards of righteousness!

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian daughters, I must let you know that almost on a daily basis, I’m inundated with messages from distressed ladies especially single mothers with tales of woe from their experience with their baby fathers! I can’t but shake my head in pity and wish they made better choices! To start with, I thank God for those who refused to abort pregnancies but I must say a lot of girls/ladies are not going to fulfil God’s wonderful plans for them because they scattered their lives settings with their own hands! Too many girls/ladies out there already have deep-seated ancestral battles to deal with and a lot to contend with because of the type of star they carry then they worsen matters by inviting strange spirits which will further sink their destinies through ungodly sex!

    A lot of you have super-duper destinies such that if God opened your eyes to see the wonder He has created you to be, you probably would be out of human reach and be alone with God so as not to be desecrated. What more? The greater your star/destiny, the greater your battles! When the scriptures also tell us that in these days- the last days, evil men and seducers will wax stronger (2 Timothy 3:13) i.e. will go from bad to worse, which power do you have to confront them? Your Brazilian hair, pink pouts, sexy dress or numerous poses on snapchat, Instagram and facebook? Hmm…To worsen matters, engaging in ungodly sex which not only places too many demonic baggage on your destiny, makes you spiritually dull and could paralyze it. THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER! It practically destroys your spiritual connectivity with God and opens up your life to demonic invasion. 1 Peter 2:11

    Sadly, more often than not, the female folk are at the receiving end. When an unwanted pregnancy happens, the girl is at the receiving end whether she keeps it or terminates it-which is even worse. When you get married to the wrong person as a result of confusion arising from premarital sex, spiritual blindness etc. and you begin to experience hell on earth, become a punching bag and get abused in all forms when you are God’s royal diadem and meant to be the best thing that happened to a man, you bear the brunt and would be lectured by those who have no idea of what your destiny entails to fix perhaps the devil re-incarnate or a home that was never meant to be yours! Who sent you there? How can you pursue your glorious original destiny with the wrong people in your life?

    What a big, big waste of time and destiny? I could go on and on on how premarital sex could throw your destiny off balance! What’s the rush anyway? Don’t be fooled by the guys out there, they don’t want leftovers! How you present yourself now would very much determine how they’d treat you- even in marriage!

    Stay chaste, stay chaste, stay chaste till your wedding night!!! Stop messing around with your life! May it continue to be well with you in Jesus name!

    FINAL WORD

    Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny and stands you out from the crowd. You are better off not engaging in pre-marital and extra-marital sex. Stay chaste!

    Evangelist Temilolu O. Okeowo is the founder and Head girl of The Girls Apostolic Ministry of All Nations, an apostolic ministry for girls in their teens and twenties, and Girls Club of Nigeria, an NGO for Nigerian girls aimed at influencing a positive change. She published her debut-book for girls – THE BEAUTY OF LIFE – as an undergraduate and has other books and publications. She was called to the Nigerian Bar in 2003 and is a Certified Forensics Examiner.

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    (not Temilolu okeowo girls club page or TEMILOLU OKEOWO Girls Club group)

     

     

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  • My Beauty REGIMEN: I go to Spa for deep tissue massage

    My Beauty REGIMEN: I go to Spa for deep tissue massage

    BEAUTY business is thriving in many parts of the world given its opportunity to promote healthy living and create wealth for operators. Aminah Sagoe is an entrepreneur who loves to pamper her skin with natural beauty products. That passion interestingly took her into the sector and today, the founder of Emmaus beauty is happy making herself and others look beautiful.

    What is the secret of her good looks you ask? “I will say that it is being at peace with yourself and others, making yourself a priority. It also includes eating healthy, exercising, drinking enough water, taking vitamins, and using quality skincare products”.

    Next, she talked about pampering herself and visiting the Spa. “I go to the spa once a month for a deep tissue massage, which helps to release muscle tension”.

    She added that: “I steam my face once a week to open up my pores which helps to loosen buildup of dirts. I follow with a gentle scrub as well as a sulphur mask to help with my acne prone skin”.

    When it comes to diet, Sagoe typically doesn’t avoid anything. “But I stay away from soda, and consume minimal amounts of fried foods. I also try to work out at least 3 times per week doing HIIIT exercises.

    Favourite hairdo?” I go for anything simple and easy that doesn’t require too much maintenance”.

    Sagoe goes on to tell you how she abandoned her career in financial services to embrace beauty as a passion and later business.

    “Skincare has always been my passion, but as much as I loved skincare, I didn’t think I would actually own a skincare company. I started to consider it when I realized how difficult it was to find clean, effective, yet affordable products”.

    Long story short, Emmaus was birthed. “I struggled with various skin problems and with countless products available on the market, (many with high price tags) all claiming to work effectively, I found it expensive and tedious sifting through different products trying to find the One, but alas my search fell short”.

    She continued: ” This was when I set out to start educating myself about the different ingredients used in skincare products – some active and beneficial, while others are straight out harmful”.

    That search led her to the discovery of how each ingredient works on different skin types and concerns along with how to safely incorporate them into formulations to produce effective results and ensure their efficacy.” I use high concentrations of professional quality, high-performance and effective ingredients designed to improve the skin, and safe to use. Some of the ingredients that I love to use include: Alpha Arbutin – an extract from the bearberry plant that brightens the complexion and fades dark spots. I also use vitamin C which has been endorsed as one of the best skin brightening, repairing, and firming ingredients. It slows the production of melanin in the skin, protects the skin’s outer layer from oxidative damage, reduces inflammation, and prevents signs of aging”.

    Also very useful is Glycolic Acid. “This is an Alpha Hydroxy Acid that penetrates easily into the skin to exfoliate dead skin cells, speed up cell turnover rate, and boost collagen synthesis. You also have Hyaluronic Acid which hydrates and plumps skin, reduces fine lines, wrinkles, and inflammation”.

    Lastly is Kojic Acid .This is a natural skin-brightening ingredient that reduces melanin production, helping to alleviate dark spots and discoloration caused by acne, unprotected sun exposure, aging, and various internal factors”.

    Happily, she goes on to share her experiences shuttling between New York City where your family lives and Nigeria to keep her passion and business running.” My children are older now and less dependent on me which gives me the flexibility to travel whenever I need to. Plus, I have a very supportive husband”.

    She adds that: “A lot of love and attention goes into every process of the business, from the formulation, to the labeling, to shipping out the orders, and following up with the customers to see how they’re making out with the products. I am not creating products simply to make a profit; it is my wish for everyone to enjoy the skin they are in, so I make products that are inspired by my own skin care needs, which are also the needs of many others”.

    Are there key lessons Sagoe has learnt from launching an international beauty brand?

    “Yes. You cannot be myopic or rigid, and you have to be open to change and correction. The ideal Emmaus Beauty client would be someone (male & female) that takes pride in their skin, understands the need for skin care, and is particular about the quality of the ingredients used in a product”.

    Sagoe is therefore inspired by the numerous female entrepreneurs out there in the world.  “I am motivated when I read about their ups and downs, and how they eventually attain success in their businesses. Their stories give me hope and assures me of what I too can attain as long as I keep pushing and don’t give up”.

    I look forward to reaching more people, here in Nigeria as well as globally. And I look forward to introducing more products to help with as many skin issues as possible.

  • Federal character principle has destroyed Nigeria – Dokpesi

    Federal character principle has destroyed Nigeria – Dokpesi

    In spite of the predictions made about him early in life that he would not live longer than 35 years, the Chairman Emeritus of DAAR Communications Plc, High Chief Raymond Dokpesi, has braved the odds to survive till 70 years. His authorised biography, “The Handkerchief” will be launched to mark his 70th birthday on October 25. But he spoke with a select group of journalists on his travails and triumphs. YUSUF ALLI, MANAGING EDITOR, NORTHERN OPERATION was at the session.

    What have been your highest and lowest moments?

    My lowest moment in recent times has been my prison arrest, trial and the alleged looting of treasury by the past administration, which led to my detention in the EFFC and at Kuje Prison. That has been so remarkable and painful time recently for me. My best moment, the moment of my joy and fulfillment, was December 15, 1993 when RayPower came on air. I thought I crossed the hurdle to do what Nigeria was unprepared to do. But in between, there has been quite a number of high and low moments.

    You were given a chance of living only three years but you are now 70. Will you describe that as a miracle or a divine intervention?

    Thirty-five was the benchmark I was given. The very early years, I was sickly. As I was growing up, I do recall sitting by the side of my father in Ibadan every evening while he used to sit on his relaxing chair with his friends, talking about village stories. Then, I was feeling handicapped because I could not talk from the very beginning of my life. Many people assumed that because I couldn’t talk, I could not also hear. I would normally look and watch things as they happened, and I vividly recall when one of my father’s very close friends came to intervene about my schooling. He condemned every effort to invest in me outright because I was very sickly and a handicapped child of a southerner. That was a very tough stage of my life. I felt highly discriminated against and that I would likely be denied the opportunity to live.

    My mother was very helpless. She was an illiterate and I couldn’t talk. Even if I attempted to write anything, she could not read it. It was a lot of God’s intervention after going through treatments at the University College Hospital, Ibadan. By the time I was getting to about 12 and 13 years, I was terribly sick. My parents were taking me from hospital to herbalists, from churches to prayer houses and looking for an opportunity for me to survive. The doctors gave up on me because they couldn’t identify what the perennial ailment was. I left the Loyola College, Ibadan after the school felt I might die on the campus. I went back to Benin and seeing the struggle of my mother and the determination of my father at that time, I almost believed it was best for me to die. I saw the pains and the amount of struggle they were putting in for me to live.

    They later took me down to Agenebode around 1965 and 1966 when my father had almost given up that I was not going to survive. I went through the bank of River Niger which was full at that time. We went into a small village called Osunene, having travelled two and a half hours on the River Niger. I was not given any injection but they said I had been poisoned and that the people that committed the atrocity were present. Everyone was asked to swear by the river and a lineage was coincidentally involved in it. There and then, I went into a fit and vomited extensively. That became the beginning of my revival.

    Until I got to Poland for school, after doing the medical examinations, they felt I was not going to live beyond age 35. I collected the results and forwarded them to my father who asked me to have faith in God. He was sure that if I went through all those challenges in my early life, that I would live older than his father who was acknowledged to be the oldest person in Agenebode, having died at the age of 120 in 1956. I kept on. When the 35th year was approaching, because of the fear that had been planted in me, I enjoyed my life maximally. Here I am, 70 years old and all those challenges put behind me. I am strong and healthy and I thank Almighty God and all Nigerians who have supported me to get to this age.

    My eldest sister, Mrs. Grace Juliana Agbame (Dokpesi), in the course of my struggles and battles in life made a pledge to God that if I survived all these, they would dedicate me to God’s service. That was how I got into the seminary. My mother had 13 children and I am the only surviving son in the middle. I’m tied by the cord of those ahead and below me. I’m a covenant child.

    On October 25, 1986 when you were 35, what went through your mind?

    I counted it as the day when I was to see the end of my life but I was very joyous that I crossed the Rubicon. I had been a Chief of Staff, I had a PhD, I had even been a multimillionaire. I was happy in life and I said that all these things were happening for a reason. Possibly that 35 years was why God so ordered my life to be smooth sailing as it was up to that time. The next 35 years have even been more joyous.

    Did the 35 years encourage you to be polygamous?

    I’m a Catholic and I will tell you that one of the greatest errors of my life is polygamy. It was not something that I desired; it was a situation that developed in which I had no alternative. A lot of people feel it was wealth that distorted my behaviour. But the truth of the matter is that there were internal family challenges that led to it.  I was married to a Polish woman and I wanted to remain with the Polish woman and I still desire it in my old age. She left Nigeria on reasons that she was the only child of her parents and needed to be with her parents. I went to Poland 16 times to beg her to return. My mother was also anxious that I have children; that I don’t need to enter aeroplane to go and see them. Those were the internal factors that later on affected my life.

    You are a Marine Engineer, business mogul and media entrepreneur. Don’t you think the Nigerian economy should be better than it is today? Why is it difficult to bring the changes?

    The fact is that the then Military Head of State and Commander-In-Chief of the Armed Forces of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Gen. Olusegun Aremu Obasanjo, had moved through parts of Europe in search of ideas that could help transform and expand marine business in Nigeria before our paths crossed in Poland. Obasanjo is a non-discriminatory leader who wooed me back from Poland in 1977 to come and serve my fatherland.

    As a consultant to the Polish government on matters relating to Maritime Transportation and Economic Science, I joined the Polish team to hold talks with General Obasanjo when he paid a state visit to Poland in 1977. Chief Obasanjo was surprised that he found himself negotiating with a Polish team which had a black man as a member, who also served as the interpreter.

    When I came back  to Nigeria in December 1976, he was very enthusiastic about building ship yards in Nigeria. He wanted ship yard in Burutu, ship yard in Lagos and one other ship yard in Port Harcourt. He had three ship yards in mind. So, it was a great privilege, a great honour and a great opportunity to come in. Even when I thought it was very difficult for me, the same Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo, who got me into the Federal Civil Service, got me posted to the Federal Ministry of Transport under Dr. Chukwuemeka Ezeife before the Nigerian Ports Authority started claiming ownership that they sent me out to Poland on scholarship.

    He will attest to the fact that I came filled with patriotism and hope that Nigeria will become that prosperous land flowing with milk. When I came back to Nigeria on a visit in 1975, Nigeria was at the same level of development with Poland, Singapore and Taiwan. The ports that I visited during the course of my maritime training, it was always a beauty coming into the Lagos Port. True, we had congestion in 1975 and the country was undergoing rapid development but the First, Second and Third National Development Plans were of men who had visions and meant well for Nigeria. After those, we derailed. There was no basis for measuring the standard of men and quality of people that took over leadership of Nigeria with what we have now.

    I had files of civil servants and ministers who served this country between 1951 and 1975. They got burnt in my house. If you see the brilliance, patriotism and commitment of those people, you will want to serve this country forever. Unfortunately, the federal character clause that came in brought a lot of inexperienced people and mediocre. Excellence was sacrificed. There was no basis anymore for taking people except sentiment. In the Ministry of Transport, the Nigerian Ports Authority wanted to build an ocean terminal in Lagos towards Badagry, and for political reasons, it was decided that we should go to Onne. For political reasons, we decided to build a port in Warri.  Obafemi Awolowo promised a port in Warri to satisfy the Itsekiri people. Shehu Shagari came in 1979 and said we should build a port in Sapele for the Urhobo people. There was no economic reason.

    The ocean terminal in Lagos was projected ahead of when larger vessels would be coming in was abandoned. Rivers State made it possible for Shehu Shagari to win the 1979 election with the last votes that came in. In order to appreciate them, we shelved the idea of the ocean terminal. This is haunting us today. The ports in the Republic of Benin and Togo are better than ours because they are at the deep end of the sea. The basis of decision making became emotional. Today, they are building naval base in Kano. That is how we lost a lot of the visions that were expected.

    How can we address the setbacks?

    It boils down to leadership and followership. I believe that we need to restructure this country effectively. Whether you like or hate the word “restructure”, it is just the foundation and the first thing we must do in moving ahead. We need a leader who believes in restructuring and moving Nigeria from an oil-based economy to a diversified economy. We need a leader who believes in productivity. The same people who closed down steel companies are the same people today running around and borrowing money to build railway lines. Shagari saw this problem way back and went ahead with the development of the Ajaokuta Steel Mill, the Delta Steel mill and the Katsina Steel Mill. By the time Ajaokuta was to start production, the 1983 coup took place. The then Minister of Steel, Alhaji Mamman Makele was described as corrupt and a thief. So, he ran for his life to the UK where he died.

    For that reason, Ajaokuta that required only N500 million ($500 million) as at that time was abandoned. All the steel required for our rail lines which had been planned to connect every village in Nigeria and was to cost N30 billion were to come to Ajaokuta. Shagari at the Federal Executive Council had said we should fund it from the treasury and not borrowing. We were almost finished with Ajaokuta Steel Mill. We would have created employment and generated opportunities for Nigerians. No country will come to develop Nigeria; Nigerians must develop their beloved country.

    The country today is divided along ethnic lines. What do you think is responsible for the divisions?

    Bad leadership. Completely bad leadership. When these issues come on, people run away from the reality. It is not the Fulani man that is bad. Shehu Shagari was a Fulani man who served Nigeria very meritoriously and conscientiously. We have had military heads of state that are northerners but they were visionary and ready to accommodate others. They pulled together the best brains that were available and brought about development. I remember my uncle, Chief John Amodu who was a Mayor in Port Harcourt but from Agenebode. In Lagos and Enugu, northerners contested and won elections. People were living freely in Kano. Growing up, the whole idea was that it is going to be a country flowing with milk and honey. But all of a sudden, things changed. When you have religious extremists, people that exploit the very thin lines of unity, then you will find yourself here.

    I believe that there are still Nigerians who believe in one united Nigeria. Those Nigerians must come out. Most of these younger generation, people that are clamouring for the disintegration of this country, I sympathize with them. But I feel very strongly that they are in that position because of the injustices that are going on in the country.

    There are two different laws operating in different parts of the country. In the Electoral Act in 2015, what was not permissible in the South was allowed in the North. People were able to vote manually in the North. Borno State, in which there was a bomb blast that morning, returned 1.7 million votes while Lagos that is densely populated could hardly get one million votes. You created 44 local government areas in one state but it’s the federating units that fund that. A lot of the states are not economically viable, they cannot sustain themselves. For how long can we sustain the unsustainable states? They need to merge together.

    In simple terms, in the northern states, the job that was done by a permanent secretary is now being done by 19 persons most inefficiently and ineffectively. The same with the Eastern region. It has not helped our development. We must sit down and discuss. If we must move ahead, we must reduce our administrative and consumption cost. We must give attention to development. Over 70 per cent of the money we have in our budget is for recurrent expenditure. We must reverse that to move forward.

    You are a member of the PDP BOT and you are canvassing for Northern presidential candidate. Is it a matter of who wins or doing the right thing?

    In 1998 when the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) was being setup, we had Nigerians who went through the trauma of military dictatorship and elder statesmen who believed in Nigeria. Some of them were sentenced to ridiculous number of years in prison by those who are occupying the same positions today. I was arrested and tried. My offence was just that I held a political office and yet they are holding political offices today and they are not tried.

    The constitution of the PDP states clearly that there shall be rotation and zoning of both party and political offices. I have remained very consistent in my argument. In 1998, after the meeting of the G34, it was Alhaji Isa Lawal Kaita who moved that Chief Alex Ekwueme should become the next president. Alex Ekwueme said that G34 was still a group and not a political party and that when we transformed into a political party, we can canvass whether he should be or not be the president.

    When the party came in, they decided that because of the injustice that has been done to the South West, the zone should be given the opportunity to produce the president. That was in Jos and AIT transmitted it live even into the United States for the first time. President Bill Clinton called Obasanjo to congratulate. Obasanjo was surprised at the call and Clinton told him that he was watching the news even through a Nigerian channel, AIT.

    Zoning was also recommended in the draft constitutional conference report a former Head of State, Gen. Sani Abacha signed in 1995. Each geopolitical zone was to have a term of five years so that in 30 years, we would have ended as one united Nigeriaand then start exploring merit. After deciding on the four-year rotation when Obasanjo came in, there was an expanded party caucus where it was canvassed that the military had done a lot of damage and that the PDP programme cannot be attained within those years. They said it should be extended because the constitution has provided for two terms of eight years.

    Again, the elder statesmen agreed that Obasanjo will do eight years with a proviso that after him, a northerner will also do eight years. I travelled round the country to lobby for a South-South president. Obasanjo agreed and said that Dr. Peter Odili had done very well and that if we go into the convention, he will win overwhelmingly but that the party already had an agreement with the North and begged him to allow the North produce the President. That was how Umaru Musa Yar’Adua became the President.  Yar’Adua did only two and a half years and died. I argued that the North should be allowed to finish up their remaining four years.

    I suggested to Jonathan to allow a Northerner become President and that he can still be the vice president or go on vacation and prepare himself to become the President after the end of the term. Some people especially from the South-South, disagreed on the basis that one cannot be so close to power and relinquish it. Jonathan did another four years and we came to 2015. By then, the PDP had been 16 years in power with 14 years of the South and two years of the North. That is the situation up till today. In 2015 when we fielded Jonathan, the North was clamouring that the South has done 14 years and should allow them to do their four years. That is what plunged the country into this crisis. I am PDP and I am being guided by the constitution of the party which in its preamble said that the unity, stability and growth of this country, we must rotate such that every part of this country (will be carried along).

    What of the eight years of the APC?

    The APC on their own also chose to adopt zoning but first started with a northern candidate, knowing full well the sentiments of the North to stand against a southerner. At the end of that election, my position has been that Jonathan did not lose that election. But in any case, he didn’t contest it even when there was ample evidence to that effect. He has become a statesman but that has not solved the problem of Nigeria. APC has its own rules and constitution. In my own party, I cannot win election because there is so much injustice and unfairness while we are not guided by certain rules and regulations.

    Let us be fair to ourselves and remain one as this party started. In doing so, please let us choose a candidate from the North. In 2019 we field a northern candidate as recommended by the Ike Ekweremadu’s report, but we were out- maneuvered by the other party. I don’t believe Atiku Abubakar  lost that election, but INEC had said so. I am criticising APC for failure, for making Nigeria the world poverty capital and for the level of unemployment. These are not PDP policies. I cannot be dragged into APC policies. It is because the APC policy that has failed to recognise the federal character that has brought us to the condition we are today – everyone is suspicious of one another. We have a security council made up of people from one side of the country and speaking one language.

    I want a Nigeria that recognises our diversity and one that will bring back the principles of PDP, and the person for that is from the North. We the southerners had power and monopolised it. That was what gave birth to APC. Otherwise we would have not been in this mess.

    What has accounted for your latest position on Asiwaju Bola Tinubu? You also eulogised Bola Tinubu a few days ago on AIT? Where do you stand?

    Bola Ahmed Tinubu and I were close friends right from the time he was working with Mobil and before becoming a governor. As young men, we ate and drank together. He became governor and God blessed him. Does that remove the fact that we are close friends? Should I because he belongs to another party say he is my enemy? He is the godfather of my second to last daughter. If there is an interview, would I say I don’t know him? He is a kind man and a philanthropist. He is supportive of the ordinary person that is available. I praise him and wish him the very best in whatever he puts his hands on. It has nothing to do with politics but about the good relationship we share.

    There are rumours that former President Goodluck Jonathan is hobnobbing with the APC. Should he defect to APC?

    He has not told me that. Goodluck Jonathan is a statesman. He sacrificed his ambition and did not fight after the 2015 elections because he wants a united Nigeria. Don’t forget that the person that is now mentioned globally is Olusegun Obasanjo. He is ageing but Jonathan is a younger person and he is able to represent Nigeria, attract friends and investments into Nigeria. That role falls on his shoulders very well and I encourage him to keep that position and be Nigeria’s number one image maker. He is well-suited for that and I wish him the best of luck in achieving that. He is an adult and he takes his own decisions. He is able to assess the circumstances. But I don’t believe he will go to APC.

  • You can succeed in life  without sleeping with a man!

    You can succeed in life without sleeping with a man!

    DEAR Ma, I have been reading and digesting your articles on sexual purity for the past three weeks! How I wish I knew about you and what you teach earlier- I wouldn’t have messed up and failed everyone.

    Abigail

    Dear Sister Temilolu,

    A very good morning to you. I was shocked this morning when I was surfing the internet to solve some challenging questions and do justice to some topics in linguistics only to find your article about a female 42-year-old virgin in this 21st century! I thank God for the lady and your wonderful ministry! Please keep it up!

    Evangelist Emmanuel Ndehedehe

    Dear Aunty Temilolu,

    I’ve been reading your articles since I stumbled on you online. I appreciate the morals you are handing down to us but I must say it’s not easy to preserve one’s virginity in this day and age. I’m one of the strongest girls who refused to give up on the harshness of this world and hoping to see and experience the silver lining. However, it seems like nothing is happening. I’m already giving up! People are telling me to go get married or get into a relationship so a man can help me out but I feel ashamed doing that out of my unsavoury circumstance as I know I would one day wake up and realise I don’t like the person and only forced myself into a relationship to solve my problems. Please counsel me ma.

    Gift, 23

    My darling Gift and every lady in her shoes,

    Believe me; it is so easy to be anything and everything you want to be even if you can’t afford a 3-square-meal today! I know times are really hard but I insist not only can you survive, you can eventually have the best things in life! As females, we are created with so much virtue and innate gifts which can magnetise money to us and all we need do is to concentrate and develop ourselves optimally! I imagine what you may have been going through and I also imagine you may have reached a stage of despondency but you must never give up! Now is the time to utilise that gnawing pain in you and stretch yourself as much as possible to uncover the goldmine inside of you which would enable you make money almost effortlessly!

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    Can you use your brains for more intellectual pursuits? Can you use your beautiful hands to learn a skill right away? What’s your hobby? Turn it to a money-spinner! Just please get busy developing yourself and making the most of your life, virtues/potentials and not making guys/men your focus!

    Little did you know guys/men see this generation of girls/young ladies as one of the cheapest things they could have! Yes! Ask your brothers, uncles, daddy etc. Most of them don’t place much value on how you feel especially when you devalue yourself by allowing them sleep with you, frolick with your body, eat you up like mango and have their taste and full satisfaction of all your sexuality! They’re quick to mess around with your heart and throw the mango they’ve eaten away knowing there’s a long queue of girls waiting for their money and attention! Mind you, they don’t want to marry anything cheap either! Please don’t be quick or desperate to fall into any man’s arms who wants a serious relationship with you! You must develop yourself and discover your purpose in life real quick so your life can attract the right person and not a man that’ll end up treating you like a slave or a dog on a leash!

    Believe me, if a lot of women were well-prepared-emotionally, psychologically, academically, financially, spiritually, it would be most difficult for any man or a satanically-patriarchal society to abuse them! I know a good number of your friends must be married to some rich men by now but can you please ignore them, stop wallowing in self-pity and pursue your own destiny? Spend all the time you have now learning life skills and not waiting for a rich man to come and rescue you! Spend your time learning one handicraft or the other and start making your own money! Use all the energy that comes with your present discomfort to garner the SUPERNAL FIRE OF GOD! Please, please endure the hardship for a while, refuse to defile your body- the temple of the Holy Spirit and come and see whether God will not over-satisfy you! May your life magnetise the world’s most honourable men and may you be pampered by kings!

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  • How to get over the guy that’s making you cry!

    By EMILOLU OKEOWO

    Dear Aunty Temilolu, I have been seeing your posts on sexual purity on social media! I was molested by people who are close to me and having that picture in my head I have always hated sex and anything called a romantic relationship! Up till my final year in the university, I never gave room for any relationship. A man in my church asked me to date him. And I decided to give him a chance because I was advancing in age and thought it would be nice to have a breath of fresh air in my life however, it didn’t end well! Whenever we met, he will always force himself on me which I didn’t like. I had to quit the relationship and I hurt so much. When the people closest to me kept telling me I’m being too hard on myself by not having any one in my life, I decided to date again and same thing occurred. This one practically walked out on me after promising he’d wait till my wedding night! I’ve been so shattered and can’t stop crying because I’m so in love with him however even though I’m 31, I believe in sexual purity and fear God! It’s so hard to get someone to walk on that part with me. To worsen my plight, I keep feeling I’m doing the wrong thing, by keeping myself! Please how do I get this guy out of my head, my heart and soul?

    Favour

    My darling Favour and every other heart-broken girl/lady,

    I really empathise with you especially when you have to experience heart-ache and disappointments in relationships over and over again! Can you please endure and be strong? It’s not going to last forever! Believe me that pain you’re nursing probably because of someone who may not even be worth your attention could turn you to a nervous wreck, dim the light on your path and push you exactly where the devil wants you to be!

    If I were you, I’d carry my bible-the word of God- a time-proven weapon to subdue every negative spirit! Yes! Spare yourself trouble, spare yourself grief, spare yourself depression! The world is looking out for and waiting for your star to shine, why would you be crushed? Hmm…if only you knew what’s ahead of you!

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    Observe every hour of prayer and pray with scriptures, let the verses resonate in your spirit all day! In fact, you can read them into your drinking or bathing water and before you know it the weight in your heart dissolves and good things begin to happen to you! For example-

    1. Acts 1:8- I shall receive power after the Holy Ghost is come upon me and I shall forget about George!
    2. Psalm 30:5- Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning, I shall wake up with joy tomorrow morning!
    3. Luke 20:17- He looked directly at them and said “the stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone…” I…shall become the cornerstone!

    There are numerous scriptures you can search out yourself and bring to manifestation in your life!

    Not only would you be all fired up ready to step into a wonderful new season, you would come out more beautiful than ever before because a lot of impurities and dark spirits would have been extinguished from your being. Your life would also naturally magnetise good things and all the attention you deserve! Your reasoning would be more insightful. You would become more future-oriented such that when the attention from guys increase, you don’t even notice it because you want to pursue your WONDERFUL destiny which God is revealing to you!

    What more? You become master over those silly emotions that make you fall in love foolishly and land you into painful heartbreaks. Why? Because the spirit of God in the word envelopes you and begins to control your emotions! Wow! Wouldn’t it be so nice to finally ignore that guy who shattered your heart into smithereens and walk with your head held up high with a beautiful smile on your face when you see him unlike in the past when you’d hang your head low out of pain, shame and regret? I really can’t wait to read your testimonies on this.

    And for Favour- this is the word of the Lord to you- “Thou shalt arise and have mercy on Zion (Favour) for the time to favour her, yea, the set time, is come.” Your testimony will be the loudest and you’ll thank God those guys walked out on you! Expect one of His finest soonest!

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  • Lagos’ dens of robbers

    Lagos’ dens of robbers

    Many flyover bridges in the Lagos metropolis are harbouring armed robbers and other anti-social elements whose victims are left with sorrowful tales, KUNLE AKINRINADE reports.

    It was dawn penultimate Thursday and Adeyori Philip slowed down his Toyota Camry car as he approached a mild traffic around the Jubilee Bridge underpass in Abule Egba area of Lagos. As usual, he had left home early for his office on Lagos Island to avoid being caught in the usual snarl of traffic that characterizes life on work days in the city.

    As he wound down the side window to allow for fresh air, he noticed a flicker of light on the back seat of his car. On closer look, he realised that the light was coming from a torch in the hand of a young lad who was trying to see what he had in the car. Before he could wind up the window shield, the boy had forced his hand into the car, taking away the bag containing his laptop computer.

    “I couldn’t believe my eyes when the young man dashed across the road with the bag containing my HP laptop worth thousands of naira,” he said.

    “I shouted for help but got no one’s response from anyone. I left the scene frustrated particularly because my work files were also taken away with the computer. Luckily for me, I had backed up my files on the computer system allocated to me in the office, so I was able to recover the files.

    “I think that adequate security should be made available at such hours on the corridor especially around the bridge underpass to forestall such occurrences.

    “Many motorists who sympathised with me also shared their nasty experiences at the hands of the criminals under the bridge.”

    But such ugly scenes are not limited to the Abule Egba flyover bridge. Underpass robbery attacks at rush hours have also been recorded in other parts of the city like Agege, Oshodi, Iyana Isolo, Ojota, Ikorodu Road, Mile 2 and Maryland, to mention a few.

    In Agege, for instance, the underpass of the overhead bridge linking Guinness and Oba Akran areas has become a den of criminals, particularly at night and early morning.

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    Sometime in July, a factory worker, Yaqub Ahmed, was brutally attacked by hoodlums in their bid to dispossess him of his phone and cash.

    At first, the hoodlums, who according to Ahmed pretended that they had missed their way and asked him to give them direction, pounced on him right under the bridge, raining blows and cudgels on him and dispossessing him of phone and cash.

    Recalling the ugly experience, he said: “While I was bleeding from the attack, my attackers ran away through a canal near the popular Asade Market.

    “I initially struggled with them in spite of the rain of blows and cudgels. But I had to release my phone and money to them when one of the hoodlums brought out a pistol and threatened to kill me.”

    Mode of attack

    In most cases, the robbery attacks are linked to traffic congestion. At other times, however, the attacks are carried out in broad daylight and at dawn or dusk while residents set out for work or are returning home.

    A typical example is that of a victim whose lifeless body was said to have been found around the Mile 12 underpass in June this year. The victim was said to have been attacked by suspected hoodlums at about 11 pm while he was returning to Lagos from his hometown in Ogbomosho, Oyo State.

    According to sources, the victim identified as Jamiu Oyediran had travelled to see his parents in Ogbomosho where he spent two weeks. As he was returning to Lagos, he was trapped in traffic along the road and arrived at Mile 12 underpass around 11 pm when he was attacked by hoodlums with machetes, leading to his death on the spot.

    “His wife had just been delivered of a baby girl weeks before his gruesome death at the hands of hoodlums,” one of Oyediran’s friends identified as Hammed said.

    In a boldfaced operation under the Maryland Bridge recently, three hoodlums approached a motorist in a traffic snarl, pointed their guns at him and asked him to surrender his money. The hoodlums were said to have acted like street hawkers in the area before they struck.

    “One of them first approached me and asked me to give him money or I would lose my life. While I was still arguing with him, two accomplices surfaced and pulled up their shirts to show me their pistols, threatening to kill me if I refused to part with cash.

    “They collected the N20,000 I had withdrawn from an ATM point close to my office in Yaba with which I was to settle some utility bills. Before I could overcome the shock, they crossed the road to the other side and walked briskly until they vanished from sight.”

    A similar attack at the Mile 2 underpass ended on a tragic note when suspected robbers operating on a motorbike shot dead a stranded commuter.

    The unidentified commuter, who was decked in suit suggesting that he was returning from work, was shot in the chest for dragging his bag with his assailants.

    Arrests

    Worried by the spate of robberies in Lagos traffic gridlock and at underpasses where hoodlums brazenly attack motorists and commuters, the Lagos State Police Command in May this year arrested suspected criminals from their hideouts during some operations.

    In a statement, the immediate past spokesman of the command, Olumuyiwa Adejobi, said the suspects, Sadiq Masaki, 22; Oladimeji Olatunbosun, 24; Adam Hassan, 21; Tunde Afolayan, 24; Michael Ademola, 22; Olamide Johnson, 20; Abiodun Opeyemi, 22; Oluseyi Agbaje, 21; Daniel Ayomide, 20 and Adebayo Tobi, 21 were arrested following a distress call by one of the victims.

    Adejobi said: “The suspects allegedly attacked unsuspecting commuters and dispossessed them of their belongings.

    “In furtherance of the command’s anti-crime measures, the police operatives attached to the Strike Team of the command, on May 1, 2021, around 2.p.m, arrested 11 suspected cultists and traffic robbers who were attacking and dispossessing innocent people of their belongings at Railway-Crossing, Ikeja along (bridge), Ikeja, Lagos.

    “The operatives, who responded to a distress call from one of the victims (name withheld), raced to the area and arrested some of the suspects in action while others were arrested at their hideouts around Ikeja Along (bridge).

    “They have confessed to the crime. The suspects also revealed that they attack their targets with iron rods, guns, cutlasses, and charms during operations.

    “In the course of police investigation, the suspects revealed one of their receivers identified as Idris Adam, 42, and he was arrested at Alade Market, Lagos.

    “A gold necklace of one of the victims and many other suspected stolen items like phones, necklaces, watches, etc were recovered from him,” the statement added.

    Security experts proffer solutions

    To curb the menace of robbery at bridge underpasses around the Lagos metropolis, experts urged the authorities to consider a holistic approach or remedies to tackling the problem.

    The Chief Executive Officer of Formen, a Lagos-based guard protection firm, Julius Iloebe, said “the state government must help the police and other law enforcement agents in the fight against robberies and other criminal activities on the road.

    Iloebe said: “Robbery attacks are not limited to traffic congestion on the road or under the bridge; there is also the issue of bad roads and potholes under the bridges which would make motorists to slow down their cars or get stuck in gridlock during which these criminals sprint at them and most times violently rob or kill them.

    “Therefore, authorities should endeavor to fix bad portions on roads and lit them so motorists and commuters can sight advancing criminals, especially at nights.”

    In his opinion, the Managing Director of SecureWorld, Jeremiah Datong, called for the deployment of policemen in strategic points around bridges, noting that such deployment must be complemented with the presence of personnel of other ancillary security outfits such as neighbourhood watch and Nigerian Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC).

    “Although operatives of the Rapid Response Squad (RRS) and men of the divisional police stations maintain routine patrol of the metropolis, their efforts are not enough to curb the menacing hoodlums. Hence, the deployment of policemen is necessary at strategic areas and under the bridges, and this should be complemented with operatives of sister security outfits such as Neighbourhood Watch and Nigerian Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC).”

    Datong added: “To avoid fatality during attacks, motorists, and commuters must learn to keep their valuables away from the interior of their cars and avoid holding their phones which could be easily dispossessed, while pedestrians are also advised to avoid dark routes at night. Victims should also, ensure they do not put up resistance in order to avoid being killed by the hoodlums during robbery attacks.”

  • Intriguing tales as Ondo community marks end to killing of twins

    Intriguing tales as Ondo community marks end to killing of twins

    Before August 18, 1945, killing twin babies was an acceptable practice among the Ilaje people in present day Ilaje Local Government Area. Up until then, new born twins were killed the very day they were born because they were thought to be capable of bringing misfortune to the entire community.

    The babies were either slaughtered or thrown into the river because it was believed that the mother must have been visited by evil spirits or she cheated on her husband. Alternatively, she must have committed a taboo against the land. The penalty in either cases was to kill the babies to forestall any evil occurrence against the community.

    Besides the killing of the twins, the ‘unfortunate’ mother was made to face series of punishments as well as perform some sacrifice to appease the spirits.

    The fight to end the killing of twins in Ilaje began in 1940 when some members of the community converted from their traditional religions to Christianity. The new believers, who became known as the ‘Apostles’ began the campaign against the age long practice and made efforts for the people to see twin children as the creation of God.

    It was a war between the Apostles and the powerful Oro cult group in Ilaje. The Oro cult was responsible for the killing of twins and for cleansing the land of the evil the twins purported brought on it.

    Many members of the Apostles were said to have been maimed, persecuted, and sent to jail by the Oro cult leadership until a pronouncement by the British colonial authority in 1945 that declared it a crime to kill twins in the land.

    Last week, Ilaje leaders rolled out the drums to celebrate what they termed freedom of the twins.

    The traditional ruler of Ayetoro community and the Spiritual Head of the Holy Apostles Church, Oba Micah Olaseni Ajijo, the Ogeloyinbo of Ayetoro, said the celebration of the freedom of twins anniversary was meant to mark victory over darkness and remember the good works of the holy Apostles who lay down their lives to end the killing of twins.

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    Oba Ajijo, who spoke at a special thanksgiving service at the Holy Apostles Church, Ayetoro in Ilaje Local Government Area, urged the people to remember that freedom of twins was made possible by the struggle of ‘the Apostles’.

    He recalled that twin babies got their freedom to life on August 18,1945 and the people of the community came to be known as The Happy City. Incidentally, the first set of twins that were saved by the Apostles are still alive and even attended the thanksgiving service. They were said to have been saved because the Apostles hid them in the bush alongside their mother.

    Ironically, their father was a member of the Oro cult and was bent on having them executed, hence the babies were kept in the bush for many days.

    His words: “The movement of the Apostles to stop the killing of twins in Ilaje land started in 1943. From 1943 to 1945, many of the Apostles were taken to court, prosecuted and sentenced to jail.

    “However, in one of the court cases, the custodians of the Oro cult in Ilaje, who were the traditional chiefs both in Mahin and Ugbo kingdoms, denied the allegation leveled against them by the Apostles that they were killing twins, and this gave the Apostles the courage to pursue their mission.

    “In 1945, they successfully fought against the killing of twins by saving the lives of the oldest twins in Ilaje land today – Taiwo and Kehinde Ejagbomo nee Erukubami, who were officially and legally recorgnised as the first twins in Ilaje who survived the killing of twins by the Oro cult.

    “They were born in 1945, and in line with the extant practice, they were taken into the bush and hidden for several days with their mother, and they successfully escaped to where the Apostles were securing and caring for them.

    “It is time for me to tell the story of our forefather to our children; that despite the tribulation, they did not relent in fighting against the good work of God and stop the killing of twins.

    “The killing of twins was stopped by leaders in this community, and it was this struggle that led to creation of this Ayetoro community.

    “On the 18th of August 1943, the British Authority agreed with our fathers and said the killing of twins should not be practised in Ilaje land, and that was the end. That was what brought all the twins in Ilaje to life. So we celebrate life, the achievement of our people and the word of God. This is why the church is very happy.”

    Speaking on the importance of the celebration, Oba Ajijo said: “The essence of today’s thanksgiving is to glorify God for the work of our forefathers who established this community which made God and the people happy.

    “The works of our forefathers were based on truth and faith, and any work that is built on truth and faith must be based on the word of God; on the commandment that says ‘thou shall not kill’.

    “In the book of Exodus, this is one of the serious parts of God’s commandments. And you must understand that when God created every other thing, God was saying I command until He wanted to create man. He called the Holy Spirit and His son and told them ‘let us create man in our own image and likeness’.

    “In the early 1940s, to ensure that twins’ lives were saved, our fathers embarked on the fight and crusade against the killing of twins. In Ilaje land, it was an abomination to give birth to twins. The twins in the land were all killed until our forefathers fought for this ugly tradition to be stopped.

    “The oldest twin in the whole of this Ilaje Local Government Area is in this Ayetoro community. He is a product of the good work of God. This is one of the reasons we celebrate twins to appreciate the good work of the Apostles who fought and halted the ugly development in our land.

    “These Apostles based their agitations against the killing of twins on the commandment of God that thou shall not kill. Our joy is that the Apostles followed this word of God, preached to the people, fought to stop the killings and God supported and answered their prayers and they overcame.

    “Although some of these Apostles were sent to jail by the local authorities, they did not relent because they believed in their cause and said this is based on the truth that you shall not kill, as directed by God.

    “The work of God is based on truth, and this might be one of the reasons God supported them and gave them the strength to fight the cause.

    “Today, we celebrate them. We bring our children together to tell the history of how our forefathers helped in stopping the killing of twins in Ilaje land, just like Mary Slessor did.”

    One of the first surviving twins, Pa Andrew Kehinde Ejeagbomo, aged 76, said he would ever be grateful to the early Apostles of Ilaje who fought against the killing of twins in the entire Ilaje land.

    Pa Kehinde said his father was a leading member of the Oro cult who believed that twins were children of abomination and should be killed, while his mother was a member of the Holy Apostle Church who did not believe in the killing of twins.

    He said his father was in a dilemma when his wife gave birth to twins.

    He said: “God made it possible for people like us to be alive today. If not for God and the Apostles, I would have been dead some 76 years ago. But the Apostles took us and my mother into custody and here we are today.

    “The killing of twins then was paramount in Ilaje because it was a tradition that no one must give birth to twins.

    “Those that stopped the killing were the founders of the Ayetoro church known as the Holy Apostle Church. The church was against the killing of twins.

    “They preached that it is a sin to kill.

    “I can confirm to you that I have two sets of twins and three of my children have given birth to twins. One of them gave birth to twins thrice. We thank God for the Apostles.”

    Another twin, Mrs Kehinde Owoyele, said:  “I am very happy to be alive today. Some years back, it was a taboo for twin children to be alive in Ayetoro. So, the annual celebration is to commemorate the stoppage of the killing of twins and celebrate twins in the community.

    “After giving birth to twins in Ilaje, the twins would be tied in both hands and legs, wrapped in a fishing net and thrown into the Atlantic Ocean.

    “After killing the twins, the mothers who gave birth to them would be fined. The fines used to come in form of kegs of palm oil, tubers of yam, kolanuts, alligator pepper and bush meat, among others.

    “It was the apostles who came and stopped the killings. They also ensured that all the twins in the community engaged in annual thanksgiving to celebrate their survival.”

  • Shylock money lenders on the prowl

    Shylock money lenders on the prowl

    •How ruthless online lending outfits exploit, blackmail borrowers
    •Victims relive embarrassing experiences
    •Experts demand legal action against errant companies
    •Police, CBN mum on development

    Many Nigerians have had their names and images smeared by online lending companies for not paying back loans as and when due. The victims have had to grapple with the challenge of redeeming their battered images before relations, friends and business partners to whom the lenders had sent messages that they are criminals on police wanted list, INNOCENT DURU reports.

    ISHOLA, a media practitioner based in Lagos woke up recently to find a damaging message a fintech (online lending) company had sent to all the contacts on his phone, calling him a criminal on the wanted list of the police for running away with the company’s money.

    Ishola had approached the online money lenders for a loan that would enable him to attend to a pressing health issue in the hope of paying back the capital and the interest at the agreed time. He however could not repay the loan at the agreed date because of issues beyond his control.

    Before he could finish reading the image-tarnishing message, his mobile phone had been bombarded with calls from relations, friends and business partners, many of who expressed shock that he could be involved in a criminal activity to the point of being wanted by the police.

    “It was the most embarrassment moment of my life. Some people are yet to be convinced that it was all about a loan I couldn’t pay back immediately. Some people I wanted to do business with withdrew when they saw the messages, one of which had my picture,” he said regretfully.

    He added: “First, they sent a message to me that I ran away with the company’s money and that the police were looking for me. They also sent the message to all the people on my contacts list.

    “They would have used their app to access your contacts before giving you the loan. So, within the first three hours on the day payment is due, they will start calling and threatening you with series of messages.

    “After the first message, they would send another one to your contacts, telling them that you used them as guarantors. It is all part of their deliberate plan to blackmail the borrower, because before you use somebody as a guarantor, the person ought to have signed a document to that effect.

    Ishola noted that in his own case, the lending company had no physical office. “But they have very rude agents who call to abuse and threaten you. If they were to have physical offices, people would have bombarded the place to protest,” he said.

    Asked whether the company made any effort to get back to his contacts after he paid the loan, Ishola said: “After repaying the loan, they never deemed it fit to get back to my contacts to clear my image they had tarnished. If you try to call them and they realize that you are the one, they will block your call.

    “The last time I searched, I read that their office was on Awolowo Way in Ikeja, but there was no specific address. They even used my picture in one of the messages they sent to my contacts.”

    Another victim, who gave his name simply as Seun, also lamented the extent to which a similar message damaged his image.

    He said: “I regretted the day I took the loan because the problem I used it to solve was nothing compared to the pains and sorrow it brought me. People who never knew that I took a loan did not only become aware of it, they were made to see me as a bad debtor.

    “My in-laws, bosses, friends and others got the terrible messages. How many people will believe my side of the story after the damage has been done?”

    Seun also disclosed that once a borrower fails to meet up with the repayment date, the interest accruing on the loan will continue to increase until the loan is repaid. “The longer you delay in paying back, the more they send such disgraceful messages. To avoid further damage to my battered image, I had to look for money by all means to pay back. The experience hurts till date.

    Explaining how he obtained an online loan that became a pain in his neck, another victim who gave his name as Bankole said: “You get the loan through their mobile app. The whole arrangement is often programmed in a way that you will default so that they will make more profit. You may not be able to pay on the day you want to make payment. It is after they would have surcharged you that they would give you more options.

    “You should have the option of paying offline if you cannot pay through the app, but most times, the first option is the only option.  If you miss that option, the following day, they will begin to send the defamatory messages.

    “At times, you would have sent the payment out but it may not reflect at the back end and they would not even clear you.”

    A former Second Vice President of the Nigerian Bar Association, Barrister Monday Onyekachi Ubani, said he once received such a message from an unknown number.

    He said: “I once received such a message from them, trying to tell me that someone was a criminal, but I didn’t know the person that sent his details to me.  I don’t even know how they got my number and I didn’t know what they wanted me to do with such information. Were they expecting me to prosecute him or what?”

    Findings showed that innocent people who lost or had their mobile phones stolen and failed to immediately block their lines have had thieves using them to borrow money. Ubani also said he knew someone with that kind of experience.

    He said: “I knew of somebody like that. She had her phone stolen but didn’t block the line immediately. By the time she retrieved the line, messages started coming that she was a criminal who took a loan and refused to pay back.  It was a messy experience that compounded the pain of having her phone stolen.

     

    Experts call for intervention by CBN, other regulatory agencies

    Financial and business experts have decried the approach used by the fintech companies to retrieve their loans. They described it as an illegal and crude practice that must not be allowed to continue.

    A former President of the Chattered Institute of Bankers, Mazi Unegbu, was visibly miffed by the ugly development.

    He said: “It is an illegal thing. The victims should take legal actions against them.  If I have a person who is a victim, I will go to court. They have no right to start sending messages to the borrower’s contact. It is pure libel. They have no right to do such a thing.”

    Asked how the victims could take legal action since the companies operate online, he said: “Even though they operate online, you can get them. They must be somewhere. Their online information will be in your phone any way.

    “Even when they operate online, somebody from the office will call you and mention his or her name. It is easy to get them. All companies working here must be registered.

    “You can do an online search at Corporate Affairs Commission to get them. You can take action against them.

    “Honestly, the practice is very, very wrong and illegal. Unless somebody takes a legal action against them, they will continue to rubbish people’s names.

    “That you borrowed money does not make you a criminal. You can always say you are paying or not paying.  Even when you are not paying, there must be a reason for not paying.

    “You must enter into an agreement with the person on when you want to pay.  You don’t just label somebody a criminal because he borrowed money. It is wrong.”

    The Central Bank of Nigeria, according to the former CIBN boss, is supposed to be ahead of all these people.

    He said: “Even if the companies are using their own capital to run the business, they must be registered with the regulatory authorities like the CAC and the CBN. The CBN will have to monitor such transactions. Lending is part of banking and finance. They can be checked by the system.

    “As a person, you could need only N5, 000 to help yourself overnight. What I am saying in essence is that whether you borrow N1 or more does not make you a criminal. What should happen now is that people should sue them.

    “If you know some of the people involved, let them come to me. I will sue the companies on their behalf. Yes, I will deal with the companies. I will close them down.”

    A business expert, Dr Austin Nweze, said that  money lending in Nigeria is not refined yet, regretting that lenders have taken the law into their hands on how to treat debtors.

    Nweze said: “The lenders themselves make it impossible for you to pay.  Even in some of the conventional banks the practice is the same.

    “A friend of mine had to quit his job in one of such finance companies because he believed that the practice was against his belief. Once you come to the finance company, which is a subsidiary of a bank that I don’t want to mention, to take a loan, you will tender something as collateral. Once you drop your car, they know there is no way you will come back for it.

    “If the borrower comes back few minutes after the deadline for the agreed repayment period, they will say he has defaulted.  That is how the managers of those companies acquire assets.

    “My friend who just joined resigned for conscience sake.  So, the practice is not peculiar to the online lenders; it is the practice. They do all manner of things including going diabolical to make sure the borrower is unable to pay.

    “The essence of the loan is not for you to pay back.”

    Visibly disturbed about the development, he added: “The lending is cynical. They don’t have the intention of helping the borrower to pay back. They are more interested in the assets you are using as collateral.

    “Your contacts have nothing to do with the money you are borrowing.  If they libel you through their text messages to your contacts, they should be able to go back to those contacts and say you have paid back. It is criminal. It is damaging to the image of the borrower.

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    “If I am the borrower, I will not mind suing them so that the court can set a precedent. It is criminal to do that kind of thing. It is a transaction between the lender and the borrower so why take it to the contacts?

    “The borrower should sue for defamation of character, because there is nothing wrong with borrowing.”

    He lamented that the country has gone that low, saying: “If you have to borrow N15, 000 from money lenders, it is so bad.  It shows that the borrower does not have somebody who could actually lend him that kind of money.

    “But the point is that you can borrow any amount.  Borrowing helps the economy because the interest that you pay helps to pay somebody’s salary. If you don’t borrow the N15, 000, the lender will not make interest to pay salaries. Even if it is N200 he makes, it adds up to pay somebody’s salary.”

    He said he wasn’t sure the Central Bank of Nigeria was aware of the practice.

    “I am not sure the CBN is aware of it. If they can create a window where such reports can be made, it will be a great idea like you are trying to do by bringing this matter up so that the CBN will be in the know of it.

    “When they are in the know of this, they can set up guidelines for the practitioners to get a licence. That is the only way the CBN can do something.”

    He observed that the companies, besides exploiting the customers, must have also been robbing the economy by not paying taxes.

    “The practice is naked as it is now. When they are regulated, they can pay taxes because it is difficult for anything not regulated to pay taxes.

    “They are not paying taxes and it is not beneficial to the government. They are just doing underhand deal and it is not beneficial to the economy.

    “Anything you do that you don’t pay taxes for is not good for the economy. You are not helping the economy to grow.

    “They should move from unregulated informal sector to a regulated one.  They should be made to pay tax because they are running a business.”

     

    ‘It’s illegal to label borrowers as criminals’

    Taking a legal look at the fintech companies’ actions, Barrister Ubani asked: “How would they remove the embarrassment after the person pays? After the borrower pays back the money, will they go and tell the people that they had sent messages to that he has paid?

    “That is the kind of degeneration we have got to as a country. There are so many things that are wrong in the system. Everything is wrongly done.

    “I don’t understand a loan arrangement that will somebody call you a criminal when you have not been convicted by a court.”

    He said there must be a judicial process before anybody can be called a criminal. “Borrowing money is a civil matter. I don’t think it is proper. I see no reason why a lender should have access to my contacts and begin to reach out to them and calling me all manner of names.

    “If a borrower has committed a crime as a result of borrowing money from you, you should let the police investigate and prosecute before you begin to call that person a criminal.”

    An online news medium, the International Centre for Investigative Reporting, ICIR, in a recent report said it searched for the names of the six online loan apps on the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) database and their names were missing.

    “This makes it hard to know who exactly owns an app or even where the money for the loans is coming from. However, they reveal the location of their physical addresses on their information page on the Google Play Store showing that they are based in Lagos,” the organisation said.

    A report by the organisation said: “On August 17, the National Information and Technology Development Agency (NITDA), slammed Soko Lending Company, a Nigerian online lending platform, with a fine of ₦10 million for privacy invasion.

    “This was after a series of complaints against the company for unauthorised disclosures, failure to protect customers’ personal data and defamation of character.”

     

    Police, CBN dodge enquiry

    Efforts made by the reporter to get the reactions of the Nigerian Police and the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) yielded no meaningful results.

    Police spokesman, Frank Mba, said in response to our request: “I don’t understand your question.” He declined further comments after our correspondent made the enquiry clearer.

    Spokesman of the CBN, Osita Nwasinobi, only said “thanks so very much. I deeply appreciate,” in response to our enquiry.