Category: Weekend Treat

  • 10 relationship deal breakers you should be aware of …

    Relationship Deal Breakers can be things that you might not even be aware that you are doing. The smallest and simplest thing in the world could, actually be one of the many relationship deal breakers for your man. Below, I’ve detailed out the relationship deal breakers that I’ve come across that way at least you know what is off limits!

    1. Not Backing Your Man Up: This is a biggie girls. If you don’t back up your man is whatever he does or says (within reason mind you), it could be one of the relationship deal breakers that could break you up! A man likes to know that his girlfriend is going to be there no matter what so show him by backing him up!

    2. Playing the Jealousy Card too Much: I hate, hate, hate when men and women constantly try to make their partner jealous. A little jealousy here and there is okay, but keep it to a minimum. There is a difference between flirting with a guy that works at a gas station that pumps your gas to grinding up on a guy that isn’t your boyfriend in a club. Keep it classy, not trashy ladies!

    3. Neglect: This is a huge one and one that I am actually guilty of too. Men want to feel important, want to feel secure in their relationship and want to be paid attention to. One of the biggest relationship deal breakers is actually their women neglecting them. Remember this one okay ladies?

    4. Any Lies: So you think that the occasional white lie is okay right? That is, until your guy finds out about it. When you lie to your boyfriend, it is hard to gain back that trust. Just keep it open and honest it’s better that way.

    5. Criticizing & Judging: How would you feel if you were constantly judged and criticized? Most women would go haywire if their man critiqued what they wore, what they eat, how they talked what do you do to your boyfriend? Do you constantly judge him, constantly criticize him?

    6. Disappearing without Notice: We all need our ‘me’ time. I get that, I need some ‘me’ time sometimes too, just let your guy know where you are! This is one of the biggest relationship deal breakers out there. Men like to know where their girlfriends are at not all of the time mind you, but they at least like to be kept in the loop.

    7. Withholds Sex: Oh-em-gee, I hate this trick. In a relationship, you should never use sex to dominate your man. It’s the quickest way to lose him and definitely the worst way to make a reputation for yourself. Remember, men talk too.

    8. Constantly Drinking: Drinking with the guys is fine, drinking with your girlfriends is even cool, but if you are constantly drunk what guy would have fun with you? You want a guy that is going to like you tipsy and sober. You want to remember the night that you had with your man right?

    9. Too Poor: If you can’t afford a cell phone bill, rent or even a a dinner out, you really shouldn’t be in a relationship. Guys, this goes for you too if you can’t take your lady out, that can definitely be a relationship deal breaker! You don’t have to be rich, you just have to have enough money for savings and not to be completely broke all of the time.

    10. No Phone Calls just Emails: When you are in a relationship, you have to nurture it. It isn’t something that you can use technology for. If you are a technology-driven person use the phone, see your boyfriend. Don’t just use emails or texts, it’s not way to have a relationship.

    There are many different relationship deal breakers that could potentially put your relationship in danger. If you find yourself committing one or more of these relationship deal breakers stop it! It might be hard, but it’ll be worth it in the end. What tricks and tips do you use to nurture your relationship and keep is happy and healthy?

  • INEC, PDP, Wada urge Supreme Court to dismiss case

    INEC, PDP, Wada urge Supreme Court to dismiss case

    Judgment on February 21

    The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and Kogi State Governor Idris Wada yesterday urged the Supreme Court to dismiss an appeal filed by a chieftain of the party, Jibril Isah Echocho.

    Echocho is challenging the legitimacy of the December 3, 2011, election, which produced Wada as governor.

    At the hearing yesterday, INEC, PDP and Wada, represented by J. M. M. Majiyagbe, Olusola Oke and Chris Uche (SAN), faulted the competence of the appeal and urged the court to dismiss it.

    Echocho challenged the legitimacy of the election before the Federal High Court on the grounds that it was wrongly held.

    The Federal High Court declined jurisdiction, as the case involved governorship election issues over which it lacked jurisdiction.

    Echocho went to the Court of Appeal, which upheld the decision of the Federal High Court, prompting his appeal to the Supreme Court.

    Adopting his brief yesterday, Majiyagbe urged the court to dismiss the appeal because he said the reliefs sought by Echocho could only be granted by an election tribunal.

    “The narrow issue is whether the Federal High Court can entertain electoral matters, especially in light of the reliefs sought by the appellant, one of which is that the court should set aside the election.”

    Uche noted that the Apex Court on September 10, last year upheld the election.

    He argued that having not taken part in the election, it was strange that he would seek to be declared the winner of the election he did not participate in.

    “The appellant sought to rely on the primary election of January 2011, which he won, but was canceled. In the case of Sylva against PDP, the Supreme Court held that the cancelled primary had become no issue and no one could rely on it.”

    Oke said Section 285 (2) of the 1999 Constitution vested exclusive jurisdiction in the election tribunal to determine issues relating to the conduct of elections and that Isah was wrong to have come to the High Court.

    To him, the High Court and Court of Appeal were right in dismissing the case, and urged the Supreme Court to do same.

    Oke told the court that PDP had the right to abandon a primary and conduct a new one.

    Echocho’s counsel Wole Olanipekun (SAN) submitted that the case was novel because it raised issues that had not been decided before.

    “This appeal has no precedent in this country. It calls for your Lordships’ intervention to protect the sanctity and potency of the judgment of the Supreme Court and the constitution.”

    He argued that the December 3, 2011, governorship election was held in violation of the Supreme Court’s judgment, which terminated the tenure of five governors.

    Olanipekun said his client could not have gone to the tribunal because his case did not fall within the grounds for filing a petition.

    Justice Mahmud Mohammed adjourned till February 21.

     

  • ‘Skills acquisition paramount for industrial growth’

    ‘Skills acquisition paramount for industrial growth’

    Prof. Longmas Wapmuk, is Director-General, Industrial Training Fund (ITF), where he has been calling the shots since 2006. The ITF, which suffered a chequered existence following years of inactivity, has literally reinvented itself and is now fulfilling the mandate it is saddled with, which is producing skilled manpower for the country. In this interview with Bukola Afolabi, he shares the success story of the organisation among other issues.

    Could you tell us how long you have been at the helm of affairs of the ITF and your experience?

    Well, I was appointed specifically on August 2006. This means that I’m slightly above seven years in the organisation now. For example, when I came on board , many companies at the time particularly the foreign companies were not interested in training in the Industrial Training Fund thinking that our staff were not very competent, we addressed this problem by training many of our people overseas. And today, in Lagos you find out that we have so many training programmes being given to us to implement by the major companies.

    A prove of the rise in training consciousness, on account of ITF intervention, is the increasing request for reimbursement by employers of labour registered and the remitting of training contributions to the fund. Reimbursement of training contributions is done on condition that ITF’s guidelines on training are met. Therefore, the more employers of labour request for and get reimbursed indicates that training consciousness has really increased and is daily increasing in the economy. One of the visions of the ITF, when it was established in 1971, was to be one of the foremost field training and development organisations.

    I believe the organisation has achieved its aim. The ITF was little known before I took over as the Chief Executive. We have problem of poor funding. The budget of the organisation was around N3.6 billion, which is far too small to achieve all what we want to achieve. Also, the staff is not happy, there is no motivation and the salary was so poor. The relationship between ITF and organised body was not good. My management was also dissolved. These and many more are some of the challenges.

    How did you address these challenges?

    As at now, the ITF is a household name. First of all, I took a trip to Lagos. I met with the organised sector stakeholders. We discussed on the way forward. This, of course, enhanced our relationship. Like I said, my management was dissolved, so I had to set up a new management. Restructuring and re-organisation took place and today we have about six vibrant departments in the organisation. I was able to get new improved salary structure for the staff and all the outstanding promotions took place.

    In terms of funding, the money available for training has been very low and we thought that there was the need to improve the level of funding. When I came, I started by soliciting for money from government. I drew up a plan and followed it up by going to the supervising ministry, the Education Trust Fund (ETF) and many other places and found out that I could not generate any revenue from my efforts.

    So I decided to look inwards to see areas of generating revenue if we are to function properly as provided for in the law setting us up. I found out that in the so many countries I visited, they have similar laws but there is no reimbursement clause because they use all the money to train. But in our own case we reimburse 60 percent to the industry and 40 percent is left for us to pay our salaries and to do the training.

    On assumption of office as the Director-General, I found out that there was a law establishing a Fund and, in this law, there was provision for collection of some money to sustain the activities of the ITF. And when I came in, the level of fund generation was very low as I said earlier. Apart from the fact that the budget of the ITF was around N3.6 billion, the law stipulates that ITF should collect one per cent of firms and government agencies annual staff salary.

    You know, ITF is sustained by contributions from the organised private sector. But, you see, when they contribute this money, ITF does not keep all the money. We require them to train their own staff; so part of this training is done by them. When they train, in accordance with our new law, we refund 50 per cent of what we collected from them; so, we do not keep all the money. What is left is not enough to fund us, and to equip our centres. That is why, of recent, you see that we have been making a lot of efforts to collect revenue.

    Have you started collecting the money now (one per cent) and what is the level of compliance?

    Yes, we have started collecting the money but the money we have collected so far is not much. This is because we are just implementing the legislation and there are so many things in the amended Act. If you look at section six of that law and subsection. The level of compliance is not high, but it has improved. For instance, the number of companies have improved from 5,000 to 20, 000. Our revenue has increased to about N18billion now. Mind you, about 800,000 companies are registered with the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC). So, you can imagine 20,000 companies out of about 867,000 companies. If we can get hold of at least 300,000 companies, it will solve most of our problems. We still have a long way to go, though, but I know we will get there.

    Can you tell us about your training centre? How are they functioning?

    The ITF training centre, particularly our model skill training centre, which is located in this compound, has become a ‘Mecca’ for Technical Vocational Education. We have centres in Lagos, Jos, and Kano. We have a modern one in Abuja. We have been able to complete the one in Lokoja. When people come around we start to showcase our centre, which we built with technical support from the Institute of Technical Education Services of Singapore.

    The ITF also is always at the cutting edge of technical vocational skills training in Nigeria. In addition to bringing people to training, the ITF takes training to the people, particularly, in the nooks and cranny of Nigeria by deploying a number of mobile training workshops decked with the state-of-the-art modern equipment tools and facilities in 11 trade areas.

    We also proposed something to government which we presented to stakeholders known as National Industrial Skills Development Programme (NISDP) which is an aspect of the national industrial development plan for the Federal Ministry of Trade and Investment.

    This plan envisages that we will have industrial skills training centres in the 36 states of the federation and Abuja. And in each of these centres we have provision for training people in 24 trade areas. We have also made provision in this plan for Centres for Advance Skills Training for Employment (CASTE) and these are bigger centres that have provision for about 45 trade areas and these will be located in the six geo-political zones of the country.

    What role if any, is ITF playing in national economy, most especially, the Transformation Agenda?

    The ITF is one of the major parastatals of the Federal Government. It is one of the organisations being used by the Federal Government to achieve the transformation agenda of this administration. If you look at the ITF, and the Act establishing it, you realize it has the responsibility to provide, promote, and encourage the acquisition of skills in commerce and industry, with a view to generating the manpower sufficient to meet the needs of the Nigerian economy. And you are aware that, over time, the ITF has been performing this function.

     

  • Leah Abiara’s changing lifestyle

    Leah Abiara’s changing lifestyle

    It would appear that the lifestyle of the girl-about-town, Leah Abiara, has been reshaped by marriage. The controversial daughter of Pastor S. K. Abiara of the Christ Apostolic Church got married late in 2011 to Ibadan big boy, Omotunde Nero, much to the relief of family and friends.

    The claim that marriage imposes a lot of responsibility on people appears to have found complete expression with Leah. She has not only adopted a quiet lifestyle since she got married, there are also speculations that she may turn fully to God and follow in the footsteps of her father in no distant future.

    Before she got married, Leah was always in the news for the wrong reasons. It was so bad that her father appeared to have given up on her fast-paced lifestyle. Now happily married, the leggy Ibadan socialite has been keeping it so low that she is getting off the social scene.

  • Prof Peller’s son floats  multi-milion naira club

    Prof Peller’s son floats multi-milion naira club

    Not a few would agree that Shina Peller’s grip on the social scene in Nigeria has more to do with his very deep pocket than his family background. Shina is the son of the late Prof. Abiola Peller. That the former, who has been resident in the United Kingdom for many years, is extremely wealthy is like stating the obvious. His flamboyant lifestyle is more than enough proof of his vast means.

    A favourite of many musicians who have sung his praises, Peller further entrenched himself in the social circle when he acquired a part of De Luxe, a famed retreat established by Abiola Adegoke.

    Celeb Watch gathered that Shina, who is also the Chairman of Aquilla Oil and Gas, is currently working on a night club intended to be the biggest in Lagos. The new fun spot, Quilox Restaurant and Bar, is sited on Ozumba Mbadiwe Street, Victoria Island, Lagos. Informed sources told Celeb Watch that the new fun spot would be commissioned before the Yuletide period.

  • Gani Adams bags another title

    Gani Adams bags another title

    It is indeed a happy time for the National Coordinator of Oodua People’s Congress (OPC), Otunba Gani Adams, and his family. The OPC strongman added another feather to his cap on Monday, November 18, when HRM Oba Oyefusi Salawudeen, the Ayangburen of Ikoroduland, conferred on him and his wife, the title of Akinrogun and Yeye Akinrogun of Ikoroduland.

    With the title, it seems it is Aluta continua for Adams, who promised the large crowd that attended the ceremony to continue in his quest to “ensure that the Yoruba race is not relegated to the background in Nigeria.”

    Among the dignitaries that added colour to the event were the Ikorodu Council of Chiefs, Comrade Debo Adeniran, Comrade Jubril Ogundimu and Otunba LAM Afolabi Gbadamosi, among others.

    Popular fuji act, Sefiu Alao, treated guests at the event to scintillating music, as the guests danced late into the night.

  • Elizabeth Atuche takes solace in God

    Elizabeth Atuche takes solace in God

    Even though it be a cross that raiseth me, nearer my God to thee, nearer to thee “. There is no denying the fact that the foregoing line of a popular hymn is having more than a soothing effect on the life of Elizabeth Atuche. From the way events are playing out, it appears that the beautiful lady has chosen close affinity to the Almighty as the only way out of the emotional stress she is passing through.

    The wife of former Managing Director of Bank PHB, Francis Atuche, has suffered some hard knocks occasioned by her husband’s travails, which have forced to flee her comfort zone in the party arena for church. Today, Elizabeth is an ardent church attendant.

    She is even said to have deserted the friends with whom she painted the town red when her husband held sway as the MD of the defunct Bank PHB.

  • Ajimobi’s daughter delivered of baby girl

    The population of the household of the Oyo State Governor, Senator Abiola Ajimobi, has just increased by one. His daughter, Abisola Ajimobi, was delivered of a beautiful baby girl in the US.

    It was the second baby of the beautiful Abisola and her banker husband, Kola Daisi, in three years. No one would forget in a hurry how their society wedding shook the whole of Ibadan to its roots about three years ago.

    Abisola, the first and most popular of the governor’s five children, is enjoying a marital bliss. Her business outfit is also flourishing. The opening of her shoe place, Florence H, was one of a kind. It had many big names in attendance.

    It was gathered that Abisola and her husband are planning a shindig as soon as they return to the country. The party could mark her return to the social scene from which she took leave to have her baby.

  • Omowunmi Akinnifesi slows down

    Omowunmi Akinnifesi slows down

    Tongues are wagging over former beauty queen, Omowunmi Akinnifesi’s absence from public glare. So conspicuous is her absence that the social circle is abuzz with speculations about her whereabouts.

    In 2005, Akinnifesi was crowned the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria at the age of 18, making her eligible to represent Nigeria at the Miss World Pageant in China the same year. At the global beauty contest, she shone like a star and also engaged in tree planting for the Chinese government.

    Today, Omowunmi, the CEO of Elle Poise, a public relations and usher-hiring outfit, has disappeared from the social radar to the dismay of her fans and high society in general. In her heyday as Nigeria’s beauty queen, no A-list event was complete without her presence, as she dazzled everyone with her modish attires and stunning gait.

  • CANCER: Habits that lead to it —Experts

    CANCER: Habits that lead to it —Experts

    ‘How to avoid them’

    WHEN celebrated lawyer Late Chief Gani Fawehinmi died in year 2009 due to cancer of the lungs, there was a general hue and cry against the notorious killer known as cancer. But even before that, many celebrities had bowed to death through the wicked blow from cancer. Ace sports broadcaster, Yinka Craig, got a knock out punch from cancer in 2008 at age 60. There were prolonged tears for many that knew they will miss that voice of sports commentary on television.

    More tears flowed freely when society-loved wife of Timi Alaibe, the late Alaere Alaibe, took a bow and left life’s stage due to death by cancer. And so did late Clara Oshiomole, the late wife of Edo Governor Adam Oshiomole, who departed, leaving painful tears to her loved ones. In Edo State and beyond, it was difficult to control the flowing tears, as many refused to be comforted.

    For the death-ravaging cancer, the list continued and continues stubbornly. From Sam Ojebode, to fashion darling Remi Lagos, Remi Abiola, Mrs. Maryam Babangida and even the one still fresh in the mind, late Dr. Olusola Saraki. These are some of the celebrated victims. But death by cancer does not hit only the rich. All across Nigeria, more and more people have died sometimes from ailments relating to cancer.

    Sociologists and medical experts that we recently spoke to give the conditions that could lead, directly or indirectly, to cancer and how to avoid those situations. Cancer, once described as a ‘rich man’s illness,’ is now ravaging both the low and the mighty. And at close range, you never can tell, who the next victim will be.

    Abuja-based health and wellness consultant, Dr. Stella Chijioke, explains how some of the habits of the rich make them susceptible to the dreaded ailments.

    He says: “Our top flight executives are very much endangered because of a daily lifestyle that gives room to cancer. They live from chair to chair, sitting through one boardroom to another, with little or no activity. From there, they swing into air-conditioned cars straight to their door steps at home, into another chair and eventually into bed. The routine is like that, day in and day out.

    “Then the food consumption of many include heavy meals because they have too much money at their disposal and they drink alcohol and spirit. Some even inject themselves with different sorts of things (drugs). So, with that, cancer is already knocking on the door, and it will only take a little time, before the door comes falling down.”

    Prof. SRA Akinbo, a consultant at the Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi-Araba, Lagos, says: “One of the major reasons for cancer truly is food intake. This is a big topic on its own. These days, one notices that more and more people are into the eating of refined foods, canned foods. Some of these over processed foods lead to cancer. Also our lifestyles, especially for those of us that live in the urban, we are exposed to a lot of radiation. People are in traffic for longer time and breathing in fumes emitted from automobile. All these are factors that lead to cancer. That is because the toxic goes into the system and induces all sorts of things and illnesses. There are various causes of cancer. Food is one of it, exposure to radiation is another, and some other major causes.

    “However, concerning what people can do or what lifestyle to keep to avoid cancer, we have left the traditional; that is, cancer used to be feared in the olden days and avoided through the eating of fresh foods. But fresh fruits are really missing in our meals today. Also in urban areas these days, people are exposed to generators and the attending fumes. In a house of 20 occupants, for instance, everybody there has generators. So more and more people are now likely to have cancer due to the lifestyle they presently keep. Then also there is the issue of age. Old age could also induce cancer.

    “Of course, I will recommend exercise as a necessary part of our daily lifestyle. But then also, exercise is not limited to just the avoidance of cancer; we need exercise in our lives. In those days, things were different. My father actually died at the age of 104. When you saw him then, you would have found it difficult to believe because, he was still agile. The lifestyle that they had then helped a lot. They used to trek for kilometres going to farms everyday. That was a good form of exercise. Then also, they had original foods, fresh foods from the farm, which they used to eat.

    “Still concerning exercise as a lifestyle in avoiding cancer, one has to note that there are different kinds of exercises which should be recommended on an individual basis because everyone of us has different health challenges. For instance, someone who is hypertensive, there is a type of exercise that he should do. So everyone cannot do the same kinds of exercise. The most important thing is that before we get involved in any kind of exercise routine, we have to get screened. When the kind of health challenge you have has been ascertained, then exercise routine can be determined. So it can be in terms of just sitting down or standing, or jogging or be on treadmill and so on. Exercising should be an individual thing and not generalised.

    “There are some organisations now that have programmes such as ‘walk for life.’ However, walking too fast for some people who may be hypertensive, could trigger off another kind of thing that can lead to heart attack, especially, when you are over 30 and 40, you have to be very careful on the type of food you eat and exercise that you do.”

    A dietitian with LUTH, Titilope Adelani, says cancer is avoidable through a dietary plan which comprises eating a well-balanced diet daily. “Such dietary plan”, she recommends, “should start early in life for an individual to avoid cancer in future. It should start at a tender age so that it will be part of the child, leading him or her into adulthood. That will also make the child to be eating well when he or she grows up.”

    She adds: “Foods that should be eaten to avoid cancer include whole grain, legumes, fruits, vegetables, and protein. But there are also others. A child should start eating these from age two. And for an adult who has a family history of cancer, the person should take high protein, high calories, low fat foods and high fibre diet with intake of fruits in between meals.

    “A dietitian actually has a role to play in the lifestyle of people generally to make them avoid having cancer. A dietitian plans the menu and ensures the people follows it. A dietician’s role is also to monitor such. And for an adult that is already diagnosed with cancer, it is important that such persons eat high calorie, moderate and low fat protein foods. Such persons are also supposed to use plant sources of oil for cooking, also depending on the severity of the cancer.

    “Foods to totally avoid are foods that are fatty products. Well, as a lifestyle, I will recommend that people generally eat very well, avoid alcohol, eat fruits and vegetables and do exercises.”

    An Assistant Chief Dietitian also with LUTH, Bolanle Tijani, describes cancer as “a terrible disease that is preventable, although there is not much that anyone can do.” She added: “But with good healthy diet, one can reduce the risk of getting cancer. The kind of food encouraged is what I refer to as green, green, green. What I mean by this is that, when you are taking food, ensure that it is green! Avoid foods that are roasted or fried. Also avoid barbecued foods, make sure that most of the foods that you eat are fresh. We are advocating these days, that is, trying to encourage people to go back to the use of our former pots, cooking utensils that were used in those days; pots made from mud are more heathy. But the problem with that is that it may not look civilised, especially when friends come calling, but the truth is that these pots are believed to be more healthy in using to cook.

    “For people with a history of cancer in the family, I can say that cancer is not a transmittable illness; there is a risk factor, and there are different kinds of cancer. There is the leukaemia, the blood cancer, the cervical cancer, pelvic cancer, colon cancer, lung cancer, brain cancer, various types. It is not genetically transferred from one to another but variously during maturation of the foetus. That is a risk factor that can cause it.

    “What a dietician can do is that if and when cancer has been diagnosed, the first thing is that the patient should go for medical attention, surgical operation afterwards. A dietitian is then to encourage the patient to eat heathy foods to prevent the growth and multiplication of the cancer cells and also keep eating green, green, green with all the family group of foods to encourage a healthy eating habit.

    “As a lifestyle, everyone should eat protein, eat carbohydrates, avoid fatty foods, but most of all, we encourage more of fibre. For cancer patients, eating of fibre is very important for quick recovery, as they serve as anti-oxidants for the eradication of the cancer cells. Foods such as water melon, oranges, banana, water leaf, apple and so on should be eaten.

    “It is difficult to totally avoid particular foods; we don’t even advise it, it is only that smaller quantities are recommended; even for the over-blown cancer patients, reduction of the intake of particular foods are recommended. But then, we advocate the avoidance of foods with folic acid. Even then, folic acid cannot completely be denied because there is folic acid in most foods, even in animal protein and vegetables. So the important thing is to reduce the intake of folic acid.

    “The eating habits and lifestyle will dictate more as to whether a person is likely to get cancer or not. To women, I will advise that they eat healthy and avoid alcohol, avoid an environment that is stuffy or congested. That is a challenge in Lagos where fumes are all over the place. Even in traffic when you have your air-conditioner on, the fumes from other vehicles still find a way of getting in. Exercise is very good for the body, at least do it for an hour everyday. These are healthy lifestyles that can make one avoid cancer. Then reduce your alcohol intake, do not take alcohol as if you are drinking water.”

    According to a nutritionist at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH), Ikeja, Lagos, Justina Akagu-Osojiese, “somehow, cancer is avoidable through a dietary plan because some of the foods that we eat now are being prepared with addictives that are not really not good for the body.” She adds: “For instance, we have things that are today used as substitute for sugar. Sacarrin, for instance, is used as a substitute. There are findings that such prolong usage can cause cancer.

    “As far as I am concerned, a dietary plan should start for everybody right from day one, that is at child birth. I say this because it is very necessary to consider a diet plan for a child. So we give the baby milk. And at different ages, we give a child appropriate foods, not just anything in sight.

    “To avoid cancer it’s better to eat natural foods. Most of the time, however, there is usually no problem with most foods that are not natural, but it is the addictive that are used in preparing them that causes or could lead to somebody having cancer. For instance, too, it is better to eat oranges directly than take orange juice that has been processed, especially for an adult. The fruits are natural but you do not know what has been added to produce the juice. The same applies to canned foods because they always have preservatives. Sometimes, they are kept for long periods; the addictive can influence the cause when eaten, the potassium, the sodium are major cause of worry.

    “For those already with cancer, natural foods are just good for them. Cancer is a very terrible disease that destroys the cells of the body. So it is good to give someone already with cancer, a high protein diet and a high calorie diet. By high calorie diet, I mean the carbohydrate family of foods. They give energy. Most cancer patients are very weak, we give them that for energy. To replenish the cells that are being destroyed, a cancer patient needs high protein foods and these are fish, meat, egg, milk and so on and these are augmented with plant set of foods.

    “I think that people should be more active in lifestyle; we should avoid high calorie dense foods; we should be careful to eat foods that have all the class foods to give us adequate nutrients in the body, protein, carbohydrates, fat and oil, minerals and vitamins which is in fruits and vegetables. Our foods should be adequate and that is commonly referred to as balanced diet. We have what is called anti-oxidants in our foods; they are the ones that destroy those unwanted things, or harmful foreign things in our body. So, we should just eat right.”

    Dr. Stella Chijioke, Managing Director, Ultimate Health and Wellness Ltd, Abuja, posits that with a particular cautious lifestyle, cancer can be avoided. She adds that, that could be complemented by a combination of three things.

    “Health and wellness stands on three legs. One of the legs is diet, which means whatever you put inside your mouth, food, drink, smoke, snuffing or injection. The second is increased activity, which culminates in exercise. Any small activity is better than no activity at all. This helps the heart. Do anything that can make you sweat, like walking, swimming and so on. Brisk walk is good and not expensive.

    “The third leg of the tripod is adequate rest and management of your stress level. Every human being undergoes one form of stress or the other. Without stress, you cannot live a balanced life. But in certain situations, the stress level gets too much, so you have to manage it well. If you don’t, things like hypertension, diabetes and all that sets in. Complete health and wellness means that the above three legs must be implemented.

    “Additional habit is the drinking of water. One of the ways of managing stress well is having enough sleep. Seven to eight hours of sleep at night is mandatory so that your body can use that opportunity to recharge. REM Sleep is the highest form of sleep, because some people think that they are sleeping but they are not really sleeping. You have to get into the REM Sleep before you really rest.

    “We are all setting ourselves for cancer, though we have better diagnosis, but most people are gearing themselves towards cancer. If you check the three legs of wellness that are stated above, you will find out that most of us are not eating well or eat the wrong things, smoke or drink the wrong things. Some of us inhale or inject ourselves with the wrong things (drugs). These are the wrong parts of civilisation that we are imbibing.

    “Most people in the urban cities are not resting well. In the effort to make it because of high cost of rent, transportation, school fees, people don’t get home early to rest and sleep, they are hustling all over the place or staying in the office late, believing that they are resting but they are burning their candles at both ends.

    “Some people don’t even get into activity. They move from car into the house with little or no activity, into chairs at home or office. And one of the worse things or habits that the executives have is long hours of sitting on chairs. This is the latest killer that many don’t know. We are supposed to sit down not more than two hours and that is if our jobs are sedentary. Even market women sit in one place for too long at a time. The use of maids are not too helpful too because the madam ends up sitting down too much, while throwing errands around. She’s not getting up from that seat at all. So, it is not just the executives alone that sits from one boardroom to another.

    “Executives take elevators; nobody takes the stairs anymore, these are silent killers. These are ways that we are all driving our selves towards having cancer. Even younger people are coming up with some of these degenerating diseases. We shouldn’t be seen as getting old at 50, if we are living the right lifestyle. If you are living the right kind of lifestyle, then it will be difficult to develop cancer in the 40s. But these days, cancer could even be diagnosed among the younger ones. There is a book called ‘alleluia diet.’ This book tells us more about this. We eat the wrong things.”

    A Lagos-based medical practitioner, Dr. Ogunkoya, says: “To avoid cancer, people need to stop taking these cancer-inducing foods; they are: sweetened beverages, fried potato, hot dog, donut and burnt meat. The top anti-cancer foods for people to take are: green vegetables, tumeric, tomatoes, and rice. Then cancer-fighting foods are: tomatoes, garlic, grape fruits, ginger, ginger pepper, white berry, ginseng, broccoli, lemon, mustard seed and rosemary.

    “What you eat determines your healthy habits too. People should also try to live at places with minimised smoke and fumes. Do not stay where people who smoke are, because if you do, you are as well smoking with them as you inhale. It causes cancer of the lungs. And go for check-up and clean up your system regularly with cancer-fighting foods.”