Tag: love

  • FOLLOW IN HIS STEPS (4)

    FOLLOW IN HIS STEPS (4)
    When Jesus set free the adulterous woman he told her ‘go and sin no more’, the crowd must have thought how impossible it will be for such a woman (known for her immoral lifestyle) to go and sin no more. Jesus immediately told the crowd what will make it possible. He said to them, “I am the Light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the Light of life.” Jesus is the Light, if the woman follows Jesus’ teachings and ways she will never walk in darkness/sin anymore and she will be a light. So also anyone willing to give up his/her sinful ways to truly follow Jesus the Light will sin no more- such will be made to be like Jesus as he follows continually, I am a living testimony; where I am today isn’t where I was when I first started following the Light; it’s getting better by the day and my light is shining brighter and brighter day by day.

    Yes, when you follow Jesus you will be a light and your light is meant to shine. Jesus told his followers, “You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven” Light cannot be hidden so is anyone who is a light, your lifestyle will show that you are a light. You are to live godly lifestyle that will attract the world (sinners) to the Light; thereby delivering them from darkness.

    One who is light produces these godly lifestyles:
    – Love: loves God and neighbours; loves God with all his heart, soul and strength- lives a life that is pleasing to Him. Loves his fellow human being especially the one who doesn’t deserve to be loved; shows unmerited/unconditional love. And will do no harm to anybody.
    – Joy: joyful in spite of affliction, persecution, trial, sorrow etc., not in pretense but real joy. This makes one different and people want to know the source of such strength.
    – Peace: Peaceful in times of quarrels, conflicts, distress, fighting. A peace maker.
    – Longsuffering: bears very long with another without giving up; long patience even when offended.
    – Kindness: in spite of hatred, meanness, unkindness.
    – Goodness: to all especially the wicked and undeserving.
    – Faithfulness: steadfast in good works.
    – Gentleness: tender, respectful, polite, descent, friendly, in spite of antagonism and harshness
    – Self-Control: discipline in difficult times; with emotions and desires in check.
    Willingness to follow Jesus will make these lifestyles possible, bringing glory to God.

    Imagine what this nation will be like if we all live this way. If only 50% in Nigeria live thus, many will come to the Light and our nation will be great because righteousness exalts a nation but sin diminishes a nation.

    For the Nigerian motto: UNITY AND FAITH, PEACE AND PROGRESS to be- let your light shine!

    SONG: “TRY A LITTLE KINDNESS”
    If you see your brother standing by the road
    with a heavy load from the seeds he’s sowed
    and if you see your sister falling by the way
    just stop and say, you’re going the wrong way

    You got to try a little kindness
    Yes show a little kindness
    Just shine your light for everyone to see
    and if you try a little kindness
    then you’ll overlook the blindness
    of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

    Don’t walk around the down and out
    Lend a helping hand instead of doubt
    and the kindness that you show every day
    will help someone along their way. Song Writers: Bobby Austin, Curt Sapaugh

    Text: Mathew 5:14, John8:12, Galatians 5:22-23.
    From: Faith Nwachukwu

  • For the love of their mother

    For the love of their mother

    On September 11, the late Florence Jadesola Aboderin, wife of the founder of Punch Newspapers, the late Olubunmi James Aboderin,  would have turned 80. Her children threw a lavish party at the Haven Events Centre in GRA, Ikeja to celebrate their matriarch and the virtues she represented, 23 years after her death. NNEKA NWANERI was there.

    From the grandeur of the hall, the beautiful scenes, the contemporary dressing and décor at its finest, the  event – “Time out with Florence”- had them. All these announced to guests  and family members that the evening was to honour a great matriarch, the late Jadesola Aboderin, whose posthumous 80th birthday was being celebrated with fanfare. The Aboderins, of course, have it all – wealth, class and taste.

    These and many more they displayed last week when their late mother’s birthday was celebrated in grand style.

    She was the wife of the late James Olubunmi Aboderin, founder of Punch Newspapers. She was also the first woman African mortgage banker and a founding member of the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church. She died in March 1993 at 56, nine years after she lost her husband.

    To mark her day, a party was held in her honour at the Haven Events Centre in GRA, Ikeja, Lagos.

    The pageantry was all about the things she loved. They included Gatsby-style outfits, good old school karaoke, decorations and many more.

    There were music, drama, comedy and rib-cracking jokes that made the audience laugh. Comedian Lepacious Bose, with her new signature – slim figure – compered at the ceremony.

    Publisher of Punch Newspapers Mr Wale Aboderin recieved thumbs up when he took the microphone to perform various evergreen songs before the teeming guests.

    He sang, danced and moved about the stage, miming the lyrics of the songs to the delight of many, who stared in amazement.

    Before then, he described his mother as a polyglot and philanthropist, urging everyone to emulate her life by impacting on the lives of those in the society to be remembered after death.

    First daughter of the late Mrs Aboderin Angela Emuwa recalled how her mother loved potted flowers in her garden, and cooked for the pioneer members of the staff of Punch as they struggled to meet deadline.

    “I remember heliconias; the various coloured roses and hibiscus and jasmine vines growing by the entrance, a welcoming fragrance for visitors to our Ilupeju house. Those were exciting times.”

    The former Secretary for Health in the Chief Ernest Shonekan-led interim government, Prince Julius Adelusi-Adeluyi, noted that  her daughter, Wunmi Obe, aka TWO, got her singing talent from her mother.

    Tunde Obe met his mother-in-law in 1988. She died five years after.

    The couple, Wunmi and Tunde, staged a 30-minute performance before hip-hop artistes 9ICE and Vector wrapped up the evening to make it a more memorable one.

    A biography of the late Mrs Aboderin, authored by the children, was distributed to the guests.

  • Adenuga’s love for Awujale

    Adenuga’s love for Awujale

    SAYING that billionaire businessman and Globacom boss, Dr. Mike Adenuga is very close to the Awujale of Ijebuland, Oba Sikiru Kayode Adetona, is like saying that a new born baby is fond of breast milk. This perhaps explains the love that the Apesin of Ijebuland has been showering on the monarch and his kingdom. The billionaire businessman’s telecommunication company, Globacom, was the main sponsor of this year’s Ojude Oba festival which held on Wednesday.

    Mike Adenuga, who is regarded by Forbes as Nigeria’s second richest person, has Ijebu royal blood in his veins through his mother, Oyindamola Adenuga. This is perhaps the initial familial strand that connected him to the Awujale. He has since taken steps to strengthen the brotherly bond with the Ijebu paramount ruler. Whenever there is any important occasion to be celebrated, Adenuga’s companies are usually at the forefront to make sure that everything runs without a hitch.

    If the fact that Globacom has been sponsoring the Ojude Oba festival for 11 years running is any indication, Adenuga’s towering love for the Awujale is not about to end anytime soon.

  • BIODUN OKEOWO FINDS LOVE AGAIN

    BIODUN OKEOWO FINDS LOVE AGAIN

    YORUBA actress, Biodun Okeowo, popularly called Omo Butty, is in love again. The mother of two posted a love message, stating that one should not allow a love that has everything you wish for go away.

    “When luck finds you, and you find someone who makes you happy, makes you smile, makes you forget all the pains you’ve ever gone through, who check up on you often to see if you’re okay, who watches out for you and wants the best for you in life, who loves and respects you, don’t let them go. People like that are hard to come by”.

    “There’s always that one person that you’ve had feelings for since the moment you first met them, she added.”

    The actress has also had it out with Cyber Bullies. Omo Butty who recently posted a picture of herself wearing a tight hugging gown, with a pose showing off her backside, which she referred to as God given, is asking the bullies to get busy and stay off her case.

    “Cyber bullies please get busy!!! The fact that you struck the same pose like I struck In this picture and yet your ass refused to show, tells me that you’re a bully…do I cut off my God given gift because it will show anytime I take a picture? Niger peeps I tire o….cyber bullshits don’t mess with me…”

    With past records, this is not the first time; the actress/producer and entrepreneur have been hit by followers for her clothing, which most time show off her curves.

  • KSA @ 70: Ariya as Catharsis

    KSA @ 70: Ariya as Catharsis

    The reports few days ago that the acclaimed torch-bearer of Ariya culture chose a foreign soil – the United States – to commence his grand entry into the septuagenarian club must be troubling indeed for cultural sentinels back home. How ironic that the platinum milestone of the king of African beats, connoisseur of the good times, falls in a lean season that has imposed austerity harshly on the entire citizenry!

    True, economic recession is presently biting hard. But let no one blame the foregoing aberration on the economic crunch. Lest there be a tumult from the denizens of the high society. However depleted the saucer filled with baby toiletries and ointment becomes, they say, it never gets to the point where a nursing mother completely lacks what to rub on her suckling.

    Really, still stretching far ahead is the road to September 22, the birthday of Sunday Adeniyi, the undisputed monarch of juju music. But to his cult following in jollity forever occupying the forecourt of the juju music factory, the Ariya is obviously already jump-started in its full sybaritic splendor. In the coming days, the town will definitely shake as they toast the man who has come to embody a popular genre in Yoruba music in the last half century.

    That KSA would on the eve of his 70th birthday be on a road show in faraway North America (his last outing there being more than eight years ago) could not be in search of his next meal ticket. It is certainly borne out of an enduring passion for his vocation.

    True, he only inherited juju as an art form. But the identities of all the forerunners in history now seem totally eclipsed on account of the immensity of his redefinition of that inheritance and the prodigious stamina he has demonstrated since then.

    As his muse attained full maturity in the early 80s, he succeeded in welding western synthetic pop sound with African talking drums and electric guitar to birth a dense rhythm. Thus, he was able to reach a global audience, earning a Grammy nomination with “Odu” later in 1998. Other than Fela, no other Nigerian musician was as globally acclaimed at that time.

    Born in the artistically inspiring Osogbo in 1946, KSA served his apprenticeship in the early 60s under the tutelage of Moses Olaiya who would later rest his Federal Rhythms Dandies band to diversify into full-time comedy and soon become a household name as “Baba Sala”.

    It is a testimony to raw talent, sheer industry and unshakeable faith that KSA eventually outgrew such humble circumstances to become bigger than his tutor. For those who might be wondering the source of the dazzling athleticism he brings to dance on stage, he revealed that the now fallen highlife wizard of Kennery fame, Orlando Owoh, taught him boxing.

    In retrospect, beside Ebenezer Obey (his long-time competitor), no other practitioner could be said to have spoken with so much eloquence and broad appeal for the juju brand. Whereas Obey calls his Miliki, KSA’s is Ariya.

    As a sub-culture, Ariya captures the feel-good urban spirit of the Yoruba society. It is the distinctly louder, uninhibited version of Miliki propounded by Ebenezer Obey, the meditative darling of the aristocratic caste. Ariya and Miliki (corruption of milk) are taken as the social benefit of labour. He/she who has toiled hard is deserving of a moment of merriment, they say. With a rhythm defined by heavy percussion, the feet KSA’s Ariya lures to the dance-floor belong to the less inhibited among the jolly crowd.

    If in doubt, you only need to embark on a tour of neighborhoods of the average Yoruba town during the weekend at normal times. So much that some sociologists and anthropologists have mischievously gone ahead to list the Ariya culture among the chief incentives for the relative peace and tranquility prevalent in Yorubaland even when other sections of the country appear to totter under social or sectarian eruptions. Those eagerly counting down to the next Owambe date are less likely to be easily recruited into a mission to disrupt the social order.

    At the national level, such mindset is thought to also account for the lack of stamina for a sustained struggle and the general absence of will to endure pain with a view to changing the social disequilibrium. Ariya offers an escape; it plies the citizenry with opium against harsh realities. Once the people start counting the number of Ariya opportunities already lost, they soon begin to defect from the barricade, one after the other.

    Fela already identified this character flaw in his “Sorrow, Tears & Blood” released in 1973: “I no wan die, papa dey for house, mama dey for house, I wan enjoy, I no wan go.”

    Indeed, one of KSA’s earliest hits exuberantly declares “Ariya has no end, Ariya is unlimited”. Tired of “Shokoyokoto” (Fresh Fish), he next offered “Sweet Banana” while assessing “My Destiny” only to be pricked by “Conscience” (Eri Okan) to discover the “The Good Shepherd” and so decided to exult “Merciful God”. Perhaps the one single album that truly defined and established his authority as a national legend was “Let Them Say” in 1986. It is a bold statement of the art form balancing danceable sounds with enduring messages.

    Later in the 80s, he chose to tickle the nation’s imaginations by openly engaging Onyeka Onwenu of the “One Love” fame in a musical romance. That sired “Wait For Me”.

    But to say the KSA magic is regionalized in the South-West would be doing grave injustice to his enigma. His audience is indeed national and by far broader than his ancient Miliki rival. The secret partly lies in the cross appeal of his beat. And he carries all the credentials that fully define musicianship: composer, singer, master guitarist, consummate dancer and producer.

    His pioneering vision also led the industry into creating video for the audio. To bring life to songs, he began the experimentation in mid-80s by dramatizing new songs in short movie. It was instant commercial success. Expectedly, others began to copy him. Many consumers would thereafter not mind paying a little more for the video CD as value addition. Today, musical video has become a vibrant sub-sector in the industry with young lads like Clarence Peters infusing more creativity with cutting-edge technology.

    Indeed, while the older generations reminisce on KSA’s exploits in the past decades, their hearts must be aching at the relative emptiness of the so-called stars of today. Unlike musicians of old who honed their skills diligently, priding themselves on being able to play at least a few instruments and tended to treasure their artistic expression more than monetary compensation, today’s creatures are mostly computer-generated stars obsessed with materialism. They hardly feel limited if all there is to their talent is merely chanting on a sound conjured synthetically to make music defined more by vulgarities and profanities.

    The shallowness of the typical hip-hop act of today is easily verifiable if, for instance, invited to a concert alongside his counterpart from the “old school”. The former will likely fret at any suggestion to perform with a live band, lest his inadequacies are exposed. Rather, he/she prefers to mime a medley of songs pre-recorded on the CD, possibly further embellished with the razzmatazz by the disc-jockey on the band-stand. Unlike the latter who forever craves opportunity to show off his craftsmanship and will painstakingly build the sound from the scratch by syncopating one instrument after the other until the crescendo. Not surprising, he ends up lasting longer on stage.

    Ironically, the new artiste rakes in more cash for less exertion. Feeding off a new national culture that glorifies shadow over substance, he/she somehow still manages to command higher fees than the far more industrious older colleague.

    With Obey’s later absence of more than a decade and lately occasional showing, it has therefore been KSA’s remit over the years to defend juju’s flanks against the merciless encroachment by new-generation hip-hop. It has not been an easy task, though. First, it took more than grit and sheer adaptation to survive the scare of Sir Shina Peter’s Afro Juju explosion in the twilight of the 80s.

    With the release of Ace in 1990 followed with Shinamania in 1991, juju’s old orthodoxy of message over beat was shattered into smithereens. A master guitarist of no less virtuosity, SSP’s novelty of non-stop dancehall beat literally set the entire nation dancing. As revelers bayed for more, it became clear that the old king needed to urgently reinvent himself lest his crown and jewel be swept away by the raging tornado.

    With the runaway success of Ace and Shinamania, a horde of SSP’s clones soon appeared. Enter Dayo Kujore, Dele Taiwo et al.

    In his fight-back entitled “Authority”, KSA could not but join the bullet-speed train, relying heavily on synthetic studio garnishments to achieve a fast-tempo beat. The old game-master was at his combative best, freely deploying innuendos against the “restless pretender to the throne unwilling to pay the customary dues.”

    Stanza after stanza, lyric by lyric, he let it be known point-blank he would not surrender the throne yet, famously declaring “Pounded yam is greater than yam tuber”. And to traducers already checking their wrist-watches, KSA’s follow-up song defiantly screamed “E ma fi enu retirement pe Sunny Ade mo” (Stop calling for Sunny Ade’s retirement).

    True to the bookmaker’s prophecy, the Afro Juju craze soon fizzled out. With that, KSA might have survived the stiffest challenge to his stool as juju monarch, but it obviously left him with deep scars. In subsequent offerings, he would seem to have given up on hunting for new audience. With a voice increasingly enfeebled by age, his recorded music soon began to showcase more of a dexterity on instruments, apparently only now desirous of keeping his old fans base. However, the appeal of his live concert remains undiminished. The magnetism of his live performance continues to draw forcefully, even from a distance.

    Overall, a critique of KSA’s catalogue is incomplete without recalling his dabbling in political commentary at some point. In a 25-minute epic The Way Forward (I & II) released in 1996, KSA would rally a galaxy of musical stars cutting across generations and ethnic/genre divides. When publicists began to hype the title ahead of its official presentation, many naturally shifted in their seats, apprehensive about the message at a time the nation had descended into funereal silence under Abacha’s bloody despotism. The expectation of something earth-shaking however turned out to be forlorn.

    Caught at similar crossroads eighteen years earlier in Jamaica, Bob Marley chose to act differently. His Caribbean homeland had been devastated by political storms involving the Jamaican Labour Party (JLP) and the People’s National Party (PNP). The reggae icon resolved to stage One Love Peace Concert in Kingston in April 1978. Drawing a record 32,000 capacity crowd including the sitting Prime Minister of PNP and the opposition leader on the D.Day, the hitherto gasping nation literally stopped breathing when Marley, with his hit track Jammin’ playing, invited leaders of both JLP and PNP, Edward Seaga and Prime Minister Michael Manley respectively, to the stage. Symbolically, the trio held up their hands to signify reconciliation. At the end of that historic night, the Jamaican nation left the concert reunited. Such was the depth of Marley’s intervention.

    But beyond the fast dancehall beat, the KSA-inspired peace song of 1996 offered nothing fresh, other than a rehash of the usual folksy appeal for communal unity. No mention was made of the legion of political captives languishing in the gulag then. At best, it could be described as an artistic statement without depth.

    Perhaps, we should have known that KSA is neither revolutionary Bob Marley nor caustic Fela. The poor outing of 1996 will however not diminish the weight of his legacy. Indeed, new kings will be born tomorrow. But it will certainly take another generation to see one as domineering as KSA.

     

     

    Kano & politics of love

    After iconic Gani Fawehinmi, only a few lawyers would come near Comrade Kanmi Osobu in terms of popularity vis-a-vis human rights advocacy from the idealistic 70s, through the turbulent 80s to the early divisive 90s. In all Afro Beat originator Fela’s brushes with the establishment during these epochs, Osobu constantly stood by him through thick and thin.

    An inexhaustible bag of yabis (humour) like Fela, Osobu was often a spectacle in and out of the court before his demise.

    Once, he reportedly returned from a frolicking to the United Kingdom to a little storm instigated by workers (fellow comrades, for sure) in his chambers unhappy that whereas they were left to rough it out at home for months without salaries, their comrade chose to travel out with a lady-friend to “enjoy”.

    After listening to the militant submission by the most senior among the lawyers flaying “this bourgeois indulgence utterly unbecoming of a true comrade”, Osobu reportedly quipped: “Well, comrades I heard all you have to say and cannot fault your argument, very brilliant, except on one point. When you pick quarrel with my traveling overseas with a lady friend, comrades I only wish to ask you just one simple question: is our struggle now against love?”

    Of course, the room erupted in delirious laughter.

    Well, we are tempted to pose this question also today as erstwhile governor of Kano State, Rabiu Kwankwaso, and his successor and now estranged political godson, Abdullahi Ganduje, appear to have carried their animosity to the province of love. Some weeks ago, Kwankwaso, the senator presently representing Kano Central, announced a plan to bankroll the mass wedding of 100 couples under the auspices of his non-governmental organization, the Kwankwasiyya Development Foundation.

    As governor between 2011 and 2015, Kwankwaso formed the habit of helping widows find love by underwriting the mass wedding as a way of promoting family values. Since the incumbent has not organized any since assuming office last year, the more politically astute Kwankwaso would seem to have seen a window to score a political point.

    But Ganduje apparently was not ready to allow that happen. To scuttle the plan, the state soon announced a youth empowerment programme to hold same day and same time. Determined not to be beaten, the Kwankwasiyya people announced a postponement of the mass wedding till the following day.

    It was at this point that Ganduje decided to flex some gubernatorial muscle. The police, allegedly at Ganduje’s prompting, directed that both the youth empowerment event and Kwankwasiyya’s mass wedding be postponed over adverse “security reports”.

    Things however took a bizarre twist Tuesday as heavily armed policemen sealed off Kwankwaso’s residence at Lodge Road that doubles as the headquarters of the Kwankwasiyya Movement. The action, according to the state police spokesman, DSP Magaji Musa Majia, was peremptory “because of an intelligence report that there is a plan to conduct mass wedding at the house.”

    Too bad, the police would appear to move in only after the proverbial horse had bolted out of the stable. For sources close to the Kwankwasiyya movement reportedly confided that the mass wedding had already been conducted on Monday secretly with “only brides and grooms’ next of kins, including some selected Islamic scholars” present.

    Now, what is unclear is whether charges would be entered against the sponsors of the mass wedding despite a subsisting restraining order by the police.

    Indeed, Ganduje and Kwankwasiya are free to continue to seek avenues to trade rough tackles. But it is doubtful if those who took advantage of the reported mass wedding would be amused. Like Kanmi Osobu, they must now be wondering if the battle between the godfather and his estranged godson is also against love.

  • MIEIBIM DAPPA TALKS LOVE FOR AFROBEAT

    17-years-old budding talent, Mieibim Dappa has dropped the video of his single, Number One, and according to the artiste, he is poised to take over the music scene, both at home and globally.

    In the words of the soft spoken Afrobeat crooner, he actually started music with a friend in 2013.

    “I didn’t see it as a big thing then and thought it was only something for my friends to listen to and enjoy. After a while though, I noticed a lot of people (family, friends, and acquaintances) began to appreciate my music, thus the idea popped into my head: Why not do this professionally and see how far it goes? And ever since, I have not looked back”, he disclosed.

    On why he sings only Afrobeat, Dappa stated that he opted for that genre of music, which was made popular by the late music legend, Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, because that’s what is highly appreciated in Nigeria.

    “Nigerians love Afrobeat so much and I have decided to satisfy their yearnings with more of it. However, I’ve also recorded a couple of songs. I just released a video for my latest single, Number One. It was directed by Paul Gambit and the acceptance is massive and encouraging so far. As for the next releases, we’ll just have to wait and see. My message, drive, and determination all combine to stand me out from the crowd,” said Dappa who is a medical student at CATS College, Canterbury, United Kingdom.

    Speaking further Dazzling Dappa, who looks up to famous musicians such as Wizkid, Davido, Olamide, Reekado Banks and a host of other young stars as role models, added that he is already combining music with his medical studies without any stress or clash of interest.

    “I intend achieving my goals by setting my priorities right; simply by creating a balance between my academics and my passion (music).”

  • Love… The most excellent way (7)

    Cain and Abel were brothers. Abel was a shepherd while Cain was a farmer. At harvest time Cain brought the Lord a gift of his farm produce and Abel brought of the firstborn of his flock and of their fat, he gave God the very best. The Lord accepted Abel’s offering, but not Cain’s. This made Cain dejected, he was very angry and hated his brother. The Lord asked him “why are you angry, why is your face so dark with rage? It can be bright with joy if you will do what you should. But if you refuse to obey, watch out, Sin is waiting to attack you, longing to destroy you. But you can conquer it!”. God actually gave Cain another chance to make right his wrong doing but he was so full of anger and hatred that he couldn’t reason well anymore, or accept correction. Sure enough, this led him to other things.

    He became jealous of his brother. For us too there is this tendency to be jealous of another’s success. If you notice this in you, be sincere and admit that weakness and beg God to help you overcome it. Choose to rejoice at somebody’s success then yours will surely come. Cain wasn’t like that he didn’t take God’s counsel, and then…

    One day he suggested to his brother, “let’s go out into the fields.” And while they were together there, Cain attacked and killed his brother. Afterwards the Lord asked Cain, “Where is Abel your brother?” He answered, “I do not know. Am I my brother’s keeper?”, he lied to God. Cain truly had no honour for God, it’s not surprising he gave just anyhow to God; his heart was not right with God. Some people are like this; they are involved in all kinds of crime because they don’t fear God neither do they honour Him.

    There was God giving Cain yet another opportunity to confess his sins, but he chose to remain in them and be rebellious. And God said to him, “what have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood cries out to Me from the ground. So now you are cursed from the earth, which you have defiled with your brother’s blood from your hand. When you till the ground, it shall no longer yield its crops for you. A fugitive and a vagabond you shall be on the earth”; Cain will not progress in life and he will be wandering from place to place. Truly there’s no peace for the wicked.

    The seed of anger and hatred in Cain for his brother grew into other things: jealousy and eventually murder- he killed his brother. Is this not what we find in our society today? Taking another’s life means nothing to some people, killing is even being upheld by some leaders and groups as the solution to their ‘problems’ – for no reason whatsoever should anyone take another’s life, or be lured to do so. Taking a life you can’t create is a very serious offence before God which will not go unpunished- take a cue from Cain’s life. Repent and forsake your evil ways. The land is so polluted with continuous bloodshed bringing about retrogression to Nigeria- a nation that should be among the greatest in the world, it’s up to us to let the glory of Nigeria shine. Know that whatsoever you do in your little corner either builds or destroys Nigeria. That person next to you (a child or an adult) is Nigeria, the company where you work is Nigeria, the business you do is Nigeria. The way you deal with these shows whether you are building or destroying Nigeria- deal with all in love and honesty. Represent Nigeria well in whatsoever you do and wherever you go then Nigeria will be the greatest in the world. So help me God!

    The true solution to any problem is first to be at peace with God which is only possible by accepting and believing in His son Jesus whom He sent to reconcile us (the sinful man) to Himself, giving us power to be true children of God; living in love just as He is love. Love conquers all!

    Note the characteristics of love:

    • Love is very patient
    • Love is kind
    • Love is never jealous or envious
    • Love is never boastful or proud
    • Love is never rude
    • Love is never selfish
    • Love is not provoked, irritable or touchy
    • Love thinks no evil
    • Love does not hold grudges
    • Love does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in the truth
    • Love bears all things
    • Love believes all things. It will cause you to believe in someone without giving up on him/her.
    • Love endures all things
    • Love never fails.

    Cain didn’t love his brother, for where there is no love, there is:

    • Impatience/Intolerance
    • Hatred
    • Jealousy/Envy
    • Pride
    • Rudeness
    • Selfishness
    • Anger
    • Grudge
    • Injustice
    • Iniquity/lawlessness- murder, terrorism, immorality, stealing, rivalry etc.

    All these are sin and they bring about disunity, lack of peace and of course NO PROGRESS. The nation Nigeria has brought us together to be brothers- let us be willing to allow God uproot the evil seed of anger and hatred in us and help us live in love so we can progress.

    May God create in us a clean heart and renew a right spirit within us in Jesus name. BE YOUR BROTHER’S KEEPER!

    Text: Genesis 4, 1 Corinthians 13, 1 John 4:7-16, John 3:16, John 1:12.

     

    From: Faith Nwachukwu

  • Love…most excellent way (6)

    • Love for neighbour:

    We need love to reign in our nation Nigeria. The Nigerian motto, “Unity and Faith, Peace and Progress were adopted in 1978. Before that time, the country’s motto was “Peace, Unity, Freedom”. Why should faith and progress be addedwithout Faith in God, there can’t be unity, peace and progress. For without God we can do nothing, accomplish nothing and be nothing. God is love, He wants us to love Him and love our fellow human being. If we don’t believe in God/Love we can’t be united, there will be no peace and of course no progress. Where there is love there is unity, peace and progress, hence Love is the greatest.

    The great Nigeria we desire will be when we allow LOVE to guide our lives- the genuine love which is only possible by knowing God.

    The rate of crime in our nation today is quite alarming. For some days now I’ve been reading about several cases of criminal activities and the jungle justice meted out to some suspects and criminals- they are being set on fire and burnt to death on the streets while children watched on not mindful of the trauma and effects of these sights on our children- raising them not to have regard for lives; they learn to kill easily, always ready to kill just to have their way. This is causing more harm than good, let us not take laws into our hands, we should rather report criminal cases and take anybody caught in the act to the appropriate authorities.

    There is so much chaos in the land; increasing cases of kidnap of children and adults for money and ritual, rape and child molestation, baby factories and sale of such babies by their parents, stealing, cybercrimes, hatred and murder of persons of different faith/religion, unhealthy rivalry and competition on the part of political party leaders and supporters causing disunity in the land with their words and deeds, speaking words that incite hatred and division among the people of Nigeria. This has to stop, we have to allow God to change our hearts so we can love, appreciate and respect each other, wishing others well so we can succeed- oh! That we all will believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, whom God sent to reconcile us Himself, so we can have peace with ourselves and be able to live in peace with our neighbours.

    It is painful to see that majority of the people involved in these crimes are the energetic, intelligent youths of Nigeria who God is looking on to build a nation where peace and justice will reign. The same young people cooperate with Satan to be used to bring Nigeria down, for whatever crime committed, even as one person brings down Nigeria, so also whatever good you do as one person in your little corner builds Nigeria. Let us commit ourselves in building this nation rather than bringing it down like some are doing. It will start with you and me, no one can love and build this nation other than we Nigerians- if we are willing God will give us all we need to accomplish this task of building a great Nigeria. Most importantly, we need a heart full of love for our fellow human being to be able to build Nigeria- a love devoid of any form of hatred, a love that does not discriminate based on tribe whether Hausa, Igbo or Yoruba, living in peace despite our differences, not forcing your religion on anyone but speaking the truth and allowing people to choose freely what to believe. Jesus demonstrated this, He never forced anyone to believe in Him, He would only speak the truth and leave people to make their choices- we need to be like this too. Anything based on force and compulsion will not last.

    We shouldn’t only write, give talks and sing about love, unity and peace, we should act it- love is ACTIVE.  We have to live by what we preach.

    The seed of hatred if not uprooted will grow into other destructive vices and cause more trouble in Nigeria especially for the one who hates.

    I pray that love will sweep across this nation, that we will so love our neighbours such that it will be impossible for us to cause anyone harm, instead will be our brother’s keeper.

     

    SONG: Let there be love shared among us

    Let there be love shared among us
    Let there be love in our hearts
    May now Your love sweep this nation.
    Cause us oh Lord to arise
    Give us a fresh understanding
    Of brotherly love that is real,
    Let there be love shared among us,
    Let there be love.

     

    TEXT: Matthew 5: 43-48

    From: Faith Nwachukwu

  • Love letter to gallant Kenyan women

    It is an old story which expectedly, won’t leave the social media circuit. It is the story of Kenyan women who took to the streets to protest their husbands’ underperformance and inability to get them pregnant.

    A touchy bed bedroom matter you would say, but some perspectives: first, it will amount to an over-generalisation to describe them as Kenyan women as stories have conveniently headlined. They are actually a section of women from a county known as Limuru, Kiambu. So it is not a country-wide phenomenon (unless more facts unfold to prove one wrong); not even country-wide.

    Having made that important clarification, the grouse of the women is that because their husbands imbibe too much alcohol, their ability to perform at optimum in bed as well as the other important function of getting them pregnant may have been impaired.

    Pressing the point further, they noted that married women abound in the county but only few are pregnant. And the problem is with both the young and old they claim, threatening to relocate to another county if nothing was done to assuage their obvious conjugal woes. For solution, they recommend that government should make strict laws to curtail their men’s binging on alcohol to certain hours during week days and weekend.

    This uprising actually took place late last year but it remains in the front burner because the issues raised are deep (no pun please), universal and I dare say, pervasive. Some Nigerian men have been talking like Don Juan in the social media, threatening to invade Kenya and give succour to the aching women. But I wager that that may be sheer braggadocio. I wager again that the average Kenyan fella is no different from his Nigerian brother in every material particular. We shall return to this later.

    One is inclined to see these women as heroines for taking to the highways, what is considered a bedroom taboo. These Kenyan women are truly stars of a new narrative having bucked the trend to voice their frustrations against what is obviously an incipient penile tragedy looming across Africa and the emerging worlds.

    One cannot help but love and admire the courage of these gallant amazons who have exhibited characteristic Masaiac courage in standing up, defying African tradition to highlight what might well be the new scourge afflicting the modern African man. Challenging what looks like a looming matrimonial atrophy.

    It is said that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. But let’s tweak that a little to say, there is no fury like a woman aroused and left unfulfilled. In fact it may well be better to scorn a woman by not starting at all than to leave her mid-sea. This I believe is the contention of these brave women. Why take a wife and bond her under your roof if you are not man enough at your conjugal duties? They are simply demanding for their men to man-up in the bedroom and stop sabotaging it all with excessive booze. A wife of course has a fundamental right to love and sex from her legally married husband. A full-fledged woman (and have you seen a typical Kenyan woman in her prime?) in a freshly consummated matrimony cannot ask for anything less than a regimen of steamy, intimate sessions which should culminate into a baby bulge in the shortest possible time. This is not too much to ask.

    Imagine the trauma and psychological agony of the denial of this matrimonial entitlement; and out of no genuine reason than male foolishness and waywardness. And you expect the other person to live and die in mind-bending silence? So protest may well be some form of therapy.

    Inebriating the mind, body and soul from the Central, down to the South and East of Africa, it is a well known fact that since the post-colonial era of the 60s, alcohol consumption has remained an issue. Many writers of these regions have highlighted it in their works. One such is Meja Mwangi who in Going Down River Road paints a grim picture of independent Africa covered in dusty poverty and suffused with cheap alcohol. The kind of liquor that chews the guts and damages the soul, not to mention libido.

    But these gallant Kenyan women may have rekindled a light and someday soon, Africa just might begin to pay attention to the effects of alcohol on the continent. Because the African man is of innate physical strength, he could imbibe heavily for a long spell of his life without his system being impaired. But this may be changing as modern living takes its toll.

    The hitherto redoubtable African stud is giving way to an effete mulatto nourished on junk-ish Macdonald’s fries and ersatz rice from Asia. Today’s African man bred on processed food is less vital than his father and even less so, his grand father. Yet he consumes even more alcohol today due to the stress of modern living. Of course too much alcohol bugs down his organs, wears his muscles and causes much lethargy to his libido. And don’t forget the new scourge of the African man, his withering prostrate gland.

    Like Kenya, like Nigeria. It may well be the same problem with Nigeria but because the Kenyan women are upfront and less inhibited, they have forged a noble coalition against their drunken husbands. There is, however, evidence of heavy drinking in Nigeria too. In the last decade, Nigerian men may have been imbibing more alcohol and performance enhancing drinks more than ever. From beers to spirits, wines, energy drinks and even wild, local concoctions.

    In the last five years, there has emerged in Nigeria, a rash of alcoholic ‘bitters’ both from the big brewers and dingy backyards. Many go by such suggestive names like ogidiga, mokogan, jango bitters, lion bitters, champion bitters, hit-and-run bitters; all sorts. And there is a legion of unlabelled others with exotic primary colours ostensibly made to imbue libidinal prowess.

    In a place where health and regulatory authorities have been overwhelmed and just anything goes … down the Nigerian man’s gullet and into his system, there is indeed danger ahead. With sustained consumption of these delirious poisons, not only will our male libidos suffer in the long run, more kidneys will crash and livers will fail.

    If nothing is done, in 10 years very few Nigeria men will be able to bring on a viable erection for nary one minute. Quietly, our new lifestyle is scourging our man and manhood. The African male specie must begin to re-learn a lot about life and living in this age lest African women migrated to ‘far countries’ to find conjugal bliss.

    In summary, the best masculine physiognomy is one in which the blood and the entire body systems are clean, fluid and uncluttered, not necessarily the muscular. Too much alcohol, too much junk food and lack of conscious physical exercise will only put a man out of action early in life.

    To think that simple antidotes work magic: natural foods, fruits and vegetables, moderate to no alcohol, a lot of water and hygiene is it. In fact, some of the simple cures for poor libido include watermelon, ginger, garlic, nuts, bananas, sweet potatoes and bitter leaf juice. And talking about hygiene, most of us men would climb into bed to our partners with breath booming with booze and such stuff we picked from those corner bars and we expect it to actually turn her on. I doubt that it does.

    But just as most women are thought to keep clean and many actually do; men too must be conscious to be clean, especially for bed. And guy, here is one test for you as you climb into bed tonight: take a peek at the sole of your feet – what you see is a testimony to the state of your body and even your soul.

    Once again, this is to the brave Limuru, Kiambu women of Kenya.

     

    OUK versus TA: Unending pettiness

    One is much troubled that the current debilitating inertia in Abia State has been reduced to a joking matter by none other than a former helmsman of the state who held sway for about 12 years. The stand-off in that state portends a huge economic and infrastructural debacle that may not be easily quantifiable. The people of the state are paying and will pay heavy price for some time to come.

    But former Governor Orji Uzor Kalu writing in his column (SaturdaySun, July 9, 2016) only trivialised issues by heaping all the blames on his arch-enemy, immediate past Governor T.A. Orji. In 41 paragraphs of a running drivel, he blamed all the woes of Abia and some of his own on TA.

    But one is a witness of the Abia story from 1999 to 2007 when OUK ruled Abia; and 2007 to 2011 of TA’s tenure he usurped. As it is well known, it was the locust years of Abia when nothing worthwhile sprouted in the land and nothing stood; a time of extreme violence when all Abia elders and statesmen were chased out of town.

    It is a long, sad story that one believes history has noted accurately. But suffice to say that at a time when worthy Igbo elders were brainstorming in Owerri over the Igbo condition, OUK was busy stoking the fire of parochial politics in Abia. What a pity, what pettiness?

  • Love: Most excellent way (5)

    LOVE FOR NEIGHBOUR- love for your neighbour and love for your enemies. To show that you know God you will love like He does. He sent His Son Jesus to die for ALL irrespective of who you are, your Religion, Tribe, Nationality etc. Jesus died for the whole world to set us free from the bondage and slavery of sin and to make us enjoy sweet fellowship with God now and forever. You only need to believe in the love God sent in the person of His dear Son Jesus Christ and you will enjoy peace with God. By so doing God showed us unconditional love in that while we didn’t love Him, we acted as His enemies yet He loved us and made a way to reconcile us to Himself, so we are to love our enemies.

    Jesus teaches saying: “You have heard that it was said. You shall love your neighbour and hate your enemy. But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.

    For if you love those who love you, what rewards have you? Do not even corrupt tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even tax collectors do so? Therefore you shall be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect”. Wow! Loving this way makes one perfect- food for thought for those like me who desire to be perfect- it takes loving your enemies.

    Jesus came physically as man to show us the way to love- who while in great pain prayed for His enemies who crucified Him, He could have cursed and prayed death on them but He didn’t do that rather He prayed very good prayers for them, that God should forgive them. You and I haven’t experienced as much humiliation yet we find it difficult to let go.

    Stephen’s life of love even in the face of death struck me. He was arrested out of envy; they lied against him and accused him of blasphemy. While they wouldn’t believe in Jesus they hated and killed those who believe and follow Him. As they stoned Stephen to death, he knelt down and cried out to God saying, “Lord, do not charge them with this sin.” And he fell asleep (died).

    After this event came the conversion of Saul, one of those who saw to the death of Stephen. I believe that the prayer of Stephen brought about the salvation and conversion of Saul, for if he had prayed death or cursed them- it would have been so (of what benefit will it be to you to see anyone, even your enemy in a cursed condition).

    Saul and others would have all perished and that would have been a great loss to the world, we would not have had Saul/Paul’s great exploits and revelations that are of tremendous help to us today. Of the 27 books of the New Testament in the Bible, 13 are attributed to Paul. Most of the greatest evangelists we have today were once the enemies of God. Pray for your enemies without giving up. By loving and praying for them you may be preserving helpers for yourself, your generation and your descendants. Remember that at one point in your life or even now you were an enemy of God and someone’s enemy. What if God had allowed you to die in your sins, what if He answers YES to every prayer calling for death on our enemies? Am sure by now there will be no human being on earth.

    I am not saying it is so easy to love your enemies but if God says we should then it’s possible; in your strength you can’t do it. Jesus gave us a helper- the Holy Spirit to help us. Love is the fruit of the Holy Spirit; it’s the Holy Spirit that can actually live this life of love through you and me. It was said that Stephen was full of the Holy Spirit he gazed into heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus standing at the right hand of God, then he said to his accusers, ‘look! I see the heavens opened and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God!” they blocked their ears cast him out and stoned him – he may have been grateful to them for hastening his journey to the glorious home, so he prayed for them. If we know all that God has prepared for us, we will have so much joy in us that we would hardly notice the acts of those who hate us. Stephen being full of the Holy Spirit didn’t focus on the aggression in the people, he wasn’t seeing the hatred in their eyes; he gazed into heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus. The Holy Spirit will make you look on Jesus not on the pain, hatred, persecution, suffering they are meting out on you. We need to be full of the Holy Spirit to see beyond the hatred around us every day.

    And the fruit of the Spirit is: LOVE, JOY, PEACE, LONGSUFFERING, KINDNESS, GOODNESS, FAITHFULNESS, GENTLENESS, SELF-CONTROL. As I look at this fruit critically all I see is LOVE, LOVE, LOVE all through. The Holy Spirit is the spirit of love unconditional. We need Him to be able to love our enemies and by so doing we will attain perfection.

    Nigeria is in dire need of this true, unconditional love. Let it start with you and me- So help me Lord!

    PRAYER/SONG: SPIRIT OF THE LIVING GOD

    Spirit of the living God,
    Fall afresh on me. 2x
    Break me, mould me, fill me and use me.
    Spirit of the living God,
    Fall afresh on me.

    TEXT: Matthew 5: 43-48, Acts 7: 54-60, Galatians 5:22-23.

    FROM: Faith Nwachukwu.