Tag: wife

  • How my husband proposed to me —Wife

    How my husband proposed to me —Wife

    MAMA, how was your wedding last month?

    It was fine.

    Are you happy that you have done your marriage according to the Bible?

    Of course yes, it is compulsory that one must do it, and I am happy that I have done my own.

    How many children have you?

    I know I have five that are alive today.

    How did you meet your husband?

    I can’t remember the year. It is a long time now. What I can remember is (she stretched out her arm to show a bangle on her left wrist) that this bangle (made of brass) was given to me by my husband. In our tradition, if a man loves you and wants to ask for your hand in marriage, the man will not express his love for you by words of mouth. He will do that by following a laid down traditional process, which requires him to get a bangle and present it to the woman. If the woman accepts the bangles from the man and goes ahead to wear them, it shows the lady has accepted his request for marriage. That would be the beginning of a relationship. It is after that, that other marriage rites would follow.

    So, my husband gave me this bangle back then and I have been wearing it since then. That is all I can remember.

    Are you his first wife?

    Yes, I was the first woman he proposed to before the other women came much later.

    Will you say you have enjoyed this marriage?

    Yes, I did; if not, I would have left him long ago.

    Do you still love him at this old age?

    Very well. I still love him.  You know we had a church wedding two weeks ago. That means I still love him.

    What were you doing to support your husband in caring for the family those days?

    I was making local pots. I always made big and small pots from clay. I made pots for cooking and for storage of water for domestic use, I also made some for storing grains and so on. So, I was the only pot maker in this area.

    People came to buy from me at home and I took some to the market. It was a good business that time because before the coming of the aluminum pot, everyone was using the local pot for cooking and several needs. I was the only one who was making it and couldn’t stop doing it when I got married in spite of the fact that my husband was rich. He made a lot of money from selling cows but that was not enough reason for me to be lazy.  I should be able to do things with my own hands, because in those days if you stayed in one place without doing anything, you would be sick.

    Are you still making pot till now?

    At all, I can’t, I don’t have the energy any longer, I am weak. I stop making pots long ago.  But I taught a lot of women how to make them. But so people are not making the local pot anymore because iron pot is everywhere now.

    You stayed with your husband for over 70 years, didn’t you had any reason to divorce your husband?

    There was no single reason, we had quarrel and disagreements, but those were not enough to call for divorce. That is the remarkable difference between our time and now. In our time, we gave value to marriage and we endured all the way. But couples of nowadays lack endurance and if they have any small disagreement, the next thing will be divorce. There is no more respect or value in modern day’s marriage. To have a successful marriage in life, you have to endure one another as couples. Without endurance, no marriage can stand.

    So, what will be your advice to young girls of nowadays?

    There is no point advising them because if you do, you are only wasting your time. They don’t listen to our advice. They will tell you things have changed and that our own kind of life experience is of the old and past. So they don’t listen to our advice. But I think our life was better than what they are seeing today. Life used to be so good in the past.

  • Akpabio’s wife seeks more roles for women in governance

    Akpabio’s wife seeks more roles for women in governance

    The wife of Akwa Ibom Governor, Mrs Unoma Akpabio, yesterday advocated for adequate involvement of women in the governance of the country at all levels.

    Mrs Akpabio spoke at a thanksgiving held at the Apostolic Church, Uyo, as part of activities marking the 2015 International Women’s Day, said that women should not be seen as house wives only.

    The wife of the Governor said that the theme for this year which is “Empowering Women- Empowering Humanity: Picture it!” was apt, and needed to be implemented by everybody.

    “Empowering womanhood will not only mean progress for women, but also progress for humanity in general because when women are well positioned economically, socially and politically, the family and the community are also empowered,” she said.

    She said that the women of the state had broken gender barriers to emerge as trusted partners with their male counterparts in the business of governance in the state.

    “Today, we have an unprecedented number of Akwa Ibom women in elective and appointive positions, a tribute to the gender-responsive disposition of the Akpabio administration.” She added.

    The wife of the governor also said that the current administration had significantly reduced maternal mortality through its free medical care programme for pregnant women.

    She also noted that thousands of women had benefitted from empowerment programmes, such as the Women Agro-Entrepreneurship Development Programme (WAEDEP) and several loans and grants .

  • My wife sent me packing, says man

    •‘He said he won’t allow a woman control him’

    A 32-year-old woman, Folashade Olaleye has prayed the Alakuko Customary Court in Lagos, to dissolve her 12-year-old marriage.

    She is seeking to part ways with her husband Sunday Olaleye, who she accused of deriving pleasure from cursing her.

    She said they have been quarrelling since they started living as a couple.

    Mrs Olaleye, a trader said a day was never complete without a disagreement.

    She said: “His mother has been against our marriage from the outset. I couldn’t back out because I was pregnant. None of his relations attended our child’s dedication but his mother came to assist me after our first child’s birth. As I speak, I don’t relate with any of his relations.

    “My husband knows the nature of my business; occasionally, I travel out of the country for three to four days and he always complains each time I return despite using the money to cater for our children’s needs. I once advised him to join me in the business because I have a friend whose husband monitors her shop each time we travel. Instead, my husband said he wouldn’t allow a woman to control his movement. I was sad.

    “Since he left home last October, he comes to my place every morning and night to rain curses on me in the presence of our children. I will take care of our children. He is free to visit them whenever he pleases. I don’t need him in my life anymore besides it’s been a year since we slept with each other,” she said.

    Olaleye, a 36-year-old motorcyclist, in his defence told the court: “Yes, we disagree a lot and she rains curses on my folks too. It is also true my mother came to nurse our first child but she stopped coming because of my wife’s attitude. On several occasions, both families have advised us on how to reconcile our conflict but my wife never worked on her flaws. I stopped taking alcoholic drinks and smoking because of her. I tried so many ways to let peace reign but instead, she would shout at me asking me to give her a breathing space. She never asked me to join her business.

    “She doesn’t have time for our children. She attends more than four social gatherings in a week. In fact, she is footloose and adulterous because I hear a lot of things from neighbours and I once caught her in company of a man at the junction where I work. I did not leave the house willingly. My wife sent me away. Whenever I returned a bit late from work, she sends me back. My clothes are still in her place because I couldn’t take anything when she sent me away. The last time we slept with each other was four months ago and not a year as she claims. I still love her because of our children if not, dissolution is best for us.”

    The marriage produced three children.

    The court’s President, Chief Awos Awosola, asked Olaleye to pack his clothes at the petitioner’s house and adjourned the case till March 12.

  • Jonathan’s wife mourns

    First Lady Mrs. Patience Jonathan yesterday sympathised with the government and people of Bayelsa State on the death of some women.

    A statement by her spokesman, Ayo Adewuyi, said: “The First Lady, Dame Dr. Patience Faka Jonathan, wishes to commiserate with the government and people of Bayelsa State on the death of some prominent Bayelsa women in a motor accident ar Elele in Rivers State, on their way to Bayelsa.”

    “The First Lady prays the Almighty God to grant the souls of the deceased eternal rest and the families the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.”

  • Pastor Kumuyi’s wife set to hit 70

    Pastor Kumuyi’s wife set to hit 70

    The General Superintendent of Deeper Life Bible Church, Pastor William Kumuyi, and his wife, Sister Esther, share many things in common and have remained conservative in different ways. Despite heading a massive Christian ministry, they are not the ‘in your face’ kind of preachers.

    Pastor’s Kumuyi’s wife, Esther Folashade Aduke, is set to turn 70 soon. Five years ago, he tied the nuptial knot with Sister Esther in a low-key ceremony in London after losing his first wife, Abiodun Kumuyi, in 2009. Since then, Pastor Kumuyi and Sister Esther have chosen to watch other Nigerian men of God enjoy the limelight.

    The respected pastor and his wife will be celebrating the fifth anniversary of their marriage soon and Queen Esther, as the wife is fondly called, will soon hit 70. Mrs. Esther Kumuyi is said to be one of the 15 founding members of the church in 1973. Before she walked down the aisle with the salvation-preaching man of God, she was the church’s secretary in charge of the London branch.

    She is highly regarded among members of the church as a virtuous woman who has relentlessly served God and the church. Before she got married at 65, Esther had never been married and had dedicated her life to the service of God.

  • My man is an adulterer, says wife

    •‘She’s behind my woes’

    A 40-year-old fashion designer, Funmilayo Odeyinka, has prayed the Alagbado Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve her 14-year-old marriage. She is seeking to divorce her husband, Toyin Odeyinka because he is “adulterous and irresponsible.”

    She said: “My husband womanises a lot. He once had an affair with our neighbour to the extent of getting her pregnant. My pastor revealed to me that if the woman had a child for my husband, she would kill our children. Surprisingly, five months after, I heard that she had aborted the pregnancy; that was the last I heard of her.

    “As if that wasn’t enough, my husband married another woman to whom he is indebted. He cares less about me and our children’s well-being. At times, he leaves home at odd hours, claiming it was on the request of his boss. I later got to know his boss was his new wife.

    “I was shocked when my mother-in-law said the medical bills paid by my husband when I had to undergo Caesarean Section was enough to build a house. Consequently, she advised her son to marry another wife. Since my presence alone irritates him, I willingly left his house. I just want our children in my custody because I am not comfortable with where they live.”

    Odeyinka, 48, who is not opposed to the divorce, accused his wife of being behind his problems.

    He said: “My wife is the reason behind our marriage troubles. I married another woman solely because my wife slept on the couch for a year without letting me touch her. I don’t womanise. Funmi is not disciplined. I never knew she spends our children’s school fees on cooperative enterprise until I was embarrassed publicly by our children’s proprietress.

    “There was a day I called my wife on phone from work and asked her to lend me some money to prepare food for the family which she offered. So, when I returned, I settled down to eat. As I was about swallowing the third ball of eba, she held my right arm, shouting that I must refund her money; otherwise, I wouldn’t enjoy the meal. My ex-wife’s current husband cursed me for several minutes on phone. In fact, he kicked against the idea of the children being in my custody.”

    Odeyinka, an electrician, vowed not to leave the children with the petitioner because she is also married to someone else.

    The marriage which was contracted under Native and Customary Law produced two children between the ages 10 and 12.

    The court’s President, Mr. Olubode Sekoni, fixed a chamber discussion and ordered the respondent to produce the children before the court on February 9.

  • Poju Oyemade’s new wife unveiled

    Poju Oyemade’s new wife unveiled

    When the Senior Pastor of Covenant Christian Centre, Poju Oyemade, hinted in October last year that he was ready to leave bachelorhood and walk down the aisle, many people became desperate to see the woman that had captured the heart of the motivational speaker. As Poju Oyemade chose to keep the identity of his bride shrouded in secrecy, the zeal to uncover her heightened. Not even his church members could tell who the mystery lady was.

    But after much ado, his bride-to-be has been revealed. On Saturday, January 7, 2015, the dynamic pastor walked down the aisle with Toyin Fajuigbe, a media personality and gospel musician. Toyin Fajj, as she is popularly called, is the founder/chief executive officer of Story Teller Media, a media outfit with interests in production and presentation of media contents across various platforms (electronic and print).

    It would seem that Poju Oyemade’s long wait was not in vain after all. Toyin is a beautiful, dark-complexioned woman with an enchanting smile, impressive resume and a tongue armed with kind words. Her career as a radio presenter started in UNILAG FM 2004 while she was a student of Mass Communication. She joined Mo Abudu’s Inspire Africa Limited after her NYSC and worked as a producer on the talk show, Moments with Mo.

    She has also worked with M-net, Storm 360, and Ndani TV. She also attended New York Film Academy / Del York International in the United States. Toyin put her film making skills to practice in 2014 by producing and directing a documentary film titled Unbroken: The John Sumonu Story, which was nominated for the best documentary at the 2014 Abuja International Film Festival. She released her first single in May 2014. It is titled ‘Holy Spirit I Welcome You’ and was produced by Olumide Iyun.

    It is not much of a surprise that her husband-to-be chose to make their wedding a private affair since he has always been known to be highly reserved.

  • ‘My wife, a better manager than I’

    ‘My wife, a better manager than I’

    Femi Falana (SAN), renowned human rights lawyer and activist, is founder, Falana and Falana Chambers. Falana has been in active legal practice since early 80s, during which time he has earned some plaudits as well as suffered a lot of privations more than he is willing to admit. In this interview with Ibrahim Apekhade Yusuf he speaks on his over three decade’s career in the legal profession, his management style, relationship with his staff, among others

    TO say that Mr. Femi Falana is a legal colossus is certainly stating the obvious. Truth is the Ilawe-Ekiti born activist has come to symbolise for many, the quintessential lawyer every aspiring member of the learnered profession wants to be like.

    The reason for this is not far to seek: This man has paid his dues as well as won numerous awards locally and internationally for his activism. Falana is renowned for providing free legal services to the poor and disadvantaged and had suffered long spells in detention under Nigeria’s past military dictators. Thus, he has become a household name today for managing one of the successful law firms in Africa as well as a mighty force to reckon with both within and outside the shores of the country.

    Falana who set up private practice, Femi Falana Chambers, which later became Falana and Falana Chambers in 1991, after cutting his professional teeth at the Chambers of Alao Aka-Bashorun, a renowned legal activist in 1983, is a force to reckon with on account of his growing fame and popularity in the legal profession.

    An individual many in the corridors of power love to hate for being a dyed in the wool critic, Falana has stood true to his ideals over the years.

    Drawing inspirations from other leading lights like the late Chief Gani Fawehinmi and other kindred spirit, Falana’s decision to join in the struggle for the emancipation of the downtrodden in the society has always been for clearly altruistic motives.

    His petit size notwithstanding, Falana has always been vocal, fighting for the cause of others.

    The stormy petrel as many of his fans are wont to call him, even as a student leader at the then University of Ile Ife, now Obafemi Awolowo University, OAU, he stood his ground against oppression from the successive military governments.

    As a youth corps member, he handled the case of seven University of Ibadan students who were arrested for protesting for their rights.

    He succeeded in securing their freedom and he became a human rights activist as early as 1983 when he took bail for the students who had been unlawfully remanded in prison custody.

    Falana revealed that this incident led to his not being issued a discharge certificate by the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) after his one year mandatory national service.

    “I was a student leader at that time and we had to address the welfare of citizens. We had to address the future of the Nigerian youths, we had to fight for free education, against commercialisation of education.

    “In order to secure the struggle I was attacked by the government, my life was at risk while in school. The NYSC refused to release my certificate because of my struggle for a good society.

    “But I didn’t have to beg anybody. I didn’t need it to work because the chamber that employed me knew that I had completed my service. They knew that my service was not extended only that I was being punished by the Nigerian State unjustly for fighting for the right of the people. So I had no problem at all and I didn’t get the certificate until about 18 years later during the proceedings of the Justice Chwukwudifo Oputa Panel on Human Rights Violation in 2001.

    “Between 1984 and 1999 when we had uninterrupted military dictatorship of 15 years, my right to liberty, my right to dignity and freedom of movement was seriously abused and of course my right to life was endangered. I faced a lot of risks, but it’s just by sheer luck that I am still alive. I was charged on many occasions, even for the most serious offences under the criminal law such as treasonable felony.

    “There was a time no landlord would give me a house for fear of being either intimidated by the government or having their houses bombarded although some of these embarrassing situations also contributed to my effort in ensuring that I owned my own property or else one would have had his family thrown out. So it has been a very challenging journey.”

    Naturally, you would expect that for a man who has recorded such remarkable feat in a profession with the highest attrition rate especially for individuals who like Falana are tagged ‘enemies of the state’ because of their perceived antagonism of bad government policies, he would have a very high opinion of himself, but not for him is such immodesty.

    He attributes his successes thus far to providence.

    “Whatever success I have recorded is by God’s grace. But I can tell you that the secret is hard work, and dedication. Actually, my wife, Funmi joined me to manage the office and that gives me time for my other national commitments.”

    But as to why he yielded the management of his law firm to his wife, the former president of the National Association of Democratic Lawyers as well as former chairman of the West African Bar Association, WABA, deadpans: “My wife, Funmi Falana, a partner at the Falana and Falana Chambers is the head of the chambers. I discover that she is more meticulous and more organised than I am. And don’t forget, she is a lawyer. So, she manages the chambers.  I only give a helping hand every once in a while.”

    On his relationship with his staff, he said he doesn’t apply the stick and carrot approach. Rather what obtains is a close-relationship with his members of staff.

    “We are very close. We’re friendly and we encourage staff to discuss their problems and we look for solutions to them. We could do much better.”

    On his management mantra, he said respect for others is paramount.

    “We delegate functions and simply supervise, and at other times we try to micromanage. And of course, it has worked for us tremendously.”

    He wa,s however, quick to add that “In fact, in legal practice there is nobody who can do it alone. And I’m very happy that we have very competent colleagues in the office who put in their best at all times.”

    As the boss around, the toughest decision he has had to take over the years was letting staff go.

    “Asking a very close colleague to leave the chambers is always a very tough decision or when you lose a very close colleague.”

    But thankfully, he said the relationship with old staff has always been cordial.

    “We have very good relationship with old staff. As lawyers, we still give cases to some of our colleagues who have left for their own practice. We discuss and there are times we also handle cases together even when they have left.”

    For aspiring young lawyers desirous of going into private practice, he said their watchword should be focus and determination.

    “It is for them to define their goal and then work towards achieving the goal. They must learn to respect colleagues who work with them and be free with them as well as ensure that they are close.”

    On insinuations that lawyers hardly retire, he would not subscribe to that.

    “Oh, there are lawyers who retire. There is no way you won’t retire in an underdeveloped society like our own. Why shouldn’t a lawyer retire?”

    As to whether he has an exit strategy or succession yet, he answered in the negative.

    “I haven’t seriously addressed that,” he confessed.

    “Right now my wife works in the chambers. I have two children who are lawyers but neither of them wants to practice law. And I’m not losing any sleep over that, you know because my father wasn’t a lawyer. I haven’t addressed the question of exit strategy. I believe that water would always find its level…(laughs).

  • ‘They slaughtered my wife, three kids’

    ‘They slaughtered my wife, three kids’

    Apostle Eugene Ogu, the General Overseer and Founder of Abundant Life Evangelical Mission (ALEM), Port Harcourt, Rivers State is a man of many parts. He is a religious leader, philanthropist and a social critic, who does not allow his position to affect his views and comments on national discourse.

    Beneficiaries of his compassion see him as great man of God who lives his life for the poor. His church members, who fondly refer him as ‘G.O’, see him as a committed shepherd, who is willing to lay down his life for the sheep.

    These attributes of the former Chairman, Rivers State chapter of the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria (PFN) were reaffirmed last Sunday when the church held a special service for widows and orphans. The event, a special service called “G.O Special Service With Widows and Orphanage”, as its name implies, was for women, children and youths, who lost their loved ones in gruesome manners – they were burnt and slaughtered in the most bestial way by religious fanatics or communal crises across the country.

    Speaking with Niger Delta Report shortly after the service, Apostle Ogu said the event was an annual celebration in ALEM organised to provide a platform for widows, orphans and the needy to come together in the house of God to give thanks to the Almighty God and to also appreciate God for his life.

    “It is also an opportunity to make a sacrifice and to give to the less privileged in the spirit of season.”

    The special service attarcted victims of Boko Haram, which has taken over parts of the North. In the congregation were beneficiaries of Apostle Ogu’s benevolence .

    They came with heartrending tales of terror, orgiastic killing and destruction of lives and property.

    Apostle Ogu, whose house in the North is housing some of the victims of Boko Haram onslaught, has helped to dig boreholes and build schools in several places. Notable among his interventions in North is the Arm of Hope Grammar School, Dogo Nahauwa, Plateau State. The school was built from foundation by the Arms of Hope Word Outreach and also executed water projects in Mangu in Plateau as well as Oboho and Obio-Akpo in Imo and Rivers states. His scholarship scheme has also benefited about1,200 students from various parts of the country, including members of very prominent churches in the various zones of the country.

    He told Niger Delta Report: “We have given subventions to patients in the hospitals; when you go to most Nigerian hospitals you will realise that most of the patients there have been treated for surgical operations, amputation etc. Some of them have been treated and ready to be discharged but the bills are so high that they cannot be allowed to leave – they are being held hostage by medical bills. When you see the psychological effect their circumstances create on them, you begin to wonder what kind of country we live in. When we find out these situations, we pay their hospital bills, take them home and give them money to start something with. In some cases we give their children scholarship and these are ongoing.”

    Some of the guests at the thanksgiving service came in appreciation of Apostle Ogu’s good deeds and the impact his philanthropy has had on them. They said they came to Port Harcourt to tell the world how much the General Overseer loves them. Some of the heartfelt stories, especially the horrible experiences of victim of religious crisis broke down the congregation’s emotions, leaving most of the church members shedding uncontrollably tears.

    Testifying before the congregation, Miss Charity Konu, one of the orphans from Dogo Nahawa, said her parents were slaughtered and their house was burnt down during the infamous raid in their community several years ago. She said but for the intervention of the ALEM life would have been worthless.

    “I had no place to go or who to run to. I became helpless and hopeless until Daddy (Apostle Ogu) visited my home town and demanded to see me. He clothed me and gave me life again. He didn’t stop there; he built the Arm of Hope Grammar School for the less-privilege and orphanage. That was how I started school free of charge, as I am talking to you now I have been given scholarship by him from secondary school to university level. Daddy, I don’t know how to pay you back, but because you have decided to carry our cross God will bless you and also carry your cross.”

    A widower, James Obodu, recalled how he lost his wife and their three children to insurgents while he was returning home from work: “My wife and three children were slaughtered and my house and properties were burnt. This left me restless for months before Apostle Ogu gave me life again. I was behaving like an abnormal person due to the replaying of memories of what I saw. Even the government of the day did not provide succor to us but we were allow to die with our pains.

    “I was one of the victims of Boko Haram in 2006 when the activities of the sect was not widely pronounced as it is today. The worst thing is that I was coming back from work when the incident occurred.  So, I was left with the cloth I was putting on that day. To be frank, the General Overseer was the only source of hope for the victims during those period,  today we are here to celebrate with him at this special service with the widows, widowers and orphanage so that the congregation will know that he is the hope of the hopeless.”

    Another victim, Mrs. Patience Otutu, a widow, recalled with emotion how her husband was buried alive in one of the raids in Borno State. She said all hopes were lost until the ALEM Founder gave them hope; he paid her medical bill when she was sick and assisted her children to go back to school. She prayed to God to continue to bless the man who He had chosen and used to help those abandoned by their kith and kin, their governments and the society.

    Apostle Ogu, who sat through the testimonies with very little visible emotion, later told his congregation and guests that whatever he had done was the least he could do. He said he couldn’t live a life without giving hope to the hopeless or putting smiles on the faces of those who have been rejected by the society and their governments. He said it was very easy for him to give to the poor because of his own past and his background. He said it was his constituency and he enjoyed it whenever he realises that he is identifying with the poor.

    He called on the government and his colleagues in the ministry to do more for the society. He remarked that the government had not done enough to assist the less-privilege in the society.

    “Today is a special service for the less-privileged, the testimonies you are hearing here today is the source of why I am doing more because some people have stood beside me. I am not afraid to do more for the less-privileged because they are part of me. Our government has not done enough to assist these classes of people; even some men of God in the ministry are busy for the material things in this world. But my life is worthless without helping others. The essence of life is to make life comfortable for others.”

    He said his personal experiences during several visits to the crisis areas in the North convinced him that the administration does not know the degree of the crisis raging in that part of the country.

    “It is clear that many communities that have been attacked, the victims do not have any feeling that there is government in place. In other words, the ones we know are the ones that the press reported. There are many deserted communities that the Federal government does not know about, because nobody or the press visited the scene of the incident. They are communities in the rural areas, but there is much more about communities where people have been killed. But the government does not know anything about it. I speak as a servant of God that the government of today lack the capacity to address the present day challenges of Nigeria. If nothing is done to overcome it, then this country is in a serious problem.

    “I am doing what I am doing today because I suffered like them. As a child, I went through difficulties in life. I saw my mother who was the breadwinner of the family at the young age died. I was left to suffer. I slept in the carpenter table for four years and four months with nobody to help me. I will never forget the constituency I am coming from, the constituency of the poor, the neglected and the hopeless. And today I have seen millions of people suffering and neglected by government and by people who they voted to represent them. I have no other choice than to help this constituency. I live my life for this people.”

    The highpoint of the special service is the distribution of Christmas gifts, including food items like rice and yams to the widows, orphans and the less privileges, prayer for the General Overseer, thanksgiving and testimonies.

  • Elechi’s wife provides jobs tools for women

    Elechi’s wife provides jobs tools for women

    Wife of Ebonyi State governor, Mrs. Josephine Elechi has stepped up her passion for women with the provision of jobs tools for them. Her skill acquisition programmes often organised in conjunction with the state Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development have helped several women in the state. The youth and physically challenged drawn from the 13 local government areas of the state also benefit from the schemes.

    Mrs. Elechi’s pet project, Mother and Childcare Initiative (MCCI) set up the National Obstetric Fistula Centre in Abakaliki, which has been taken over by the federal government and run by the Federal Ministry of Health.

    The centre under the administration of the Medical Director, Prof. Sunday Oduoye and supervised by Mrs. Elechi has provided free surgical intervention for about 1,785 VVF clients from over 20 states of the federation and 473 women with uterine disorders.

    On cancer eradication, over 764 clients have been screened for prostate cancer while about 12,718 have been checked for breast and cervical cancer free of charge at the screening centre established by Mrs. Elechi at the National Obstetric Fistula Centre, Abakaliki.

    Speaking at the Abakaliki Township Stadium during the 2014 Ebonyi Women’s Day Celebration with the theme: “Women as vanguard for adequate Security in Ebonyi State, the wife of the governor stressed the need for the discouragement of obnoxious practices against women such as forbidding women/girls to inherit, domestic violence, sexual abuse and rape, violence at workplace, forced prostitution and widowhood practices, among others.

    At the event, she provided work items such as sewing machines and hair-dressing kits to women.

    She lamented, however, that despite the increasing participation of women in governance, the rate of violence against them and their persistent deaths due to pregnancy complications and childbirth remain a major problem.

    “On my part, I have through my pet project, MCCI remained steadfast in my commitment to the promotion of healthcare delivery services, welfare programmes for the physically challenged, widows, educational support for orphans and vulnerable children and provision of relief packages for people living with HIV/AIDS among other welfare programmes.

    “It is with great pleasure that I use this opportunity to inform you that this event, like previous years will feature the empowerment of youths/women and indigent widows with equipment in various vocational skills to enable them to be self-reliant and employers of labour, thereby harnessing their socio-economic conditions”.

    In their separate goodwill messages to Ebonyi women, the Head of Service, Mrs. Ugo Nnachi and the State focal person of Millennium Development Goals, MDGs, Mrs. Ngozi Obichukwu, extolled the laudable contributions, tenacity and achievements of the Ebonyi woman in different strata of society.

    They added that no amount of challenge and opposition would deter the Ebonyi woman from climbing the ladder of success for the betterment of the state at large.

    In his remarks, the former Minister of Health, Prof. Chukwu praised Mrs. Elechi for her contributions towards the establishment of the National Obstetric Fistula Centre which has benefited women from different parts of the country.

    The occasion witnessed a march past from different women groups and organisations, cultural display and presentation of Award to the Wife of Ebonyi State Governor.