Tag: marriage

  • Davido hints at marriage with lover

    After singing ‘Assurance’ for and presenting a sports car to his girlfriend Chioma to mark her birthday, hip hop superstar Davido has revealed he wants to spend the rest of his life with her.

    Taking to Instagram over the weekend, Davido posted a picture of Chioma, who goes by the name ChefChi, on Instagram.

    “The Love of my life,” Davido who has been blazing on the global music scene captioned the picture.

    “Can’t wait to spend forever with you.”

    Expectedly, the post attracted loads of response from his fans. As at Sunday evening, it had over 11,000 comments and over 383,000 likes.

    Davido already has two daughters from two different baby mamas.

  • Dad ‘forces’ teenage daughter into marriage after ‘raping’ her

    •Another blames the devil for defiling own daughter

    A 14-year-old girl has accused her father, Olawale Ibitoye, of raping and forcing her into marriage.

    The girl was said to have made the claim at a traditional birth centre she was taken to while in labour.

    Her father, she alleged, forced her to marry Moses Okurukpe, who impregnated her.

    But Ibitoye denied the allegation, saying his daughter, was fond of fleeing their home at Epe in Lagos.

    He denied forcing her into marriage, insisting that she brought the man and introduced him as her husband.

    Ibitoye said: “I did not sleep with my daughter. She is learning a trade because she ran away from school. Then, she came with a man saying she wants to marry him. The man is Moses Okurukpe, who was also ready to marry her.

    “I told him that she has not finished learning her trade; he said I should not worry he will continue the payment which is N5000. She came home with a six-month pregnancy and claimed her husband impregnated her. “I went to her husband and we both went to our town to see Olisa, the second king.”

    Okurukpe added: “I was not aware of her age. She looked bigger than her age so I did not bother asking of her age. She came to my house twice. I did not marry her rightfully. I made it known to her that if one is pregnant in my town another man should not sleep with her.”

    The police have also arrested another man, Ashiru Amusan, 60, for allegedly defiling his 12-year-old daughter at Akowonjo. The father blamed the devil for the development.

    The suspect, who admitted raping the girl once, said he did not know what came over him.

    Parading the suspects yesterday, Police Commissioner Imohimi Edgal said the cases showed the moral decadence in the society.

    According to him, the 14-year-old girl suffered double jeopardy in the hands of her father, who not only defiled her but forced her into marriage.

    He said the victim opened up at the birth centre after she experienced difficulty in giving birth.

    Edgal said: “This is child marriage; this is sexual abuse and exploitation of the highest order. Both the father and the husband would be charged to court. “There is a similar case of father raping his own daughter which was recorded at Shasha. A woman reported on behalf of the 12-year-old, whose biological father had been defiling. The girl begged the woman who reported the case, for a place to sleep. The woman asked her why she did not want to sleep in her family house and she revealed that her father had been having unlawful sexual intercourse with her. During interrogation, the suspect, a commercial driver, married with grown children, admitted that he committed the crime from April 22 till when he was arrested in May.

    “The survivor has been taken to Mirabel Centre for medical examination. The suspect would be charged to court as soon as investigation is concluded.”

  • Businesswoman seeks marriage dissolution over sex denial

    A businesswoman, Monsurat Ogundipe, on Tuesday  urged an Agege Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve her 14-year old marriage to  her husband, Sheriff,  due to denial of sex  and  lack of   love.

    The petitioner, who resides at Ijaiye Street, Abule Egba area of Lagos, told the court that she was no longer interested in the union.

    “My husband is irresponsible; he is a chronic liar and has denied me  sex for over two years.

    “He is a drunkard, who drinks to stupor and misbehaves  and this usually leads to shame and serious embarrassment for me and our children.

    “I can no longer bear the emotional and verbal torture I suffer in his hands.

    “My husband is fond of saying he is not going to  send me packing  and that  when l am  tired, l will move out without being told,’’ she said.

    The mother of three, who admitted that  her husband does not beat her, claimed that  the emotional abuse had been unbearable.

    “My husband frustrates my efforts and brings in different women into our matrimonial home without any form of respect for me.

    “All my husband does is to drink and engage in extra marital affairs.

    “He is not caring and lacks respect for the institution of marriage; please separate us, I can no longer live with him,” she told  the court.

    The respondent and an official of the  Nigeria Immigration Service admitted that he had denied his wife  sex.

    He also  urged the court to dissolve the  marriage, claiming that he no longer loves  his wife.

    “I try my best to cater for my family but my wife is never satisfied,” he said.

    The respondent also described the petitioner as arrogant and unwilling  to be submissive to him.

    He further  admitted that he was engaged in relationship with  other women because his wife refused to have sex with him.

    “She wants to usurp my authority in the house and  has no iota of respect for me.

    “Trouble started when my younger sister came to stay with us;  my wife declared that she will not have sex with me until my sister leaves the house.

    “For six months, my wife refused to have sex with me which led to my drinking habit and since then, l  have lost interest in her,” he said.

    The respondent also alleged that his wife was promiscuous, claiming that  she often  received strange calls and text messages from different men at odd hours.

    He alleged that one of his wife’s concubines also placed the “magun’’ charm on  her.

    “I later discovered this  through prayers or else I would have been dead.

    “I don’t trust my wife and I  no longer love her, l , therefore,  urge the court to dissolve the marriage so that we can go our separate ways,’’ he said.

    The court’s President, Mrs Ibironke Elabor, who advised the estranged couple to keep the peace, adjourned the case till July 26 for alternative dispute resolution. (NAN)

  • ‘I am married to a rich man, no money in my bank account’

    “I have been married for six years, six wasted years with no child and no money in my bank account and yet married to a rich man, very rich man who owns hotels and houses all over.

    I don’t even have 20k to my name, he made sure of that and constantly bring down my pride.

    I endured and got tired and almost took my life before God ministered to me.

    I went into his room and saw up to 9 million naira in dollars and I carried just as the spirit led.

    I buried it in a safe place and waited for him to find out, so I Can face the implication to either die or stay alive to enjoy the money.

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    He came back and asked and I told him I took it, he asked I return it back but I refused, he beat me up but I still did not , he arrested me but later bailed me after I refused .

    So he gave me condition. To either quit the marriage or produce the cash and remain in his house.

    But he gave me one week to make up my mind.

    I am confused, should I sacrifice the marriage for 12 million or just give it back to him and continue managing like I have been?

    This marriage has yielded nothing for me, but I don’t want to regret my action.

    I still saw some money today that he hid in the visitor’s restroom, should I take also and quit the marriage.

    What decision do you think is best?”

     

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  • Court dissolves 10-yr-old marriage

    A Somolu Customay Court on Thursday dissolved a 10-year-old marriage of a couple, Muritala Bolaji Kareem and Toheebat Mojisola Kareem.

    Kareem, 34, had dragged his wife, Mojisola to court asking for a dissolution of the union, accusing her of defamation against his person.

    He had also accused Mojisola of picking fight with him, and lacking respect for him and their marriage.

    He denied abandoning his wife saying that he had spent a sum of N2 million to sponsor her a d the children on a visit to the United States of America.

    Mojisola, however said her estranged husband has no love and respect for her adding that he has since stopped sleeping at home.

    She said her husband restricted from going out and had showered her rival with more affection.

    Although, the President of the court, Mrs Oluwatoyin Lakanu had called for circumspection on the part of the defendant last week, she however dissolved the marriage on Thursday.

    Delivering the judgment, Lakanu said: “After listening to the both parties, I have no choice than to drop this marriage, since both parties are no longer interested in the marriage. The petitioner will be responsible for her accommodation, since the children are still very young, the respondent will have custody of the children.

    ‘’The petitioner will be responsible for the children’s school fees and upbringing allowance, the petitioner will pay a sum of N5,000 per child making it N15,000, and it is to be paid to the court every month. The respondent should have access to the children as agreed by both parties. The right of appeal of this judgment to either of the party being granted, within 30 days from today, otherwise it is valid and final.’’

  • Advice for women: Sex is food

    SEX IS FOOD!!!!!!!

    Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don’t always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex.

    Be creative, don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.

    Don’t have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.

    When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food !!!

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    Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back…. mwahhhhhh, don’t be too holy to kiss in the public.

    He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic joooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you’re happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don’t look 50 while you’re still under 40, it drives men crazy.

    Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

     

    You can  share your relationship stories with us on  info@thenationonlineng.net

  • Don’t pressure me into marriage – Alexx Ekubo

    In a bid to stop people from pressuring him into marriage, Nollywood hunk, Alexx Ekubo, has started an Instagram campaign.

    The campaign, tagged, #Don’tPressureAlexxEkuboToEarlyMarriage was accompanied with the message, ‘Aexx marry today, Alexx marry tomorrow, na so una go dey tension me, till i go enter one chance, make una leave me abeg, before i take my hand knack tipper wey carry sand.’

    He turned comic, ending the message with ‘Sincerely yours, Daddy G.O Chop Life Ministries Global, Supreme Leader of the Unmarried Brethren Worldwide.’

    Last year, it was reported that Alexx was in love with a Nigerian American model Fancy Acholonu.

    However, not long ago, Alexx had revealed that he got a fake business meeting with some clients set up by Charles Uwagbai only for him to get there and found out it was a surprise birthday celebration organized by the @alexxekubowivesassociation; a fan page for his female fans.

  • You’re better off a virgin till marriage!

    DEAR Aunty Temi, I’m 19 years old and just left secondary school last year. I’ve never had a boyfriend and I’m still a virgin. However, there’s been pressure on me by my friends to date a particular guy. I want to keep my virginity till marriage but my friends always make jest of me telling me I’m missing out and would benefit tremendously if I start engaging in sex. I’m confused ma.

    *Hannah

    My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

    I’m happy to be with you again this Sunday, however, I must confess my disappointment a lot of times much as I love you all and would always want to attend to your questions. I find it really strange that at a time when we have more churches, church meetings on a daily basis and more access to God, a lot of you would allow your friends’ opinion on matters concerning your destiny overshadow the path God wants you to follow as written in the Holy Bible-our life’s manual. A lot of you go to church; you have clergy role-models you almost idolise because of God in them I believe, you spend time in church services, some of you are even members of the church work force. So, why would you even spare what God is against a thought? If you have been following my articles, you must be acquainted with the consequences of pre-marital sex ranging from sexually transmitted diseases to unwanted pregnancy, abortion, heart-breaks leading to loss of self-esteem, depression etc. And its dire spiritual repercussion which include transference of spirits of everyone your partners have had sex with and everyone they (other strange partners you won’t ever know) have had sex with, a covenant and soul-tie with everyone you sleep with, transference of one’s glory/virtues/shining, transference of evil spirits, ill-luck, curses, opening up your life to demonic invasion etc. I could go on and on!

    Believe me, anyone who makes jest of you because you are not committing a sin and tearing your destiny apart before it blossoms is the devil re-incarnate and you must keep away from such girls immediately! DO YOU KNOW THE TYPE OF DESTINY YOU CARRY? DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR SHINNING IN LIFE ENTAILS? DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT WOULD TAKE YOU TO MANIFEST GOD’S SPECIFIC AND WONDERFUL PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE? A lot of girls are already finished before they are 18. Before 20, too many have slept with more men than their mother, grandmother and great grandmother slept with! If biblical Esther had a boyfriend and was sleeping with him to have some cash because she was an orphan and a slave, would she have been chosen by God to become queen? If biblical Joseph had given in to Mrs. Portiphar’s advances which an average man in his shoes would have done would he have become Prime minister at a young age and more importantly fulfilled God’s plan for his life to tower above his household which was the reason he was sold into slavery?

    The most painful thing about the average Nigerian girl/young lady today is the lack of clear-cut plans to pursue a fulfilling life- they just move with the tides, surprisingly mindlessly too! I fear so much for the future of a good number of you who write me with very bad English about boyfriend issues. I usually wonder how you can pass an entrance examination into the university. A lot of you are so engrossed in your boyfriend and simply forget you have a life and a beautiful destiny to pursue. You are practically lost and satanically-diverted when you should be laying a solid foundation for a most colourful future that could take you where your entire family/generation would never have access to! To worsen matters, most of you are spiritually-dull; unfortunately failing to use the power of God you have access to at a time when you have so much energy to command for yourself the very best of life. I’m talking about the best grades after studying hard, the best job after working hard for it, unusual achievements using your talents, the best man to spend the rest of your life with-your divinely-ordained husband who will make you wish to live forever, magnetising wealth with your entrepreneurial skills, having access to all you are naturally entitled etc. without the devil diverting them.  To think we are in a satanically-patriarchal society which appears to be getting worse and whose regard for the female folk is dwindling minute after minute. How do you want to survive when you throw away your God-given potentials, special gifts and spiritual power to live a good life? Hmm…girls…girls…girl…

    • To be continued.
  • Man seeks dissolution of marriage over adultery

    Man seeks dissolution of marriage over adultery

    An Ado-Ekiti Customary Court has fixed March 8 to deliver judgment in a petition for dissolution of marriage, filed by ‎a mechanic, Olayiwola Olarewaju.

    The President of the Court, Mrs Olayinka Akomolede, gave the date after hearing submissions of parties.

    Olarewaju, 39, and a resident of Omisanjana Street, Ado-Ekiti, had asked the court to dissolve his 7-year-old marriage with Yetunde, over allegation of adultery and assault.

    The petitioner told the court that his wife was adulterous and combative.

    He said although no official marital rites were done to consummate the union, the marriage was blessed with three children.

    The petitioner told the court that he had in 2013, sued ‎her, because she aborted a pregnancy she had for another man while they lived together.

    He said the intervention of family members compelled him to eventually withdraw the matter from court.

    He said on Dec.25, 2‎017, the respondent left the house with their two children in the pretext of going to collect money from one of her debtors in Oke-Ila Street.

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    The petitioner said it was the next day that the respondent returned home.

    “She claimed she and our two children slept in her uncle’s house, who lives at Oke-ila Street,’’ he said.

    Olarewaju, however, said he and his elder sister traced the movement of the respondent to a particular man’s house.

    He said it was discovered that the respondent had often visited the man.

    The petitioner further said apart from being adulterous, the respondent was a trouble maker.

    Olarewaju prayed the court to dissolve the union, adding that the court should grant him custody of his three children to enable him take good care of them.

    Testifying in the matter as witness, Mrs Olayinka Adeoye, re-echoed the allegations of the petitioner that the respondent was adulterous.

    According to her, she and the petitioner have caught the respondent in several compromising sexual acts with a man other than the petitioner.

    The respondent, Yetunde , 33, a tailor, and a resident ‎of Omisanjana Street, Ado-Ekiti, denied all the allegations levelled against her.

    She told the court that on Dec.25, 2017, her debtor actually delayed her and in the process the battery of her phone went flat.

    According to her, the incident unfortunately compelled her to sleep in her uncle’s house.

    Yetunde said she could not get a motorcycle or taxi to bring her home around 10p.m.

    She prayed the court to award the custody of her three‎ children to her, if the petitioner insisted that the court should dissolve their union.

    The respondent further requested that the court ordered the petitioner to pay her N15, 000 as monthly feeding allowance for their three ‎children.

  • Court dissolves marriage

    An Nyanya Customary Court in Abuja has dissolved a 22-year-old marriage of a driver due to his wife’s habit of cooking once in a week.

    The court, presided over by Mr. Jemilu Jega, granted the request of Mr. Garba Pakachi, ruling that the union has broken up.

    “This court has tried everything within its power to resolve the issues between the parties, but efforts proved abortive.

    “The irreconcilable differences between the two parties show they are no longer compatible. Therefore, the marriage is hereby dissolved,” he said.

    Jega gave custody of three of the four children to the father and granted the mother, Martha, the custody of the last child, aged six.

    He ordered the man to pay N20,000 monthly for the child’s upkeep.

    Jega directed that Garba should take responsibility for education and health care of the child.

    The petitioner told the court that Martha cooked for her family once in a week.