Category: New Woman

  • Naeem Khan on  dressing Michelle  Obama, Beyonce

    Naeem Khan on dressing Michelle Obama, Beyonce

    Indian-born fashion designer Naeem Khan has dressed some of the world’s most famous women including Michelle Obama, Beyoncé and Lady Gaga.

    The First Lady of the United States Michelle Obama has worn his creations. So has Queen Noor of Jordan, Hollywood actress Cameron Diaz, and singers Lady Gaga, Beyoncé, Taylor Swift and Carrie Underwood.

    Naeem’s designs are hugely popular because he mixes the traditional with the modern, and goes to any length to design collections that are not just interesting and exciting but also that sell.

    Born in India but based in the US, designer Naeem Khan has dressed the First Lady no fewer than nine times since she stepped into the White House.

    But the dress that catapulted him into the fashion stratosphere was the form-fitting champagne-coloured gown he designed for her to wear to the White House state dinner when Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh and his wife visited in November 2009. The next day, he was the third most frequently searched person on Google.

    Since then he has gone on to dress stars including Hollywood actresses Penelope Cruz, Emily Blunt and Eva Longoria. He also showcased his collection at the Lakme Fashion Week in Mumbai, India, earlier this year and his 2014 Spring collection at New York last month.

    “The day Michelle Obama wore my dress for the state dinner was my biggest and most exciting moment,” says the 56-year-old. “I must say, I love designing for powerful women.”

    It took over 40 people and two months to put together Michelle’s gown. Pattern makers worked in his New York office for over a month while embroiderers took three weeks to complete the work in India. Once he created the initial look, he sent the dress to Michelle’s stylist who took it to the White House and fine-tuned it to fit.

    For that India-inspired dress, Mumbai-born Naeem used antique sterling silver metal sequins, working them into flowers inspired by Andy Warhol, which he fixed on champagne tulle, lined with chiffon, before giving it a very modern cut and style.

    The look was classic, glamorous and timeless.

    “I guess I am fortunate that my styles are worn by royalty, social figures, stars… people in the limelight,” says Naeem, whose clothes are sold in more than 100 stores worldwide.

    He is married to jewellery designer Ranjana Khan and has two sons Zaheen, 27, and Shariq, 25, both of who also help him in designing and in managing the business.

    “The glamour that I do is very conducive to the celebrations in the UAE a lot of women wear my clothes to parties,” he says. “My collection is wide enough for them to choose from and when I design, I do keep in mind my Middle Eastern customers their likes and cultural sensitivities.”

    For instance, when designing for women in this region, he keeps a sharp eye out for the neckline and the hemline making sure that they are modest. “I always think about the people I am creating my dresses for,” he says.

    A man who believes in creating dresses that work rather than to “impress the editors” his designs stand out for their dramatic detailing, luxurious textures and lush colours.

    While Naeem has a huge loft atelier in Manhattan’s garment district, his inspiration and his aesthetics are drawn from India where he grew up and Indian touches find their way into his glamorous couture.

    “I might not do India consciously but India always comes to it in a way,” he says. “India is a country with so many layers and texturing of colours and design.”

    Design is in his DNA. Naeem’s grandfather was the founder of S.U.Zariwala, an embroidery house in Mumbai catering especially to brides. His father, a well-known couturier, continued the family business and expanded it taking some styles to the West.

    Colours, threads, beads and sequins were all part of his world when growing up and Naeem, who enjoyed sketching designs from the age of 12, seamlessly slipped into the business. “My dad was a real innovator when it came to techniques and when you grow up with someone like him, it rubs off on you.”

    After seven years of learning the skills and techniques in Mumbai, Naeem accompanied his father to New York where he met the then well-known designer Roy Halston Frowick, better known as Halston whose clients included Rita Hayworth, Liza Minnelli and Marlene Dietrich.

    Halston spotted the talent in the young Indian and perhaps also smelling a business opportunity Naeem, he felt, would be a good liaison between his New York office and the Mumbai workshop took him on as an apprentice.

    “I was just 19 at the time and the three years I worked with Halston were very influential years. I learnt all about clean lines and sleek cuts,” he says. Apart from learning how to cut, mould and drape fabric to create classic costumes he also learnt the ropes of managing staff and running a business. “I haven’t forgotten those lessons,” he says.

    Keen to stake out his own turf, Naeem opened his own studio in Beverly Hills. “It was a success and I made my first million dollars when I was 24,” says Naeem, whose dresses sell for upwards of $2,000 (Dh7,345 ).

    Ask Naeem about the fashion design process, and he says it always starts with a fantasy born from the imagination or the influences around you. “I design everything from the fabric to the embroidery to the shape of the dress. From start to finish, it can take about 400 to 600 people on two continents to put a collection together.”

    Naeem loves making customised fantasies for his clients: Marissa Mayer, CEO of Yahoo! wanted a wedding dress inspired by snowflakes. He created a one-of-a-kind dress for her using embroidery, layers of textures, feathers, paisleys and pearls. In a wedding dress for Cassandra Huysentruyt who married Brad Grey, chairman of Paramount Pictures, he even embroidered the lining of the dress with hand-cut rose petals.

    “We think of everything! On another wedding dress we had poetry on the lining, so that once the dress is removed, one could read the verses. These one of-a-kind dresses are absolutely magical.”

     

    Courtesy fridaymagazine

  • ‘Women should  be assertive  to lead others’

    ‘Women should be assertive to lead others’

    Jean Chiazor Anishere is the principal consultant at Jean Chiazor and Co. The graduate of Obafemi Awolowo University is also the current president of Women In Shipping and Trading Association (WISTA). In an interview with Yetunde Oladeinde, she spoke on why she abandoned a career in Medicine for Law, working with Olisa Agbakoba, female ship owners and the challenge for women leading other women.

    How can women make themselves visible?

    To be visible, you must have the requisite skills to take over, have the basic qualifications and wherewithal. Having had those basics then you can then move along to make yourself visible. Most times, we deserve the leaders that we get because we don’t bring ourselves forth. Unfortunately, those who can do it are sitting back and are contented with just being critics. We have a number of women who have proved themselves.

    What are the factors that militate against women in Leadership?

    Men should appreciate women as equals in leadership as opposed to gender. The gender thought should not be brought in, instead things work better when they see them as colleagues. This way they would be allowed to put their expertise to bear.

    Why did you study Law?

    I wanted to study Medicine and Optometry. My father, however, was passionate about law and he influenced my decision to study law. I was in the sciences and so I had to cross over to the arts.

    Where did you practice?

    I worked with Olisa Agbakoba and I was the managing solicitor when he went to lead the Civil Liberties Organisation (CLO). Also, before he left, he discussed with me and thought that the Lagos State University (LASU) should be a learned institution. So, he got funding from the British Council and he got a few friends to be part of the project. That was how Maritime Law was set up and I took an interest.

    How did Agbakoba influence your career?

    I call him O.A, which are his initials. I can tell you that he is a man with lots of brilliant ideas. He came up first with cabotage and he worked with Captain Iheanacho then at the Apapa Club. Agbakoba also introduced environmental policies, helped OMPADEC and was a very hardworking and extremely forthright man. The qualities I emulated from him are hard work, which is a sine qua non to success. To succeed, you must have ideas, you must read and at Olisa Agbakoba and Associates reading was key. It is only when you read that you can rediscover yourself. Interestingly, it was at Olisa’s place that we started WISTA in 1994. In March this year, WISTA will be 20 years.

    How would you assess the women who have been presidents of the organisation in the past?

    The founding president is Mrs. Funmi Folorunsho who is now the Secretary General of the African Shippers Council. After her, we had Mrs. Bola Fajemirokun who has a PhD in Law, Funke Agbor and Ify Akerele the current Director General of the Nigeria Chamber of Shipping, and she has been managing the chamber of shipping in the past ten years. We have also had Mrs. Mfon Usoro the first DG of NIMASA and all this women have great focus.

    What is it like as a woman leading other women?

    It is tough. One would think that since you are the same gender, it would be easy. These are women with different ideas. It takes a lot of guts, assertiveness and discretion to lead other women. In being assertive, you must be a good listener, so that you won’t be seen as domineering. You must be flexible and accept other people’s ideas and bring this to bear in your work. Being assertive is to put your ideas forward and make them buy into it.

    Female activists are not as visible as they used to be. What is responsible for this trend?

    We have some female activists who are doing a great job. Joe Okei-Odumakin is one of them and we are proud of her. I think the reason why the women are not many is because women have more to attend to and this is the major handicap. The need to take care of the home and family as well as their businesses as entrepreneurs and this naturally is taking its toll.

    What are some of your achievements?

    We have set up chapters in other parts of the country like Abuja, Uyo, Port Harcourt, Warri and Lagos. We have also improved on our corporate social responsibility by buying boats and nets for women in fishing. For women in Epe, we bought two fishing boats and nets. We extended to women in Aguleri in Anambra State and these women have been empowered to do their business in a better way.

    We have also identified such women in Lokoja but we have not given them boats, but it is in the pipeline. We also identified some kids with River blindness and collaborated with the Lion Club to take care of them. We also sponsor female Cadet Officers at the Maritime Academy in Oron who are outstanding. We identify the best and sponsor them through their course and when they graduate we place them on jobs in their areas of specialisation.

    What are some of the challenges?

    Funding. WISTA Nigeria is big in size and it is tough supporting the chapters. When we started, we were just 15 members, now we are over 300. Training is a big project for us because it is not enough to get the best and just put them in positions without proper information. For us, leadership skills are very important and we reach out to one another to ensure that every one is carried along. Our members are strong and taking over leadership positions.

    Is the motive basically to take over from the men?

    It is an international body that was established in 1972 where three friends met in Lloyds over tea. These women were ship owners and they thought that few women owned ships and it would be better to encourage women to own their own. It is principally to encourage women to come into the industry. For us, it is not a competition to overthrow the men but to complement their efforts. They also support and complement us. They give us ideas on how to drive the association forward and they do not see us as threats.

    Can you tell us about Nigerian women who are owners of ships?

    We have Uju Ifejika who owns Britanic-U and she is happily a WISTA elder. There is also Ify Nwakwesi of Finemark, Nnena Anigbo of Riman Shipping and Mrs. Margaret Orakwusi. These women have been encouraging us to own our own ships.

    How do you handle corruption in this sector?

    We have not been as badly soiled as those in the political arena. We have not really had any big issue but what is relevant for the industry is for the federal government to improve the facilities. If the government appreciates it to be such, they would make the rail tracks better. It would speed the rate of cargo and you can imagine the boom. In the era of the colonial masters, they built dockyards in every port. Now the dockyards are old and not functional. In the whole country there is only one private dockyard in Port Harcourt and there is a new one that NIMASA is trying to build. NIMASA is really trying and we have had patrol ships to ensure safety in our waters.

    There are a number of issues that need to be brought to the attention of the federal government, just in case they do not know. In addition, I think things are better when professionals are put in charge because such persons would appreciate the challenges. But where we do not have the ideal people in charge there would be setbacks.

     

  • Women get free cancer screening

    Women get free cancer screening

    For two consecutive Fridays in the month of January, over 200 women from Surulere Local Government and its environs gathered at the Optimal Cancer Care Foundation, Bode Thomas Surulere for a free breast and cervical cancer screening exercise. The exercise was organised and sponsored by the Surulere Patriotic Association (PAS), a non-governmental foundation dedicated to meaningful and social development in Surulere Local Government.

    The exercise started with a lecture session where Dr Femi Olaleye, the Medical Director of the Optimal Cancer Care Foundation, took time to educate participants on how cancer could be easily prevented through regular screening to drive caution and prevention. Dr Olaleye said the centre has screened about 10, 000 women in the last one year with 10 percent of the women testing positive to cervical cancer. He, however, added that managing cancer is lot easier when detected early and therefore advised women to invest in their health by attending regular screenings so that they won’t be caught off guard. “Parents should also bring their teenage daughters for cervical cancer screening since any woman who is sexually active is at the risk of getting the Human Papilloma Virus which is present at the genitalia of most men. Those who have reached menopause are not also exempted until they are 65 years old,” he stressed further.

    Mrs Ronke Balogun, a supervisor for women affairs and poverty alleviation in Itire-Ikate LCDA, who participated in the exercise, described it as a good experience and an ample opportunity for grassroots women to be educated since some still believe cancer is caused by juju. Although she confessed to doing her screening for the first time, she admonishes women to invest more in their health not just on Aso ebi only.

    Mr Fuad Laguda, a trustee member of PAS who monitored the exercise on both occasions, pledged continuous support for health and empowerment activities not just for women alone but men and youths in Surulere.

    To add glamour to the event, Ms. Tolu Bewaji of the Ojuelewa Institute led her team to offer free make-over sessions for women who attended the screening.

    Thirty cases of cervical cancer, five casese of breast lumps were discovered during the screening. The secretary of the association, Mr. Megbon Martins said efforts are on the way to reach the ministry of health for medical assistance on these cases.

  • Solutions to real life relationship issues

    Solutions to real life relationship issues

    Thought for the week

    What is the definition of a Typical Nigeria Woman?

     

    She is a daughter, a sister, a wife and a mother. She is the chief-executive-officer of a home. She is the glue that glues her children and her husband together; she is the glue that glues her family together. She is a role model, she is a superwoman. A superwoman, Huh? She is the one that stays in a loveless marriage, because of her children she is so afraid that if she leaves her husband emotional and sometimes physical abuse, she might not be able to survive on her own with her children. She is the superwoman that irrespective of all her husband’s infidelities, she looks the other way, but slowly and silently, her heartaches, her body longs. She is the one that is so trained by the unconcerned, unfeeling attitude of her spouse when it comes to infidelity, if she sees her husband ON another woman, she feels nothings! Nothing? Yes! The years of lies, unfaithfulness, uncaring attitude rained on her by her supposedly better half had “killed” what little passion she had in her. In spite of all, she stays in it years after years, her only consolation, the success of her children. This write up is dedicated to Abolaji, and all other women like her. I need responses to this thought! Follow me on twitter at www.askprincessnow.com or 08155558750

     

    QUESTION

    Dear Princess:

    I am 65year old, been married to my dear wife for the last 40years. Yes, just like any husband and wife, we have our differences, but the bond between me and my wife is so strong and unusual that even you will wonder at the story am about to tell you. Like I said got married to her about 40years ago, I was a carpenter, and she a food seller. One day at work, trying to carry some plywood, my back gave out and I could not stand up. At the time, things were tough; I did not recover from my injury. It affected my sexual ability for a while for about 2years I could not return to work, so my wife had to fend for the family, which included her, myself and our two children. We were lucky; she found a job in a hotel nearby. One day, she came home that the proprietor had made an advance towards her, that he is threatening to fire her if she continued to refuse him. All night, I was bothered, in the morning; I called her and sat her down. I told her I have thought about what she told me last night, am not happy with what am about to tell her, but I think its what will save us from not dying of starvation because both of us cannot be jobless, who would we run to. So, I told her to carry on with the affair. Princess, sometimes she will not come home at all, sometimes 2a.m. I never at one time complained. Almost all the time, if not always she would come home with about ₦2,000daily, aside from her salary. We started living a better life. I even went as far as to meet her boss,. Sometimes he would buy me beer and tell my wife to make sure I eat something delicious before leaving the restaurant. Months turned into years. The second year of her working in the hotel, and almost 18months of starting the affair, she got pregnant. Yes, as her husband, I was making love to her too and she never once refused me. So, she was confused as to the paternity of the pregnancy. She gave birth to a girl, we already had 2 girls. God as gracious as He his, the girl looked just like her mother, we could not tell if she is mine or her man friend. Well, I felt bad, because I was the one that encouraged her to go ahead with the affair. I told her we will continue our family as if there’s no outside interference. Two years after, she gave birth to another child, a boy. Again, we could not really tell who he looks like. To cut the long story short. She still works at the restaurant at another location which I think the man built purposely for her, because she solely manages it. The man is now aged almost 80years old. My question to you Princess is, should I do a DNA to really know which one of us fathered my last two children so that I don’t cheat them out of their heritance from their real father or I should just keep quiet and we continue our lives the way it is?. Bamdele, Isolo.

    Answer

    Dear Bamidele,

    Whao, what a story. Not too many men will be brave or strong enough to do what you have done or to endure what you endured. But I will say, if it ain’t broken, please, please, please; do not try to fix it. You said it, you and your wife had an “understanding” that you will live your lives as if there is no outside interference. You are raising the four children as yours and the man friend has not requested to know if he is the children, father. Imagine after so many years, if you now do the DNA and it shows that the man fathered your last two children, how do you want them to feel, how do you want your wife to feel. The other man in the picture, how would he now explain to his own family that he had fathered two other children? Listen, I am not condoning what you and your wife did in other to “survive” and am not here to judge you either. You did what you think was best for your family at the time. My advice is to let the “sleeping dog lay”, do not rock any boat! On a lighter note, since you said the man purposely built another hotel for your wife to manage, he might eventually live it for her. I wish you all best.

     

    Thought of the week

    “The poor man the rich man do not play together”!

  • Exploring a great connection

    “It is so good, loving somebody and somebody loving you back.” The sweet echoes from the lyrics of Teddy Pendergrass’ great old song admonishes that love is better when the emotional scale is balanced. This week, you could feel the love thing in the atmosphere and love, the architect of people’s emotional fortune (or misfortune), has been set loose.

    Yet, you find that there are number of people who still can’t drink from the river of love. They actually get to an emotional stream and identify someone they think matches their dreams. But beyond these connections, their dreams just refuse to fly and it almost impossible to take what would have been an amazing connection to the next level.

    Perhaps they aren’t passionate about what they want? Not really! Sometimes they may even have the passion running all over their veins and still not get connected emotionally. To get the right connections usually require getting the right heart, a heart that is also willing to explore the possibilities that they share in common. Once this is established, then it would be easy to cruise on love’s control towers and not crash midway.

    For Shade, love has not really been fair. As you take a peep into the emotional encounters the pretty lady has been subjected to, you cannot help but cry a little. It has been tales of hit-and-run lovers, emotional fraudsters and a collection of pretenders to her emotional throne. Her heart has, indeed, seen better days, but, somehow, she still needs to pick the emotional pieces, hoping to find real love again.

    It got so bad and now her memory is fading. Now, what’s going to happen now that she has discovered an amazing, single, attractive man; someone who wants to get close to her? But, somehow, she is still not so sure of what to expect. The question on her mind is whether this new man is going to see her as the woman to love and cherish or someone that should be used and dumped.

    For anyone in Shade’s shoes, it is important to look back on your love life to avoid the shortcomings you had in the past. You need to be sure that you do not have a hand in creating some of the heartbreak you’ve experienced. Once this has been established, then you can romantically move on to the next phase of your love life.

    The emotional current started fading out some months back and she knew at that point that they had actually come to the end of the road. “I just noticed that he had changed towards me and everything I said or did make him angry. Even when I kept quiet, he would make up a story and would read meanings to any response I offered. He didn’t use to behave this way and I knew that somebody somewhere had stolen his heart. I just had to let go because it became traumatic trying to win a heart that had changed from love to deep hatred.”

    A quick diagnosis of this emotional ailment, and you find that they were not operating on the same love frequency and channel. The girl tuned off thinking she had captured her Mr. Right when he needed her most. Not satisfied with the miserly emotions doled out, he looked elsewhere and found exactly what he had been looking for. By the time the gal realised that another bird had filled the vacuum, it was already too late.

    Like Shade, Kenneth has come to the realisation that love, like life, isn’t constant. Sometimes, you win some and there are times when there is really nothing you can do about it. When you get to an emotional crossroads, then you just have to be brave and move on. It may actually be an opportunity to find someone who is more precious than the heart you are crying all over the place for.

    While it is possible to win a particular heart for a lifetime, some hearts are quite restless, energetic and very adventurous. Just when you think you have found what you are looking for or dreaming about, it zooms off like a butterfly looking for another beautiful flower to perch on.

    So, it is therefore common to find lovers lost on the emotional island. Unfortunately, you cannot fly alone. What about a by-hook-or-crook way out of the emotional woods? Oh no! It is impossible to move at your pace; on the love path you can only fly with someone who is willing to fly. If the one you love has other ‘interests’, then you may just let this lovebird be.

    The scenario can also be compared to walking on a broken bridge; here crossing over to the other side can be a real torment if you are lucky. But if you are not, then you can be sure that one of the lovebirds or both of them would fall off.

  • Dazzle bridal train  hairdo

    Dazzle bridal train hairdo

    The wedding hairstyle is as important as the wedding dress, suit and the other accessories. Yetunde Oladeinde looks at ways the bride can be creative when it comes to hair options on the D-day.

    Looking fabulous comes with understanding your best features and making the best choice. To enhance your looks on this special day your choice of a great hairstyle can make you dazzle throughout the day.

    Braids look great on women but again it depends on the time you have because extensions are quite difficult to make as it takes huge time to prepare. Alternatively you can make use of individual braids like French twist them which can be fixed with lots of pins to keep the style. Once the hair is in place, a hair gel or spray will fix things up.

    Women who press or straighten their hair can have an up-do ranging from French twists to half-up-do or high buns. When you are creating a hairstyle for your wedding day, you will want to keep the original shape throughout the day, so using bobby pins and hairsprays may help in fixing the problem.

    One thing to be kept in mind while making the wedding hairstyles is that the gel should be placed around the hairline to smooth hairs. For those who have wavy to curly hairs, which can be dealt with straightening and up-do.

    However if your preference is for natural curls then you make use of weaveons in this category and it would add extra mystery to her image. Curly hairs are also good for up-dos. A classic up-do style is magnificent as it opens up the neck.

    One of the simplest wedding hair styles you can make use of is to brush the hair behind to create ponytail, twist it and secure it to be pinned to the head, allowing the top section to fall freely over the pins.

     

  • Small details that  have to be just right

    Small details that have to be just right

    This year lots of designers have a preference for coral, turquoise, peach, gray and navy blue, all of which can be mixed with a variety of secondary colors to create a beautiful effect.

    Apart from using this for the outfits, décor and accessories for you and your bridal train, you can also make use of it for the wedding invitations because they are one of the small details that have to be just right in order to make your big day perfect.

    Interestingly, the card will be the only contact they have with you before the event and it actually creates that big first impression about who you really are.

    A classic that never fades is lace, damask and pearls, which will actually one of the hottest wedding invitations in the year 2014.Also the floral wedding invitations have always been hot but this year they’ll be even bigger and brighter.

    Alternatively, you can opt for stripes and nautical theme which are mature and creative. You can also go for designs with small palette or a frame decorated in sequins for that

  • Gift of Passion

    Gift of Passion

    It is indeed a time to show those you adore and cherish that you appreciate them with a gift or gifts. The starting point for many is the valentine’s card and there are a number of designer options available. So, you can give the romantic touch a personal flavour with the card of your choice. This will definitely be a romantic gift for him and it would be able to express your emotions on the card. You can also go a step further and have your creative ideas while decorating the card. Alternatively, you can send a creative SMS or email to tell your love story in style.

    To make this year’s celebration memorable, you need to give the one you adore a special gift. It must be something to impress your lover and something he or she would want to keep as a souvenir. The best to express your feelings can be seen in the quality gift that you are sending across. It is, therefore, important to keep one thing in your mind always: buy a quality product for your loved one. Don’t buy a cheap gift for the sake of saving money because this gift is very special.

    So, what can you really give? “The best gift that me fiance can give me is to travel out of the country or go to a resort for two or three days. Here, we would be away together and reignite the passion that we share together. This is a rare gift and you can be sure that you are the apple of his eyes. The other material gifts are good but none of them falls in the category of a memorable valentine for me,” says Stephanie Akanni.

    On her part, twenty-five-year-old Ibukun wants an engagement ring from her fiance. “We have been dating for about a year and half and I think that if he really loves me, then asking me to be his wife is a dream come true. However, I have placed order for two pair of shoes because he loves to wear great shoes. I am sure that he is going to like them when he sees them.”

    If you know what your partner likes or dislikes, then you don’t have to face any difficulty choosing the right gift. You can also give handmade gifts or you buy them from supermarkets or online shops, but the choice is all yours. Chocolate, flowers, perfumes, clothes, shoes, bags and other accessories can be a delight. However, it must be something your partner needs. It is better to give a gift that your love really needs.

    If your sweetheart has some definite hobby, then your problem is solved. You give priority to his or her hobby in the case of a valentine gift. If his hobby is playing the guitar, then you can give him a good piece of guitar. If you are dating someone who likes wristwatches, then you can go for a great design to show your affection. Or if it is someone who has a passion for mobile phones, then you can buy a trendy phone. In addition, you can also add one of the nicest pictures of you and your partner and frame it as a gift for him.

  • Celebrities  speak on most  memorable  Valentine

    Celebrities speak on most memorable Valentine

    Love can be expressed in different ways and many are looking for ways to make this year’s Valentine Day as memorable as possible. Naturally, the most timeless and most treasured will continue to be a reference point for those who are romantic. So, what are some vivid examples of romantic moments and how can you inspire such? The Nation on Sunday spoke with some Nigerian celebrities and happily they recollected some of the most memorable Valentine Days they ever experienced.

    Azeezat Allen – Musician

    My most memorable Valentine Day was in year 2000. I spent the whole day promoting my first single called Lonely World. I was billed to perform at a Val gig that night tagged Table for 2. When I got to the venue with my manager, I had to excuse myself to the bathroom to change. When I came back and sat across the table from him, everything just changed. From then on, we ceased to be just artiste/ manager. I just noticed that he was looking at me electrically differently.

    Kanu Nwankwo – Ex-Super Eagles striker

    At Kanu Heart Foundation, Valentine Day is always important to us because it is a time to show love and share. Every year, we use the opportunity of Valentine to preach the apostle of giving and this year will not be different. I can’t say there was one valentine that was memorable because all of them were. It is also special in my family and I am looking forward to being with my family that day.

    Mista Chivagu – Hip hop artiste

    I was named Valentine because I was baptised on that day. But my memorable Valentine Day was in 2010 when I spent the day in a Motherless Babies’ home. It had a lot of effect on me because it made me to appreciate life more.

    Bunmi Davies – Entertainment entrepreneur

    That would date years back. Interestingly, I must say that before this experience, I wasn’t really into this valentine thing. Then I started dating a certain girl, who insisted that I must celebrate valentine with her. Thank God I’m married to the girl now. I took her out to Double Four Restaurant on Awolowo Road, Ikoyi, gave her a treat and then I took her back home and I also went home. She had actually been with me all morning until we went out. I can’t remember the gifts we exchanged now, although I’m sure we did exchange gifts.

    We retired back to my flat to enjoy the rest of the day and that makes it really memorable for me, because I hadn’t really done anything near that of February 14 before. Now, I must try to make my day light, so that I’m just with her for a good part of the day. I met her in 1998; we started dating officially in 2000, although in my mind, I was already dating her.

    Waidi Akanni – ex-International and former Lagos State Football Association Chairman

    My family is abroad and I am here but Valentine Day is very special in the family. I speak with them and wish them lovely wishes. Valentine is the day we share good tidings with family and friends and I think it is a special day. This year I do not have any special thing that I will be doing on that day.

    Ann Jay – artiste

    For me, Valentine Day is a season to show love to others; a time to celebrate one another as well as remember the less-privileged ones. My last Val was cool and I enjoyed myself. I was at a Valentine show organised by Toptea somewhere in GRA Lagos. It was quite memorable and there I met and interacted with Jimmy Jatt and Wizkid. In addition, I bought items like clothes and perfumes for the less-privileged. It was my own way of touching their lives.

    Bukola Fasuyi – Actress and Director, Lady of Africa Foundation

    I believe that the season of valentine is for reaching out to others and not just an opportunity to drag someone to a restaurant and all that. This year, I want to show love to the hopeless and give them a sense of belonging. The most memorable Valentine Day I ever experienced happened last year and it was spent at the General Hospital by the bedside of an old woman who just had a skin graft surgery. She was really motivated seeing me by her side and giving her support.

     

     

     

  • Paint the aisle in  red

    Paint the aisle in red

    Red, certainly, is the colour of love. Lovers and brides-to-be are having a great countdown and trying to make this year’s Valentine Day as memorable as possible. Yetunde Oladeinde looks at the options available for brides this valentine season.

    It is a season to love and be loved. Interestingly, a number of our designers have trendy pieces in their collection for brides who want to stand out this season. “I am getting married on Valentine’s Day somewhere in Lekki. I will be wearing white with a touch of red, while the train will turn out in bright red to set a glamorous tone for the event,” declares 27-year-old Anthonia.

    She adds that “it is an exclusive arrangement for only a hundred guests. My man and I want something that won’t be stressful to make it a wonderful experience. One of the major decisions I had to make was picking a shade of red to match with my total outlook. Once