Category: Weekend Treat

  • How to prevent common childhood accidents (1)

    KEEP your little one safe by knowing what hazards and accidents to look out for and the baby proofing measures you can take to make your baby’s environment safer

    When you have a small person running – or crawling – round the house, it opens up the possibility of a range of accidents. Of course, it’s something that’s hard to avoid when you have a curious toddler desperate to explore the world, but you can take steps to prevent accidents and be prepared if something happens. But what should you look out for?

    Where do accidents happen?

    The largest number of accidents happen in the living or dining room, but the most serious accidents happen in the kitchen and on the stairs. ‘Every year more than 67,000 children experience an accident in the kitchen and 43,000 of these are aged under four,’ says Sheila Merrill, public health adviser at the Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents (RoSPA).

    Who’s most at risk?

    Children under the age of four years old have the most accidents at home and boys are more likely to have accidents than girls. Older children are more likely to sustain fractures than younger counterparts. Younger children have a higher percentage of burns and scalds as well as poisoning and ingestion accidents.

    Why do children have accidents?

    Often, children are absorbed in their own immediate interests and can be oblivious to their surroundings. ‘They only have a limited perception of the environment because of their lack of experience or development,’ says Sheila. ‘They are not aware of the consequences of the many new situations that they encounter. Plus, being small, inquisitive and having a tendency to show off or over-reach their abilities can mean they’re more likely to put themselves at risk.’

    Falls

    Falls are by far the most common causes of accidents in the home and account for 44 per cent of all children’s accidents. ‘Most falls involve tripping over on the same level but the most serious consequences result from falls between two levels, such as falling out of a pram or highchair or falling from a bed or down the stairs,’ says Sheila.

    Make sure you fit a safety gate at the top and bottom of stairs and ensure any damaged or worn carpet is repaired or removed to avoid tripping hazards. Likewise, don’t leave items on the stairs as they could be stepped on, resulting in a fall for anyone. ‘To avoid dangers near open windows, avoid putting anything under the windowsill that can provide a step up for children,’ says Sheila.

    Scalds and burns

    Hot drinks cause most scalds to children under the age of five. ‘A child’s skin is much more sensitive than an adult’s and a hot drink can still scald a child 15 minutes after being made,’ says Sheila. ‘Never hold a hot drink and a child at the same time and put hot drinks out of reach and away from the edges of tables and worktops.’

    “A hot drink can still scald a child 15 minutes after being made”

    Hot bath water is responsible for the highest number of fatal and severe scalding injuries among young children, so when running a bath, turn the cold water on first and always test the water temperature with your elbow before letting a child get into the bath or shower.

    • Continued next week
    • Source: https://www.motherandbaby.co.uk
  • Celebs with peculiar bends to their birthdays

    Everyone has a birth day. But for some twice-lucky people, their birthdays fall on days set aside for public holiday, religious festivals or days that coincide with significant events in their lives.

    Below are some celebrities whose birthdays fall on special days or have extra significant issues that make their birthdays memorable.

    Dapo Abiodun

    Governor Dapo Abiodun, the executive governor of Ogun State, is a major player in the oil and gas sector. He was born on May 29, 1960. Incidentally, he won the governorship election of Ogun State in the recently concluded general election and was sworn-in as the fifth executive governor of the state on May 29 like his elected counterparts in other states.

    Olu Falae

    The abduction of former Secretary to the Federal Government (SFG) and former presidential candidate of the defunct Action Congress (AC) by herdsmen on September 21, 2015, by a twist of fate, coincided with his 77th birthday. The elder statesman was born on September 21, 2015.

    Chioma Ajunwa

    Chioma Ajunwa is better known as the first black African woman to win an Olympic gold medal in a field event than for her day job as a senior officer in the Nigeria Police Force. Ajunwa, an assistant commissioner of police, was born on Christmas Day, Dec 25.

    David Oyelowo

    British-Nigerian actor, David Oyelowo, marks his birthday on April 1, the day set aside worldwide for great fun, where people make a fool of one another. Oyelowo, also a director, producer, and screenwriter was born in Oxford, the United Kingdom.

    Theophilus Adeleke Akinyele

    Many people would wonder whether Chief Theophilus Adeleke Akinyele, a former Director of Budget and Special Adviser on Budget Affairs to President Shehu Shagari between 1979 and 1983, only celebrates his birthday once in every four years. Reason? He was born on February 29, 1932; a day that only comes up on the calendar once in every four years.

    Agbani Darego

    Born on December 22, 1982, in Abonema, Rivers, Darego is one of Nigeria’s most famous beauty queens and models. She became popular after winning the Miss World crown. She was the first African to win the pageant. Her birthday falls on a Judaism festival call the Chanukah.

    Sophie Okonedo

    Sophie, an English film, theatre and television actress, was born on New Year’s Day, January 1, 1969, in London to a British mother and a Nigerian father- who we heard left the family when Sophie was still quite young. In 2004, Sophie Okonedo was nominated for an Oscar – in the category “Best Supporting Actress” – for her role as Tatiana in the movie “Hotel Rwanda.”

    Damishi Sango

    Damishi Sango was born on New Year’s Day, January 1, 1950 in Ganawuri, in Riyom Local Government Area of Plateau State. He was appointed Nigerian Minister of Sports in the first cabinet of President Olusegun Obasanjo, holding office between June 1999 and January 2001.

    Abdullahi Ibrahim Gobir

    Dr Ibrahim Abdullahi Gobir, born January 1, 1953 is a Nigerian politician who was elected Senator for Sokoto East, in Sokoto State, in the 9 April 2011 elections. He is a chartered engineer and a Fellow of the Institute of Electrical Engineers (UK) and of the Nigerian Society of Engineers

    Ahmed Muhammad Maccido

    Like David Oyelowo, Ahmed Muhammad Maccido, a former senator for Sokoto North constituency of Sokoto State, was born on April 1.

    Ehinomen Ehikhamenor

    Ehinomen Ehikhamenor, was born on April 1, 1980 in Benin City. He is a professional boxer from Nigeria who presently resides in Los Angeles, CA, who fights in the cruiserweight division. He fought 19 matches, won ‎15 and lost 4. Dr SID

    Popular Nigerian singer and song writer, Sidney Onoriode Esiri, popularly known as Dr Sid was born on International Workers’ Day, better known as May Day.

    Hakeem Kae-Kazim

    Hakeem Kae-Kazim, a British-Nigerian actor, Hakeem, is best known for his work in the Starz television series Black Sails and his portrayal of Georges Rutaganda in the 2004 drama film Hotel Rwanda. He was born in Lagos on October 1, Nigeria’s Independence Day.

    Bartholomew Ogbeche

    A Nigerian professional footballer who plays as a forward for Indian club Kerala Blasters FC, Ogbeche was born on October 1, Nigeria’s Independence Day.

    Bright Chimeze

    Chimezie, a hit-maker in his heyday, is the exponent of a music style which became known as Zigima Sound-a genre which became popular in the Eastern part of Nigeria in the early 1980s. He was born on Independence Day, October 1

    Emmanuel Amuneke

    Amuneke is a Nigerian football coach and former player. He represented Nigeria at the 1994 World Cup. He was born on Christmas Day, December 25.

    Ogenyi Onazi

    Ogenyi Eddy Onazi, born on Christmas Day, 25 December 1992, is a Nigerian footballer who plays as a central midfielder for Turkish club Trabzonspor and the Nigeria national football team.

  • Prostitution: The pains, the gains

    Who is a prostitute? It is a difficult question to answer. Who determines who a prostitute is? Is it the lady who stands on the street or a young girl out for a fling?

    Many women are believed to be prostitutes, whether they acknowledge it or not; or how do you explain making unreasonable demands on a guy because you are having an affair with him, says Amaka, a 24-year-old, who claimed to have been a prostitute for close to four years. Many women, single and even married with children from supposedly settled homes, usually sneak out to merely see the town.

    The debasement of womanhood has continued in the society with prostitution taking alarming proportions. Prostitution has now entered into different homes, offices and worse still educational and religious institutions. Considering the humiliation and pains involved, one wonders why it has continued to grow in our society. Very recently, I had a chat with this friend of mine in the course of doing this story. Read on:

    How did you get here?

    How do you mean?

    I mean in this skimpy dress. I think you are showing too much of your flesh. Don’t you think people might take you for a prostitute?

    So, what if I am a prostitute? Does that concern anybody? Is anybody feeding me?

    Well, I do not regard you as one; you are simply my friend.

    That is not, you know I am one of them and how can we be friends when we barely know each other? You cannot fool me with that statement. That is another lie that most of you telling. You give the bad names to only a particular group of women. If you are not a prostitute yourself, you wouldn’t be out at this time of the day.

    I am happily married with kids. I have a good job as a journalist. Why would I want to prostitute?

    If you are truly married, why are you here chatting with me? Is your husband aware you are here?

    My husband knows the nature of my job and most importantly we trust each other.

    You see what I mean?  Who is hiding now? Who is the prostitute and who is not.

    Like I earlier said, I am a journalist, and I am only trying to see the city life at night.

    Okay now, so you mean journalist do not sleep around?

    I have not said so, but there are no facts that journalists sleep around. We journalists work with facts and most times. Depending on the assignments given to us, we work under cover.

    Facts my ass! You journalists only work with the things you manage to see; and what you see is not always the fact because everybody, including the mad man on the street, tries to cover something from everyone else.

    So you are covering something?

    This conversation is over; I have fishes to catch!

    My friend, wait now.

    Look, Mrs Journalist, I hate people who pretend. If you don’t agree that most women are prostitutes like me, you are insulting my intelligence and making me feel dirty and I don’t have anything else to say to you (she walks away).

    Many of the girls approached for chats refused to be bothered with an issue some of them described as useless talk.

    Reasons adduced by other girls for going into prostitution as a means of livelihood were similar. They centred on poverty at home, high handedness by their parents or guardians, among others.

    None of them, however, mentioned the chance that personal waywardness or the attraction to glamour and fast life could possibly have led them to that profession. One of the ladies who called herself Pinky informed The Nation how she got into the business at 17. She hails from the eastern part of the country and has the features of a beauty queen.

    Already at such a tender age, Pinky has silently been carrying the scar of abuse in her story. She said she was introduced into the profession by her friends and she had been having sex since she was nine. Enticement with money by men far above her age played a big role in wetting her appetite for men and eroding her fears of parental reprimands. Before her parents found out and tried to rehabilitate her, ‘I was already far gone into the trade, but I never knew it would end up in full time prostitute,’ she said.  Another friend, Uche, who spoke about the trade said many of the prostitutes came from diverse backgrounds, cutting across the rich and poor cadres of the society.

    Many more are known to be undergraduates, even graduates of some well-known academic institutions. A particular alarming dimension that prostitution has taken is the increasing population of the girls currently adopting the trade. These days, it costs much less to have a lady. For a whole night, which is known as ’till day break’ or ‘TDB,’ you could pay as little as between N500 and N1000.

    The campaign against unprotected sex and HIV / AIDS has no doubt affected the flow of business and the worst hits are the prostitutes of older age. The exploits of prostitutes and their exploitation by people are boundless. Due to poverty and neglect, many of them often end up in avoidable circumstances.

    Becky, another friend, complained bitterly about her life as a prostitute. At pregnancies thrice, though she insists on the use of condoms by her clients, they usually ignore her requests. To keep going, her older friends have introduced her to various pregnancy prevention methods using highly restricted drugs.

    Now, Becky is undergoing the side effects. She confessed to nursing the fear of damaging her womb as a result of the use of these drugs.

    Angela, 24, who has been in the trade for over six years, said, ‘most widely held notions about prostitution and those practising it are untrue. Some of the girls you see could only have recently joined the trade to raise some money, quit and start a decent business’. Due to the situation in the society itself, the predominant notion that prostitution is a trade involving only women giving their bodies to men for sex in exchange for money has become subjective. Many believe that young men are competing with them in the business. These men are usually well dressed and often go out like their female counterparts to wait for rich, high class society ladies who come around to pick them for night outs. Majority of them end up passing the night with such women.

    Comment

    What is instructive is that most girls who find themselves in the indignity of prostitution are helplessly stuck, while the economy which is cited by most of the girls spoken to does not appear to be heading for improvement. Besides, the aspersions that prostitution casts on motherhood and if the problem has assumed such a dimension where men are now ready to look for fortunes from the bosoms of women twice the ages.

    Wherein lies our dignity?

  • 16 faults destroying relationships (1)

    Staying in a relationship is a decision that you make for so many reasons. Love is a choice we make, we need to realize that no one is perfect, so in relationships you “choose to love irrespective of faults and also choose to stay if you feel or believe you can tolerate the faults”. Sometimes people ask me what are the reasons or things that break relationships/marriages.

    Truth is a bitter pill to swallow, but it has to be said not to criticize the negative aspects only, but to open our consciousness to actions and attitudes that expose us to not only heart break, but destroying the things we love and those we love.

    There are so many reasons relationships fall apart, quite a number of people, even myself at a time, attributed breaks in relationships to money, sex, pride, lying and cheating. Of course, this is true, but, in my experience with hundreds of relationships for over two decades, I had an opportunity to share, listen and learn with close study of some “irrelevant” reasons that lead to separation, divorce, lack of romance and loss of interest in relationships. The word irrelevance is relative because what may seem relevant to one person may be irrelevant to another. Basically, what I am trying to bring out in the open here is “small things count”.

    Quite a number of bad attitude which we over look, lead to a steady or sometimes fast decline in a relationship. Romance isn’t a bed of roses or set of pearl earrings you get on your anniversary only, it takes hard work and conscious efforts to make things work

    Today we will analyze these problems and possible action plan we can apply to help achieve a better understanding between couples.

    1. Physically fighting or arguing in public

    This is definitely not a good idea for anyone to try as an individual, not to even mention someone you call your partner. Anyone with some self-respect should not even try this at all. You end up disgracing yourself not just your partner only. You will make everyone feel uncomfortable and awkward around you. Some couples derive pleasure in screaming at their partner, or even hitting in public. Very wrong and should not be seen as normal or accepted by any standard.

    ACTION PLAN: Talk it out in private. There is a solution to every problem in life, if it’s not working, or you are having difficulty tolerating each other, better to walk away and let everyone have peace. If you feel there is still a chance, then seek  counsel to settle your differences. Communication in a mature manner is key. Keep your tempers in check, take a deep breath and start the conversation in low tones. Fighting, arguing and tearing each other’s clothes in public can never be a solution. It causes more harm than good. Get help, if this is your habit.

    1. Constant criticism of your partner’s family

    Since we all know that no human being on earth is perfect, don’t you think you can cut your in-laws or in-laws to be some slack? Your partner had no part in making a decision as to which family would bring them into this world. Of course, we get to meet some family members that are truly difficult to please. But constant words like “why is your elder sister behaving like she has no home training?” or “your father is so weird” will only worsen the situation and put them on the defensive. This puts your partner in a difficult situation having to always defend them and take sides either with you or their family, and when they take sides with their family, this will hurt you and make you resentful.

    ACTION PLAN: If you know what you are going to say is not nice and will hurt someone, don’t say it at all This goes especially to people who do not have the ability to practise diplomacy. It is not bad to voice your displeasure, if you are not getting the respect you deserve, but choose your words with wisdom, get an ally in your partner’s family who can help you understand how they think and function.

    Even if there’s some clashing of heads, don’t focus on the family’s faults. Getting criticism from family members can make your partner feel sad and defensive which not only makes everyone uncomfortable, but can turn family events into a showdown.

    1. The “see –finish” attitude

    People who have been in a relationship for years or married for years, often do this.

    I have been there too!! Being together for so many years sometimes makes you very comfortable, making you think you know all that there is and maybe more. Remember when you started dating him or her? How exciting it was at first? Get to know what they like, their best food, best colour, best hair-do, best football team, best movie actor or actress. We were all at that stage at some point. But after a while, the “see finish” spirit comes in and booms. You feel, “I know all there is to know.” There can’t be any more. Well, the thing is people change and this change comes for so many reasons, change in economy, change in financial capacity, accident, loss of a loved one and so on. Many variables can affect one’s behaviour and can lead to laxity or taking your partner for granted. You first of all start this bad habit by stopping the most important thing which is asking your partner questions and learning about them. The issue is when you stop asking these questions, you start losing interest and silence takes over.

    ACTION PLAN: To stay happy in a relationship, partners need to talk to each other every single day, and I mean every single day, regular phone calls, while at work, text messages, what’s app messages, video call, just communicate, even if it is for five minutes. You need to find time to talk. The issues of life are so much and can be overwhelming. Any relationship without a means of communication is a dead one. Don’t know what to talk about? Start with what you read on the news, the movie you would love to watch, football match, the home is also a good topic, children, colleagues at work or challenges at work, if there is any. The benefit of making an effort to ask questions helps you to know and understand your partner more just as if you started dating today. It helps keep the “fire” burning and gives better insights as to what they like and don’t like.

    1. Thinking your partner will change

    Most times, couples do everything possible to change their partner’s behaviour and way of life knowing fully well the character of their partner from the very beginning. There is no such thing as a perfect human being, which is why if you have an attitude of always reminding your partner about their shortcomings regularly. This is not an ideal way to get them to change. Of course, you can remind them about putting of the bathroom light, or dropping the toilet seat or placing the toothbrush upright. But trying to get them to stop snoring after five years of marriage? Well, your guess is as good as mine. It is a cross you must bear and bear with love.

    ACTION PLAN: Accept the fact that they are not perfect, the same way you are not perfect. Causing anxiety for them will make them want to defend their position and stop them from making effort to change. Don’t coerce or manipulate your partner. Change is a constant thing in life, but sometimes doesn’t happen overnight. You win some you lose some. Don’t beat up yourself about it, take life easy.

    1. PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION

    I am a great supporter of showing love and affection, but please spare people around you the discomfort of watching you getting it on in public. Our culture is opening up to people getting more expressive, but it is disrespectful when you go all out to get it on in full view, without considering the feelings of others. Some people may also embarrass you while you’re at it. Try and maintain some decency.

    ACTION PLAN: First of all, be sure your partner is open to such an act. There’s nothing worse than attempting this and getting the cold shoulder. Stick to hand holding, maybe even quick kisses (not loud slurps please) save the extras for your bedroom.  It gives people the impression you have no control and decency, and may be a pointer to real communication issues you have with your partner.

  • What has sex got to do with it?

    Back in the 40s and 50s, men and women had different views about sex. If a man liked a woman, he proposed marriage to her, if she felt the same way about him, she said “yes I do” and they got married. From what survey has shown, they stayed married, regardless of whether their sex life was good or not. Sex then was always with the man on top, no adventures, no… okay, let me leave it at that.

    These days, when a man makes passes at you, woos you and begins to date you, the first thing he wants from you is sex! Why is this so? I have heard so many readers of Feminique telling me how their men gave sex as a condition for their continued relationship. Some had even gone as far as proposing marriage, but as soon as the ladies said yes, the next thing they asked for was sex. And the men often insisted that if they were not allowed to have their way, the marriage would not take place.

    Why is this so? I mean, if this is somebody you are going to spend the rest of your life with, why the hurry? When I was in my early 20s, I had a guy who I was so much in love with. He dumped me for another lady because I refused his sexual advances. Then, I was so broken-hearted that I had wished I had said yes to him. But looking back now, I think it was selfish of him to have dumped someone he claimed he loved just because she wanted him to wait for a while. Why do men do this to us? What’s the big deal about sex? Does it have anything to do with love? Do men think women are not worth waiting for? Or do they just want to sleep with us and boast about it tomorrow?

    Women are smarter now and are refusing to be used by anybody. If we must give it to you, then you must earn it. There is more to a woman than just having sex. A woman is not a sex object and should not be seen as one. Besides, sex is not enough to keep or sustain a relationship. You can have a partner with whom your sex life is perfect. Thereafter, you might not be able to find each other compatible outside the bedroom. Then what? Sex is no doubt important in a relationship, but it should not be the centre of it all. Sex, desire and lust are like alcoholism in their power. I think it is like cocaine. When you have sex or cocaine, you are high and everything is wonderful, heightened, you are in cloud nine or is it cloud 99.

    In fact, you are in another world entirely. But afterwards, what next? People have said that the experience of sex within a loving relationship is an entirely different experience compared to casual sex. Only a fool would argue that having sex with a person you love isn’t nicer and more meaningful than sex with someone you don’t love. Doing anything with someone you love is nicer than doing it alone. The fact that sex is enhanced when you are in love doesn’t mean it is any more important or relevant to love than shopping together.

    The question is: can love between men and women exist without sex? Well, yes it can. Men and women are on the receiving end. They are bound to look for something more meaningful than size or good stamina in a partner. Surveys show that women rate a sense of humour, kindness and security far above sexual attraction. No doubt, there’s still the idea that good sexual chemistry between two people is far more important than shared interests, shared humour and shared values, even though surveys show the opposite even for men.

    Most men say the thing they value most in life is having dinner with their partners and watching television together. In other words, apart from sex, connection and companionship are what people still value in a partner. Other men, however, claim that women ask for it without necessarily saying so in so many words. They believe that when a woman visits a man at odd hours, or dresses seductively, she could be asking for it.

    In conclusion, if a person wants to leave sex out of the relationship at its early stage, such a person should be open enough to say so to his or her partner before continuing with the relationship. Both have to agree. Whether we believe it or not, there are still some young women out there who will be relieved to know that their men do not consider them mere sex objects. They will even be more relieved to know that their guys will not dump them or abscond from a relationship simply because they refuse to “get down” with them. The choice is an individual thing and should be respected. What do you think?

  • A matter of IDENTITY

    Peculiar styles that stand Wole Soyinka, Okonjo-Iweala, Bolaji Akinyemi, others out

    FASHION and fad change with the times, but smart celebs know that the best way to remain in our faces and minds is to have signature styles that would stand them out.

    From Wole Soyinka’s famed afro hair and Prof Bolaji Akinyemi’s famous neck bow-tie to Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala’s trademark headgear and Tuface Idibia’s clean shaven head, the celeb scene is full of smart celebrities who know how to use little style details to stand out and promote their personal brands.

    In spite of regular changes in fashion choices, they have remained classy, bold, fashionable and dandy.

    While the fashion industry continues to introduce us to new styles every season, the industry would not be where it is today without the help of these influential icons, who, despite changes in the fashion world, still stick to their peculiar fashion.

    It is noteworthy that the men and women who conceived these iconic styles did not have the same opportunities. So, the fact that they are all regarded as fashion icons means they must have known what they were doing by sticking to their respective styles.

    Today, we are celebrating these fashion icons who over the years have impacted positively on the fashion world.

    Wole Soyinka & Rotimi Akeredolu

    Nobel laureate Prof. Wole Soyinka and Ondo State governor Arakunrin Rotimi Akeredolu have one obvious thing in common—their perfectly groomed beard. Although they are renowned for their outstanding accomplishments in different fields, their signature beards are as familiar as their names. In addition to his standout beard, Soyinka also sports a world famous Afro that is well known from Nigeria to Nicaragua.

    Tunde Obe

    Showbiz personality, Tunde Obe, is an example of a celebrity that has created a unique style with his unique hats. Obe’s thing for hat has survived decades of fads, and his insistence on this signature look has made him distinct in the crowded music scene.

    Bolaji Akinyemi

    Nigerian professor of Political Science, Sir Bolaji Akinyemi, is one of Nigeria’s foremost intellectuals and pro-democracy icons. Although he is now less active in the events scene than he used to be, he is still a very familiar face. He is one of the young-at-heart fashion conscious men that has rocked the bow tie for many years. Some would even say he championed the re-awakening of the bow-tie as a fashion item many years ago.

    Jidenna Mobisson

    Jidenna Mobisson, a Nigerian born singer based in the US, has taken the fashion scene by pleasant storm. He sparked a new revolution in red carpet couture by styling his hair in a way that is unique. The first thing you would notice about him is his stylish parted bright hairstyle, which is as popular as his face.

    Debola Williams

    Nigerian media entrepreneur, political activist and motivational speaker, Fine-boy Debola’s red cap is as popular as himself. The Group CEO of Red co-founded and runs Red Africa, Africa’s largest portfolio of youth media brands, which include Red Media Africa, StateCraft Inc, The Future Awards Africa and YNaija.com.

    Debola’s red cap and all white combo is a brilliant branding idea that never fails to make him stand out in the crowd.

    Kemi Nelson & Okonjo Iweala

    They are both women and have occupied political offices at different times. But there is more that former Minister of Finance, Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala and former Lagos State commissioner and woman leader of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Chief (Mrs) Kemi Nelson, have in common than gender and career. The two amazons share a unique style of exquisite perch headgear that adds a trendy look to their classy styles.

    Oba Otudeko

    Nigerian businessman and chairman of the Honeywell Group, Oba Otudeko, CFR, also serves as chair of FBN Holdings. The founder of Oba Otudeko Foundation has a unique way of perching his cap. He seems incapable of stepping out or attending a social event without stylishly perching his cap.

    Ty Bello

    Many people wonder why afro hairdo never seems to go out of fashion. The fact is that it is a universal classic and has yet to go out of style. Fashionable Nigerian singer, songwriter, photographer and philanthropist, TY Bello, is a testimony to that fact.

    DJ Spinall

    Sodamola Oluseye Desmond, popular known as DJ Spinall, is a multiple award-winning disc jockey who in September 2018 signed a record deal with Atlantic Records UK. He does not step out without his trademark native cap.

    Madam Kofo

    Nigerian actress, Abiola Atanda, popularly known as Madam Kofo, cannot be mistaken in the midst of a crowd because of her signature head gear.

    Dr. Sid

    Singer, songwriter and dentist, Sidney Onoriode, widely known as Dr. Sid, has made his mark in the music industry. Sid is relatively new to the fashion fold compared to the older signature style icons, but his new dreadlocks style has come to stay.

  • 10 ways to prevent child sexual abuse (2)

    1. TELL your child that body secrets are not okay. Most perpetrators will tell the child to keep the abuse a secret. This can be done in a friendly way, such as, “I love playing with you, but if you tell anyone else what we played they won’t let me come over again.” Or it can be a threat: “This is our secret. If you tell anyone I will tell them it was your idea and you will get in big trouble!” Tell your kids that no matter what anyone tells them, body secrets are not okay and they should always tell you if someone tries to make them keep a body secret.
    2. Tell your child that no one should take pictures of their private parts.

    This one is often missed by parents. There is a whole sick world out there of pedophiles who love to take and trade pictures of naked children online. This is an epidemic and it puts your child at risk. Tell your kids that no one should ever take pictures of their private parts.

    1. Teach your child how to get out of scary or uncomfortable situations.

    Some childrena are uncomfortable with telling people “no”— especially older peers or adults. Tell them that it’s okay to tell an adult they have to leave, if something that feels wrong is happening, and help give them words to get out of uncomfortable situations. Tell your child that if someone wants to see or touch private parts they can tell them that they need to leave to go potty.

    1. Have a code word your children can use when they feel unsafe or want to be picked up.

    As children get a little bit older, you can give them a code word that they can use when they are feeling unsafe. This can be used at home, when there are guests in the house or when they are on a play date or a sleepover.

    1. Tell your children they will never be in trouble if they tell you a body secret.

    Children often tell me that they didn’t say anything because they thought they would get in trouble, too. This fear is often used by the perpetrator. Tell your child that no matter what happens, when they tell you anything about body safety or body secrets they will NEVER get in trouble.

    1. Tell your child that a body touch might tickle or feel good.

    Many parents and books talk about “good touch and bad touch,” but this can be confusing because often these touches do not hurt or feel bad. I prefer the term “secret touch,” as it is a more accurate depiction of what might happen.

    1. Tell your child that these rules apply even with people they know and even with another child.

    This is an important point to discuss with your child. When you ask a young child what a “bad guy” looks like they will most likely describe a cartoonish villain. You can say something like, “Mommy and daddy might touch your private parts when we are cleaning you or if you need cream — but no one else should touch you there. Not friends, not aunts or uncles, not teachers or coaches. Even if you like them or think they are in charge, they should still not touch your private parts.”

    I am not naïve enough to believe that these discussions will absolutely prevent sexual abuse, but knowledge is a powerful deterrent, especially with young children who are targeted due to their innocence and ignorance in this area.

    And one discussion is not enough. Find natural times to reiterate these messages, such as bath time or when they are running around naked. And please share this article with those you love and care about and help me spread the message of body safety!

  • ‘Intels owes Nigeria over $140m’

    The Managing Director of the Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA), Ms Hadiza Bala Usman, in this no-holds barred interview with Deputy Editor Olayinka Oyegbile and Ibrahim Apekhade Yusuf, speaks on her quest to turnaround the fortunes of the NPA vis-à-vis her battle with people with vested interests and the different challenges she confronts daily on the job. Imbued with the strength of character and common touch like her famous historian father and social critic the late Prof. Yusuf Bala Usman, the graduate of Ahmadu Bello University (ABU), Zaria, and University of Leeds, UK, speaks on her mission. Excerpts:

    SINCE you came on board, you have literally shaken some tables and taken some earth-shaking decisions. For instance, the Intels deal generated lot of controversy and you pulled that through. Would you want to shed more light on some of these decisions?

    Well as it relates to Intels, they were providing us with services of collecting of revenue from port operations. They were not remitting as and when due. When I came on board, we signed a supplementary agreement which required all revenues generated to be paid into the single treasury account (TSA) where all revenues generated should go. Following that agreement, Intels has been very difficult in making payments to us. They have not paid us. They owe us over $140million that they have not remitted to the TSA. So we felt that such non-compliance will not be accepted, such impunity should not be accepted and hence, we issued a notice of termination to them. We are going to advertise for a replacement company that would offer such services at a cheaper cost because Intels is charging the Nigerian government 28% for revenue collection and typically such commissions are limited to 10-15%. You hardly see where an agency is collecting 28%. So we have initiated a process of termination and we are also going to court to ensure that those monies not credited by Intels are paid back into the government coffers.

    Also, we removed a monopoly that hitherto existed where oil and gas cargo only terminate in certain ports in the Eastern Port in the region. That also stifles the industry and not allow for you to thrive as a business concern. Even if the distance between your oil platforms is closer to certain terminal, you cannot go; you have to go to Onne Port and journey because you mustn’t pick up without using those terminals. We got that approval and that is ongoing because you can see from the Egina that berthed here. If we hadn’t removed the monopoly, the Egina would not have been able to berth here. And right now, Shell Petroleum Development Company is also commencing servicing of their operations from Lagos area. And they had even detailed the submission to us which articulated the amount of revenue savings. We got that letter last year from them, indicating savings of millions of dollars, all because of the removal of the monopoly. That’s an important milestone. So introducing the TSA is one of the revenue saving measures that we have embarked upon.

    The NPA prides itself as the gateway to the nation’s economy. You have talked about the new revenue streams you have created since you came on board. Could you give us an overview of what the NPA can generate if it’s fully operational?

    (Laughs) Well, it’s difficult for us to say that because it is tied to cargoes coming to the ports. So even if Nigeria has the most improved ports, it has to be that that item is allowed for consumption in Nigeria. So one of the things that we have is the automobile tariff we put in place. So we have terminals like the RORO terminal made for vehicle. So now because of the 70 per cent cost of duty, it has dropped completely. So our revenues are really subject to what comes in or goes out of the country. For example, rice has been banned for importation. That’s a huge item that used to come in through our ports. So quite a lot of items have been classified as banned or some there are high import tariffs on them. So that automatically reduces the volumes of cargo that are coming. So it’s difficult for us to equate that because it’s inflow and outflow. We also seek to improve on our export by providing the necessary enabling environment to fast track and prioritise exportation. Some of these items are for example, solid minerals; we have noted request for exportation of kiln, it’s a volume issue so the more volume the export, the better because the cost is very cheap. So if they now pay much for port dues to export, it’s not worth their while. But that is also an item for our solid minerals exportation out of Nigeria. So in certain instances like that we look to see how we can encourage the exporter. If there is a certain mineral you want to export, once the volumes are high, we are looking at providing them a tariff regime that encourages them to do it. The more volumes you bring, the cheaper we will give you for harbour due. So these are some of the things we do to sort of address the need to have more export as Nigeria seeks to become more self-sufficient.

    We’re looking to see how we can maximise our revenue while ensuring that the operational activities of the ports remain steady. We note the need to recognise what is required as it relates to both the Eastern and Western ports. The Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA) operates two regions of the port. At one side is the Eastern, which has Port Harcourt, Calabar, Onne and Delta ports respectively while the Western port comprises Apapa and Tin-Can Island ports. So we look to see how we can restructure the ports in terms of development and also ensuring improvements on equipment and also ensuring that we have ease of doing business within our operations.

    There has always been that belief and impression that more attention is focused on the Lagos or Western Port. Why? And what are you doing to make sure that the Eastern Port is also productive?

    As you aware, the cargo or shipping business is a destination of choice and concessionaires decide where to take their cargoes to; as such, you can’t tell somebody you must go to Onne, or you must go to Calabar for example. So people decide where they want to take their cargo. And some of the reasons that inform the destination of a cargo involves where the final consumption of that cargo is. For example, in the Western Port, you have the manufacturing around the Lagos corridors, Ogun State manufacturing, so that consumes quite a lot of items that are being imported. To a certain extent, you also have large markets within the Lagos environs; they also are consumers of these products. You have Dangote Industries, you have Flour Mills and you have all manner of activities within Lagos and Ogun States so that in itself is the consumption within that area. On the other hand, you also have people that are taking or bringing in cargoes up to the hinterlands, so there is also a need to have defined route or cargo movement. If you want to take your things to Kano how easy is it for me to move from Calabar to Kano? Is the road navigable for articulated trucks? Is there a clear path to where I can get? Because in the Western Port for example, if you’re going to Kano from Lagos, you know your road already once you come you’re going and you know articulated trucks go through that route. These are some of the reasons that inform the choice on where you will take your cargo to. So people tend to come to the Lagos environs for the immediate evacuation of their cargo because that is where they want to take their cargo.

    We have noted the concerns within the Eastern Port. Some of the issues we have are on draft limitation. As you are aware, our Calabar Port has a draft limitation. Hitherto, I inherited a Joint Venture for the Calabar Channel Management Dredge and that was a big issue that we had to cancel. It’s an ongoing investigation about an unverifiable dredging works. So we have started another process. But it translated into huge volumes to the extent that we are looking at spending about N45-50billion on dredging of Calabar Port. When you look at the volumes of cargo that can come to that region, it’s very high so there is no justification in terms of revenues coming into the port to justify that volume of investment.  But indeed, even if you dredge, you will only dredge to 10 metres. And right now, the global trend for shipping is deep seaports. So spending that amount of money will not attract the current trend of vessels being made. So those vessels that are being made now require deep seaports, about 17 metres draft and you cannot dredge 6-17 metres. So what we are doing now is we are encouraging bringing in flat bottom vessels to Calabar and we are encouraging having deep seaports in that area so that it would address the issue in totality. It’s like you want to do something but that thing you want to do has been overtaken by events. Even if we spend N50billion, we will only dredge it up to 10metres and now vessels of 10metres are not the vessels that are in trend. The vessels that require 17metre are the trend so it’s of no value for the Nigerian government to invest in that. So we are working on having flat bottom vessels as well as encouraging deep seaports. Delta is also one of our Eastern Ports, and it has a limited draft because of the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPPC) Pipelines that have been buried in that location. So in the last year, at the end of 2018, we got approval to dredge the Escravos Bay, which permitted a depth of about 7.5metres that would enable vessels to that side. So we can go deeper than that because of the NNPC pipelines that are buried there. We are discussing with the NNPPC and I remember saying to the GMD that let us start the process of relocating the pipelines. It may not happen in a year or two years or five years but we must understand that that location requires deeper depth and start the process of relocating the pipelines. So this is the Delta Port. The Port Harcourt Port is in a bad state. We have commissioned a condition survey. They have submitted a report which will determine the totality of investment into that Port Harcourt Port because it has reached its limits in terms of utilisation. So the conditional survey had provided what is required. So we need to literally build new kits, new infrastructure, in that place. And when we look at what is expected of the vessels type that would come globally now, do you want to invest in this kind of port now when you can invest in deep seaports to enable you now reach where you want to go. Onne Port is in a good state. We have the attendant draft required and it’s a port that usually has a lot of oil and gas cargo and transactions so every other activity there is available, they have a private container terminal that is operating there. So this is the summary of what the Eastern Port entails right now.

    And one of the other things that I forgot to mention about the Eastern Port is charge on insurance cost. The vessels that are coming to the Eastern Port for example, have to have war insurance for coming into the place because there are lots of piracy and even besides insurance, they have to pay money for private security. So if you are coming to the Eastern Port, you probably need to engage private security to guide your vessels. So it’s very discouraging   for the shipping companies because of the high rate of piracy. That is one issue that is responsible for the unviability of the Eastern Port as it relates to the shipping industry.

    As part of boosting the security infrastructure, recently four tug boats were commissioned. Do you have a working relationship with the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA) with regards to the issue of security at the ports and the waterways?

    Well, we do have that. We are working with the Nigerian Navy, NIMASA and we have the Marine Police to facilitate securing the waterways. So we work with the Marine Police. One of the areas that is directly ours is the terminals. So when you come into our waterways we need to ensure that your vessel is safe. So we support our Marine Police by providing the necessary equipment to man the waterways to facilitate a secured discharge of the port.

    The issue of ease of doing business at the port is paramount and that explains why the Vice President came up with the Executive Orders. How has the port fared in all of this?

    One of the things that have to do with ease of doing business inside the port is that we need to have scanners that scan our cargo. So every cargo that comes in goes through 100 per cent physical inspection so you can imagine that delay. The next challenge with the ease of doing business is the fact that all agencies of government interface with consignee, the SON, etc., we need to deploy single windows in our ports. We need to call upon the Nigerian Customs and be engaging with them to fast tract that.

    Everybody thinks that if you bring your cargo into the country and it doesn’t get to your warehouse it is NPA’s fault. No. NPA’s work is to allow the vessel to come in and berths with your cargo uploaded from the vessel through the terminals and when that is done, it’s no more our duty. At that point if Customs doesn’t come to inspect your cargo for three weeks, I always say it, it’s not the NPA’s fault.  If Customs need to physically examine your cargo, it’s not NPA. If you need to see National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control (NAFDAC), Standards Organisation of Nigeria (SON), Quarantine or whatever, it’s not NPA. The Nigerian Customs is the lead agency for inspection. So they must do the single window. But nobody cares to know this. All you hear is NPA this, NPA that. (Laughs) So there is that misconception. But for me, at the end of the day we are government. We need to step up our efforts to ensure that we provide services for the citizens. Again, it’s very frustrating when other people’s job affects yours. So your rating is tied to other person not doing his job. That is very frustrating. So when I see the Nigerian Customs declaring, oh, we made N12billion, I say no, you need to improve on your infrastructure, let people judge you on the fact that every container has to be moved. So how do you honestly say that we have physically examined all cargoes coming into Nigeria?  We really need to assess ourselves in terms of services we provide and what we are providing beyond the numbers. If it takes someone three days to clear his cargo in another place but it takes you three weeks or four weeks to finish all those interfaces and that’s not our responsibility. Then when you come out of the port now, you need to have another transportation of cargo. So over the years, we abandoned the utilisation of inland waterways, e have even not explored inland waterways. We have abandoned rail everything is on the road. So we must fast track our deployment of rail. Thankfully, the Nigerian Railway Corporation is working on that. We have marginal service at our single gauge into the port. They even have wagons and what have you. It’s not every terminal or port they get through. So when you also look at the Apapa corridor, you have the tank farmers and they are also another issue. They should actually be moving their cargo through pipelines not through roads. So that just compounds all of that traffic. But as they are going to deploy the rail, we have also been granting permission for badge operations so that people can move in and out using badges. We have locations in Epe, Ikorodu, and I think somewhere around Badagry they want to have locations where they would use badges. So they want to do a survey using our inland waters for movement of cargoes. So when we talk about the actual congestion at the ports, we need to understand that the state and local government must recognize that truck/motor parking is in fact their responsibility. So for instance, the Lagos State government needs to provide truck parks. We have made that proposal severally. Orile Park they say is available but they have concessioned it and the concessionaire has not finished. All we keep hearing is stories back and forth. You can’t have a situation where all trailers are free to move anywhere causing traffic congestion and using the roads as a transit channel for trailer parks. We even advertised three times seeking for people to come and license trailer parks. What we want to do is to license trailer parks and only trucks coming from those trailer parks will access the ports. As it relates to port location, we recently terminated Lily Pond, which is a terminal that we had hitherto but because of the persistence traffic congestion, we have cancelled the lease and we are using it as a transit location for trailer parks.

    Another idea tied to the Executive Orders is the idea of having the port run 24 hours. How far is the NPA close or far from that goal?

    The Executive Orders is for us to do 24 hours operation in Apapa Port. So the NPA has started that. But the challenge is that other agencies of government don’t run 24 hours. The Apapa Port that was designated in the Executive Orders for 24 hours port operations; we provide that service to the extent that after a while my staff said, okay, why are we going if other people are not going?  We also probably need weekend service. I also advocated having customs clearing on weekends. Banks would come and open weekends so that they can clear on weekends and that reduces the congestion and everything.

    What do you hope to be remembered for after your exit from the NPA?

    I want to be remembered for instituting transparency and accountability and operational efficiency. Transparency and accountability is very important to me. And when I see some of the agreements we have entered into as a government, I really wonder how we allowed our country to sign on those agreements. So I have had cause to terminate a number of them. I’m reviewing a lot of them. For me, I think people need to be held accountable and then we need to have more transparency. Demystifying government is very important so people can see. We have seen a lot of instances where organisations tend to hold on to things. So I think it’s safer to let it out. Once everybody knows, it reduces the problem of what do I do next, whose responsibility is what? I believe in having a clear and transparent ways of working. You see most staff in government agencies tend to see government as a third party so they can do whatever they want. So these are some of the things I want to be remembered by.

    As a daughter of the famous historian and social critic, the late Prof. Yusuf Bala Usman, what are the fond memories of growing up with your dad?

    On my father! I would say I was brought up in a university and was always part of the intellectual discussion. My father encouraged us to speak our minds, and pushed us to engage him on things that we felt we didn’t understand. So that formed the premise in which I was able to question status quo. You know, I’m not held back by inhibitions or have this idea that government can’t be questioned. Or if someone is your boss, he can’t be questioned. I was brought up to question things. As a young child, I was ever inquisitive, why are you doing things like this, what’s the reason? What informed your choice and judgments? So I don’t get intimidated by authority or people in authority. I speak my mind and I say whatever I think. So that gives me that freedom. My father always encouraged us to think like that and I also refused to be put in a box to think in a particular way. I chose to be who I am and I chose to question the status quo and challenge authority. So even when I’m working with my colleagues and other agencies of government, and they ask me why have you not done this or done that, and when I speak to the press I’m told not to say that. I tell them no. Let people know it’s your job and you haven’t done it. Let everybody know. So once we are pointing fingers at ourselves we will start sitting up. And I think that freedom, boldness and confidence to speak comes from how you are brought up. My father brought me up like that.

  • How to help your children discover, nurture their potential

    I CAN remember I always somehow ended up on the list of noisemakers in primary school the mode of punishment for noisemakers was to use cello tape over your mouth if you became unbearable, the teachers were never allowed to beat children.

    I was lucky to have been able to harness this into a positive skill, in terms of public speaking, training, teaching, educating and play acting (drama group) when I was in the university.  I probably may have ended up as an actress, who knows? But I am from a generation whose parents believed only in academic prowess, so being an actress, pop musician and the likes were seen as unserious professions and were not to be encouraged. But guess what! Times have changed as the only constant thing in life is CHANGE.

    This brings us to the aspect of confusion parents face when a child shows or develops certain characters that they may not have any idea on how to channel properly. Some of these traits, talents, potential, skill show up quite early as early as five years old, while some may linger till seven years old, some exceptional children show their personality or talent by two or three- year-old, each child is unique.

    While it is important to notice their personality which will lead to talent discovery, it is important we do not put them under any pressure, as a child’s talent or skill can change repeatedly over time depending on so many factors from environment, peers, exposure etc.

    As parents, you need to bear in mind that talents are not born, but made, with appropriate conditions of learning anyone can achieve anything.

    What does your child do effortlessly?

    Every child has one or more ability which is why we should watch and analyse before finalizing where their talent lies, as some are gifted to do so many things at the same time.

    Sometimes these talents may not be even connected to those of their parents, for instance the child of a musician discovering interest in machinery, really far apart you would say, but it does happen.

    Always observe and be on the look out

    Some people never get to discover themselves even after attaining adulthood, it is not possible for everyone to recognize their own talents, at some point you may have had some “interests” showing a sign that you are e.g. an artist in making, singer in making, lawyer in making etc.

    But the reason why observation is important is because “interests” can change or switch over time. I believe in discovering talent so much pressure should not be applied, let them have fun while discovering themselves. if you are patient and observant you will be rewarded as the talent matures.

    Nothing should be taken for granted, everything counts, however, silly this talent may appear

    When your child is playing, does he prefer to sit quietly, draw pictures, mimic people on television? Joke around a lot? Scatter and rearrange things? Kick football screaming “goallll” every two minutes? Playing with sand all the time? Dismantling all the toy cars , weaving baby dolls hair morning to night? Painting all the walls in the house with crayon and paint?

    Most children’s favourite activities are a good indication of what interests them and patient observation during playtime most especially when they think you are not watching will help you figure out what they enjoy doing and if there is any potential hidden talent that needs to be discovered.

    An early start is important nevertheless because the seeds of talent are planted between age two and five, especially in homes were parents are elite performers in various fields, their children usually have an advantage because they are surrounded by what their parents do or expose them to. Some parents were not linked to the child’s eventual talent area but provided a nurturing early environment that sparked a talent interest. For instance, a lawyer by profession will most likely have a child exposed to reading and books, the child may end up not being a lawyer but a writer, see the relation?

    Allow them experiment, they may not need to specialize too early. While most parents like to know about their children’s successes, these days a lot of them spend very little time talking with teachers, coaches and instructors about gaps and deficiencies of their wards. If parents discuss only performance gaps, they leave behind important opportunities to learn about their children’s talents, this applies to parents who even after careful observation have been unable to identify or notice their children’s talents , another option will be to find out from teachers, neighbors, family members with necessary questions, this opportunity is not just to notice gaps or deficiencies but to see how as one can nature the child’s talent , say for instance a child goes for a summer camp and is observed to always be distracted , even if the instructor informs the parent about this gap, it is important for the parent to also ask “ what did you observe this child doing well?”

    Listen and be supportive

    Not every tall child will be a football or basketball star and neither will every talkative child will be a lawyer.

    We have to be careful not to profile their gifts wrongly which could lead to a life of dissatisfaction for the child and disappointment for the parent.

    The easiest way to find out what your child’s hidden talents could be, is to just ask them what they like, what their dreams are and what they want to be when he or she grows up! Yes, it’s that simple, be ready for all sorts of surprising responses, but be patient to sift out several things that may seem out of focus, but with a clear mind give you an idea of the direction the child’s talent may take.

    Even if she wants to be cat woman (I can hear some parents say God forbid), ask her what exactly it is about this superhero that she aspires to be like — if he wants to help old people in need, maybe he can become a caregiver, firefighter, policeman in future? Or if he wants to be able to fly, then perhaps he’ll grow up to be a pilot. I had a colleague years ago who was not happy on the job, but once you bring up any topic relating to cars, his eyes would light up and he would practically dismantle a car and tell you what each car part can accomplish, on further enquiry he said he always wanted to be a mechanic and his parents never allowed him to be. He is still stuck as an unhappy corporate worker. That is not to say succumb to every whim of your child, but have an open mind to listen and guide them.

    No matter how far-fetched your little one’s dreams are, don’t crush it by telling them it’s impossible or unrealistic — instead, just show them your support and help them set achievable goals. For Instance, if your child wants to be the first female formula 1 driver, you need to encourage her to learn about special car parts, driving gear, training and all other things and maybe one day she can achieve that dream and break world records.  Whether or not they achieve their dreams or talents, at least he will grow up happy knowing that their parents were there to support them every step of the way.

    Create the environment and practice

    Everyone who has a talent or skill needs an enabling environment and opportunity to grow. As parents once we have identified the talent, we have to create the opportunity for development as this singular act will create avenue for practice and perfection. If there is lack of an enabling environment this talent may remain as an “interest” and when the formative years are gone, it may be too late to develop it to full potential. For instance, if your child loves to play instruments, you may not notice it as a talent if there is no opportunity to play either the piano, flute, drum set and the likes. You have to provide a range of opportunities so as to be sure which direction this instrumental talent is headed.

    This applies to other skills and the essence of practicing these talents, there is a saying practice makes perfect, it should be goal oriented outside one’s comfort zone. I have an extremely busy schedule , but a few years ago my husband and I discovered our first daughter loves sewing clothes for her baby doll, initially I thought it was a play thing she would outgrow , but she didn’t , we made the next step to send her to a tailoring school which she enjoys so much and is excited to come home telling us things she has learnt, as parents we had to take turns in our busy schedules to ensure there is TIME for her to learn and improve and practice constantly , also giving her access to fashion shows on television to broaden her mind.

  • Behold TINTED- HAIRED celebs

    THESE days you don’t have to jet out of rainy Lagos or hot Abuja to run into tinted- haired celebrities. You can walk into them on the streets of Port Harcourt, the campuses in Ibadan and the offices within the Central Business District in Lagos. But these celebrities, who wear tinted hairstyle, are not your average Oyinbo blondes. No! They are as black as they come. We are talking about brown and black sisters who ditch the regular hairstyles common to us for the bright neon-like hairdos that make them stand out.

    The tinted hairdo is getting more stylish and the hairstyle seems to have a certain evergreen feel. It pops up every once in a while within the fashion lifecycle of a generation. Therefore, it always appears to be in vogue and ageless. These basic characteristics of the ‘blonde look’ are the reasons this style has remained in use for long.

    While some with traditional fashion watchers frown at black people wearing the ‘blond look’, Nollywood and a lot of Nigerians seem not to mind. Actresses, who spot this look, seem to do pretty well in Nollywood.

    Take Nigerian actress, model and media personality, Nancy Isime, for instance, she is the ultimate bombshell that has made natural ‘blonde hair’ a part of her signature look. One thing about Isime is that she is not a greenhorn in this area of style. She has been rocking her ‘blonde’ hairdo for years and has inspired by her over the years. So, this week, we are taking a few moments to appreciate the tinted-haired celebs,both old and present, in the entertainment industry.

    In case you want some ‘blonde hair’ inspiration, or you just want to know celebs who had rocked and those that are still rocking ‘blonde hair’; behold the stars who rock the blonde hue more  than any other hue and styling photos that you can use when sporting blonde. They are stylish, comfortable and simple.

    Blonde hairdo gives a classy look that no other hairstyle is ever able to. So, it is no surprise that ladies, even men, are sporting such hairdo that sets them apart in a crowd and enhances their beauty and outlook.