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  • ‘My wife was disvirgined right in my presence’

    “I dated my girl for three years without sex. For her, I decided to remain celibate because she wasn’t ready for it.

    After our Traditional marriage, she still refused and wouldn’t let me touch her at all.

    We however fixed our wedding date. On my bachelor’s eve, my friends were around with their girlfriends.

    I really wanted to have my woman to myself that night and I spoke to her about it but she turned me down as usual and begged me to wait a little longer. I agreed after all, we would be married soon.

    At last D-DAY finally came and I was waiting patiently for the wedding ceremony to be over.

    At 6pm, we were home relaxing. I called  my wife and asked that we  take a shower together, she said she was shy and cannot come. I didn’t force her.

    She however had her bath first and I had mine later. When I finished, I came out to meet my wife asleep.

    I joined her in bed, kissed her and she woke up. I’m not even sure she was really asleep. I started making advances because I really needed it. I had waited for too long.

    My beloved wife started crying and begging me to wait till nightfall, that she needed to get some rest and when she wakes up, I’ll do all I so desire to do with her. I couldn’t hold it anymore but I managed to control the urge.

    At about 9pm or there about, we heard a knock on the door, and the person behind said he had come to drop a parcel sent to us by my mother.

    I went to get the door and I was shocked to see five armed men in mask.

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    I begged them not to harm us. They asked for money but we had no money at home, after all we just got married.

    To cut the story short, these men took turns in raping my wife.

    She got disvirgin by the first right in front of me. Right in my own eyes.

    I couldn’t bear it. I cried as I watched those heartless men force themselves on my wife.

    They didn’t leave her until she was unconscious. After the entire tragedy, I called neighbours and we rushed her to the hospital.

    After two days, she regained consciousness. I made sure she was fine.

    But really guys, I cannot forget that day, My wife was disvirgined right in my presence.

    I can’t touch her no more, i don’t even crave for her anymore.

    I cannot live with her anymore. I want to file a divorce already. What would you advise me to do?”

     

     

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  • 10 signs your relationship isn’t working (2)

    SOLUTION: Become more comfortable with yourself. The root cause of jealousy is almost always insecurity. What this means is that the only way you can stop it on your end is to be more comfortable with yourself. Stop projecting your own insecurities onto the other person. Focus on the good things in the relationship. Stop thinking you can read her mind. This can disrupt the feedback loop causing constant jealousy in your relationships.

    Reasons to break up: You can stop it, but she can’t.

    Relationships are made up of two people, but you’re only ultimately responsible for yourself. Here, you can only lead by example. If she can’t leave her jealousy behind (which could take months, not days or weeks), it’s time to start looking at making the painful choice to end things.

    1. One or both of you is bored

    Boredom is almost inevitable in relationships if the relationship lasts long enough. It is easy to settle into a routine and routines and boredom go together like peanut butter and jelly. The question isn’t whether or not boredom is going to happen; It’s how you’re going to deal with boredom when it does happen. With one in five women breaking up because they missed being single, you need to take boredom seriously.

    Solution: Do something new and exciting together.

    “New and exciting” is super open-ended, which is the good thing about it: Maybe it means you take a trip around the world, maybe it means you take a dance class together. The point is that you need to introduce novelty into the relationship. It’s not that hard to do. In fact, the hardest part will probably be deciding from among many options.

    Staycation: Go rent a hotel room and party all weekend.

    Explore a new city: It doesn’t have to be far away or exotic. It

    just has to be somewhere you’ve never been before.

    Do something you’ve never done before: Again, it doesn’t matter if it’s bungee jumping or eating sushi; The point here is to do new things together.

    Reasons to break up: Boredom isn’t the real problem.

    Sometimes we think boredom is the problem, but it’s really not. The real problem is something else — anything else. It’s only when we begin addressing the problem of boredom do we realize that there was something else there.

    1. Your sex life isn’t what it used to be

    Much like boredom, your sex life hitting the skids is almost a certainty. That doesn’t mean you can’t do anything about it; It just means that you have to accept the inevitability and be ready for it. So what’s the cure for a sex life that isn’t what it used to be?

    Solution: Try new things in the bedroom that maybe you’ve only talked about.

    This can be anything from tantric sex to taking a BDSM workshop. It really doesn’t matter. The main thing is that you two need to have a frank conversation about your sex life. Note that it doesn’t have to be — indeed, should not be — some serious “relationship talk.” These types of conversations work best when they’re a sort of flirting. Make it fun, not heavy.

    Reasons to break up: You’re just not into the same stuff.

    You can have a meaningful connection, but if you’re on two totally different pages when it comes to sex, neither of you are ever going to be happy. For a sexual relationship to prosper, you need to be pleasing her and she needs to be pleasing you. If you’re still not sure if you two are right together, sexually speaking, try taking this sexual compatibility test over at Psychology Today.

    1. One of you is always trying to change the other

    No one likes it when someone else tries to change them. It places stress on both of you and thus, the whole relationship. Not only does it cause stress, it can also cause resentment and resentment is toxic. So if one or both of you is always trying to change the other one, what do you do?

    Solution: Accept that the other person is who they are and demand the same.

    Men and women are not the same. Both of you need to accept this. You shouldn’t demand that your girly-girl girlfriend enjoy your poker nights any more than she should accept that you like shoe shopping. In fact, our differences are what make sex and dating so exciting. If you wanted someone you could control you’d be with yourself. Let it go. Accept them for who they are.

    Reasons to break up: One of you can’t let the other person be themselves.

    Start by asking yourself if you still love her. If the answer is “yes,” do you love her but not think she’s right for you? Why not? Was she right for you when you first got together but now one or both of you has changed?

     

    Source: theartofcharm.com

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  • ‘I am married to a rich man, no money in my bank account’

    “I have been married for six years, six wasted years with no child and no money in my bank account and yet married to a rich man, very rich man who owns hotels and houses all over.

    I don’t even have 20k to my name, he made sure of that and constantly bring down my pride.

    I endured and got tired and almost took my life before God ministered to me.

    I went into his room and saw up to 9 million naira in dollars and I carried just as the spirit led.

    I buried it in a safe place and waited for him to find out, so I Can face the implication to either die or stay alive to enjoy the money.

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    He came back and asked and I told him I took it, he asked I return it back but I refused, he beat me up but I still did not , he arrested me but later bailed me after I refused .

    So he gave me condition. To either quit the marriage or produce the cash and remain in his house.

    But he gave me one week to make up my mind.

    I am confused, should I sacrifice the marriage for 12 million or just give it back to him and continue managing like I have been?

    This marriage has yielded nothing for me, but I don’t want to regret my action.

    I still saw some money today that he hid in the visitor’s restroom, should I take also and quit the marriage.

    What decision do you think is best?”

     

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  • Help! another lady has moved into my matrimonial home

    …He had no excuse and he was not sorry

     

    “Right now, I’m broken to pieces, I’m so hurt and I’m at the verge of losing it.

    I’ve been married for two years and we have a son.

    My so called husband never misses clubbing every Friday, still I don’t complain, I see different calls and messages from ladies on his phone, I still chose to ignore.

    You won’t believe I had to travel for just three weeks, guess what I found when I got back.

    First he had changed the lock to the gate, without telling me about it.

    I had to get someone to help break the lock. When I entered the house, I discovered another Lady had moved into my matrimonial home.

    I couldn’t believe my eyes, when he came home. He had no excuse and he was not sorry, Infact as I type this, he has packed my things out.

    God knows I never wronged this man for once. I’m with a nine months old baby.

    I’m 26 years, and right before my eyes, my whole world came tumbling down.

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    Well I have decided to just accept the fact that he is gone, and work with my last breath to ensure I take good care of my Son.

    I just had a fibroadenomas surgery done. And he could not even call to ask me how it was. I am deeply hurt. Anyway, I believe this tribulations shall pass.

    Please I need advice from everyone, what business can I start on social Media with 50k?

    I can’t afford a shop right now. Please help me with ideas.”

     

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  • Seven ways to prepare for marriage while you’re still single

    THERE is no better time than while you’re single to prepare for an amazing, God-honoring marriage. Here are seven great things you can do while you’re still single (or while you’re single again) to prepare for a successful marriage:

    1. Address your unresolved childhood issues.

    You’ve got to take care of the baggage that you’re carrying from childhood. When I do premarital counseling, this is the first topic we always talk about. Your unresolved childhood issues can absolutely sink a marriage. Here is a great quote from nationally respected and recognized marriage experts Les and Leslie Parrot: “If you attempt to build intimacy with a person before you’ve done the handwork of becoming a whole and healthy person, every relationship will be an attempt to complete the hole in your heart.”

    Think of it like trying to fill a five-gallon bucket full of water when you’ve got holes in the bottom and on the sides, it’s never going to stay full. Your unresolved childhood issues are some of those issues you need to resolve. And I know that some of you will say, “I don’t have unresolved issues. I talk with my mom, I send her a Mother’s Day card every year.” If you have a parent that is still alive but you don’t have a healthy functioning relationship with them, there may be some issues you need to resolve. For many people, it comes down to your father, or your lack of a father, or an absent father. That’s a real thing.

    Even if it means counseling, take care of all of your unresolved childhood issues so you don’t bring that baggage into your future marriage. If you’re divorced, you need to unpack not only the baggage from your childhood, but the baggage from your previous marriage or marriages.

    1. Get out of debt.

    In premarital counseling I do with couples, I spend an entire session simply on finances, because 85% (that’s not a scientific number but my experience with couples) of all fights stem from money, or specifically a lack thereof. If you do the hard work to prepare before marriage to take care of your money, you’ll bring less baggage into your marriage and you’ll be less likely to marry someone who can’t take care of their money.

    Ladies, if your boyfriend or fiancee has thousands of dollars of debt and kind-of-a-job, RUN! And some of you may be thinking, “I’ll just get out of debt once I’m married!” Ha! Married people, can I get an “Amen!” on how hard it is to get out of debt once you’re married? If you want to prepare successfully for marriage, get out of and stay out of debt. I guarantee you, you’ll thank me later.

    1. Ladies: Don’t dress like a commodity and refuse to be treated like one.

    Ladies, I know that the cultural mindset in America is to use your body as bait to get a man, but as followers of Jesus and more importantly as daughters of the King, you’re called to live differently.

    Don’t dress like a commodity. Don’t dress in a way that uses your body as bait. Do you know how fisherman know what kind of bait to use? By what kind of fish they’re trying to catch. You don’t fish for crappie the same way you fish for largemouth bass. So ladies, if you dress in a way that uses your body as bait, you’re going to attract guys that view women as a commodity. And some of you might say, “All guys are the same.” No, all the guys you date are the same. There are better guys out there, but you can’t use your body as bait.

    Because whatever you catch them with, you’ve got to keep them with. And ladies, I hate to break it to you, but if the only thing keeping your man is your body, you realize that as you get older . . .

    If your man treats you like a commodity, kick him to the curb and drop him like a bad habit. You can do so much better than that.

    1. Men: Quit looking at images and listening to music that turn women into a commodity.

    Or more specifically, quit looking at porn and quit listening to rap music. Now, women can struggle with porn too. When you look at pornography, it turns people into a commodity. When you listen to music that degrades women, it turns them into a commodity. And if you think you can engage in that stuff without it affecting you, you’re absolutely wrong. Guys, I guarantee you that will wreck your future marriage. So get help, stop it.

    1. Break your bad habits.

    Whatever other bad habit you’ve got that you know you need to take care of, take care of it. Maybe it’s drinking, maybe it’s prescription pills, maybe it’s gambling, maybe it’s self-harm or cutting. Getting married and making a promise won’t make those things magically go away. They’ll just make your single person problems a marriage problem.

    1. Postpone the physical components of the relationship as long as possible.

    I’m not just talking about sex, I’m talking about everything. When I talk with couples, they never wish they would have gotten physical sooner, they always wish they would have waited.

    If you rush in too quick, it’s the third date, we got hot and heavy, she spent the night, that’s changing the fundamentals of the relationship. When you get physical, you’ve stopped building a relationship and now you’re building chemistry. Chemistry is a really lousy thing to build a marriage on.

    And this point includes living together. I never, ever recommend that single people move in together. In fact, research has documented time and time again that moving in together before marriage actually decreases likelihood that your marriage will work. This is because you move into together for totally different reasons. Women move in because they see it as a step towards marriage. Men move in to test things out and see if they want to stay in the relationship. As the old saying goes, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?”

    1. Get involved in your local church.

    Now, you would expect me to say this as a pastor, but this is incredibly important. When you get involved in a local church, wherever you live, when you grow in your faith, when you serve, you’re focusing on becoming the right people, alongside other people who are focusing on becoming right people, which only increases your odds of finding the right person for you.

    This worked for me. I met my wife while serving at a Christian youth camp back in the summer of 2001. That’s the first thing I fell in love with about her: her heart for God and her heart for serving others.

  • ‘Help! I’m like a stranger in my husband’s house’

    “I’m a young lady of 23. I got married to my husband at the age of 20 while still in the university and i don’t have kids yet.

    As a young girl i grew up with the mindset that all i needed in life was to get married to a rich man and I’m good.

    However, as i grew older i realized that i wanted more out of life than to be a rich man’s wife.

    I want to pursue my dreams and career. My marriage on the other hand is just full of one issue or another.

    I’m not happy 95% of the time. The only advantage in my marriage is that i have comfort.

    My hubby does not support my ambitions, he feels my only ambition in life should be to help him achieve he’s.

    He doesn’t let me in on whatever plans or decisions he makes.

    I’m like a stranger in my home because most times i usually hear things about him from outsiders or when he’s on the phone.

    He doesn’t even trust me. He is very insecure and it scares me because he’s violent.

    He used to hit me although I’m not totally convinced that he has changed for good. He always wants to make trouble when things don’t go his way.

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    He’s very controlling and abusive so much so that he made me believe that I’m nothing without him and i became depressed and suicidal at some point.

    My hubby is very rich yet we haven’t had any sort of wedding whether traditional, legal or religious.

    The only thing he did was just traditional rites and payment of dowry. And not a single document has my name on it, not even the cars i drive. He cheats and never takes responsibility for his actions. Oh! And he has a son with another woman. We have totally different views on almost everything.

    Despite being married to a rich man I’m poor. He’d rather provide whatever i need than give me the money.

    There’s a whole lot to talk about but let me stop here.

    Here’s the issue, I’ve left this guy three times in d past and he comes back begging with a truckload of promises which he hardly fulfills, and every time i go back to him because i love him and I’m willing to make it work and also because I don’t believe in myself enough to succeed on my own.

    I’m so confused .”

     

     

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  • Good riddance to bad rubbish (1)

    The handcuffs on my hands were no longer tight again as I used to feel before now. And it was before my ordeal. I loved my husband and was ready to do anything to make him successful in all his endeavours. But a chance meeting at Akure, the capital of Ondo State, changed all that we shared together. His innocence became another thing as his appetite for women lured him to his untimely death. Foolish idiot.

    Hmmmmmm, I breathed aloud in order to savour fresh air.  If I had my way tomorrow, I would do same thing that landed me in prison. I wouldn’t care whose is ox is gored. I wouldn’t listen to the sermon of any clergyman. What would side talks add to my life and what would soothing words from all and sundry, especially the pretenders do to my life? Nothing!

    It was a beautiful evening in the month of December. The frenzy was there for the shoppers who were preparing for Christmas and the New Year. You know Nigerians shopping as if tomorrow would not come. Traffic logjam all over. Human traffic logjam meeting vehicular road logjam. All jammed together in the name of just two days holiday.

    I joined the crazy people also to do the shopping.  I bought more than enough for my two children, the nieces who came for the holiday, my house girl and even my husband, the stupid rabble-rouser.

    On the 24th of December, I had followed my husband incognito to his love-nest. That was where he camped Agorilla the daughter of Obobode. He never suspected my move and I did not betray any emotion that I was atop a game. This was not the first time I would do such a thing in the last three years. Despite the fact that I felt hurt, the deep love I had for him kept me going. I didn’t allow him to know ,instead, I intensified more love for him.

    I just felt that ‘over do don do’, that is, enough of this bad rubbish.  Each time, I stumbled on something in form of a scoop, such time, I tried to shower him, I mean my husband, Emmanuel Akokoyo, true love that has no rival. But like a stubborn goat which he is, he will never change from his bad ways.

    Please tell me the truth. What is the value of a rotten plantain? What is the meaning of a loveless marriage or one-sided love? Why keeping a dirty rag in your wardrobe to be occupying space? Nothing!   I felt so far  my marriage to Emman had become an avenue or arena of cheating, why keeping on to him and the useless love?

    I did join other shoppers for the festive shopping. I brought a very beautiful perfume for my husband. It was his favourite. The same one he wore during our first night together. He loved it not because it was just too expensive, but because it was his favourite.

    “Honey,thanks a lot. Do you know how it has taken us almost three years to get this perfume? From one shopping mall to another, all was to no avail. You make me remember those good old days. Thanks my love.” Emmanuel said to me while getting up from his reading chair to hug me.

    “It is my pleasure, Honey,” I replied him with love.

    “But where did you get here having looked for this to no avail?

    “I purposely ordered for them from the makers in other to make you happy. Your happiness is my joy.

    “Thanks, my love. I will never forsake you,” he said while still hugging me.

    I am giving you this scenario to let you into our love life. We were madly in love, but his inability to control his libido is the major problem in his life; and this was not so until we got to Akure, the capital city of Ondo State. Pardon me for repeating this.

    Between me and you, it cost me a fortune in terms of money and time to get that gift for him. But because I had made up my mind that it was going to be his last one from me, I did not look at the hassles. In fact, I was more than eager to do so for him.

    As he drove to Oke Eda on that day, I waited in one corner after paying the hired cab driver.

    ”Madam, do I come back to pick you Ma?” The driver asked with smiles after seeing that I paid him more than he deserved.

    “Don’t bother my brother. I have the passion to help people and having seeing the way you drove me meticulously, even in the midst of many drunkards on wheels; I am delighted to know you and ready to help you,” I replied him faking a long smile

    “Ok. Madam, you know where you got me, and you can easily come there to hire me at will”

    “I will, my brother. Thanks a lot”.

    I was happy that he was going in order for me to have time for the business of the day. Initially, I tiptoed round the mini bungalow. Later, I came back to the gate to press the bell. The gateman didn’t want to open it. But when I mentioned the name of his boss and also mentioned that the man who just entered minutes back was my brother. And that we were supposed to come together to come and see his new wife.

    The man relaxed and opened the gate. I discouraged him from carrying my hand bag for me. It mattered less to me.  By the time I got in, my husband was in knickers and his mistress in a mini nightgown, blue and white in colour. The fluorescent was on thus making the room a bit dull. They were not moved at the sound of the door.  May be they felt it was the gateman that came in.

    I moved to the corner or just where I felt I could put on the light. I pressed a button by the right hand and suddenly the place became brighter. This jolted them into the reality that someone was around. I clapped three times and the shock written on their faces could not be described.

    “Just stay glued together, you twosome,” I yelled at them.

    “Please Maria, you don’t need to do this,” it was my husband who was begging me trying to get on his knees.

    “Madam, what rubbish is this? I didn’t come to your house. What audacity is this? The foolish Jezebel whose real name is Koloeba said to me.

    Her audacity and lack of remorse drew more anger in me. I was annoyed. Yes, I was coming to kill them, but I felt if they could show remorse, I would likely change my mind. Here was the unrepentant whore talking to me after romancing the man I picked from gutter as husband.

    “Perhaps, your lover didn’t tell you the stuff I am made of. That is why you are saying nonsense,” I barked at her.

    My husband knew that once I had made up my mind, there was no going back. He begged me. But this lady was not ready to succumb.

    “If you are a tigress at home, must you jump the fence to  my house? I want you out or else I will call the security operatives to bundle you out of here” she said

    “ You might do that in your next world. I have frozen all your telecommunication gadgets. And just to show you the stuff I made of, here is the first salvo”.

    As I said that, I opened my handbag and brought out the AK4, her face frozen at the sight of the gun. I moved back, shot her legs and left arm. I didn’t want her to die at once. It has to be bit by bit.  My husband screamed almost same time the beast screamed.  I was unperturbed. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

    She was begging me. I did not even listen to her. Facing my husband, I said:

    “ Because I love you dearly, you will die at once. No more  agony for you, but as for  this beast, she will die with agony. I moved closer and shot him on the  head. He died immediately. I opened the  wine they put on the table, served myself, drank some and spat at her . She was rolling on the floor with blood littering the large sitting room…….

    (To be continued)

  • ‘My girlfriend has gotten fat, my feelings are dropping’

    “I have this girlfriend of mine and we have been dating for five years now…still on.

    Now the problem is my feelings are dropping rapidly by the day because she has gotten fat,almost twice my size.

    Her level of sarcasm and sense of humour isn’t so great and that I really fancy in a relationship but I was prepared to overlook that and still take her as a wife cos I like her.

    However, with this weight gain, I just can’t. I need advices from people before I know what step to take next. Perhaps I might be over reacting.

    I’m currently not in the country, so breaking up with her might make her family think it’s because I’m abroad.

    It isn’t true because I have plans for us. I registered her into fashion designing so when she gets here she can start up something, she is still undergoing training on that so yes I actually want to wife her but I don’t like overweight girls…it’s just not me.

    I didn’t meet her that way so why would she change on me. And before they come for me to judge me, this issue has been on for more than 2years now, before I left the country.

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    I have cautioned her to watch it but she didn’t and now here we are. Recently I told her to register up for a gym class that I would foot the bills, she went for a month and then told me she was feeling sick went to see a Doctor and the Doctor said she should stop the gym class and even stop dieting that it might affect her from child birth in the future.

    Doctors in the house please help me decipher that message because I don’t understand.

    It’s the first time I would hear anything like that. Said she would do after all her kids…she wan blow for my house….issoriat. This girl is just 21 looking like my aunt with 3 kids.

    What is your advice for me?”

     

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  • ‘My husband insults me, calls me names’

    “My marriage is a year plus now. I wouldn’t say I’m not happy in marriage, because it goes both ways: happy & sad, maybe that’s how marriage works, I don’t really know.

    My husband always curses me each time we have issues. He is hot tempered.

    Although I am equally temperamental, I try as much as possible to be loyal to him & not curse back.

    Really, sometimes I just can’t control my anger, it got so serious at times.

    My husband gave me an iPad over a year ago and I kept it, though I don’t use it because I am not used to using iPads. I prefer doing everything with my phone and didn’t even bother about the Ipad was anymore.

    Last week, he asked me of the iPad which I looked for and couldn’t find anymore.

    Meanwhile I recently put to bed hence we had so many visitors around including family members.

    I vividly remember that I kept the iPad inside a cupboard d day an A/C technicians came to fix our A/C.

    They probably saw where it was and took it or maybe one of my family members took it.

    I never gave the iPad to anyone, it is a gift from my husband and, I rather leave it and watch it daily instead of giving it to someone.

    Anyway my husband asked me of it severally and said he wants to work with it and I couldn’t provide it ,so I told him I will buy an iPad and give him that I can’t find the one he gifted me.

    I explained to him that I couldn’t find it, that either one of the family members that came for child’s visiting took it or the A/C technicians took it

    He started cursing me, and called me stupid, ingrate, and liar. He said I’m not loyal, that he can’t trust me with his life, and that I’m fake.

    My own husband said that he knew I gave it out to a man.

    It was so bad, that I couldn’t endure it and I really cursed him back.

    I told him “fuck off silly thing”, just because of this statement, do you know that my husband refused to eat again.

    He said I insulted him, please people, where did I go wrong?, I’m human too, I’m someone’s daughter also and I have endured all sort of insults and abuses from him.

    Meanwhile this is the way he curses me each time we have disputes, these r just the least of the curses he lays on me.

    There are limits to what one can take. I’m pretty & attractive even after having a child, this is a heavy for me. My husband is so insecure, I don’t have password on my phones, he goes to my phones like he’s going to the stream two fetch water. I never bothered because there is no skeleton in my cupboard.

    I went as far as deactivating my Facebook onetime because he always question every genuine hi & hello.

    Worst is that I have not gone through his phone for complete 1 mins since I married him.

    I don’t even know his password. What hurts the most is the fact that he rains curses and abuses on me.

     

    Please what do you suggest that I do?”

     

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  • Advice for women: Sex is food

    SEX IS FOOD!!!!!!!

    Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don’t always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex.

    Be creative, don’t be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.

    Don’t have too many children, you wanna sell them ? Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.

    When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food !!!

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    Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back…. mwahhhhhh, don’t be too holy to kiss in the public.

    He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic joooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you’re happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him. Don’t look 50 while you’re still under 40, it drives men crazy.

    Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

     

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